Break the incel cycle

I am almost falling down the incel hole. Started with laughing at redpill memes, now I found myself going on borderline misoginistic rants with my friends. I don't wanna be like that. It is like the daily self hatred is now being projected outwards. Every thing red pill related I read is like a poisonous seed growing in my head and making me crazy. I can't tell fact from fiction anymore.
Is hypergamy real? Because from my pov it damn does semm real.
This resentment towards everyone is building up inside of me. Its been to long since I've been happy for others, TO DAMN LONG.
Shit if I am going down a path so dark and pathetic better off myself before any damage is made.

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Embrace your incel self

The top 80 percent of women sleep with the top 20 percent of men. That means 80 women are shared between 20 men. Now, if things were split evenly, each man would get 4 girls. However, since the more attractive men get more cooch, some guys in this top 20 percent will get 2, while others get more than 8. Now, this is obviously before "settling." This is during her "exploratory" phase, where she's "finding herself." After the this the numbers equalize and approach 1:1. We must remember, however, that not all men and women mate. While more men die virgins, it is likely than equal amount of women go unmarried to their grave.
So, if you are a man in the 3-4/10 range, there is hope that a 5/10 woman will settle for you, but this is only if you have high material wealth or some other way to compensate for your low worth. Furthermore, this caliber of man will have to accept the possibility of raising another man's offspring.

Yeah dude, I've read that, it has been stuck in my head since.

If you want to get laid from some average roastie see if you can scrape together about $100 real and $400 fake to flash around. Just take some tinder slut to Applebee's for $30 and drinks for $20. Use the other $50 to get drunk the next day to try to forget the smell

“Redpilling” is all about finding reasons to distrust other groups of people. Follow that rabbit hole far enough and you’ll become paranoid.

Jow Forums is I ironically full of people who have become so distrustful of women in general that they have contentedly decided to remove themselves from the gene pool.

Remember that trust between humans is important. Don’t be naive. But don’t be paranoid either

you're right it's like a seed, it happened to me with suicide stuff, started as just a thought then I was browsing a suicide forum everyday, and that made me worse and on and on but thankfully I could break the cycle, it's like your mind makes its own reality, the same is happening to you, of course that's not real, it's you're not lucky with girls, you receive pressure from the outside world, and your mind decides to better blame girls, I advice you stay away from all of that or stop when you start thinking things like that, otherwise yes, you better off yourself before harming anyone, but why don't you better try a psychologist, nobody will listen to you better

>Remember that trust between humans is important.
Why

You write it there yourself why you (and all the others) are falling into the incel meme:
>It is like the daily self hatred is now being projected outwards.
>can't tell fact from fiction anymore.
>resentment towards everyone is building up inside of me
The true cause of this problem is self-hatred that is projected outwards in an attempt to protect the person's sanity/self-esteem, its a very normal thing that the brain does instinctually, it tries to absolve itself from guilt at all costs.

But other people really are always trying to take advantage of you.

thinking and analyzing that too much can take you in only one path, and it is to be a sad pathetic enraged piece of shit who ends up harming someone innocent one day, i recommend you don't overthink that shit, and just have sex when you're lucky, and when you're not just find something else to keep you busy with

Hypergamy is real and it is a good thing. Improve yourself or die, incel.

Jow Forums is not an incel or MGTOW board. Not reproducing is not "redpilled". The dominant spirit of the board is national socialism and making white families. That takes a white woman to do.

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>Jow Forums is I ironically full of people who have become so distrustful of women in general that they have contentedly decided to remove themselves from the gene pool.

That sounds like what white females do, by going child free anti white open border retards. Mgtow is mostly men like myself who have kids and have learned how toxic feminism is

I pretty much agree that most of the red/blackpill is real, but it doesn’t make me an incel lol. I manage to get laid every now and then,and yeah I have a lot of edgy conversations with close friends, though some friends I never talk about this shit with them. Don’t let that shit define you and become a meme. It’s true, but you can’t change that, so don’t worry about it.

