Why is there no guidance for young men?

>france

not surprising.

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this.
and it's very satisfying.
( no homo! )

Nobody told me either, I found out what's going on myself. You could've done the same and chose not to.

Fuck you and your guidance you faggot. Be a man or put on a dress and bend over you fucking bitch.

>You could've done the same and chose not to.

People are not automatically born with knowledge dumb kraut nigger. Men are made through hard work and experience. They need some guidance in life.

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you were successfully demoralized by the globalist propaganda. don't feel too guilty, there was a time where i too bought into it. it took the suicide of my brother, the election of trump, and finally getting sober after struggling through my early 20s, but i now see the light. the secret is that the world is harsh and unforgiving and it's all on you to scrape together a meaningful life. if you fail, then you will be forgotten by the slow passage of time. sink or swim, you could say.

Because people hate men and don't want boys to turn into them. They sabotage their lives by letting be naive faggots.

30 is actually the new 20. Over 30% of Millenials still live at home. Also you can expect to get 10 years older than boomers so yeah enjoy the ride

I'm not sure living to 100 to 110 instead of 80 or 90 is really something to look forward to.

youtube.com/watch?v=OAUn3A4QtaI

Don't blame anyone but yourself for your personal failures faggot

this is actually good advice. it doesn't even need to be some big business when you start, just a hobby or side business. it gives you structure and focus

>ask for guidance for men on Easter
>looks outwards instead of inwards
>where is it user?

What do you really want to do though? What is there to really do that would make you feel like a "man" or make you feel that you've done something?

Those of us who had actual dads in our lives had extremely weak men for dads. They didn't teach us jack shit, and basically outsourced our educations to the schools and other sources, and the tv/internet. It fucked with us all because we didn't learn to be men who could make our own lives and realize our dreams. We got turned into a bunch of slave-like creatures with no goals except to pay our bills and whatnot.

Our moms were no better. They didn't love and support in the way they should have. That's why we're all fucked in the head and heart.

So, all we can do is figure out how to fix ourselves and move on.. It sucks OP, but that's how things are.

Because boomers made no effort to pass their knowledge and wealth onto the next generation.

I was there buh. I was going to community college at age 22. I floundered around and wasn’t focused. Never had discipline or really knew how to study and focus. So I joined the service. The military put a fire under my ass. Failure wasn’t an option. Every class I take now I’m top 3 in the class. I got goals in life. I plan shit out ten or more years ahead. My goal in life is better myself and stomp on those that get in my fucking way. You’ll be 40 years old before you realize it. You must accept you are your own problem or ally. No one will help you, you gotta get a plan and follow it through. What do you want in life? How do you get there? Make a fucking plan. Stop hanging around losers. Start hanging around successful people and ask for advice, listen to them. They are positive and not negative.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_mechanical_engineers

One think you will notice is that they are all older men and women. It takes years of work and dedication to "master" something. You're moving along just fine. You can do it. Realizing you actually want more then what you have a huge step.

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When people tell you to be yourself, they aren't saying be a lazy fuck who doesn't try to figure himself out or better his life, they are saying that you should try to find who you are and what you are best at and embrace it.

You haven't done anything at 30 because you haven't tried to figure yourself out then taken risks or stuck at something long enough to see it to it's natural conclusion.

You can fix it now, but you won't, because it's difficult. You will be behind people 10 years younger than you and you'll think you are entitled to more. You'll feel lonely and like an outsider and as you've never stuck with anything you'll just quit faster.

Don't blame your parents, blame yourself. Maybe if you do this now, you might have a chance of un-fucking your life by 40 if you are lucky.

>single mothers
>feminists took over the public school system
>apprenticeships in the trades are becoming rare
>feminists created a climate where all men are suspected of being pedophiles if they work with kids

I'm 35, own a $400,000 house, have a wife and 2 kids, work full-time and still feel inadequate because I don't own a hypercar or a 200,000 acre ranch in Wyoming...

Perspective, I guess

>You’ll be 40 years old before you realize it
>tfw already 40 and still stock shelves
Life is over, or it never really began, depending on ones perspective.

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There is, it's called the church. Jesus Christ is the only way

>haven't done anything with my life

That's nobody's fault but your own you retard. Look at your fucking flag. What do you want people to hand you life on a golden platter like the Jews do with their useless children?

Check out the rest of this guys material after you watch this.
youtu.be/0L0Pv20171U

You're not a young man.

>Perspective, I guess
BS. Upbringing, nothing else.

