I just got sent home so my boyfriend could jerk off to porn alone.
Any women on here dating an asperger autist? How do you handle your weird partner? Should I just give up on the guy?
I start a new job on the other side of the state in a week and it's our 2nd to last weekend together before we'll see each other a maximum of 2 times a month. I knew before us dating he was a bit of a weirdo and I'm his first real girlfriend at the age of 29. Our weekends as a couple have been played by ear with no set limit from Thursday night to sometimes Monday morning. I was getting ready for bed and he seemed confused I was staying but instead of letting me know earlier in the day that he would like to be alone that night he awkwardly admitted that he wanted to masturbate and was assuming I was leaving.
This is what I get for liking highly intelligent but emotionally broken and socially retarded men
Give up if they're particular about sex. Once they learn masterbation and not that sex is a mutual activity, it's too late.
Isaiah Kelly
I fit that description and I wouldn't choose masturbating over you, OP. I might choose marijuana or beer over you, however, can't make any guarantees there.
We have plenty of sex. We've even watched porn together before during. But I'm on my cursed week and we couldn't do anything. He claimed he needed to "decompress "
Dylan Sanders
>He claimed he needed to "decompress " That's an actual need for introverts.
I'm honestly more of the introvert in the relationship. He has a near incessant need to interact with people in proximity to him. I avoid interactions. But he has been single most of his life so idk how to feel about the whole thing because I know I tend to overlook a lot of things in a relationship because I'm very agreeable
Nicholas Baker
Its really weird for me to jerk off in front of a gf, so i can get that part. Maybe it would have gone over smoother had he made it more joking, asked you to go find somethin else to do for 5 minutes or whatever. Him being socially retarded though, that might have to be a challenge youre eager to take on of you want to being with him. Imagine the amount of life experiences hes missed out on and their lessons
Noah Morgan
That's not true at all. You're not a man so how the fuck would you even know what it's like to be one?
Hudson Ramirez
I had consent to, and they safeworded the second they lost control of the situation.
Leo Rogers
You're the perfect example of why some women that are feminists deserve to be litterally raped.
Jace Allen
I'm not a feminist.
Andrew Carter
Keep going next time.
Juan Baker
But you think that men and women are the same or that women are superior in certain ways yet you have a problem when people state the fact that men are superior in certain ways like math and logic. You also think men and women should be treated the same except that women deserve certain safety nets and protections. You believe women should have equality in the positive ways without the risks and consequences.
Jacob Wood
In my my opinion women should be treated the exact same way as men, with the same harshness and without and exceptions in any way, shape or form, for being a woman. No extra compassion. No understanding. Just complete and utter across the board equal treatment.
Adam Morgan
Gender has not been mentioned once by me in my posts, per this thread. I'm an egalitarian.
Andrew Green
If you disagree then you believe women deserve and are entitled to being treated better then men are. This makes you a mainstream feminist.
Grayson Rodriguez
In hindsight I know he felt bad and embarrassed I could see it in his eyes. I was shocked and pissed that he was seriously going to passively send me to a 40 minute drive back home when we already have limited time together till the end of the year or more. I love him but I'm scared of being taken advantage of
Jace Gonzalez
No, I like being a beacon for the kink community and not a rapist.
Wyatt Williams
I've seen different posts from you here and there. You're absolutely not egalitarian at all. If women were treated with the same harshness and lack of compassion as men (which will never, ever fucking happen in a million years, which is why men had DIFFERENT priveleges then women with real risks) women wouldn't want equality.
And the typical hamster wheel produced response of a woman to my statements is "just treat men with the same amount of compassion and understanding as women". That won't work. You can't coddle men in the way you can women. It'll make them weak and into faggots. If this happened we will stop making progress. Look at the amount of progress patriarchal societies have made relative to the 5 or 6 matriarchal societies. You can't please everyone. One gender will always have a little bit of and upper hand and it's much more fair for men to have this upper hand. There will never be gender equality.
Blake Jones
Which is exactly why you and some other women DESERVE to be raped. My goal is to make rape jokes funny again so that it can be a subject not taken so seriously and it will be decriminalized.
Hudson Rodriguez
>If women were treated with the same harshness and lack of compassion as men (which will never, ever fucking happen in a million years, which is why men had DIFFERENT priveleges then women with real risks) You're really good at denying reality, please seek mental help.
Easton Parker
Life as a woman is life on easy mode. Of course you'll disagree. People with privelege don't see their privelege because to them its just normal and they feel entitled to it. You're proof women lack critical thinking skills and its impossible for a female to empathize with men.
Christopher Powell
>People with privelege don't see their privelege because to them its just normal and they feel entitled to it Says the likely white guy behind a screen. (:
Lucas Carter
Practice making normal jokes funny first, user.
Michael Garcia
It's not privelege when your ancestors litterally won the competition between humans. White people paid their dues. All humans explored, and slaughtered each other for land and resources. White people were just the BEST all around at this. My ancestors did it for the future generations. Within a white majority country I don't have much privelege because almost everyone is white.
My grandfather didn't kill Japanese people and risk his life so that illegal immigrants can get free stuff and undercut wages. Nor did do it so that the majority of tax revenue spent on social services (which the majority of tax revenue is collected from men, primarily white men, because they make more money, only because of personal life choices not discrimination) can be spent on single mothers while the majority of homeless adults are men, and veterans are homeless.
Men paid their dues and did most of the work, took most of the risks, and still do these things. Especially white men. We built this country. We're getting a shit dealm completely getting screwed. If all men took a year off the world would fall apart. If all women took a year off, it wouldn't have much of an impact. Why shouldn't men undo what we did? Then you will maybe appreciate something and stop using shaming language like "white privelege". Women primarily gave birth and raised the children. Men did EVERYTHING else. Men are and were more important and contributed significantly more.
