I just got sent home so my boyfriend could jerk off to porn alone

I just got sent home so my boyfriend could jerk off to porn alone.

Any women on here dating an asperger autist? How do you handle your weird partner? Should I just give up on the guy?

I start a new job on the other side of the state in a week and it's our 2nd to last weekend together before we'll see each other a maximum of 2 times a month. I knew before us dating he was a bit of a weirdo and I'm his first real girlfriend at the age of 29. Our weekends as a couple have been played by ear with no set limit from Thursday night to sometimes Monday morning. I was getting ready for bed and he seemed confused I was staying but instead of letting me know earlier in the day that he would like to be alone that night he awkwardly admitted that he wanted to masturbate and was assuming I was leaving.

This is what I get for liking highly intelligent but emotionally broken and socially retarded men

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Give up if they're particular about sex. Once they learn masterbation and not that sex is a mutual activity, it's too late.

I fit that description and I wouldn't choose masturbating over you, OP. I might choose marijuana or beer over you, however, can't make any guarantees there.

this. he seems like a fag

Should've just raped him. YGSIU

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We have plenty of sex. We've even watched porn together before during. But I'm on my cursed week and we couldn't do anything. He claimed he needed to "decompress "

>He claimed he needed to "decompress "
That's an actual need for introverts.

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Hes a self proclaimed extrovert.

I'm honestly more of the introvert in the relationship. He has a near incessant need to interact with people in proximity to him. I avoid interactions. But he has been single most of his life so idk how to feel about the whole thing because I know I tend to overlook a lot of things in a relationship because I'm very agreeable

Its really weird for me to jerk off in front of a gf, so i can get that part. Maybe it would have gone over smoother had he made it more joking, asked you to go find somethin else to do for 5 minutes or whatever.
Him being socially retarded though, that might have to be a challenge youre eager to take on of you want to being with him. Imagine the amount of life experiences hes missed out on and their lessons

That's not true at all. You're not a man so how the fuck would you even know what it's like to be one?

I had consent to, and they safeworded the second they lost control of the situation.

You're the perfect example of why some women that are feminists deserve to be litterally raped.

I'm not a feminist.

Keep going next time.

But you think that men and women are the same or that women are superior in certain ways yet you have a problem when people state the fact that men are superior in certain ways like math and logic. You also think men and women should be treated the same except that women deserve certain safety nets and protections. You believe women should have equality in the positive ways without the risks and consequences.

In my my opinion women should be treated the exact same way as men, with the same harshness and without and exceptions in any way, shape or form, for being a woman. No extra compassion. No understanding. Just complete and utter across the board equal treatment.

Gender has not been mentioned once by me in my posts, per this thread.
I'm an egalitarian.

If you disagree then you believe women deserve and are entitled to being treated better then men are. This makes you a mainstream feminist.

In hindsight I know he felt bad and embarrassed I could see it in his eyes. I was shocked and pissed that he was seriously going to passively send me to a 40 minute drive back home when we already have limited time together till the end of the year or more. I love him but I'm scared of being taken advantage of

No, I like being a beacon for the kink community and not a rapist.

I've seen different posts from you here and there. You're absolutely not egalitarian at all. If women were treated with the same harshness and lack of compassion as men (which will never, ever fucking happen in a million years, which is why men had DIFFERENT priveleges then women with real risks) women wouldn't want equality.

And the typical hamster wheel produced response of a woman to my statements is "just treat men with the same amount of compassion and understanding as women". That won't work. You can't coddle men in the way you can women. It'll make them weak and into faggots. If this happened we will stop making progress. Look at the amount of progress patriarchal societies have made relative to the 5 or 6 matriarchal societies. You can't please everyone. One gender will always have a little bit of and upper hand and it's much more fair for men to have this upper hand. There will never be gender equality.

Which is exactly why you and some other women DESERVE to be raped. My goal is to make rape jokes funny again so that it can be a subject not taken so seriously and it will be decriminalized.

>If women were treated with the same harshness and lack of compassion as men (which will never, ever fucking happen in a million years, which is why men had DIFFERENT priveleges then women with real risks)
You're really good at denying reality, please seek mental help.

Life as a woman is life on easy mode. Of course you'll disagree. People with privelege don't see their privelege because to them its just normal and they feel entitled to it. You're proof women lack critical thinking skills and its impossible for a female to empathize with men.

>People with privelege don't see their privelege because to them its just normal and they feel entitled to it
Says the likely white guy behind a screen. (:

Practice making normal jokes funny first, user.

It's not privelege when your ancestors litterally won the competition between humans. White people paid their dues. All humans explored, and slaughtered each other for land and resources. White people were just the BEST all around at this. My ancestors did it for the future generations. Within a white majority country I don't have much privelege because almost everyone is white.

My grandfather didn't kill Japanese people and risk his life so that illegal immigrants can get free stuff and undercut wages. Nor did do it so that the majority of tax revenue spent on social services (which the majority of tax revenue is collected from men, primarily white men, because they make more money, only because of personal life choices not discrimination) can be spent on single mothers while the majority of homeless adults are men, and veterans are homeless.