Everything in one's life is determined by genes and upbringing. You choose neither.

Why dont you get of your ass and do it now then? You have maybe 50-70 more years if you are lucky, so why not use your new profound knowledge to make things happen now?

Stop being a faggot amd get on with your life. Nobody owes you anything.

because if there was women would not stand a chance.

Thinking your life ends at 30 is very effeminate

I learned my first valuable lesson many years ago when i bought my first home at age 20. The mortgage rates were changing daily and my 30 day rate lock was intentionally expired due to a technicality. Cost me an extra $400. 00 per month in 1982 . When i protested to the mortgage company the loan manager simply said.." You're a BIG BOY now dont expect the world to hold you by the hand like your mommy " point taken.
TRUST NO ONE.

Agreed...

As for OP, use this newfound realization to take action now...
Turn off the damn TV, begin distance yourself from degeneracy of all forms, get back in the gym regularly, be ok with silence, sober up. balance your finances, reconnect with nature, cultivate a love for learning history and philosophy, reconnect with God, your nation and it's foundations. Finally, reconnect with the firearm, with prudence and care, for it is a symbol of your freedom and a means for your protection.

With God's help you can do all of this in a matter of one to two years and be a completely different person by then.

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Sometimes God allows men to fall to rock bottom so that they'll turn to him and be saved. It's part of predestination. It's also a matter of being humble and recognising your insufficiency. People who attribute their success entirely to themselves don't realise that everything proceeds from God and they are very likely to fall into hell.

This is called divine punishment.

Don't listen to your faggot friends or media.

Live at home with your parents. Who gives a shit. If you have a job, make bank and live rent free.

If your parents charge you rent, that's pretty shitty.

Put as much as you can into your 401k.

It's not that bad. It's what I am doing. Ill be 29 in January.

Maybe find a nice girl on bumble or some shit who isnt a degenerate.

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There literally so many options at your disposal faggot. It's 2019

This is kinda beautiful

I was just having this crisis the other night. I'm 26 and I have no idea where I'm going. Right now I'm just dishwashing and I don't see any other direction. I look at my mom's husband and he's building a house and I think, that's a man. Than I come here and all these retards keep saying "have kids" but millennials can't have kids because we don't have a sense of responsibility or any real practical wisdom to bestow. Being a millennial sucks

In my case, I was largely raised without a father figurei n the home. I have dad and he's worked his ass off for his family, since he grew up in poverty and wanted us to be spared from that. He succeeded, but at the expense of me never seeing him.

I was already a smaller kid, so now I was a smaller, introverted socially-awkward kid mostly raised by his mother. I woke up to the gravity of this in my late teens when I noticed how much I struck out with women, and gave into despair for much of my 20s, escaping into videogames and porn.

Then at some point I had the long-overdue epiphany that instead of being depressed and guilty about how pathetic I was, I could instead be angry about it. Anger compels change. I made a list of everything I should have been doing for years to sort my shit out, and I started ticking them off, small to large.

I still have a ways to go, but I've been going to the gym for over a year and put on 45 pounds, 30 of which is muscle. I am more confident. I dress better. I am secure enough that I dismiss women's opinions of me instead of having anxiety about it, which makes me more attractive to them. I joined social groups, moved and got a better job.

You, like me, are in remedial masculinity. It sucks we've missed out on so much time, but all you can do is correct and move forwards. Peak male attractiveness is the mid-30s, and you remain attractive to women into your 50s if you take care of yourself. Sort your shit out.

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>You can fix it now, but you won't, because it's difficult. You will be behind people 10 years younger than you and you'll think you are entitled to more. You'll feel lonely and like an outsider and as you've never stuck with anything you'll just quit faster.

How do I get out of this?

>Nobody owes you anything.

I never said no one owed me anything. Don't know why people say that to everyone in hard times even if it is not said by the person. When did I say that?

Well, what do you want to do in life? What do you enjoy?

Thread title.

Amen brother. This is true.

There is nothing I enjoy really because I have spent many years on video games and porn and now I think my brain enjoyment center is shot. But I don't really care about enjoyment. I want a good career and enough money to raise a family. I went to a good college but have low GPA.

I want the anime girls to be real

My kike boomer parents charged me rent and then kicked me out when I was at my absolute lowest in life. Its going to be a long climb for me.

The most hilarious thing is them thinking I will ever interact with them again in this life.

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Look at your opportunities now and go with the best one. Make the most of them and have a dream or a vision of where or what you want to do.