Mason Hughes
>writes a fucking wall >doesn't even know what privilege means
Bentley Gonzalez
It's like you claiming the ceo of McDonald's has privelege relative to the cook. That's a false comparison. The ceo works 80 hours a week and has an extreme amount of responsibility and takes a lot of risks, and if they fail they'll never find a decent job in corporate America ever again.
This is similar to your comparison of men and women when you claim men have privelege.
When it say gender equality, it's like saying you think the cook wt McDonald's should get paid the same as the ceo without taking the same risks, having the same responsibility, working the same hours ect
Nicholas Baker
stop roleplaying take your aspergers pills
Justin Parker
Go get raped. I hope you're children are slaughtered in front of you after.
Jose Green
You fucking worthless whore. You didn't earn what you have. It was given to you because you need a handicap to compete. Gender quotas not ability.
Nathaniel Nguyen
come get me faggot
Jack Reed
Holy kek, someone seems TENSE.
Jacob Sanchez
What's your address?
Nicholas Ramirez
What's your address and name. Oh wait you're coward so you'll continue hiding.
Benjamin Ortiz
123 sesame street ask for bert
Ryder Hall
Nah I just believe in extreme gender equality. Women should be treated exactly like men. Shit why not put women and men in the same prisons and cells? Why not allow companies to hire only men if they want to? Make positive discrimination towards women illegal and let the chips fall where they may? This would be fair.
Hunter Fisher
Exactly
Gabriel Butler
i'm coming to your house
Asher Watson
Go ahead come over
Adam Baker
okay
Easton Sullivan
BASED Will never happen of course, womyn must be coddled at all costs.
Jeremiah Campbell
>But I'm on my cursed week and we couldn't do anything Why didn't you suck his dick or give him a handjob?
Dominic Brooks
Why do you want to have sex with him if you're on your period?
Bentley Barnes
You shoulda said you want to watch him do it, maybe he'd like that Guess you aren't getting it done desu
Landon Hughes
No woman wants to watch a guy jerk off. A better idea would've been for her to join in and make it a fun activity for both parties. Just because you can't fuck doesn't mean you can't do other stuff.
Xavier Bennett
is he not attracted to you anymore? why don't you offer to suck his dick while he watches porn
Aiden Rogers
He's probably just trying his best to learn. If he is as intelligent as you say he knows practice makes perfect overall and is just trying to get out there and get experience. Have you tried sitting down and discussing with him how it made you feel? Do you even know how you feel?
Cooper Martin
Lol bait 8/8
Dylan Myers
Don’t blame asperger’s for your bullshit. You’re obviously a failure in the bedroom, possibly failure in the entire relationship, if he’s acting like this. I, nor any man ever, would send a decent, which you’re not, woman away so they could masturbate. They’d either fuck you, or would try to get you to masturbate together, or simply wouldn’t give a shit. And yeah you’re a solid, steaming pile of shit if this is how you talk about him. Can’t wait for your ldr to crumble as per the usual because he deserves better no matter who he is. That’s fine though, hope you find you a real macho manly man who will beat the shit out of you, manipulate you so hard that suicidal thoughts emerge, and impregnates your best friend. Hope he also has a super duper Mandingo dick and a rapey personality so your uterus gets deformed and you can’t create anymore hell spawn like you. I say this all because it’s obvious you’re a petty bitch who cares more about status symbols then about actual love and the beautiful hard work it requires. Hope you get aids. What a cunt.
Aaron Stewart
nice blog
Anthony Young
Over the weekend I gave him a finished bj and chest job. We're sexually very similar in which only having sex will actually satisfy us and everything else is a tease. I was insatiable and so was he
I honestly think a big part of it is hes just that ashamed of his porn because I know he hates himself for liking hentai and he claims because that's ruined him at a younger age that regular porn does almost nothing for him
Benjamin Foster
Triggered
Nicholas Ross
>weirdo with no real past relationship experience at 29 Why did you get together with this creep? Forget red flags, the dude's raised the Crimson Banners and he's waving them for all to see. If someone is like this at 29, it means there's something very broken with them.
Elijah Gutierrez
Psycho
Cameron Nelson
larp! Women don't like intelligent, but reclusive men.
Aiden Rivera
No, they do, they just don't like you
Easton Rodriguez
We have the best social, philosophical and political conversations. We talk about our past traumas and work through them when we were just friends. We both love studying new topics and ideas. I'm so attracted to that and his broody demeanor.
David Hall
He probably just wanted some alone time and just used the excuse of jerking off to get it. Don't think too hard about it unless this was a common occurrence.
Logan Watson
you need to wiki aspergers... he has trouble communicating. and picking up social queues... next time just ask if you can be involved. be literal, be honnest and tell him what you want because HE DOESNT GET IT
Jose Perez
He just called and confessed to me exactly why he sent me off. He has this fetish he's working through but he caved into it that night because it had been a month (since we started dating) and said he disassociated. he "built it up in his head" and it wasn't satisfying at all. I'm still mad at him but I know I'll forgive him
Hudson Miller
>hentai get a new bf dump him
Jason Torres
Please just lose the name & just use the trip. You got these idiots challenging you on every post and its just derailing threads
Carson Robinson
What's the fetish?
Christopher Diaz
He likes to crossdress
Christopher Watson
>He claimed he needed to "decompress " Sounds like this autist just needed some time alone. Probably nothing personal. Socialiazation is sometimes very energy consuming and tiring for us.
Kevin Torres
Dump him you don’t wanna be responsible for all that baggage