ITT: Ask about the opposite gender anything

I did. It tasted like bitter watery boogers

If anything, see if you can approach her after you're both done with your workouts.

Like the other user said, I like taking control of my boyfriend’s pleasure. I want to be an active and enthusiastic participant during sex, and playing with his penis and sucking on it gets a lot of great reactions from him.

I haven’t tasted semen yet, but I imagine it’s disgusting.

does he drain a lot of pre cum before you start sucking on his penis? My penis will drain and drain and drain loads of clear pre-cum even before it’s touched

Precum doesn't taste anything like cum. I love the taste of precum, cum makes me kinda gag.

What’s the difference

I don’t think so, no.

It's a different liquid made by different glands and serves a different function.
It is a completely separate thing and tastes different because it's... a different liquid. It's like asking why pee doesn't taste like cum.

Precum has little to no actual sperm in it. It’s just the stuff that holds sperm when you blow your load, without sperm.

The vagina is acidic and sperm is basic to counteract it/survive the environment. Thus, sperm is bitter. Precum just tastes like the salty watery stuff that leaks from your nose when you cry.

Interesting

So am I just a freak because my penis will literally drain tons of pre-cum before even being touched? If I’m with a girl, by the time my underwear comes off, my underwear is drenched in pre cum. It’s almost like leaving the sink on a very slow drip. But it just doesn’t stop

No? Everyone’s different. That doesn’t mean it’s bad.

>It’s just the stuff that holds sperm when you blow your load, without sperm.
No, it isn't.
Precum is produced by Cowper glands, and it serves the function of lubricating the head of the penis during penetration.
The liquid part of cum is produced by seminal vesicles. Cum is overall produced by testes, prostate and seminal vesicles.

No, it's normal and healthy.

my ex gf said she had never seen that happen before. It’s really a lot of pre cum. I feel embarrassed

Just because your ex is ignorant doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
No need to feel embarrassed over your body doing what it is meant for. It's like saying "wow gross, your pussy is getting wet, it's almost like you want to fuck me".

Is it wrong to assume a relationship isn't serious when starting to date again and not ask if they're seeing anyone else at the moment?

I just started trying to see girls again 2 years after a very odd breakup with a long time gf (I didn't date or hookup with anyone during those 2 years). Now that I'm back in the scene I started talking to 2 girls from a dating app. Girl 1 I've already been on 3 dates with and we've been hooking up on each. Cool girl but suuuper quiet and maybe gets back to my text twice a day. The 2nd I'm gonna see on friday for the first time cause of our odd schedules but we text constantly.

I like the first girl and can tell she likes me but since we rarely talk via text about thu day and see each other only once a week so I dont think it's a serious relationship atm (which I don't want right now anyway). I'm worried tho that when I see the 2nd girl shes gonna think it's a serious relationship since we talk so much and I kinda got the hint she may not be seeing anyone else atm (I don't think the 1st girl is either).

I just don't want to jump into a serious relationship and I feel like I'm stunting myself from finding the right someone if I just see 1 person at a time.

Why do people hold it against you if you don't date?

They find it weird

Seeking love (from family, friends or a SO) is extremely natural and probably the most human desire that there is.
It's weird when people don't want it.

Just lie and say you do
We had dinner and good conversation or went to movie or whatever. Then when people ask to meet you just say you/they didn't click
Makes you fly below normie radar

It's a little harder conceal since I get pressured to talk to girls who apparently like me, get hit on, etc. I'd rather not deal with this garbage, but it keeps coming after me anyway

>Mostly for the same reason.
Would this reason be (close to) just enjoying the conversation for the sake of it?

Either that, making friends or networking.
I sometimes talk to people because we're in the same place at the same time and it's fine to chat. Or talk to people because I want to build a deeper emotional relationship with them, since they seem alright human beings. Or because it's useful to know people who do the same job as me.
Or a mix of those.

You're a cutie, thanks for answering.

I'm seeing someone.
Then use the made up story

but it’s hard to lie about

How about you just fucking say you're not interested in dating right now, nobody will give two shits

How do I stop being a creep? I've been to an all boys school and don't smile a lot, so I dunno how the fuck to talk to women without sounding like a creep. I've been practicing small talk to improve this problem but I'm too scared to ask them out in fear of being labeled a weirdo or known as "that guy".

Honestly your best bet is to watch porn tutorials. There's one where like this semi haggard old porn star is teaching the watcher what to do. Seemed like a good starting point but I didn't watch it all the way

My best advice tho is to go slow and don't attack the clit. Suck/lick surrounding areas and do strong flat licks with your tongue (like it's a table) over the clit area. Guys always go in for the clit hard and intense and that's not any good. Imagine if a woman does that to the head of the penis?

