Am I a pussy for not asking girls out? How do you even do that? I didn't have dad to ask or anyone to learn from. What am I supposed to be doing?
Am I a pussy for not asking girls out? How do you even do that? I didn't have dad to ask or anyone to learn from...
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In a proletarian revolution, bourgeois scum like him are taken out into the woods, shot, and dumped in a mass grave.
>Likely reasons you can't get a girlfriend
Women have unrealistic standards and find most men to be unattractive
More like, there is this tiny vocal minority of angry basement-dwelling virgins who spread their lies on the internet.
How do I ask girls out
You just fucking ask them out. If they say no you move on it's seriously not that hard
Hi Anonette, would you like to join me for a coffee over lunch?
Hi my name is user, may I sit here?
Hi Anonette, I was thinking of going to this event this weekend, want to come with me?
“No.”
But what do I say to them
Lower your standards
Literally something like the post you replied to. Are you actually retarded?
"Okay."
Move on.
Like wtf is so hard about just becoming a relationship with someone? Wtf dude lmao. Just *become* attractive and none of this would be an issue haha
Hey do you want to hang out sometime. It doesn't matter the questions are all the same they'll say yes or no to the same thing you ask.
here's the autist's guide
>do something where people who don't really know each other are forced to talk like taking a college class or having a job
>casually converse with a girl within your strike zone enough times that she knows you're not a rapist or serial killer
>"so what do you like to do for fun, do you want to hang out and do on ?
>receive either "yes" or "no", rinse + repeat
>implying you need to ask girls out
That's what you get for getting advice from social media.
>Am I a pussy for not asking girls out?
I mean, yeah, obviously.
>How do you even do that?
>locate a female member of the same species you already know who doesn't seem to actively dislike you too much
>invite her to do some activity she is likely to enjoy in a casual way
What for?
>same species
Lmao are you gay or something?
But I don't know any girls
The fuck is your first point? Of course you ask girls out what are you talking about
Thank fuck got that covered.
You don't really have to. Displaying a few positive qualities and being SOMEWHAT social will make them ask you out.
Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong asking them out and it can make things easier but it's definitely not a must have as the pic suggests. Then again not being an asshole isn't as must have either as long as you assholeness isn't the most prominent quality.
Basically the point is, shit's easy.
i think he meant after that. At least that's how i feel. I don't like to talk to anyone and it's expected of the one who approaches to make covo not boring. But mostly I just want to be near a girl i like and be silent. you can do that when you're already in relationship, but not when you meet someone really. I'd guess a lot of anons have a similar "problem"
Where do young women hang out?
enroll as a student in a university, go to raves/shows/festivals, sit at a bar (different bars have different vibes and attract different groups), go skiing/snowboarding if location permits, go to the beach if location permits, etc. use your brain.
if you have no hobbies or social skills whatsoever, get a fuckin retail job your 20 year old female coworkers will be forced to talk to you.
Yikes but based.
How young we talking? I think I've seen some real young ones in the local kindergarten
>Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong asking them out and it can make things easier but it's definitely not a mus
It is in my experience. I've been attached by girls before but never asked out.
Tinder
Have a social life
Make friends
Meet girls.
Treat them as you would new male friends
If you have a connection with one (get along well, laugh a lot, have fun) talk more, find common ground.
Ask on date.
That's how it's done. Easy mode. No weird gimmicks, no cold approaching which is largely considered very rude and socially unnacceptable, no awkward ass sliding into dms.
Just meet people.
>Meet girls.
>Treat them as you would new male friends
This doesn't work. Any girl I have become friends with refuses to date me, even when they have told other friends of their feelings towards me. Have to have the soul intention to dating them from the start and they have to know it.
You're messing up the process. It works fine. If they told her friends her feelings you were doing well and you messed something up on the way.
Didn't act, didn't show interest, said something or acted some way that demolished her attraction.
>in my experience
>I have zero experience
You're not supposed to just ask out random girls, you ask out girls who have been dropping hints that they're into you. I don't think you guys understand how many come-ons the average girl gets and has to to reject, girls have possibly dozens of guys to choose from at any given time and are only going to give chances to guys they've already decided they're interested in.
Existential Comics suffers from the age-old problem of smart people being fair and intelligent in their treatment of all ideas that don't directly conflict with their own dogma.
Occams razor
- you are ugly
Ask any real human female how many guys she sees on a daily basis she finds attractive. Only 1 in 140 guys will fit the bill
>dropping hints
also >you need a written consent to look at a girl or it's considered rape
women pls nerf
>Have a social life
>Make friends
I'm out
>imagine someone with that avatar giving life lessons
Millennials and zoomers sure are an wonderful sight to behold. I hope you're enjoying yourselves, too
where do I even meet girls?
>radishmag.wordpress.com
>radishmag.wordpress.com
>breitbart.com
>breitbart.com
>whoism3.wordpress.com
It's not necessarily your fault, OP, but it never hurts to really take initiative when it comes to your dating life. My advice? Get female friends first. Find out about their personal lives and understand how they appreciate being approached or their interests. Apply as praxis when approaching dating.
