I used to live alone but I moved back to my home city because of various circumstances. I was staying with my parents and it was supposed to be temporary but I would up finding a good job in the area, now a few years have passed and I'm still there. I could move out any time but I haven't purely because I don't want to spend ~800 bucks a month on food, rent, and utilities.
Is this a sign of immaturity? Am I an undateable loser until I start wasting my money?
nah, keep amassing wealth senpai.
That's been my opinion, but damn
As soon as people find it you live with your parents they seem to automatically assume you're an incel or something
Do you care more about what randos think of you or how much money you have saved
>Am I an undateable loser
Yeah pretty much. It's not about "wasting" money, it's about learning to be self-sufficient. What woman is going to want you as a potential husband and father if you keep hiding from the adult world?
Thing is I used to be self sufficient (for over a decade actually).
That's part of why I appreciate the extra savings so much.
So it's more about the appearance of knowing how to be self sufficient, all for the same of women. Damn. That's costly
I meant sake not same
And yeah I guess it's that important
My mother was literally arguing with me when I mentioned getting a flat downtown, she was like "who are you trying to impress?????"
But I guess appearance is important, thanks for the confirmation user
They're old af now anyways, always talking about the past and how the world is going to shit etc, pretty depressing to be around it
Thx for reading my blog
I'm confused, what are you saving up money for? What's your end goal?
just don't be a manchild and women won't care
>My mother was literally arguing with me when I mentioned getting a flat downtown, she was like "who are you trying to impress?????"
This is literally the whole point if living on your own. Parents will coddle you no matter your age if you live with them. You're forever their kid and they'll treat you as such. In an environment like that you'll recess mentally and emotionally whether you mean to or not. That's also why it's such a massive red flag when it comes to dating.a
That makes a lot of sense.
I couldn't afford to move out after getting kicked out of college and got wrongfully (but legally) fired from the job that I was on my way to moving out with. I absolutely hate myself. Sometimes I'll go be homeless just to not be living with my parents at my age. I'm not trying to impress anyone by doing it, I just absolutely hate myself and can hardly function as a person, particularly in school. I can work a mcjob all day but when I'm lying down to go to sleep I feel like the only way to spare myself the shame is to kill myself desu.
800 bucks a month is not enough for food rent and utilities if you live in America, jack.
You touched me. Kinda same situation here, the laying down overwhelming feelings part, is only when I don't pass out overexhausted (50% of the time). Sober, starting smoking though, having hated it all my life. Failure. I don't even know if fighting depression will make any sense, it seems like an aftermath. Fuck, confused
If you like your family and they don’t mind, stay. Accumulate enough to buy a house, or your parents house. You should definitely contribute to your parents though.
>This is literally the whole point if living on your own
Trufbomb
Well there's also the whole, "want to come back to my place," situation but for whatever reason I don't feel like that's going to be an issue for this op.
I mean obviously if I had rivers of pussy lined up there wouldn't even be a question
the kind of women who wont fuck you in your room is the same kind of women who wont fuck you because le kids will hear it when you are married
Interesting point
I mean....
If you don't actually care about living on your own then save your money dude. Why the fuck would you waste rent money for no reason? Save that money up and put a big down payment on a house or something when you actually want to live on your own.
You would think; I have a lot of ass coming to me to the point I don't reach out anymore, but this wasn't it at all. Was hoping that this would be it, maybe I'm thinking about it wrong, maybe the possibilities would be endless if I lived alone, maybe the scared decisions now obscure the real life picture