Wife buys a dildo

Why are non-kinky people so insecure?

>Why are non-kinky people so insecure?
you have no idea what its like having a 12cm cock. im not op but same size, its just depressing

Because they don't understand that a kink is just a facet of exploring sexuality and not generally an infliction to their relationship.

no way a 30 something woman didn't already have a toy

I think that is nothing to worry about. I mean, sure, she is not on top of your penis, but then again, she is having sex with you and she is matching her sexual needs. Talk about it, but just as she is wearing lingerie for your pleasure, you must do some "sacrifices". As long as you are confortable and satisfied, everything is good.

>husband buys boots, lingerie, dress, choker for me to wear on date night
>we fuck and he cums like a bazooka and nearly kills me

Same me so I can only conclude any female that wore the outfit would get bazooka blasted

I think it may just be the novelty that's making your wife so aroused by it. If i pull out my gf's vibrator, sometimes she cums like a volcano. If i keep using it, she gets bored of it and wants me to eat her out again. Just gotta change things up. Tell her to fuck herself with the dildo but if she cums she'll be in trouble. She'll be fighting so hard not to cum and she'll love that you're taking control.

I swear to god i thought dick size was a meme. Like an internet virgin incel bs thing.
I thought it was like tits, whatever, some like em huge, some like them petite, find whoever enjoys yours.
I wasn`t even insecure about it. This is the first time i feel insecure about it.
Like i don`t want her to feel settled into this, like "oh we all make sacrifices i`ll wear a piece of clothing, you just accept that eating me out while i pretend to fuck a huge dick is what i want from sex".
She absolutely should be on top of my dick.
I`m not insecure about kink or whatever, its just this is a clear preference. I will talk to her about it but i feel like i just swallowed a redpill.

I don't know OP lmao

I asked you that question because if you said that she was the one that started it all then I'd say there could be something more strange behind, but since it was both of you that got into it and now you saw that she got more orgasms with her dildo then it's complicated. If I were you I'd actually have the balls to confront her and say something like "Hey you really made some noises that I've never heard before with that dildo, do you prefer it more than me??" or something like that and you say it in a kinda jokingly way kinda like throwing a bomb and then watching the results of it and then you look right on her eyes and see how she reacts and her response to that.

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who cares it's just sex dude

we all know you are trying to make this a dick size threat but it isn't.

be happy she can cum like a professional and you are right there

you cucked yourself with a dildo
good job

the sad part is you are threatened by a dildo

better watch out its probably already a better listener than you, if that thing gets a job and becomes a provider you're out

Had $250, you chose:
>A dress
>Hooker boots
>A choker
>Lingerie
Not to wear for you, no, but to parade her like a whore at a restaurant.
She sees the signals, later, for her turn she buys
>Lingerie
>Shoes
>*Hair extensions and fake Nails*
She furthers her whore look with your approval.
You gave her approval for behaving like a whore.
You gave her a beta-wimp solution, and she literally jumped at it.
Enjoy your cucked lifestyle.

wow, you're even more insecure than OP

Some people like having sex with their partner without being a fucking degenerate.

I found it pretty funny that he got things for her and she got things for herself. Typical.

Has a good point. Take charge, be more dominant. Call her a whore, rightfully so, for stretching herself out instead of being committed to you. A vibrator is understandable and can enhance sex, sometimes for both partners - a giant dildo is just selfish. I'd be pretty pissed too, OP.

>Call her a whore, rightfully so, for stretching herself out instead of being committed to you.

lol
wow

Ten bucks says she starts thinking about what a bigger dick would be like if it was actually real. Here's hoping she's thought about what her husband would think both prior to and after the purchase.

Jealousy is very real, and for a proper meaningful relationship to last you can't leave room for insecurities like this. Either OP takes charge and puts her in her place, or gets cucked by a dildo. Just saying "that kinda makes me uncomfortable" isn't enough, especially without confidence and assertion.

As if she hadn't considered the possibility that it's bigger than her husband and whether there's a slight fucking possibility he might feel negatively about the situation.

Also, surprise, but women like to be owned. They might not like to be called foul names, but I'm sure they'd instinctively like it more than a weak and passive husband.

Also, OP, there is nothing wrong with vanilla sex. It's too late, but for future reference, and anyone else reading - don't be fooled by Netflix degeneracy.

>gives wife the freedom to get whatever sex toys she wanted
>gets mad she gets a sex toy you don't approve of
You're gay OP.

$10 says you're an insecure man child who doesn't know how to please a woman in the first place.

>Jealousy is very real
jealous of a toy, grow the fuck up
Maybe instead of being a little bitch he could be creative with it. Fuck her ass or her mouth while she fucks her pussy with it.
>there's a slight fucking possibility he might feel negatively about the situation.
either because he's a little bitch or he is hank hill and sex toys make him uncomfortable

I think that depends if OP said "get whatever you want" or "get something to make our sex better."

