I feel like something is wrong with me. I don’t get any turned on when I watch porn. I don’t get turned on talking about sexual things. I barely get turned on touching myself.
The only time I actually feel pleasure is when my boyfriend touches me. But we hardly do anything and we’ve only had sex once.
He’s basically the only way I feel anything and it’s almost been a month since we’ve done anything. I can’t bring up wanting to do stuff because then he gets upset.
I wanna try and feel pleasure on my own but I can’t. Is something wrong with me?
Nothing's wrong with you. People would be grateful to be in that position. As for your bf, just have a heartfelt convo with him about it. If he gets upset then leave him.
Gavin Russell
Your not broken it’s the same thing with my sister. Don’t ask how I know that( she’s the one who gave me the talk) just have a conversation with him and if he hate mad you can find someone else. You are perfect the way you are so you can do it.
Stay safe westly
Justin Robinson
why would a girl have a pic like that
Jonathan Wilson
poo poo pee pee ca ca doo doo
Ryder Carter
Op here, I'm a fag.
Xavier Garcia
well duh
Xavier Clark
1 might get more advice on /lgbt If i remember correctly it was something like aromatic or whatever 2 "hes basically the only way" is serioously wrong if you only did it "once" with him 3 it might be biological/genetics/physical error
Daniel Peterson
Wow, a fag is mentally ill and has sexual dysfunction, what a surprise.
Adam Anderson
Im the exact same way op (but im a girl). Looking at porn while rubbing it out hurts, thinking about a crush/attractive friend i trust/partner just feels like rubbing my leg, doing it when bf is looking feels kinda okay but impossible to orgasm. The only way i can orgasm is when bf is down there. I dont think theres anything wrong with you, youre just wired for enjoying sex as a way to connect to the person you trust, and not as a physical act only Have you tried masturbating while fantasizing abt your bf?
Michael Hill
Bc girls can like lewds too
Ayden Parker
Not wrong
Alexander Smith
hows your relationship with your mother?
Elijah Rodriguez
Doing it once with him wasn’t the only time I was turned on. We do loads of oral, fingering, etc. It’s just it’s only during these times that I feel any sort of pleasure.
Elijah Wright
Yeah, masturbating to my bf is pretty much the only way I can get by. It’s not as great as him being down there but it definitely provides a better feeling than when looking at porn
Joseph Perry
Both of my parents aren’t entirely present in my life
Xavier Garcia
and so hows your relationship with them? hows their relationship?
Alexander Kelly
I don’t know bro why don’t u go ask them since you wanna know so bad
Christopher Edwards
Yeah, sounds a lot like me. I dont think theres anything wrong with that, again, your body is just wired for sex with someone you trust and not just hookups Why is it a problem for you? Not meaning to sound derogatory or etc, just curious bc things go probably different for me
Ethan Evans
My boyfriend isn’t as into sex as I am. We talk about it, but when it comes down to actually doing it, he usually backs down. I don’t mind what we do now, it’s just difficult when I’m in the mood and he isn’t.
Adam Young
info?
Chase Rivera
I so relate user, I don't feel turned on unless I'm having sex with my boyfriend or if he's touching me however we haven't done anything sexual for 4 months because of his depression, stress and not being used to this stuff (even though we used to do it a lot). I feel like it will take ages for him to get back into it and I'm having to hold back my sexual feelings....
Anyways following this thread
Josiah Rodriguez
I still so relate, everytime when I'm in the mood and he's not I ended up crying to myself while he sleeps
Colton Wright
quads is proof that he's realizing being gay is a mistake.
Gabriel Moore
My boyfriend is the same way and sometimes I feel guilty for wanting things when he’s going through all of it. It can be really difficult sometimes but I still love him
Jack Taylor
I’ve done this before...it’s not a good feeling at all, I’m sorry you’ve gone through that.
Camden Jones
>I can’t bring up wanting to do stuff because then he gets upset.
Either his a closet homo, or hes wanking himself to some degenerate shit.