If to tell you the story of my life. I did some course that didn't suit me in college, got some garbage GPA and graduated to nothing. I sent CVs everywhere and managed to get a job by complete chance. Both of my parents were too old and disinterested to help me with my life, so I had to figure it out myself.

The job was fucking horrible and what they taught me was meaningless, but I managed to build experience in the job which allowed me to get a slightly less shit job next time. The same pattern followed and I managed to get a job after about 7 years of fighting asshole bosses and dragging myself into work in places I hated, I was close to the one I wanted when I started college.

God helps people who help themselves, so you need to just start working and you'll see things take shape in time.

Because your boomer parents could fuck around and then just fall into a high paying job and buy a cheap house so they saw no need to give advice to their children because they are a narcissist and "everything worked out fine for me!" meanwhile white are getting BTFO by asians and other immigrants because they are working machines who pool resources and buy accumulate assets/education instead of fucking around until they turn 30

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Do as I say moron!

Stop trying to measure up to others and instead align yourself with the will of God!

Your age isn't everything for men. Just because you aren't so young any more doesn't mean your game is over - you have time to get 15-20 exciting years of life still.

Guys in their 20s seldom have careers, they often have shallow opinions, they lack rugged experience and the scars of a longer turbulent life. That's why even with better biological appeal they are actually less magnetically attractive to women compared to 30-somethings you have their life figured out.

Some quick advice:
>stop caring what women think about you, and start caring what you think about you. This paradoxically makes you more appealing to women. Your opinion matters more than theirs and don;t ever fucking forget it.
>Fix your body. Gym, hygiene, basics of fashion like wearing clothes that fit you better.
>have strong opinions on things and don't hesitate to say them, even when controversial (within reason). Never back down on your convictions, and make sure they are informed.
>Fix your professional life. Honestly figure out what you both like and can earn doing, where your talents are, and start investing in them. Even if you take a lower-paying job, if it's one that's more spiritually uplifting for you it will reflect that in your presentation to others.
>Join some kind of social group - meetup, a gun range, outdoors group, whatever. After a while, make your own and lead it.

My father was a faggot musician that went broke trying to follow a career in music. I became a software engineer because I didn't want to be like him. The best thing the old man ever did for me was being a loser. It made me disgusted by the potential of ever being like him.

What skills do you have? What kind of work are you good at?

Yeah, I feel you on the not enjoying anything. I'm trying to figure out what to do in this life. I know how to work hard, but I can't get beyond entry level jobs.

GET OUT DEGENERATE LEAF SCUM

I feel ya OP, I'll be 37 soon. Back in the 80's/90's society looked towards the future with hope and optimism. Today is a stark contrast, instead of optimism and chasing the American dream, it's now a matter of sulking over the supposed injustices of the past, society has no goal toward the future and every single minute thing is over analyzed to see if it's offensive. It honesty seems like societal decay is reaching a breaking point. I will always cherish the 80's and 90's. It was a totally different time.

>What do you want people to hand you life on a golden platter like the Jews do with their useless children?

Yes but look how much Jewish kids succeed. They are the elite of America because their parents guide them and they get uncle-stein-in-media or uncle-goldman-in-banking to be their mentors. And we get shit because our parents told us to make it on our own. Give me one reason why the Jewish way is not better if it leads to more success.

Same. Boomer parents who taught me fuck all.

>What skills do you have? What kind of work are you good at?

My college degree is in Math. I used to be pretty good at that. The only option I can think of is learning to code. But that's such a cliche is it even worth it? It's become a meme.

Suck my ass bluepiller. Anime is based and if anime girls were real the world would be a better place.

Top notch post

Math can be used for all sorts things besides coding. Pretty much every kind of engineering need math, same with things like accounting and whatnot.

Before you got into porn, what kind of stuff did you like doing?

More good advice from this lad.

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they want us to kill ourselves
those of us who do rise up above the hate and try to lead those who are lost are called divine
the divine are ritually murdered by these satanists
we will have our vengeance.

We need to go back to militarism

it does not matter, you know why you think "they" are in control and all the shit?
Because they know action is needed and they do it, and the rest are paralyzed. Noone is going to be much impressed or inspired by your post.. only if you take action over and over again in reality
youtube.com/watch?v=R_fqcruPL30

Actually it's only 15% of millennials who still live at home. The majority of them are renting apartments/houses with other fellow millennials.

>Before you got into porn, what kind of stuff did you like doing?