He definitely fucked up even entertaining the idea and bringing it into the bedroom, though.

Good sex means not being selfish. She's not proposing swinging, she's not cheating, she bought a toy that would make sex more enjoyable for her but OP is so cocksucking gay his obsession with dicks is blinding him from all the things he can do to her with that toy.

I'm sure his wife would feel the same way if he mentioned that a fleshlight felt better than her vagina. Comparison is basic human instinct - ignoring that to indulge in degeneracy is weak and embarrassing. None of us can control the size of our dicks, so naturally it's something that can be easily used against us, even by ourselves. Especially nowadays, when women have more sexual partners than ever. You might not like to admit it or you may tell yourself it is unimportant, but they do compare. For your sake, I hope you're better than the others.

Fwiw, I have had no trouble at all with women both sexually and emotionally.

Thank you. It’s silly to get jealous of a toy; OP fucked up by not blowing her mind with dual pleasure. Let her suck your cock while you pound her with the dildo, then once she’s nice and wet, go to town. My wife uses a clit vibrator during doggy style sex, the vibrations make us both cum. Point is, get creative.

>Fwiw, I have had no trouble at all with women both sexually and emotionally.
Bullshit. I can recognize that typing style anywhere. I know exactly which weird dick-obsessed cuck you are.

>Good sex means not being selfish
>Oh honey it's so nice of you to buy me these shoes and all this lingerie. What did I get for you? Check out this thick plastic cock

OP actually seems like a decent dude caught up in a unfortunate situation. Not sure why you're trying to make this a homosexual thing when it's clearly a insecurity thing. Do yourself a favour and quit talking like a faggot.

Exactly. Pin her down and ask her how it feels. Make her call herself a whore. Pull her hair. Slap her ass. Fuck her ass with the dildo in her pussy, if she's willing. Shit OP, this isn't rocket science.

>if he mentioned that a fleshlight felt better than her vagina
sure
if she is goes on about how his cock isn't' as good as this toy while she uses it shes a bitch. OP didn' tsay she was taunting him with it

my gf got me a pocket pussy for fun, she stroked me off with it while we made out. It feels better than a pussy in some ways but I didn't use that to be mean to her. It lost its novelty after awhile cause its not the real thing.... i'm sure OP's wife prefers his real cock for that reason too.

>a unfortunate situation.
but its not an unfortunate situation
its only a situation at all because OP is so insecure about it and this board is filled with insecure man children who also are threatened by a sex toy .

OP was a fool for not buying anything for himself and his own pleasure. Again, it's not her fault he's so gay the kinkiest he can get is playing dress up.

Clit vibrators are wonderful. Dildos are not.

Tonight, in this shit thread, is the first time I've posted on Jow Forums for years. I'm nowhere near dick-obsessed, quite happy with my own and have never had any complaints. I can confidently say that I wouldn't have OP's issue because I would've told her, a wife of four years, to ditch it and get something appropriate instead.

Shit, I'd probably have less of a problem here if she bought OP one of those penis extension prosthetic things. What's your opinion on those?

My sincerest apologies to any future partners.

I'm the guy firmly against dildos, and even I can agree that this is the best course of action here. If she's buying that shit she's already too far gone - not that that's a relationship-ruining thing, I'd probably expect it nowadays with all the porn out there. But OP really has to take charge and establish dominance here to avoid a swift cucking.

The 20cm is pretty much the average dildo size and the most common. She probably didn’t think too much of it when she bought it. I work in a sex shop, about every girl has the same one.

Why do you say that?

Previous partners I have no problem with. I've far too many already. What I do have a problem with is his wife buying something like that (a toy, sure, but it is a toy replacement/additional penis) without consulting him. I also have a problem with him not mentioning something prior to her thinking that shit is okay.

Here's hoping I find someone who doesn't like dildos too.

Shit, I've honestly gone this whole thread thinking it was 30. Only reason I'm posting is because I can't sleep. Still anti-dildo and always will be, but ty for the insight and clarification.

If I may ask a question, do you notice a difference in the types of people who buy small bullet vibrators and others who buy giant dildos? Just wondering.

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>Hair extensions, fake nails, willing to use those boots in public
Couple of follow up questions OP:
>Does she have any implants, has she done any plastic surgery for aesthetic reasons?
>Does she usually wear revealing clothing?
>What do both of you work as?

I think we need to first confirm if OPs wife is a thot or not, before any further advice.

There isn’t really a specific type for who buys what. Giant dildos is very niche, very few people actually enjoys them. Bullet vibrators are becoming very popular though, they are like the modern version of getting handcuffs. Most women get the dildo, or other toys. But they one that they keep and use most is the magic wand.

Thanks for answering my question. I'm a big fan of bullets and magic wands. Good luck with your job, hope you don't have to deal with too many creeps!

This is relevant, answer this OP

don't worry OP, you guys are both just having fun. next time fuck her ass while she takes that dildo

also if you're worried about it, try other things too