I have no direction in my life, I feel like I waste my life, I feel like there is no everything OK with me

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I’ve been in your situation, trust me though, you’ll miss having this much time in the future. Perhaps try out something new! It doesn’t have be sports, it can be a new skill, a new target/goal, get something which u can look forward to. What you need now is to identify or find out what would interest you, not something that just simply takes up your time. And for that part, i don’t think anyone can help, it’s all up to yourself. For myself, i’ve yet to find something that really interest me to execute or be so into, so i understand that struggle.

Just to share for abit, most of my time now is packed by my gf, future goals and work. I wished i could have those alone time like in the past, i crave for them almost all the time, watching anime the entire day and rot away. So OP, i’d suggest something that makes u feel fulfilled, do not fall for traps that’d literally take ur “life” away. All the best, hope it helps, comments r welcome

thanks for reply
actually I think that I'm stupid, I have goals like: be rich, have many girls, travel everywhere I want without being concerned about money
but it's too hard to achieve, what can I do? people tell to find passion and money may come, but I have no passions ehhh

I understand you OP, i have no passion either, but because i’ve a goal to be wealthy, i forced myself to pick up new skills. Perhaps once you enter uni, you’ll have a better direction of the work industry, who knows u might be into it. Take your time, enjoy as much as you could.

You’re still young, it’s the loneliness and isolation that makes u feel like you’re wasting your life away. Just take your time, really, try out new stuff or whatsoever, do not land into traps that’ll lock you away from your “freedom”, i mean you still could have it after you reach a stable point, but for myself i’m still at the progression point. It’s a phase of life, you could explain further and i’ll see if i can share some of my experience to you

Life is a journey so don’t think about it. If there’s things you are particularly good at, use those things and improve on them drastically and you’ll find your direction. You will eventually gain the experience necessary to do what you want since you’ve been building yourself. That in turn will make you attractive as well

maybe that's true, I feel lonely, I can't find people who think like me

That’s normal, even for myself, but i do enjoy hanging out with my friends here and there, do you think because you “dislike” people or people dislike you? Because for myself sometimes i tend to realize i do push people away. And also, are you good looking?

Im good looking, I think I dislike people, for example I have sometimes occasion to party but I dont want
I had been in circle of a few people from my class, but I didnt really enjoyed spending time with them so I dont do it

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I guess we’re quite similar, loneliness is the trigger to majority of your emotions though. Perhaps try meeting more people! Your looks will make things easier for you. I don’t have much to advise for this part because i’m pretty much the same, i’m still struggling to find something that interest me, or people who really understood me. But i’ve commitments now to stop me from going crazy, i just hope OP you wouldn’t become like me though, all the best!

Maybe some other people here can help!

And always remember, doing something that only takes up your time wouldn’t make u feel fulfilled. They are temporary solutions, do something that is of quality to you instead.

** Though idk what that’ll be and i hadn’t figured it out either

What if in my country most of meetings are with alcohol? Should I drink alcohol often?

not necessarily, but i’m asian so i have asian flush when i drink, i tend to skip them. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, i still do go bars etc as well though, just that i drink fruit juices

But still, different culture, so i’m not really sure about that. Though i feel if you don’t want to, don’t force yourself ; you don’t have to do something u dislike in order to meet people/make people stay.

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OP if moving your ass isn't a problem why not first discovering the things that you don't like ? Try shit for the sake of it instead of playing video games the entire day :D

thats the problem im lazy

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