>having a job
yikes
How do you get female friends if you don't know anybody and graduated high school, I am 18
College helps. Dating apps are an option too if you're feeling particularly brave.
College doesnt help desu. everyone is already settled into their own cliques by then. Cant break into cliques if youre not a normie
Nah, I've had a few times when a girl thought I was violating consent somehow and she just bitched at me for a moment, nothing else came of it.
>nothing else came of it
but it can and that scares me more than anything else about women
I'm not a normie and I thrived at collrge. This isn't the eighties anymore, geeks and losers count as a clique too. You find a real honest to god place when you leave home and go to college. Spent the last two years on campus and my self esteem and social life have both skyrocketed.
This. I've been at college for two years. No one has ever tried welcoming me to anything, which is how the normies (my family) said it would be before I even enrolled. I don't mind, it's just funny to see how little these people actually know
Well then you're a pussy, life is full of danger and you have to get shit done regardless.
You don't *have* to. You choose to.
I lost my virginity at 19 to a hooker, now I regularly go on dates with nice women. Here's my step to step guide how to develop an outgoing persona
>get male friends who fuck
>watch said friends interact with and pick up women
>ask them for advice with women, don't be ashamed, chads are always glad to help. They deal with the same rejection and heartbreak as anyone
This is basically what most men need, other men. You'll basically learn how to behave like a man by being around other men
>try out a hobby where groups of people meet, for me it was combat sports
>ease into the group, become friends with people, that takes a year or two
>since people leave and join you'll get to know new people constantly. Learn how to make smalltalk with newcomers. Basic stuff, like the weather, work, family, other background stuff. You don't have to tell cool stories or make them think you're the coolest. You'll notice most people love it when someone is genuinly interested in who they are and what they do. That also shows confidence from your side
>get proficient at said hobby
women love it when you are passionate about something + A sport deveops your body and spirit + you ease into getting to know people and doing stuff with others. This is basically how you learn to get out of your shell.
>watch how you dress, you don't have to be a fashion model but nothing is worse then a guy who looks like he gets dressed by his mom
>get a nice perfume, regularly get a haircut and groom well
This stuff takes years to develop, but make it a habit of meeting other guys, following a hobby and taking care of yourself and you'll develop into a presentable man iver the years
*lowers subjective qualifications*
“No.”
*moves on*
“No.”
>"so what do you like to do for fun, do you want to hang out and do on ?
“No.”
This is what I do, OP:
>talk to girl
>after a while, maybe I managed to get her to laugh
>notice that it seems we are getting along because of her body language, eye contact, etc.
>before she leaves ask her if she would like to meet and have coffee some day
I got rejected every time.
This is the logicians answer right here, but unfortunately for all of us women rarely care about logic. You gotta try and keep trying when you want something from other people.
literally this you retards all sound like jocks.
"What tha matter kid? TO MUCH A PUSSY TO PLAY FOOTBALL?"
"No, I just think 1 minute of fun for a possibility of a fractured skull is not really my thing"
like I don't even want to get a gf, mostly because i don't like to live with people, or have someone for who i must care, like if i forget her birthday she'd get mad, i'd have to do stuff i don't like and that stuff. I just pointed out their double standards.
It's simple really, I loose interest in pussy after jerking off and it's risk free. I know that if I were even accused of rape and defended myself in court I'd always be labeled as one. It's a risk I don't want to take. Just like I won't jump into a barrel full of snakes since it would give me little to no pleasure and risk is quite high. It's standard risk assessment.
I graduated college having asked 1 girl on a date (she said yes but turned out she was a camwhore who wanted to peg me). My last semester there was one biological female and she was 300lbs.
I am now working as a computer programmer and exclusively work with 30-60 year old dudes who work on ibm mainframes.
I also moved to a new town and am still working on having regular friends.
I am a 25 year old kissless virgin.
okay, let me get a job first
>Have a social life
explain how
>get male friends who fuck
EXPLAIN HOW
Holy shit you're stupid, do you avoid going outside to prevent skin cancer too? Because anything that is even theoretically dangerous is the same as jumping into a barrel of snakes?
Opposite for me. College crushed my self esteem to the ground. Made not a single friend the 6 years i spent there
Yeah for normies. They make friends by osmosis. Just bring around other normies. For robots, we are like noble gases, cannot react with them so to speak.
I haven't been in high school for a while, but is it true that girls don't like assholes?
>9th grade, age 15
>timid, submissive, and never spoke unless spoken to, but very sweet and friendly whenever anyone did speak to me
>not a drop of anger in me
>invisible to girls (and everyone)
>12th grade, age 18
>constantly radiated anger and intensity at all times
>openly cussed and slammed things around when annoyed or in a bad mood (which was always)
>grumpy, disagreeable, unfriendly to everyone
>had a couple of girls like me when I was in this state
Why turn down camwhore? She sounds kinky
Girls like guys that are caring towards them but willing to get aggressive when it's necessary.