Fucking hell, that's horrifying. And given all the hate that whites already get in the US, if they ever get to 40%, I'm guessing something very bad will happen.

>don't think just do lmao
Sorry, but no.

I work at an engineering company and I have a lot of brown coworkers. One of them was telling me he loves to listen to Korean music with American/Spanish/Arabic lyrics in them because he loves diversity, and that his friend called him "unamerican" for that; he literally replied that this is a mutt nation. I was despondent for a moment but then I realized he is right. I didn't have to hide for a moment, and I agreed with him. America is dying to nonwhites.

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But how to I stop the hatred? I wish I could keep it only towards myself but, it always leaks onto onto others like a fucking infection.

This. I'm making plans to be out of here within 5 years if shit doesn't collapse before then. I would prefer it did so that I'd have a reason to stay and protect my family but I'm honestly expecting a continued slow boil and nothing I tell them will convince them it's worth leaving

The problem is not etinicity but culture.

Where are you going, Iceland? There's nowhere to go. I am going above that red line in . That's my last stand.

It's both. Primarily because ethnicity and culture are deeply connected but also because I don't want to be surrounded by ugly brown people and therefore my kids have no choice but to die alone or reproduce with them.

Well, Iceland would actually be ideal but I'm not going to be good enough for that. I'm thinking Eastern Europe. That's where my people mostly came from. And I'd feel more inclined to stay but I'm pretty sure all my folks ran away from Russia because the Bolsheviks were starting their shit. Anyhow, if I can't leave and shit doesn't collapse, I'll probably go to Alaska eventually. It's not very white, but it's got space and nature.

well since nobody here is interested in helping you: I think men have a surface level understanding of women. That's why when they see hot girls with short guys or fat/skinny guys or guys with disabilities or whatever they are baffled. I don't think the genders are programmed to fully understand each other's desires.
I was an incel until age 28. I had a hot girlfriend. Every guy try to steal her from me because they thought I was inferior. She eventually left me because my insecurities took over and I acted out. I'm short and skinny and a poor janitor. But I can still go to a bar and hook up with a cute girl. Sure there's some definite dry spells because everything about me is so undesirable, but usually when I live in the moment and put all that behind me is when the serendipitous moment a girl is attracted to me appears.

This doesn't mean that those are the top 20% of men, senpai. This just means 20% of men are huge sluts.

Women don't look at sex the way men do, sex isn't an indicator of how worthwhile a man really is. You place so much value on it because you can't get laid, but straight women can get laid at any time, it has no value for them. They care about safety, security, competency, etc.

Ha LOL,
>>straight women can get laid at any time, it has no value for them
Say to a woman that you are a virgin, watch the disgut expression in her face as she dumps you at the speed of light.

>sex isn't an indicator of how worthwhile a man really is.They care about safety, security, competency, etc.

Cognitive dissonance in action

being a virgin indicates that you're incompetent
there's an order of operations to sex, there has to be some element of attractiveness involved and not all of them depend on your looks (but also can be indicated by your looks even if you look like shit)

>having friends
You've got a long way to go on your incel journey, kiddo

>Remember that trust between humans is important
What a shame that "diversity" destroys trust then. It's almost like an ethnically and culturally homogenous nation is better for the individual.

>safety, security, competency, etc.
No you had it right here

That's the point, they know white, black, brown can never get along but that's what they want so no one will notice the people that own them

Who hurt you baby? You are free to be with whomever you want. Don't shame others for who they love.

>You are free to be with whomever they inject into your country, community, school, employer, church, bakery, and home

Nobody is injecting colored people into your house or your church. You don't own the neighborhood or the school so don't act like you do. You have been reading too many far-right conspiracies.

Because you form your sense of self based on others as well. You are a social creature you need people. But even practically you are too weak to rely only on yourself. That is true of everyone.

Based Maine.

