Why does supporting a man who doesn't already have his life together bother woman so much...

Why does supporting a man who doesn't already have his life together bother woman so much? What happened to gender equality?

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Forget politics, they are hard wired to desire a man that can support them with food and shelter, and physically protect them. Thats fuckin it. Stop applying logic to this shit.

Why do you have such low standards that you don't want to date a girl with HER life together? Let's get it straight, you just want some pussy and you don't want to try at life at all. But you're gonna be the first motherfucker to pop out and go "oh man single moms made such bad decisions and they're not worth my time because they fucked a guy who would ditch them" when you're older.

And no, I'm not a woman, I'm someone who had to be capable of standing on his own two feet before dating, not bitching that it's unfair. Fuck you and grow up.

I should have added to this - I know your fucking type. If you were ACTUALLY trying to get your life together, you wouldn't have this problem, because most everyone can accept someone with goals and ambition needing to work their way towards it. You, like my old fat roommate, probably have had nothing but bottom of the barrel shift work jobs, and come home and whine about how hard it was and how your boss never lets you get ahead or something. You are a victim to the world with no actual drive, and again, fuck you and grow up.

>What happened to gender equality?
It never existed, you dumb incel. Pretending that it does is part of the problem.

Didn't the wife of Conor McGregor date him while he was a homeless fuck because he was working towards his goal too?

>a man who doesn't already have his life together
Doesn't say much. Could be a neet playing vidya all day and someone jumping from shitty jobs to afford a sound engineer for their soundcloud mixtape. People are generally willing to stick it out with someone in a shitty situation who is clearly working towards something. Spending their time on a loser who shows no initiative and wants a mommy? That's a big ask.

Men are suppose to be strong, able bodied and potential provider for their mates.

Women are suppose to be strong, able bodied, coddled like a baby, and potentially be a mother to children.

Shit like this happens and society is hardwired to accept it. It's all about choice, women are the selectors in the dating pool. Why should a woman settle for a man that has no goals or prospects? When in this social media age a woman can get many different options at a download of an app.

Still it's shit if you view it from an "everyone is equal" view. But in reality men and women aren't above the norms of society.

I actually have a six figure salary job and want to kill myself. I have no goals in life so i just did whatever and wound up here. Jokes on you, hussie

>I have no goals in life
So you're exactly the total fuck up type he described?

Women are taught from early on to "marry up" and not to get with a guy with low potential. If you had a daughter, what would you rather marry? A student studying for his doctorate or a stoner skater living on his buddys couch?

not op,
This is stupid and it's the reason why women should stay at home.

The appropriate partnership is just that, a partnership. You don't run successful companies, team projects, anything with multiple people by having them do the same thing. The intelligent way to run a family is to have one person concentrate completely on their career. This should take up so much of their time that they don't have time to clean the house and take care of the kids. That means that the other person should dedicate their time to just that so that the other person has time to completely focus on their career and so that the kids consistently have a loving parent around. This is definitely the better case because concentrating that much on a career tends to lead to hire wages combined with overtime wages. Two people half-assing both family and careers fail at both. (I will say that something like a part time job given todays technology making taking care of the house so easy is reasonable). The only reason for the relationship is to maximize the success of your family, not the parents. The vast majority of women exhibit extreme dissatisfaction with stay at home dads that do a fantastic job of it. If they could grow some ovaries and stick to the plan it would be fine but it seems by and large the can't or won't. Implying that wanting to have a perfectly functioning household is a lack of ambition is ridiculous. How is working to support a family to the upmost not ambitious? Guys want women like that to be their support so that they can do even better and so that their kids can do even better. Not because our standards are so low that we don't want an ambitious girl. You shit on womens free choice to be stay at home mothers and belittle their accomplishments and I find that to be horrifying.

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> 6 fig sal
> fuck up

So? If your only achievement in life is increasing the number of fiat dollars you have, it's a total waste of life. What do you actually have to offer to others? It's not even enough to feel less shitty about yourself, and it's absolutely worthless in the context of human relationships if you want to be perceived as more than a cash machine.

