Is it just chance or am I looking for it subconsciously?

My first GF (I was 16) had a boyfriend when we started making out. She eventually left him for me.

Since then, I've fucked 9 other girls (numbers are important here). Counting my first gf, among these girls:
> 4 of them were single.
> 1 was a huge crush for one of my friends (it felt like cheating, we had to cover it up).
> 5 had a bf.

I've never enjoyed to cuck those guys, I do not actively seek this, I even try to avoid it, but those girls threw themselves at me. It's like if I were much more attractive for girls with a bf than for girls who are single. But that would be stupid, so I suspect that I probably treat them differently, even if I don't notice it.

Are those numbers normal? I mean, I've fucked more girls with a boyfriend than girls who were single. Am I subconsciously seeking this since my first relationship started by cheating? Any similar experiences?

And no, this is not to brag about it. I genuinely dislike this trend.

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The fact that I've fucked many MANY girls with boyfriends is the reason I find it really hard to trust a girlfriend in the first place. It's normal, way too normal.

Then again, what the mind is focused on the mind tends to revolve around. What I mean is, maybe if we had the morals to respect a relationship, even though it's the guys fault for not breaking up with her or the girls fault for being a cunt, maybe we wouldn't be having these thoughts and thus would never be with a girl who would do that. Then again, ignornace=bliss until you fuck half a century.

Contradicting myself, good question though.

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>is the reason I find it really hard to trust a girlfriend in the first place

OP here, that's so true for me too man. I've seen the dark side of things from the safety place and the things those girls did... I would never be able to do that to my gf (I've never cheated myself on any of my gfs).

How was your first relationship? Did it involve cheating too?

I was the one cheating.. Or since it was high-school I would "technically be broken up". She stayed through 4 years of that. I lost the only girl I ever loved though, so karma got its worth. I only realized that later after the final breakup.

>I've fucked more girls with a boyfriend than girls who were single
Normal but actually if I were to pick at random 9 of the girls I fucked 7 of the 9 would have a bf, fiancee or husband. All 7 initiated and in most cases aggressively so and only one of the 2 (the one with a fiancee and one married) abruptly left their partner expecting me to be their man. Most didn't want to fuck up their relationship but did not want to pass on an opportunity to fuck me.

I will say I never fucked the gf or wife of a real friend though the gf or wife bluntly told me they wanted to fuck, one even crawled into my bed and another tried to give me a bj.

OP girls with bf's or especially married women are really easy.

Are u jacked or chad-like?
Like wide shoulders to hip ratio, good genetic markers?

Girls will cheat on bfs for u easily when they ovulating and want alpha chad genes.

But I’m gonna assume ur not since ur on Jow Forums lol, so ya prob something to do w the girls you go after

So say we have a girlfriend? Like I picked this chick for the soul reason she is so kind and caring and is the opposite vibe of any chick I've fucked. She's actually gotten fat lol. But it's still in my mind that she might cheat and the fact that it's inevitable.

Is that the only thing, it's inevitable and to not even trip about it.. Just expect it and enjoy time with someone before it ends?

OP here. If you have that mindset while having a gf you're going to go crazy. If you trust her just trust her and that's it. If you don't have any reasons to be paranoid, try to control it.

Also, very valuable lesson I learnt from this. All those girls I fucked were TERRIBLE at hiding it from their bfs, at many times they just simply chose to not open their eyes. I know this may seem contradictory with what I just said, but it's not. Trust her. If she does something suspicious, try to reflect on it and settle only when you're convinced she hasn't cheated on you. But this shouldn't be happening like every month, if you're suspicious every month either she's really cheating or you're paranoid and not fit for a relationship. So in any of those two scenarios, you should break up with her

I'm kinda the wrong guy to ask since hearing some of these women lie to their SO so casually you can never know. Some even use their mom as cover. One I remember her mother dropped her off so her husband wouldn't see a car and then her mother picked her up. Another went away for a weekend with me, saying she was staying with her mother and her mother covered for her.

But to answer your question. There isn't a damn thing you can do to stop her. You cannot watch 24/7 and why should you. You just enjoy till its over.

I always refuse to listen to their drivel about their husband or bf, positive or negative but it pisses me off when I hear one say they love their bf or husband. They don't. They are selfish and want to fuck around whenever they have an opportunity and not fuck up their happy life and reputation.

You should be picky when selecting women and screening out girls who would probably cheat.

Realistically I think most women would cheat under the right circumstances, but at least date the least slutty types, and rlly work on yourself so that you are so good it’s hard for her to find better.

That means increasing your LMS, get jacked, be financially well off, and have a decent social circle, and then maybe you’ll have a big enough pool of potential partners you can find one that is wholesome and loyal.

But ya the average girl will def cheat the moment someone w better LMS comes along promise. So don’t even fucking think of dating women that go out drinking have piercings n tattoos n are edgy and wear revealing clothing because they want attention from as many guys as they can get it from, girls that have a lot of guy friends, etc

Think wholesome traditional girl who has had it instilled in her head from a very young age that sex is a sacred thing and it is only to be shared w the right person. I will NOT date a girl if she’s slept w 5 or more guys.

Studies show women w less sexual partners are less likely to cheat or divorce, because they value the relationship more clearly, when u have ton of casual sex, sex and relationships are just devalued and not a big deal, and they will continuously seek out the next high instead of appreciating what they have already

Supply n demand rlly it’s psychology, we value what’s hard to get and what is scarce

Pic semi related lol, girl recently cheated on bf when I put my hand on her thigh, she clearly was nervous and talked abt her bf, I didn’t move it, she never moved my hand away or told me no or to stop, eventually worked my way to her pussy and ya

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