Casual sex

Gets boring really quickly. I have a girlfriend now, but I fucked about 10 girls off tinder last year. They get clingy as usual and pissed off when you give them the inevitable "I thought we wanted just friends" thing.

When I'm horny I wish I still had one around, but honestly it just gets boring and annoying.

You live in fear of women? Jesus, what a pussy.

>and i'm the only dude that ever had sex with her.
ROTFL
He actually believes it.

It's empty and you keep craving more. Marry your girl soon and have lots of kids. There's nothing more fulfilling in this life than being a part of a healthy home, protecting and providing.

Busting a nut is busting a nut. Quit trying to equate the male sexual experience with the female sexual experience. You are putting yourself in a woman's shoes and it will only lead to self cucking.

fun till you get aids

fear of child support / #metoo accusations, yeah. Don't know how you couldn't infer that.

user you can find out what casual sex is like any time you want
you just have to stop being a prude and bend over

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depressing tbqh

Says the broke NEET that isn't at risk of losing thousands of dollars in child support or his six figure job because of a false rape allegation.

Yeah I agree.
Busting a nut is busting a nut.
The only reason I was sleeping around was because I thought it validated my masculinity as that's what this warped society taught me.
I've since learned better.

>fair few lasses

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I'm a Chad and I intentionally painfully turn down girls who I know are only after my dick.and yes,it feels satisfying.

All women are sluts man.
Your mom's a slut.
Your grandmother's a slut.
Every woman is a slut.
It's something they can't help.
I wish they could, but they can't, and neither can we.
These days you don't get the girl for life. You get to have your turn.
Sounds sad and harsh but it's the truth.
Not because it's in their nature, but because their submissiveness towards their own group and its peer pressures prevents them from being any different.

Now you can choose to disagree and face the tiger.
Entirely your right.
You can also choose to ride it, until the increasingly tight choke hold of all men on the tiger finally forces it to submit, and we all are free from the burden of (((modernity))).

Most women are absolutely bad at sex and expect you to do all the work

You have a virgin?

Get her a fucking diamond, but tell her you want her to be kinkier in bed. She'll probably love it.

Just out of curiosity, what do you reckon a man's shoes are?

Living in nyc i worked in a restaurant packed with those types and its just another addiction really. Soon as they loose one, they get another., and can't stay faithful to one girl.

this guy fucks.

>What is it like being 'a man of high value' and having a huge buffet of women to sleep with?

Who gives a shit? A man of value dates with little to no sexual contact until he finds the right women to marry and start a family with.

Pair bonding is important, fuckboys are just as bad if not worse than thots.

>p.s. most women will try to destroy your relationship with your girl, not because they want you, they just want to see you fail
This hit me in the feels, brother. Never got much attention from women until I made my relationship status public. Women get so much fucking attention from men, that single men hitting on them isn't enough stimuli for them. It's like they need a more intense hit of dopamine and satisfaction, so they go for committed men who they know will be more challenging

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It's only fun if you have a monster cock, otherwise the sluts will laugh

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What you have is special. Don't throw it away. It's really not worth it.

t. Chad

Why not have a plan for marriage instead of just saying someday?

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Same as anything really. The first dozen times it’s novel and fun, and then it’s just a routine you go through.

Honestly its not all that great. First of all I'm real indecisive so when it come time to choose one I couldn't. Second when its all over all you have is blurry memories. Many times I've wished I could go back in time and not let myself let one of the good ones go. The good one are usually the 1st or within the first few. Third you're enabling the thot life style.
Have a modest qt is really the life to choose.
A thot will break you into a million pieces once your heart gets involved and you'll end up past your prime and alone.
now go make some babies

Im not a chad, BUT I had a period where I was pretty damn cute and had a lot of popular connections and got laid a lot. I got scabies, herpes, gonorrhea, molluscum within 4 months. Be celibate until marriage.

>Chad doesn't even try and he gets random anons complimenting his height and thick benis

ITS NOT FUCKING FAAAAAIIIRRRRRR

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The brutal realization that no one in the world cares about you unless you're willing to put in effort and make something of yourself. It takes most men until their mid teens to learn this and until their mid twenties to do something about it.

Please. I make 200k a year and have kids. My fucks dont fuck with me because they fear me. Women only attack men they know they can control. Chad can do anything he wants to a woman.

This is a meme. Hitting the cervix is usually a painful thing. It's better to have more girth than length, but even that can be painful as well.