I.E. when you think you've finally passed all the hurdles there's just another fucking hurdle to jump over.

I know tons of couples where the guy is a smart and attractive fuck up and the girl is a successful career woman who got a slightly hotter guy than average and absolutely loves him for it. It is actual true gender equality where many men have meh bullshit jobs and just look hot while wife makes the money. It's not the worst thing in the world. Twitter is just full of crybabies and negative shitheads doing everything for a fucking like

Cash machines are extremely efficient at supporting families. Possibly, supporting a family is something to feel good about. That's what I would suggest to the 6 fig man. I think you're just projecting your failures onto that man though because it's kind of a bit much to say he's a fuck up. Reaching a goal usually ends up with that feeling until a person realizes a new one non goal achieving noob.

>A student studying for his doctorate or a stoner skater living on his buddys couch

I would prefer my daughter marry an attractive man that she loves so I will have strong and attractive grandchildren in a loving home. A "pragmatic" rich nerd husband could only give me neurotic infertile grandchildren raised in a potentially cold, unloving household. No thank you! Money is not that important

How does one acquire a rich wife?

>Cash machines are extremely efficient at supporting families.
Financially. Kids need a tad more. And a potential baby momma has to be quite desperate to go for someone who only has cash machine as the positive quality; which wouldn't make her the optimal baby momma and so on.

>it's kind of a bit much to say he's a fuck up
Failure is basically giving up, and not pursuing anything sounds even worse than giving up, and the perfect definition of a fuck up, whether the person has billions or nothing. It's not like being a fuck up is a permanent thing. user has all the means and time to make something out of himself.

>Reaching a goal usually ends up with that feeling until a person realizes a new one non goal achieving noob.
Tried to read it four times, tried to put a comma into it ... I still don't get what you tried to say.

Be handsome and talk to everyone I guess. I have seen female med students that looked fuckable on dating sites, where I could tell she would think I was really hot by her standards.. If you are willing to go for someone a little less attractive, you can easily find someone who makes more money than you. Personally I am attracted to women I see who are leaders / successful / boss other women around so it is already there

Women are extremely sexist despite them telling you they aren't. In fact, in most things, women will say one thing and do another.

It's a good thing I have a nice face, work out, and am good with kids then

1 and 2 are fair enough. Essentially what I would think about that dude.
The end is basically answered by the end of your second point.
Non goal achieving noob was an insult implying that you've never actually completed a long goal that took nearly your whole focus. Getting to the end of something and completing that goal feels fantastic but the feeling wears off. Sometimes it's hard to find something that seems meaningful to do after that. Sometimes inspiration doesn't strike right away and a person is just left with what they've accomplished. It seems to usually be the case when they're not concentrated on fully building themselves mentally, physically, and spiritually. For somebody like 6figboi it's probably that seeing wealthy people generally being happy and being told that being wealthy was a good thing was his primary reason for doing what he did and now that he is he realizes he never actually had a reason for it. He probably never knew that the vast majority of wealthy people are so as a result of being strong in mind, body, and spirit as opposed to the money making you strong in those.

>Getting to the end of something and completing that goal feels fantastic but the feeling wears off
Hell, that's an understatement. At least for me it barely lasted two days. Though learned a lot of the shit you mentioned on the way there, so knew how to appreciate the little steps and generally stopped viewing goals as final destinations, just milestones on a way which leads to who fucking knows where.

>it's probably that seeing wealthy people generally being happy and being told that being wealthy was a good thing was his primary reason for doing what he did
Sure, can't even blame him approaching it from that perspective given how often society repeats the stuff while often skipping the neaty gritty details. At least he's in a pretty solid position to reassess his priorities and set sights on other things. I know far too many boomers who got it only in their mid fifties.

Maybe she actually thought it was his mom?

That post caused a huge shitstorm and woman shitted all over the guy.

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What the fuck is wrong with humanity? He was obviously going through a rough time, if anything it shows how little material things matter. Why does that bother people so much? If anything she should be praised for her selflessness.

>women

I mean, if were starting a counter comment storm of praise for this woman i'll make a twitter for it