Women do because they feel threatened by independent men, seriously. They have absolutely no power over us than pleasure and allure. If you can overcome that, then you are completely liberated from women and it terrifies them.

>How do I stop being a creep?
Creepiness is ambiguity. It's when your actions or words could mean more than one thing, especially when one possibility is sexual.

To stop being creepy, just be direct in your words and actions.

Just trying to find this post...

here is a quick rundown of my current situation:
>know girl since october last year
>only talk over the phone but not regularly, probably once or twice a month.
>girl lives 600 km away from me
>finally gather up the courage and tell her whether she will be interested in meeting me in person as I can travel to her city
>she says we can meet this weekend because she is coming to a city near me (she got an exam)
>I say cool but I get cold feet and i tell her "nah, we don't have enough time, we only have a three hour window to meet, let's do this later"
>ignores me and still tells me about her available times
>finally buy a train ticket and will meet her this saturday
what are the chances that she is into me?

>To stop being creepy, just be direct in your words and actions.
I never thought of it like that, that makes sense. But isn't being too direct awful as well? I can't say to someone "hey you're pretty cool, would you like to have coffee to get to know each other better?" without sounding pushy, but I guess I need to practice more.

I like it because I like how the guy reacts. Also like how it can be a little degrading /I have a submissive streak.

Semen tastes bitter/salty. Like coconut water.
It tastes worse if the guy has been drinking, recently, smoking, or eating poorly. The texture is terrible (clumpy) if the guy hasn't came in a while. Make sure you are not dehydrated and always wash your penis (and the surrounding area-including your ass. It smells down there seriously. Just get in the shower and lather up your entire lower half , rinse and repeat) if a girl is coming over and you think she might give you head. I gave my ex head alot because he was an appreciative recipient and always washed before . There was no smell and it was downright enjoyable

Asking people out is as much of a skill as making small talk and smiling. It's all practice. I have very difficult time with it too. I wasted so much chances in my life that it's kinda sad. Since it's all practice I consider doing one of these stupid challenges you sometimes see on youtube, where a guy just asks people out without any motive behind it, just for the sake of it.

I'm never going to be free from people trying to fuck me, am I?

>But isn't being too direct awful as well?
No. You should put girls on the spot, and leave the decision completely to them. No pressure either way. The mistake guys make (and I think this is what you're talking about) is when they pressure her for a certain answer.

Like if I ask a girl out and she says yes, I'll be happy, but no then I'm unhappy and possibly stop being her friend...

Well that's pushy. You have to lay the choice on them, but also completely accept whatever answer you get.

>Hanging out with girl I matched with (3rd time)
>Kinda like her so I gotta make some kinda move
>Nearing the end of the day I tell her I like spending time with her
>Says "yeah, it's pretty chill"
So that's a wash right? I'll still hang out with her cause she's awesome, but there's no gf potential right?

the only way to know is to go balls to the wall and ask her directly. Something like holding her hand when you're together (when the right moment presents itself). If she goes along with it then you're cool. If you expect her to make the first move then you'll be friendzoned, period.

How many women would rape a man if they could? Do men rape a lot because we’re more aggressive, or would women do it as much as men if they were equally strong and their genitals were preventative one too?

How unattractive are skinny guys really? I have a good face and have been told I would be at least a 9/10 if I put on muscle. I fucking suck at doing that though and just want a girls opinion not a pasty incel

I'd never do it. I can't imagine being the kind of person who hurts others in that way for her personal pleasure.

>go to festival with friends
>female friend gets drugged and raped one night
>puts a big downer on things, she goes home early
>...
>when I go back to work, talk to another "friend" that wasn't at the festival and doesn't even know the girl, but I had previously mentioned that something bad happened to her
>I joke around that I nearly got into a few fights at the festival
>"Well if you were so tough, where were you when she got raped?"
>"No mate, that's not something you get to joke about"
>"I'm not joking. Maybe if you had been with her and not partying somewhere else, it wouldn't have happened"
>says all this with a shit eating grin on his face

Is he being unfair? I came so close to punching him, I think that's the angriest I've felt in years

Is anyone else terrified of asking out multiple girls from the same circle? It's my biggest fear, even if they aren't friends with one another. The only girls I know right now are from my college classes and I got rejected by one girl. Pursuing other girls further in this circle of people is making me uncomfortable.

maybe don't go to the kinds of places where that shit happens

nah, i once asked two girls who were actually cousins. if anyone doubts a thing just say "we're just friends, tee hee" and once you like a girl friendzone the rest.

