How do relationships happen? Are you supposed to look for them to get into one? Just curious

Yeah, I don't really get it either. I've graduated university and I spoke to a woman a handful of times the entire time. The general view of relationships makes it seem I'm missing something obvious.

this user man. Don't you understand that there are some people who don't just "talk" to people. Like me for example.
>go out
>see friends
>go say hello and stand right next to them
>dance because i have nothing to say nor does talking interest me
just want to be close to people and listen to the white noise they make. Don't really care what they're talking about as long as it's not hostile

See, even you're better off than me. Talking to normies in general is insane, let alone a "relationship," whatever that means

not them but
>go to work
>extremely male dominated field
>literally only see one woman in my daily work life

>go home
>hobbies are all extremely male dominated or single person things
>any attempt at doing hobby in public is just people who are already close nit groups of friends

The only places I'd randomly see girls to talk to, are places where it'd be annoying for a random stranger to start talking to you. Unless I'm specifically going out of my way to find a woman to hit on, I'd never come across a girl in my daily life.

Get new hobbies

>you're enjoying the wrong things!
I'd rather stay alone. It'd be nice to get a girlfriend too, but what's the point if I stop working on the things I enjoy.

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Any hobbies that a guy can go to that is fun for the guy and there is women there?
Male hobbies are so easy, you just say hi and you have a friend for life.

Men aren't built to be in a relationship where you have to hang out with a used up smelly whore, entertaining a used up whore, paying money so your useless whore can get fatter, listening to a used up whore, looking at her whore mouth that she let 100 Chad's blast with babybatter as she says something inane....

That seems like a healthy view of people.
You would be just as much of a whore if anyone bought what you are selling.

This is a blue board, man. Censor that shit.

have sex

And you are a naive child. Go to Costco and look at the broken men walking three steps behind the wife as she pushes the cart and then realize they are successful relationships

It's expensive plus I already had sex 7 months ago.

Yes, just as you meet people and talk just because. Welcome to normie life, we like talking and gathering for no much reason at all.

stop being a puppet of the masses, you as every man wants only sex out of it, why waste your fucking time pleasing someone else at your sake when you can get from a professional cheaper and way better than any civilian can do

sex doesn't feel as good when you're stressed about
>diseases
>pregnancy
>her stealing your money

that's the best part mate, pregnancy is not your concern since she has thousands of clientes, this girls unironically are more clean than civilians since they live of this so they test regularly and the only way for you to get robbed is to go to shady bussiness

except even then its still riskier.
when you're with a single girl, you know who she's banging. Sure you can cry that she might be cheating on you, but most girls don't, and if they do its not that often.

honestly, if you're just having sex to cum, you might as well just masturbate. At least when you're masturbating you can watch some decent porn.

>when you're with a single girl, you know who she's banging
naive, as for the rest, there's no such a thing as decente porn and you must learn how to have good sex if you think its only cumming

>haha all girls are cheating on their boyfriends!
k

But it's fun to degrade these empowered femoids and get the milk for free

advice nothing else, if you want to find out on your own its up to you, but I'm afraid that this will hurt for you

I've been in relationships where I've been cheated on, and it was obvious and I ended it there.
I've been in plenty of relationships that also haven't resulted in anyone cheating.

Shit happens, grow up. The only people who actually cry about girls cheating constantly are retards who spend too much time online and never actually spend time with real people.

every person has a different experience on things, the funny part is that you were the first to mention cheating while I was merely pointing to woman being intolerable in the long run unless you have no self respect

You're supposed to look for them if youre not a women or a Chad with friends.

D O N 'T T R U S T T H E M !

I'd date you and talk about lain and retro computers and listen to you babble on about all the obscure imageboards you browse. Then I'd drive you around listening to DnB and Casiopea at night and we could get tacos or something. We'd eat comfort food and just talk about all the little things that we use to fill the void. Then at the end of our night I'd play with your foreskin and give you the suck of a lifetime.