Depends, mostly its average. Your thirst is low which means you find most women annoying and shallow and really really entitled. Which is a turn off. Like you'll get some fat repulsive pig who thinks you are lucky to be around her - which is of course the last thing you want. So you bail for the exit.
As you get older you become more intolerant to their shit, so you home alone and wank because its far less hassle.
Especially the 40 - 50 year olds who expect you to pay for everything, bitch how they don't have a pension and who going to take care of them but push their feminist bullshit on you while telling you your privileged.
BTW never let them know your financial status. Always play your real worth down...eg "im house sitting for a friend"

Yeah a cock at that size is BDSM territory

This, like what the fuck

I already knew about guys who have under-developed skills with women. But Jow Forums has introduced me to this population of militant "relationship guys"

You can say YOU don't enjoy casual sex. But if you can't understand why other people would do it, I really can't take any of your politics seriously. Politics aren't just things on paper. They have to jibe with human nature. That's why cops don't ticket every speeder every time. Nobody would be fucking driving. You give a warning sometimes. Holy shit

in my experience regular girls are energy draining to fuck and clingy afterwards and hookers are boring after the novelty effortless sex wears off.

I don't know what you're getting at you dumb mutt.

It's just pussy, it's not like you are going to raise a family with any of those sluts.

even beautiful women one after another in your bed just become women
just become regular
just become roasties

nothing will ever satisfy you more than your own hand and some good time alone
no birth of a child
no surviving gunshot wounds
no winning a craps fire bet with a nice g laid down on the bet

nothing
loving yourself is the purest form of love

What a way to glorify modernity. The truth is you either have the genetics or you have the status. One you are born with the other you have to take. So while you are out there trying to make something of yourself, Chad is blowing loads in your future wife. Some people get lucky. I did. I couldnt imagine not being lucky. God bless Incels.

Pure lies. If they knew how much you make they would stuff condoms into themselves to get pregnant. There's already been a case of this recently and the court ruled in favor of the woman, setting legal precedent. You're playing with fire user.

Why not just fuck your girlfriend like she's a slut and pump children into that womb? Average 102 IQ my ass.

Is the LOOKS/MONEY/STATUS community, or the PUA community correct bros? Can an average guy alter his behavior to pick up very attractive women through confidence?

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This works riiiight up until you get eaten alive by a barracuda.

It's nowhere near as gratifying as you imagine.
The best sex I've ever had was with my long term gf (now my ex, unfortunately). You need time to learn your partner's body, their sexual preferences, what turns them on, etc.

It gets old just like everything else.

Depends on what you want. LOOKS/MONEY/STATUS is better for relationships. Artistry is fine for pick ups.

Thats true for some men. I scare them. It makes it hard as fuck to get a woman in the first place but when I get them they are mine. I attract the kinda girl who is obsessed with serial killers.... Im not bragging about my situation btw.

this. it's like when you lift your muscles get bigger
well when you lay a lot of bitches your dick gets bigger because you're giving it a workout.

I'm not particularly attractive but I am confident and that has generally helped me get laid.

>have to make something out of yourself for people to care about you
It's usually only because they have something to gain as well.
Sad how so many guys take forever to learn that in order to "be yourself", you have to "make yourself".
It took me till I was 24 to learn this.

This actually happens, lol. Random 8/10 said yesterday in apropos of nothing "wow, you have such big arms. Can I touch them?"

But seriously. OP. Give your gf a diamond and be happy. You have something that NONE of us can have: a happy lifelong relationship with the girl that you lost your virginity to, and who lost their virginity to you. Ask anyone around here what a whore their first girl has turned into after they broke up. Do not make the same mistake. Think of how you would feel seeing her with other guys... and make that impossible. Wife her up. Nao.

you have no idea how lucky you are unless you are.

don't loose what you have, it's not worth it

An average looking guy can be exceptionally suave.
Not all girls get the same hots for the same treatment.
Some require rough flirting, others get wet as soon as you call them babydoll.
When you can talk the talk, they'll walk the walk for you.
Status is just a combination of perceived value based on appearance and mannerisms.

The small details about the situation or her body you thought were cool and stuck out become mundane. Whereas before her smell and clothing intrigued you it now makes you ashamed that you find it predictable and it’s a little less exciting each time. You get to a point we’re you can’t be bothered any more.

Fucking brainless sluts just starts to feel like a chore after a while. You know how if you play the same game too much it become boring? It's the same thing.