There are thousands upon thousands of people at festivals that it doesn't happen to though

Someone posted something similar to this a few days ago.

He's right. I don't understand what you have to feel angry about. If someone is speaking the truth, no matter how much it hurts, you have no reason to be angry at the person.

>Is he being unfair? I came so close to punching him
As someone who's recovered from violent anger problems, I'm telling you to get help. You have a problem.

also
>unfair
Life is unfair. Fairness is not real, it's just an emotion. It's mainly used by women and children to take things (in order to survive) when they can't give anything in return. As a man, you should not be fair. And if 'fairness' is ever leading to violence, then you have a serious problem controlling your jealousy.

Get a grip mate. Calm down. Then think, alone, in private, VERY HONESTLY with yourself about everything that happened and everything that you are feeling.

sure but they still attract the dregs of society, lots of drinking and drugs, to the point that you can't honestly say that in some very small way you didn't see this coming

Read the OP

I agree. If I ever go with a girl.. and I will soon.... I will be by her side 24/7. I've heard too many stories like this in my life to ever take a chance. It only take a minute for something awful to happen.

Plus she'll have the benefit of feeling loved and protected. I want her to feel proud to have me as her boyfriend and I think showing unbreakable loyalty would make her feel special.

I saw Jordan Peterson mentioned and fucked off. That dude is a fucking loser. I just want to hear from a girl.

The guy told the truth, yet he didn't have to say it with a grin on his face if he was being serious, I could see how that would be frustrating. On another hand OP doesn't have any obligation to look after his female friends all the time, depending how well they know each other, and how many people were there in general. It's a festival, and it should be in her best interest to not get her beer spiked, and follow the group.

As a male me neither. Yesterday i read a thread were some woman was talking about how her neighbour groomed and raped her when she was 17. It was sad as fuck. I was thinking about it a lot. I can’t imagine hurting someone like that for sexual gratification. I don’t think I could be turned on at all knowing i was hurting someone. It’s kinda haunting shit to me.

this
am also a skinny guy

>yet he didn't have to say it with a grin on his face if he was being serious
Man this is some petty shit. No offense but how old are you? Are you still a teenager? If so, then it's appropriate for you to feel this way, but it's time to start taking things in a different light.

The truth told with a smile/frown/scowl/shout/sob/whisper..... is STILL THE TRUTH. Man there are so many people in the world that will lie to you. So many.... I would feel so endlessly grateful to have this friend who speaks the truth, than spend any second thinking about how he said it.

Rude? Sure. I'll give it to you. But your reaction is completely up to you. You would have turned to his rude face and said 'You know mate, actually, you're right. I know your breaking my balls right now, but you're right. This is something I'll have to this over and now that you mention it, maybe I owe her an apology. Thanks'

Just think about it. I'm not trying to hound you, I'm really trying to help and lift your mindset.

>it should be in her best interest to not get her beer spiked
No, friends look out for each other. Responsibility is shared. We're not alone in this world/universe.

Inappropriate. You meet people everywhere and I'm fine with someone making small talk, trying to make me laugh, hinting that we could do something together. But not straight up asking my number or suggesting we do x or y. I'm not my real self at work and don't like having to "drop the façade" and show my real feelings to a customer. It's just a tense and uncomfortable situation.

girls?

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Skinny>>>>fat by a mile. I've known alot of girls who had a preference for skinny guys. Usually the nerdy/artistic crowd idk what normies prefer
Some Skinny guys have a problem with shit posture/hunching. Work on correcting that.

That's actually good advice, thanks my posture is garbage

You're putting me in an uncomfortable position.
Unless it's pretty much 100% assured I tell you "yes" because I'm throwing myself at you in some sort of painfully obvious manner, don't ask me.
Rejecting a customer means losing a customer. You're asking me to chose between dating you or losing work.

I know you want an answer but I have no idea based on the info you've provided. She clearly wants to meet you, which is a good sign. Have a good time even if it's only 3 hours

Ehh not consciously but in practice a little I guess, yeah. There's overlap of course but on average I am more likely to talk to men simply because I want some social interaction or because I feel like joking/laughing or flirting, basically because I want company. I am more likely to talk "seriously" to women. I am much more likely to honestly tell a woman I'm having a bad day if she asks what's up, for example.

I'm a straight woman and having a nice chat with a pleasant man can make my night but on average talking to men is imo quite a lot more work. They are less likely to ask me questions, less likely to give real substantial answers (as opposed to cuttings things off with stuff like "it is what it is", "ah well", "enough about me" etc), less likely to delve deeper and move to a more interesting topic than the ice breaker. Basically I have to put in the effort to keep the conversation going or to make it more interesting than plain niceties and I don't always feel like doing that.