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>DnB and Casiopea
pls be a girl (female)

This would sound pretty great if only you were a woman.

Well you go on tinder swipe right on everything when you match you meet the girl pump and dump and start over with new whore tomorrow. That's a fully complete bf gf relationship

want to go for a coffee?

user, why would you hurt me like this.

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>1. Go outside
>2. Meet people your own age
>3. Ask them out
>4. Get rejected
>5. Repeat until you don't get rejected.
I started practicing step 1 a few years back, unfortunately I live in northern Canada so got stuck at step 2. You probably live in a city so step 2 would come natural just from doing step 1. People like to forget about step 4 but it's one of the most important parts of the process as well as the hardest. You have to look for them. Anime is wish fulfillment (I'm assuming your into anime from your image), a cute girl isn't going to fall from the sky and instant love you.

but I've tried this
>meet
>talk about stuff
>realize we enjoy talking about stuff
>meet 1-on-1 to talk about stuff
>flirt while talking about stuff
>meet 1-on-1 and talk about stuff, hold hands, talk about date
>cancels date
>but we still talk about stuff
>talk about lewd stuff
>she suddenly tries to do lewd stuff even though i've been rejected
>next day says it was a mistake and i just feel fucking violated
it's hard when people tell you "oh, you're a great guy", "oh, you'd hardly have to look to get a girlfriend", "oh, you didn't do anything wrong" and everything turns out as if you did everything wrong.
but is right. rejection is a learning experience, as painful as it is. in a sense, you should relish rejection as it'll eventually direct you to a healthy, fulfilling relationship that you deserve.

how do I ask them out

Just b thineself

Dating apps work if you want it to. We can all stop pretending they don’t.

Tips on making a profile? I don't have any pictures of myself and I'm finding it very difficult to spin my life and personality as hip.

>premarital sex
cringe

>girl meets Chad
>girl flirts with Chad
>Chad picks up signals
>Chad makes a move
>relationship

>hip

They have dating sites for old people too

30 year old boomers want to date too

How do you make it last? It can all be going well and then one day it's over

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Kys

It's all just a meme, the game is rigged.

Wow You're Just Like One Of The Guys

Why would you post this? Don't meme things like this it just makes me sad and lonely.

Without dating apps I would meet exactly 0 girls.
Last year I got 2 dates using them. This year again 2 dates so far, but one of them was from last year and it wasn't really a date :/
I guess it's better than nothing, I like to think I'm a catch, but whatever I portray on the internet just doesn't get the juices flowing apparently for 99% of girls.
The 3 that I met were pretty good and compatible with me though. Only one was kind of chubby, we'd probably still be dating if I'd went after her

I'm not very good at getting into relationships but from my little experience
it's similar to making friends. Talk to someone, often in a social setting you commonly go to, this includes work. Find someone you are sexually attracted to and talk to them about literally anything, just get them talking. When you see them again in that social setting say hello and start another conversation, repeat until you get comfortable with each other. If it's organic and they seem like they enjoy your company ask them to make plans to do something with you in the future or just for their number. Go on date and see what happens.

Be yourself and have reasonable expectations.

Sounds kind of uncomfortable overall tbqh
Except for the foreskin bit. If attractive and female, you could definitely do that. That'd be quite alright.

We could also talk about Lain.

Honestly when it comes down to it, prolonged proximity to any other human being is uncomfortable unless the medium of interaction is fixing problems or moving towards some goal. I never learned how to enjoy things. I never learned how to just be. The risk immediately outweighs my sense of benefit, like I'm going to ruin something, it's all up to me.

I'm pretty fucked up. Sometimes you need a good reminder.

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>Welcome to normie life, we like talking and gathering for no much reason at all.

This is the part I have a hard time with. Just trying to talk to someone I don't know for no reason is, off putting.
I always have this compulsion, if anything needs to be said, to say my piece, finish my business and move along. Otherwise, keep quiet and focus on what needs to be done.