Math. Philosophy. Learning new languages (I know 4). Even had a gf, even though I have not met a girl in 5 years. It started unraveling junior year of college and then I never recovered. Every time I start trying I think I wish I had started earlier and get depressed. Need to man up.

Thanks. What is your field of work?

Well said.

Kys liberal

Best advice is to stop beta orbiting women and stop caring what a woman thinks because their opinions are worthless. Also stop caring what retarded kids younger then you think because their opinions are worthless too. Men have always been miserable and worked to death, but we used to be ok with it because we had more rights then women. Now in this new faggot age the sex that does absolutely nothing and is lazy as shit has more rights then men and if you even so much as hint at that being unjust then a million white knight faggots come out of the woodworks, so the best thing is to ignore the losers as everyone in this world always gets their comeuppance one way or the other, either in life or in death

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Brush up on philosophy and join a meetup or intellectual discussion group.

Get hobbies. Literally anything that requires a physical or artistic skill and which you enjoy. Join a community involved with that improve yourself in it. If you can't think of anything, try a combat sport - shooting, kickboxing, or outdoorsman stuff. It hardly matters as long as you assert some confidence in it and display a passion for it.

Programming. I was a math major as well.

If you know four languages, then it's time to start brushing up on them. Most states, and the feds, have a need for certified translators. So do many large corporations. Which languages do you know?

I haven't had a gf in longer than you, but it stopped bugging me a couple years ago. The women I've met around me have been fucking worthless creatures. It's hard, but do your best to ignore the desire for a woman. I'm trying to pull myself away from the porn as well. That fucks with your head.

You finally grew up. Now quit being a pussy and get your shit together. Get a Bible, read the New Testament, start working out, learn a musical instrument and a second language, get a handgun by any means necessary and never leave home without it. Stop wasting time and be a man.

>father

You'll always have anime, lad.

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The New Testament is the testament of submission. Take a course on the Old Testament and read the book of Judges if you want to get into Christianity at all.

Look noone gives a fuck just fuck off

Is it worth learning programming now or is it an oversaturated field because learning to code became a meme? Seriously asking. Because I've been thinking about this. Thanks for advice in advance.

you were told, you just had your head in the clouds. the stress you are feeling now is what every other person felt when they were told to move out and get a job. you expected things to fall in place for you but they didnt so now you are mad

Ah yes, the existential dread you feel once you feel the flow of time and realize you are behind in life compared to your peers. Much vitriol and demotivation comes when asking your question in the wrong place. You now stand before making a choice:
1. "I am 30 years old and failed. There are 22 year old kids who have a masters degree, make 100k per year, have a house, a wife, three children. I am a fuck up and my life is over. In fact, I should kill myself."

2. "The best time for change is yesterday. The second best time is today."

Go away, Jew.

Because lego's is rocket science.

ahh so you are one of those 2008 crash kids too, fresh out of school (college).
Yeah, economy collapse did change shit around, but it was up to you where to lean towards.
I remember that time, when even relative connections couldn't land a job.

Every white man must learn to be responsible and take initiative for our own. We must become good fathers to our children, and brothers to our fellow man, no matter how fucked up and broken we may be in the moment. The beginning of the solution is simple, and anyone can contribute. Start now, from where you are, using what you have, and do whatever you can. Stand and fight for your race! We have nothing to be ashamed of and everything to gain.

Because you are white, FOB parents come to America and tell their brown ass children exactly how to make it, not *go ahead follow ur dreams honey study art!*

this x10000

It's oversaturated at the entry level but it isn't at the mid-senior level. You can't get in directly unless you are some minority group but you can get in tangentially.

I got in through analytics. My first job was doing shit in Excel for business teams where I taught myself SQL. From there, I learned Python and after that I could get into the back end languages which allowed me to completely get away from that kind of work and into development.

As you went to a decent school, the name recognition alone will get you an interview at smaller companies but you'll be a one man shop and you'll do everything but you'll need to account for the gap in your experience.

I can understand why it's hard for you to start knowing your background more. I had a lot of the same problems you had. I got crushed by the very hard syllabus, lost my confidence and belief in myself, then just gave up completely into depression. The 2+ year experience on every job made me feel like everything I struggled through was nothing as well.

Once I began working I felt much better about myself and even a lot of who I was before that experience started coming back. I haven't rediscovered my 'love' of math or why I did that program in the first place, but maybe with time anything is possible.

the boomers will go down as the most selfish, pathetic generation to ever live...ever

their parents, the greatest generation were right in their fears about the boomers.....fucking boomers