Having said that it could definitely be that men are just less likely to talk easily to a woman than to a man, or because I am more adapt at sniffing out women I have stuff in common with than men. But this is my experience.

>She clearly wants to meet you
that is enough for me. when she calls me she always speaks her heart out and tells me how lonely she is in the new town and she knows no one and all. And I just listen to her. But you're right, i am happy that i will get to finally meet her because she has been quite the mystery to me, i know for sure that she is single (she said that) so I might give it a shot. How should I proceed with the "date"? i am planning some sort of light dinner, maybe a walk around the park and some icecream and that is all. What should i do after we're done and I end up actually liking her? Should I text her afterwards? call her? sorry if these are stupid questions but even though i am maximum confident during a date, i lost my shit afterwards if i happen to like the girl, and i don't want this to occur in this situation.

I think you are jumping to conclusions on your own here. First of all, saying things like these with a grin, which i assume was the shit-eating grin kind, was uncalled for, but it could as well be any kind of a smile on the dude's face and there really is not much information in OP's post to know. Secondly, I agree that the truth is the truth and it shouldn't warrant punching the guy in the face, although the man's behavior could be frustrating. Frustration doesn't equal violence. As for friends looking out for one another, I agree as well. There really is not much information in OP to know everything for sure. I was just stating a fact that during a festival dropping all responsibility on other people is not really being responsible yourself.

I just read OP again and the dude did have a shit eating grin on his face. I'd feel frustrated too. In the end everyone fucked up in this scenario. The guy for taking it out on OP for no reason, the girl because she wasn't careful enough, and possibly OP, depending on circumstances, which we know nothing about.

If you are above average tall it could work nicely depending on your skeleton.

What have you been up to while you were gone? You sound different, in a good way.

Taking a stab in the dark and he could just be a huge asshole for the sake of being a huge asshole but it's also possible that he feels superbad about what happened to her and it irked him to hear you joke and talk about the festival that she got raped at.

Having said that yes he was way out of line. It is already a normal response to go "what if" when something bad happens to a friend and it is cruel to feed that line of thinking. Even if you'd been her boyfriend it is not humanly possible to shield her from all harm. I am assuming that you did not leave out important context, e.g. that you left her alone while she asked you to stay.

This is the just world fallacy and why victim blaming is so common. People LOVE to act like when shitty things happen to people, that is because they made dumb decisions [so nothing bad will ever happen to me because I make smart decisions, go me!]. That is not real life. Most people who get raped don't even get raped by the man in the alley or the predator at the festival but by their stepfather or their brother. Life is not fair, someone went out of their way to make her a helpless target and just because technically it could've been prevented by numerous circumstances doesn't make it anyone's fault but the rapist's.

unlikely, she comes in and gets out before i'm even close to done. i'll just cope and hope i see her outside the gym someday.

>dropping all responsibility on other people is not really being responsible yourself.
I understand what you're saying; he's certainly not responsible for others. But if she's indeed his friend, then the lines of responsibility are blurred a little bit. OP clearly feels guilt and I think his guilt is as least somewhat justified.

I know i am retarded but hear me out

Me talking to a girl i've met 2 days ago
>"So i forgot when i bought this outfit to get my invoice for a tax write off"
>yeah you should still be able to get your invoice
>"yeah i suppose so,also will you buy one outfit for yourself"
>yeah probably i'll need one as i have only 2 sets
"if you buy it can you send me the receipt over a message"

Note: i don't have any contact from her, no facebook no number
What i should have said: "yes i'll do that i just don't have your number *smile* , wanna give it to me?"
What i said "yeah sure i'll do that"

Kill me now, she laid it down for me for the kickoff and i missed the field

I'm deathly afraid of forcing myself on someone or being a creep. What would be a good moment to look out for?

Thanks mate.

It's hard to say, because I don't remember when exactly I left. But in the last month, I moved into a cool new apartment in the middle of my city, took a holiday in Estonia for hiking, and have been working on some lifelong problems I have... Like not making friends. Now for the first time in my life, I'm really pushing myself to be social. My dream is to, one day, be popular and have a lot of friends. It sounds silly to say, but I really want this.

I was also depressed earlier this year. I've worked hard to overcome it. I'm starting to feel it falling off and my motivation is returning.

It makes me really happy that someone remembered me... and I don't even know you. Thank you user.

