What is wrong with me

I have some hobbies which mostly consists of painting and sketching. I guess im a little awkward in social situations and my sense of humor has been described as off putting.

Lower your standards you narcissistic cunt

And what's your style? Like clothes.

I think a weird sense of humour is ok. You'll just have to find someone who is compatible enough for you. Are the friends you ask out also awkward like you? They could just be pansies and nervous abt entering a relationship.

Jeans, jumpers, graphic t-shirts and shorts. Nothing especially interesting.

>pretty typical 'curvy' body type
That's actually gross.
Lose weight, but do do butt exercises. Will make you 300% more attractive not even kidding.

Especially if shes fat. Called herself curvy so its a possibility

A little of both I guess, some have been quite awkward like me and 1 or 2 have had quite a lot of confidence, one even telling me about how attractive he thought all of my friends are.

Im really not fat I've just got a large hip to waist ratio, I exercise daily and I weigh 130lbs.

How tall are you?
How big are your boobs?

>pretty typical 'curvy' body type.
Red flag.

Look unless your face is ugly as shit or you are fat finding a guy to at least go out with shouldn't be hard.

Give me a height and weight.

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Have you used a dating app or website?

5'5
on the larger side of a B cup

I don't know pounds and also that doesn't say anything if you don't give your height. I used to be a BMI of a little under 21 when I was 18 years old and was also never asked out even though I am not ugly. Now I'm 18.5 and it's ridiculous how many people call me pretty on a weekly basis.

I've used tinder but I didnt use it for very long, I kinda felt like I was being constantly judged.

>Im really not fat I've just got a large hip to waist ratio, I exercise daily and I weigh 130lbs.
ok nvm. Even if you were 5'5 that is a healthy weight.

Maybe its actually your personality. Try and walk me through some situations on why you think you're undateable. Maybe you just haven't been in the right places to get hit on?

Also don't try to find your BF at a party plz. Shit is like animal planet and motherfuckers will try to pork you faster than a meat processing plant. Go to smaller social events that interest you or meet friends of friends and shit.

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Damn you're at a good healthy weight. What a surprise.

Post face? Even if you're extremely average maybe we can make suggestions to help you fix up your appearance.

Are you loud? Obnoxious? Even some awkward people can be rude and annoying.

Just hop on Jow Forums or /soc/ and ask

Do you spend much time online? Ever make good friends over the internet? Would you be opposed to a Long Distance Relationship

I can tell you're both males. 130 lbs is really too much if you want to be considered attractive.

Im really bad at public social situations so most of the friends Ive made since leaving highschool have been through my other friends. I'll typically only talk to guys via text or if we're hanging out with our other friends and I guess I just act too much like a guy? Im usually the person come to for dating advice for getting with my friends and other then that conversations tend to lean towards video games and anime. I dont really know why im undateable.

Have you ever met a woman? I'm a girl also 130lbs but at 5'2. Healthy weight, toned up a little. At my weight but 3 inches taller she's pretty skinny. Said she exercises often too so she should have a good body.

I spend a lot of my time online, but I dont think I could ever handle a long distance relationship.

I dont feel comfortable with posting my face online sorry.
When I was younger I was quite loud, I wouldnt say obnoxious just never really knew what volume control was, I'd like to think I've improved since when I was 14.

I can tell you have never met a woman.

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>At my weight but 3 inches taller she's pretty skinny.
Maybe in your area it is pretty skinny, but what is considered attractive would be a much lower weight. I mean, look at porn. 90% of the female actresses have a BMI which is near or even underweight. Being lean makes your facial features more prominent and also makes your legs look longer (which is really desirable when you're female for some reason).
>Said she exercises often too so she should have a good body.
This doesn't mean anything honestly.

>I just act too much like a guy?
That cant be it. I think that is attractive. Well more attractive than some other basic thot who just wants to "Drinks, Travel, netflix, and adventure."

You aren't undateable you just need to go to more social events and meet people. You also are expecting men to knight in shining armor pick your ass up and take you out. A lot of men are fucking pussies. Especially now.

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Everyone is always being judged

The people you want to date should think you're amazing, or awesome, gorgeous even. You sound like a nerds wet dream. Try OkCupid or something slower than tinder.

>I mean, look at porn.
Holy fuck lmao you just get worse. You are really good at baiting.

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Fuck, actually made me laugh, but I am serious. Please believe me. I went from 55 kg to 48 and went from 'sure pretty cute' to 'goddamn you're gorgeous'. It's true I don't see many other females on a daily basis as I am in STEM and I am also incredibly socially awkward so I don't go to parties or anything. But I am pretty obsessed with what I look like so trust me on this one. Weight never mattered to me that much until I started eating more healthy and drinking only water and tea and I became pretty because of that.

Sho 'nuff
Master Baiter says
> I like a little agro in my women
Jinkies Definition says
>Fiona and cake leave me awake
IncelQUEEN
> MY SLAVES DON'T HAVE OPINIONS

Yeah and I went from fucking 90kg to 70kg. I know that weight loss really helps get you more attractive but homegirl the OP isn't fat. She can find a guy at the weight she is currently at.

Also you are telling me, a man, what is more attractive to men.

The only girl I ever committed to making a friend is YOUR weight. The only women I have gone after are OP's weight or heavier. The heavier one was 5'10 and had G cups so the fucking tits were probably 8kg alone.

Also take into account that you are a STEM major and a women are like fucking diamonds in the rough. So ofc they see you slim up and go "WEW MAMA"

t. Graduated 2017 as an industrial engineer. Shit is gay.

Nigger at least speak English when you bait.

