Today I was investigating my own attraction to females. I just don't understand why my body even bothers looking at women? It feels so fucking odd to me because I know I am not going to talk to any of those women. For example, today on the way home from work I saw a puerto rican woman with a nice rear. Now yeah I usually look but I don't leer. But I leered this time but privately. It was nice to look at her curvy body but afterwards I thought "Why did I even do that?" I probably won't ever see her again so what was the point of me even taking the time to oogle her? Most of the women I look at, I don't talk to. Actually all of them I don't talk to her. Sometimes I actually feel mildly disgusted with myself because I oogled her for free basically. What is the point of oogling if nothing ever comes of it?
Why even look at women?
Don't fight billions of years of evolution, bro.
Intrinsic instinct that doesn't take psychology into account.
I guess thats true but I just don't get what the billions of years of evolution want me to do. I can't go up to the woman and say shit to her. like "yeah, I was just eye raping you / oogling the shit out of your buns. Want to go for coffee?" It just seems so alien to me.
That's because you're socially retarded and also because it's commanding you to rape.
How do I un social retard myself?
>why would people even look at nature, it's not like they are going to fuck a tree
how you gonna enjoy the vasts amounts of nothing in your life if you don't stop to smell the roses user? Leering (depending on how you're doing it and if you're mildly attractive) is the first step. The next is that when they catch you leering you look em dead in the eyes and give them a smile.
Watch some basic body language stuff and work on the basic all the time necessities. Hold your head up, your chest out , and stand up straight user. Start making eye contact and giving non verbal hellos to everybody, even when you're in your car and they're in their car. Dudes included, they need to be acknowledged as well. There's a whole new world out there user just when you start keeping your head up and looking around in your day to day life.
Looking at women you don't know why they are looking at you seems weird to me. Like lets say I make eye contact and smile. What now? What if she looks disgusted or disinterested?
Your body “wants” you to spread your seed. Curvy women = fertile women = suitable mothers to children. You keep doing it despite never following through because sexual arousal releases dopamine and makes you feel good.
You continue on what you were doing and that's it. That's what confidence looks like and not fearing taking risks. The risk of not being acknowledged but still going on
do the aww drats snap and keep on movin
This is the same way I felt, I eventually self inserted as the girl in regular porn and got trap/tranny envy and now I think about being pounded by assertive men while still only being attracted to girls.
Yikes!
At a certain point I just started thinking about sexuality as an inherited mental illness and it's made things easier for me to take.
Unfortunately, imho, all it does is take you on a bad path.
You feel this way because you don't have much of a love/sex life. If you have a nice relationship/fling with a cute girl, or faith that you will again in the (near) future, ogling a woman is half enjoying her looks and half a reminder of the good things in life, because you might not touch her titties but you will be touching titties again sooner or later.
I got so jaded with females that I even avoid looking at them.
So this isn't common?
Son, I am probably pretty far along the spectrum but I gotta say you sound autistic as fuck.
the Earth is too polluted to bring another one plastic producer
Women are not women anymore avoid them or they will fuck you over just for fun
it's to remind yourself to reproduce
It wants you to fuck as many womens' guts out. In your case, you have to resist the urge.