Men paid their dues and did most of the work, took most of the risks, and still do these things. Especially white men. We built this country. We're getting a shit dealm completely getting screwed. If all men took a year off the world would fall apart. If all women took a year off, it wouldn't have much of an impact. Why shouldn't men undo what we did? Then you will maybe appreciate something and stop using shaming language like "white privelege". Women primarily gave birth and raised the children. Men did EVERYTHING else. Men are and were more important and contributed significantly more.

>writes a fucking wall
>doesn't even know what privilege means

It's like you claiming the ceo of McDonald's has privelege relative to the cook. That's a false comparison. The ceo works 80 hours a week and has an extreme amount of responsibility and takes a lot of risks, and if they fail they'll never find a decent job in corporate America ever again.

This is similar to your comparison of men and women when you claim men have privelege.

When it say gender equality, it's like saying you think the cook wt McDonald's should get paid the same as the ceo without taking the same risks, having the same responsibility, working the same hours ect

stop roleplaying
take your aspergers pills

Go get raped. I hope you're children are slaughtered in front of you after.

You fucking worthless whore. You didn't earn what you have. It was given to you because you need a handicap to compete. Gender quotas not ability.

come get me faggot

Holy kek, someone seems TENSE.

What's your address?

What's your address and name. Oh wait you're coward so you'll continue hiding.

123 sesame street ask for bert

Nah I just believe in extreme gender equality. Women should be treated exactly like men. Shit why not put women and men in the same prisons and cells? Why not allow companies to hire only men if they want to? Make positive discrimination towards women illegal and let the chips fall where they may? This would be fair.

Exactly

i'm coming to your house

Go ahead come over

okay

BASED
Will never happen of course, womyn must be coddled at all costs.

>But I'm on my cursed week and we couldn't do anything
Why didn't you suck his dick or give him a handjob?

Why do you want to have sex with him if you're on your period?

You shoulda said you want to watch him do it, maybe he'd like that
Guess you aren't getting it done desu

No woman wants to watch a guy jerk off. A better idea would've been for her to join in and make it a fun activity for both parties. Just because you can't fuck doesn't mean you can't do other stuff.

is he not attracted to you anymore? why don't you offer to suck his dick while he watches porn

He's probably just trying his best to learn. If he is as intelligent as you say he knows practice makes perfect overall and is just trying to get out there and get experience. Have you tried sitting down and discussing with him how it made you feel? Do you even know how you feel?

Lol bait 8/8

Don’t blame asperger’s for your bullshit. You’re obviously a failure in the bedroom, possibly failure in the entire relationship, if he’s acting like this. I, nor any man ever, would send a decent, which you’re not, woman away so they could masturbate. They’d either fuck you, or would try to get you to masturbate together, or simply wouldn’t give a shit. And yeah you’re a solid, steaming pile of shit if this is how you talk about him. Can’t wait for your ldr to crumble as per the usual because he deserves better no matter who he is. That’s fine though, hope you find you a real macho manly man who will beat the shit out of you, manipulate you so hard that suicidal thoughts emerge, and impregnates your best friend. Hope he also has a super duper Mandingo dick and a rapey personality so your uterus gets deformed and you can’t create anymore hell spawn like you. I say this all because it’s obvious you’re a petty bitch who cares more about status symbols then about actual love and the beautiful hard work it requires. Hope you get aids. What a cunt.

nice blog

Over the weekend I gave him a finished bj and chest job. We're sexually very similar in which only having sex will actually satisfy us and everything else is a tease. I was insatiable and so was he

I honestly think a big part of it is hes just that ashamed of his porn because I know he hates himself for liking hentai and he claims because that's ruined him at a younger age that regular porn does almost nothing for him

Triggered

>weirdo with no real past relationship experience at 29
Why did you get together with this creep? Forget red flags, the dude's raised the Crimson Banners and he's waving them for all to see.
If someone is like this at 29, it means there's something very broken with them.

Psycho

larp! Women don't like intelligent, but reclusive men.

No, they do, they just don't like you

We have the best social, philosophical and political conversations. We talk about our past traumas and work through them when we were just friends. We both love studying new topics and ideas. I'm so attracted to that and his broody demeanor.

He probably just wanted some alone time and just used the excuse of jerking off to get it. Don't think too hard about it unless this was a common occurrence.

you need to wiki aspergers... he has trouble communicating. and picking up social queues... next time just ask if you can be involved. be literal, be honnest and tell him what you want because HE DOESNT GET IT

He just called and confessed to me exactly why he sent me off. He has this fetish he's working through but he caved into it that night because it had been a month (since we started dating) and said he disassociated. he "built it up in his head" and it wasn't satisfying at all. I'm still mad at him but I know I'll forgive him

>hentai
get a new bf dump him

Please just lose the name & just use the trip. You got these idiots challenging you on every post and its just derailing threads

What's the fetish?

He likes to crossdress

>He claimed he needed to "decompress "
Sounds like this autist just needed some time alone. Probably nothing personal. Socialiazation is sometimes very energy consuming and tiring for us.

Dump him you don’t wanna be responsible for all that baggage