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>She can find a guy at the weight she is currently at.
Well apparently she can't, else we wouldn't have this thread.
>Also you are telling me, a man, what is more attractive to men.
I literally just used porn as an example and got called out for that. From what I see is that only skinny women are usually deemed attractive and well average women are average really.
>So ofc they see you slim up and go "WEW MAMA"
Am not even talking about these guys as they were all too scared to talk to me.

>I literally just used porn as an example
Ok I'll play this game. Curvy girl porn. BBW porn. Shit is preference. You are deluding yourself. Also stop using porn as a standard for beauty that shit will rot your brain.

>Well apparently she can't, else we wouldn't have this thread.
We also have established that she isn't a hamplanet and therefore that shouldn't be the reason she isn't finding men. It more sounds like she just doesn't socialize enough evidenced by

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Are any of your friends girls? They can help you.

>using dots and big letters like a geek faggot on the internet
>raw deal
>will at least "check out the goods"
you lame ass hoe , seething

>(((slight))) jew nose
>pretty ''typical'' (((curvy))) body type
Get Jow Forums you fat kike.

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>Shit is preference.
But if you look at the quantity there is sure more skinny girl porn. Which I think would mean most men find skinny girls more desireable.
>Also stop using porn as a standard for beauty that shit will rot your brain.
That's true though, please help me get out of this. I can't stop thinking about getting breast augmentation.

Yeah, I have quite a few but whenever I bring it up they just say 'you're beautiful dont say you're unattractive' 'I dont think there's anything wrong with you' etc. I dont blame them I just think they've never had to deal with not being able to find dates.

>But if you look at the quantity there is sure more skinny girl porn. Which I think would mean most men find skinny girls more desirable.
>>Also stop using porn as a standard for beauty that shit will rot your brain.
>That's true though, please help me get out of this. I can't stop thinking about getting breast augmentation.
Holy shit this whole exchange. You need more help than OP.

Just try quitting porn. Ween off of it if you cant cold turkey it. I also used to have a really bad porn addiction. I quit when I couldn't get it up to the women I was having one night stands with. You are at lucky that that cant happen to you. Though I suppose you could be bone fuck dry when he goes in.

Still I implore you to quit. Flick your bean idc about that just flick your bean to thoughts and not 4k video of ultra light girls getting smashed and slammed.

Best of luck porn addict femanon.

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Yeah sounds like OP just needs to advertise herself.

Why don't you do porn?

Nobody asked OP to post a pic? Post a pic, OP.

She doesnt want to

Why not?

She said earlier she wasn't comfortable posting a pic

yea post pics or this thread is useless

That's weird. Why make a thread that obviously will have people being curious about her looks?

Im honestly just not comfortable, Im self conscious and I also just dont really want my face associated with anything on the internet

Smart move OP I want pics bad too
Guess it's back to the porn mines

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You should probably get naked and take a long look at yourself in the mirror.
Evaluate your strengths and weaknesses, and be honest.
Assuming you're not mentally sick, like anorexic, you'd probably get a good honest opinion of yourself.
After which, start working on yourself, maybe you need to work out more? Maybe you need to smell better? Or get rid of acne? Or be a nicer person?

smart call. female here

I'm 5' 11" and have weighed 130 while skinnymode, so unless you're shredded as fuck consider losing weight by changing your diet (assuming you were telling the truth about exercising daily). adjust your macros and go on a cut. take care of your skin and hair, make sure your teeth aren't gross / breath doesn't smell bad. wear clean clothes. shave. shower regularly.

Fuck it learn to dance while you're at it.

Just put on some makeup and revealing clothes and guys will notice

Well thag explains it. You aren't/weren't ugly, but like most teens, you weren't put together enough to attract someone in high school. Its pretty common.

Take care of yourself, find a good style blogger to follow, get some basic makeup skills, and get out there.

But don't give up based on prior experience. High school is weird.

Eh, you're probably decently cute, just lacking a bit in style and grace. Love a girl with good curves, kissable lips, etc.

Honestly maybe you’re just not attractive sorry

Awww! Well you’re the girl so you should play your girl role. I’m sure you’re beautiful! But every girl in the world can do something different with their hair or clothes. Less make up the better, don’t cake that shit on. It only makes you look insecure with a shit ton.
Also, don’t ask out guys. They ask you out

Juden raus!

Got a funny story like this.

It's how my uncle and aunt met. He was the first ever male attendee at the nursing school he went too, so he was getting a lot of attention.

But my aunt had broken her foot in a skating accident right before classes started, so she made a big show of her injury and got him to push her chair around and carry her books so she could monopolize him, and the rest is history.

did the guys give reasons to why they rejected you?

>curly hair
that might be it

>the majority of my friends have been guys
My two cents OP. This was me and every guy starts seeing you as one of the guys, even guys you aren't friends with. You also start acting like a guy and dressing like a guy. Like I had a big crush on one of my guys friends and put a little makeup on and wore a dress and he laughed at me so back to boy clothes I go.

But there is a way out OP. I stopped hanging out with guys if I was the only girl. I stopped being their emotional garbage dump (they would tell me things they wouldn't tell a guy friend because I was a girl, go figure) and, this was hard, I started dressing like a girl, got a girlish hair cut and let it grow and took better care of my skin (my mom and dad were relieved).

At first the guy friends mocked me but tried to hang around and I would walk away or not sit with them and little by little girls accepted me and befriended me and then guys were all over me.

This wasn't overnight but took 6 months of dedication. The first guy that asked me on a real DATE was my old friend crush and I turned him down and made sure other guys knew it. The second guy was a kinda popular football player but he was overweight so I turned him down as well. The third guy was a real popular guy on tennis team and I accepted but insisted he pick me up at my parents and meet them which he did.

Winning at dating every day since.

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