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>Is it a worthwhile life style?
No it is not.

>What is it like
It's fun at first... but then you realize some things that completely ruin it for you.

1. You're wasting your money. Sluts don't hang out with "men of high value" for no damned reason. Either you're paying them directly or you're paying for the jet skis and the sky diving and the wine and the food etc. etc. etc. But the bottom line is that you're not growing with them nor they with you. They're not your friends-- though they do their best to make it complicated and try to obscure the issue; at the end of the day if the money and the fun dries up then they'll leave.

2. You're not the bad ass alpha that they love to be around. It's the other way around: you're their puppet. You're the one making all the fun stuff happen. You're the one working for the money. You're the one keeping everything congenial and happy. YOU'RE THE ONE DOING EVERYTHING and all they do is spread their legs maybe. And notice that it's a MAYBE. Actual prostitutes are just straight up business, but they also don't "hang out" as part of a harem-- prostitutes do what they do because it's the easiest way to make money not because they give a shit about anyone but themselves.

3. STDs are a real thing. A slut willing to do anything in bed with whoever is also one that has probably had exposure to something or another-- there's a reason she's willing to do such things with you: she nothing to fear... anymore.

4. The fun times end... and always in the most anti-climactic way. Sooner or later you get bored or they get bored or they have to leave or you do or whatever. Life changes. And when the change comes the "buffet of women" goes too. The problem is that however much you try not to fall in love you will. There will be that one girl (or two) that were just absolutely perfect in your mind... but the fact that there was money involved just poisons it for you. As the saying goes: you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

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Intresting way to describe it user , I know what you mean but I like the way you put it

Chad's right. I hope user listens

this. Whores are sad lonely people and every dude I've met that did that same type of shit was just as sad and lonely only fucking in an attempt to fill a void.

im 30 and just figuring this out...

on one hand i want to kms for wasting my best years but on the otherhand i figure i have like 20-30 viable years ahead (where i'm at least likely to be physically capable and mobile) so i should do something with that time.

even worse, i came from a very anti-education family (both parents were unskilled, uneducated laborers) who basically opposed to me going to college and instead suggested (demanded) that I "get a job to help pay the bills" when i finished highschool.

So no education, no wealth, no skills, and my 20s are behind me. Oh well.

gtfo with that pua bs

bro they can ruin your life with a few words

High quality post right here. Have a berry.

t. A bird

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5. It destroys your ability to pair bond. You'll be hanging out with a perfectly normal girl who's quite nice... but you'll be evaluating her ability in bed. You'll notice everything little thing about her that isn't quite up to your taste-- because you've tasted a lot and encountered some really really nice stuff about women. The perfect pair of tits. The perfect ass. The most amazing personalities. Such great whatever it is you'll have seen it and had it and this normal girl just doesn't have it and it pisses you off. You ever been around someone who was just stupid? You notice how it seems like they're TRYING to make the stupid decisions instead of doing something even moderately intelligent? It's like that with normal girls for you now. You're thinking "bitch, it's like you don't even care about how unattractive you are" instead of treating them like a real human being.

6. This is the big one: you just get fucking bored. You get bored of meeting the same dumb bitch stacey in a different skin suit over and over. You get bored of threesomes and foursomes and fivesomes etc. etc. You get bored of walking into some random club with several hot girls hanging off your arms. And even worse: after you finally admit to yourself that you're bored of it you realize that there's just nothing else for you, nothing else you give a shit about, nothing else that even matters to you... And even worse than that you realize that you'd known this all along and it was a major reason why you went down this road in the first place.

You're far far far better off getting a girl that is kind and sweet that submits to you and bonding with her.
Actual love, if it exists, is far far better than fake tits and faker personalities and wasted time and money.

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OPs situation is pretty much exactly the same as mine, and me and my gf are engaged now. Going on Jow Forums all the time takes it's toll on you because you start to doubt everything, but what you say is totally true, if you take a step back and think about how lucky you'd have to be.

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We need more discussion like this on here
bump

>But sometimes i just really want to mindlessly fuck some sluts.
What IQ level do you have to stoop to for this to happen? Im guessing 105 or so? How simple do you really have to be to let instinct override reason?

Not really worth the effort vs reward.
Its mainly for bragging rights amd lookinh cool.
In order to be that meme guy you have to sell out most things male.
Reminder that women who fuck around the most have daddy issues and hate men.