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That's the thing, we don't know if she was a friend or an acquintance from work, or if he left her alone, as the other guy said. We don't know any circumstances that led to this. Also, no wonder that he feels a bit guilty, even if he didn't make any stupid decisions, everyone would in that situation. It's the same guilt people feel when someone dies in a car crash. It's just a shitty thing to happen and you'd wish you could do something so it never would. Everyone feels frustrated by what happened but lashing out at other people, like the other guy did, is a shitty thing to do as well.

you have to feel it and be subtle at the beginning, try to get close and see if she allows you to invade her "private space". if she gets away from you then it is over, she has no interest. also when you sit, notice if she puts the purse between you on the table. Also notice her legs whether they are pointed towards you or towards the exit. bodylanguage plays a huge role in this and unfortunately you have to look for these signs , plus keep context in mind.

Girls, how often do you check guys out?

The date you described sounds fine. I'm sure shell have a good time with you.

Hmm I've dated in the past but I'm kind of an autist with social stuff but I'll try my best.

maybe don't bring up possibly dating during the date but tell her that you had a good time at the end. Don't call, but do text her later that evening to tell her that it was nice to finally meet her or something. If you want to date seriously maybe bring it up after a couple days (shows that you've done careful consideration/thought it over) or bring up meeting in person again and wait to ask to date until you've had that proper date you wanted to take her on (if she can visit within the next few weeks. Otherwise don't wait too long maybe? Idk). I've had guys try to move too quickly and it made them seem rash/impulsive/desperate for any girl and it kind of fizzled my interest in them.

I saw you come back and made note of it, unfortunately.

I do remember you, however not for your quality of posting

Girls,
How much girth is too much?

The limit does not exist. Don't worry about that. Worry about the girl having a good time/don't jackhammer her or something

she is the shy type (quite a conservative girl) so yah, i think a call is a bad idea.
one more thing, i tend to intimidate girls, i am an above average looking guy plus i have been told by many that i am very intelligent and impressive. but i have also been told that i am intimidating and a bit scary to talk to because people are afraid of saying something wrong in front of me (i read a lot so i know plenty of things there and there). how do i tone this down without looking dumb?
and one more question, will doing what you suggested prevent a "friendzone" situation? because if i end up liking her and she friendzones me then i will move on and i won't pursue any further communication. life's too short for that.

yes but

If it was me, and my friend, I would be eating my self out from the inside over it. Lose sleep. Even if I was only a tiny bit responsible.

Maybe that's unhealthy, but, I would rather feel responsible and pained, than to accept that things just happen. I'd feel useless and un-human if I allowed myself to give up what little control I have over this universe.

Maybe he doesn't have to feel guilt, and there is a perfectly good reason not to, but if it was me I would be hurting over this.

Idk how to seem less intimidating. Might want to Google that
She probably won't friend zone you, unless you're already halfway there. She would be like 80% decided on whether or not to friend zone you by now. The 3 hour date will bump it to 95%. The wait won't hurt anything.

>try to get close and see if she allows you to invade her "private space".
She does, hell sometimes she invades mine, but I still sense a tinge of reluctance so I never go for it. We also always sit across from each other 99% of the time so I dunno about the purse thing. I'll just keep hanging out with her and see what happens

>Idk how to seem less intimidating. Might want to Google that.
i don't think i will need it for this girl though, since she knew me for a while. except maybe if i look "too attractive" and she loses it but i will see what i can do.

>The 3 hour date will bump it to 95%.
this might sound trivial to you but it helps a lot.

I will wait and see, I hope that we match, i get bored very easily by other people and i am tired of being single ( i am almost 28). thankfully it is the only thing i have left to sort in my life as i have a bright career and i live in the rich part of town.

thanks for all the advice mate, it will definitely come in handy. have a good day/evening.

then you just try to hold her hand when you're together in the park, or put your hand on her shoulder when you're walking together. do it casually, it is not rape.

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>tfw I've been using Jow Forums to shout my frustrations about having been groomed and raped by my babysitter and two other neighbors since I figured it out 2 months ago
>tfw two people have now posted about confrontin similar issues from their past on here since then
I feel like I've done something for the world now

I’m sorry that happened to you, user.

I asked this last thread, but go no response, so maybe a shorter post will work better.

I'm 23/m, have very little experience with girls but I recently got a lot better in terms of confidence and appearance, and I think I'd like to give dating a shot.
What are considered to be the better online dating platforms? that is, places where people go for more serious relationships instead of hookups.
Generic advice and thoughts about online dating are welcome too.

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When did all this happen user? How long ago was it?

Guy
Many on bumble looking for relationship (it asks as part of the profile) so does hinge but they trend fatter.
Match makes you pay but that lets you be sure they are serious, my friend found his wife there.