I tried but she immediately stopped being keen when i turned down my butthole being poked.
Forget college, did you go to school? Osmosis and noble gases don't fit the same metaphor
Likely reasons you can't get a girlfriend:
Girls are too sexist to ask men on dates and postmodern neo-marxist feminists at universities prevent us from making meaningful progress on eliminating traditional gender roles because the feminists who infiltrated universities love sexist double standards that benefit women.
Anyway to answer your question you obviously have to ignore averything feminists tell you. Women do not want to be treated like equals. You also can't respect them too much, because that respect makes you care about being rejected.
See:
most of them are going to say no because is unironically correct. So you just have to prepare yourself for this and accept that she's probably going to say no. Then you move on. Just start asking girls out, eventually it gets easier. It will also make you more confident and assertive in the rest of your life.
Also be direct. Don't ask to "hang out" or other vague bullshit like that if you're asking her on a date make sure you ask her on a date.
Why not? Pegging is kinda hot
Women today believe men are very dangerous so unless vetted by her friends, good luck getting with one.
That twitter account belongs to ExistentialComics.com. They are the best spot on the internet to learn philosophy. I think the avatar is Simone De Beauvoir (I could be wrong).
This
I feel that this exact thread is the only reason any of you dumb fucks can't get a girlfriend. You have never taken a risk and asked a girl to spend time with you.
Hey, what yours name, I think your cute, want to join me for coffee tonight, what's your number, see you at 7.
it's not fucking hard, but you're too much of a pussy to ask for what you want. Which I'm glad about, it means there is a ton of un used pussy just waiting until I and the rest of the chads ask a bitch out.
Meanwhile you get to die alone because you a bitch,
>casually converse with a girl within your strike zone enough times that she knows you're not a rapist or serial killer
You said this was a guide for autists
>do you avoid going outside to prevent skin cancer too
a lot of people do exactly that
Become a regular at anything, talk to people just to talk to people, find a girl that you fancy, ask her out after a few weeks of being a regular. 50/50 chance she will say yes.
the best explanation ever.
It's not a guarantee. I asked out A LOT of girls. The very few who said yes later canceled or ghosted.
>"erm no"
Or even worse
>pretends to not even hear you
My problem is "being social" in the first place. I'm a schizoid that nonetheless wants to have a family, and socializing is a prerequisite for that. But I get tired of it really fucking quickly even if it's okay enough to not explicitly avoid doing. Idle banter with coworkers makes me want to find some extra work to do if it goes on for more than a minute. Thinking about deliberately doing something like "go a bar" or "take dancing lessons" just to meet people is almost painful.
>Likely reasons you can't get a girlfriend:
>Girls are too sexist to ask men on dates
Nah mate, I've been asked out a few times by different girls. My wife is actually the one who asked me out.
Fuck this is accurate. Talking to people beyond my family is quite literally draining for me. I can't get away soon enough when they start asking me stupid questions and shit. No, I didn't watch the game last night. No, I don't watch tv. No no no.
Attractive guys get asked out. That's no secret at this point
You're full of shit.
>coffee some day
Say "coffee next wednesday" and you'll have a date
>breitbart.com
This is horrifying, doubly so because it's accurate. Fuck this gay earth.
You just talk to them and get to know them a little bit. Try to relate to them in different ways and then ask them out to do some things you both would like. They’ll either accept or decline.
I’ve been rejected multiple times and it sucks, but you get over it. Just don’t get hung up on any particular girl.
this, during my chad fase I found out girls would ask you out, or even go to fuck by being slightly over-the-standard. It's not hard to go to a disco and be showing off muscles and acting like a manly fuck around other friends or even other girls, and just get asked. But I don't know if OP could achieve it.
>I am a 25 year old kissless virgin.
Do you work out?
Sounds good to me
You're just confirming that he shouldn't treat them like male friends? Or do you create sexual tension with dudes?
Poop is gross and i dont think shit going in my butthole would feel good.
No.
Also i dont want to be dominated.
see you don't want help, you want to get engry
I like how there's an implicit assumption that I should have to ask women out while also shifting blame from a political movement designed to equalize men and women... the hypocrisy is staggering.
Why cant you ask women out?
I could and have but why should it be expected of me based on my gender? Why is their value assumed while mine has to be proven?
My issue is that women don't go to most places I see them (I work 9-5 at an all male workplace) such as fast food joints or department stores, they're there to buy whatever they need and leave. Dont want to bother them. Ideally there would be some place where you know a women who is there is looking for a relationship so dont feel guilty about approaching but as far as I can tell no such place exists, at least not in a rural area like where I live.
If she doesnt have value why would you ask her out or accept being asked out?
Nothing comes out of nowhere right on your lap.
Having that in mind, it's obvious you should ask girls out. They aren't psychic.
What do you do with a guy?
You talk small stuff first, get to know each other better, talk about better stuff and eventually go out for beers, right?
Same with women. Just add another step by the end of it that if both of you click, you get a gf.