You would lose nothing. He has something to lose. That’s why he gets laid, they want his stuff.

Wish I knew Ive only had sex with two women inside relationships

Nah mate, not worth it. I'm not Chad, but I do alright. The problem is that you become so callous and indifferent towards girls that by the time you find one you really like, you don't know what to do with her. So you fuck her and drink with her and every romantic gesture falls flat because you don't know how to be a boyfriend.

Then she leaves you because she sees you for what you are, a good fuck, but just some dude in a string of other dudes.

It's fun for a few years, but once you become a 30 year old boomer, you just are a grizzled SOB with no fucks left to give.

t. 30 year old boomer roastie fiend.

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I could beta you.

This user understands.

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Fellow INTJ bro

It's the same as being able to eat a really good cheeseburger every day. It's only good when you have it. I have known so many people who try their hardest to reflect on their past conquests but are never fulfilled in the end. Congrats on having a good woman.

I assume from your tone you have no kids.
Just ask her to dress like a slut around the house and wear her regular clothes when out.
Buy her the outfits you want.
Get her to try them on and tell her how much you like it and how you want her to dress that way when it’s just you and her.
Ask her to wear makeup that you like, or get her hair dyed or cut in the way you like.
No kids is a dream son.
I can only mess around and have my wife be a slut when the kids aren’t around. If they are home it’s a nightmare for dirty sex stuff, have to go in a room, lock a door, be quick, quiet or play cover music, pray for no interruptions from kids banging on the door or sudden screaming from arguing.

If it’s just you and your girl you could have her hangout at home all day with you in a bikini and high heels. That fucking rules dude.

You don’t want one of those slags who dresses slutty in public, they are attracting attention from all sorts of dick.

I have has sex with some sluts. The feeling of the orgasm for the first time with someone is unbeatable. That's why sluts are sluts and chads are chads.

And a similar form of desensitization happens to men exposed to porn and e-thots.

Jow Forums I know it might sound degenerate but I want to have two wives, stack them, and impregnate them in the same night. But I feel like I'm just being wishful, and I don't really know why I have this urge.

Don't sweat it brother. I turned 31 this year and I'm finally making progress towards having the things I want (good job, savings etc). Thinking about your age causes stress. Take it a day at a time.

>but what is it like fucking so many different sluts? Is it a worthwhile life style?

In my experience:

Relationship sex > escort sex >>>>>>>>> casual sex

>relationship sex
Pros:
>can take the time to learn each others kinks really well
>don't have to pay (at least not directly)
Cons:
>relationship drama
>generally you don't date your perfect 10 and settle for less (the homely girl stereotype)

>Escort sex:
Pros:
>full control
>can hire escorts (one or many at a time) that perfectly match your physical ideal i.e. perfect 10s
>will do pretty much any kinky shit you like
>are usually very good at getting you off with minimal instruction
>don't have to deal with relationship dram

Cons:
>less intimate/affectionate
>costs money
>limited time
>std risk (though much lower than with casual sex).

>Casual sex (easily the worst of the three)
Pros:
>don't have to pay for it (directly)
>validates your ego and makes you feel desired by women

Cons:
>generally have to settle for ugly chicks
>the girls expect you to do all the work
>compete with a bunch of other horny dudes for an ugly 6/10 with makeup
>they rarely make an effort to get you off
>they might accuse you of rape or something if their boyfriend finds out
>no affection
>they don't know what they're doing and give you flat starfish sex
>high risk of std infection

That's my take OP. Either hire whores or get a girlfriend. Casual sex is utter shit and should be left to poor and stupid people

these threads fucking suck, lets get something political going here you fucking clown faggots

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>by the time you find one you really like, you don't know what to do with her. So you fuck her and drink with her and every romantic gesture falls flat because you don't know how to be a boyfriend.
are you me? i lost the girl i wanted to marry like this.

Can confirm, this actually does happen. But, honestly, I've found men comment on physique more than women do overall. Most women don't lift and don't care for lifters, I should think.

No man fears the beautiful female form, he fears the external forces that weaponize it

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go blow up a few mosques then and give us something to talk about leafy boy

It's an itch not worth scratching. Its unsatisfying, and once you've conquered enough you just pull some Alexander the Great shit. Trying to take more territory just for the sake of conquest. Then when you are in a committed relationship you end up with that itch coming back like herpes, out of the blue for awhile, telling you that you need some strange, even though your wife is so tight she literally bruises your dick and she give great head.