People use emotional truths as rational for counter productive behavior.
The best way to defeat the logic of a incel is to realize the flaws in angry virgins claiming victimhood instead of determination to be better people.
Including realizing it takes more than looks to obtain and keep a relationship.
That’s too hard, it’s easier to give up and hate everyone that put the effort in.

people who center their lives on hate never grow beyond that ignorance.
They stagnate and infect others so they don’t have to be alone in their misery.

If I found out the guy I was dating was a virgin, I'd actually like that. Honestly, I find that kind of attractive. Guys I've dated with prior experience have all had loads of problems. It would be different, at least.

that is online dating where most of the people are sluts anyway
if you're into something more serious, those women should not interest you anyway

The guy wanted help and you are trying to pull him back to your incel cult with your lies. Fuck off.

Not user but that isn't a lie. If you want to be successful on dating websites you need to be in the upper bracket of attractiveness. Women aren't interested in anything less.

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Why do you keep lying? Are you trying to turn men gay by telling them they have no chance with women?

>with your lies
You realize that hiding the truth is only going to make things worse, right?

>Since 2008, however, the share of men younger than 30 reporting no sex has nearly tripled

thedailybeast.com/number-of-men-under-30-who-havent-had-sex-in-last-year-tripled-in-past-decade

Read that over again, the rate of sexless men under 30 has TRIPLED in the last decade. The blackpill obviously exaggerates things (for example, it's bullshit that only chad can get laid. plenty of normal and even ugly looking guys get laid) but the truth is that there are millions upon million of guys out there who are going to, or have already spent almost all of their youth alone.

It is a fact that a very large portion of women aged 18~30 are choosing to ignore guys that in other generations they would have ended up with. these women are choosing to hold out for top tier men instead since social media has made it so much massively easier for them.

They have no chance with women. That's why they're here. Incels aren't created in a vacuum. Even semi-cute or average women have several potential fuckbois. It's insanely easy for them to get laid, so they are choosy about who it's with.

So if someone had more than 4 sexual partners, would he be considered a chad because only 20% of the male pop gets girls?

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Lying by omission is still lying. The rates of sexlessness have gone up in both genders and you know this. The truth is that it is easier than ever for anyone to get sex if they want to. But more and more young men and women are choosing to not have sex. They would rather stay inside and play vidya. Or stay inside and communicate with friends through social media instead of going outside and socializing.

Yes. That's why 80% of men are chads. The 80/20 rule.

>The rates of sexlessness have gone up in both genders
It has only gone up 8% for women, and that is within historical trends for the data meaning it is of no statistical significance.

In no other time in recent history has the rate for men's gone up anywhere near this amount.

stop running your fucking mouth with your normie platitudes when you don't even know how to raid basic statistical data

>people post this picture
>the same people complain about women riding the "cock carousel"

So all women are sluts who sleep with hundreds of different guys but at the same time they only sleep with a few guys who are selected by god. Why are women so paradoxical?

>but at the same time they only sleep with a few guys
retard. do you think these top tier men are just settling for the first basic bitch who gives up her pussy for him?

these women are literally jumping from one chad cock to another.

>You don't own the neighborhood or the school
Try to build an apartment block for whites only, see what happens, moron.

20% of average men in an average sized city/state is still a pretty high number. Not every woman has the luxury of hopping from one chad to another. Many are happy to be volcels than date anyond below her unreasonable standards

So if these men are in such high demand that they literally have their pick of 10 women at any given time then why do they settle for anything below the top 20%? If they could have a different supermodel every night of the week then why settle for some random 6/10?

because there are only so many of those top tier women, and men have absolutely no qualms about sleeping with someone who is considerably less good looking than he is.

women would literally rather die than sleep with someone uglier than she is.

Not to mention super-attractive women can be insanely high-maintenance, so the chad picks an average bitch that will be more grateful and easier to control

So what makes you believe that Chad would choose to sleep with a bottom 30% girl who is bad in bed instead of 10/10 sex goddess a second time?

Attractiveness does not correlate sexual performance. Plenty of super hawt girls are dead lays

That doesn't answer my question at all.

>sleeping with anyone other than your spouse
Absolutely degenerate, cringe, and bluepilled

Chads rarely ever settle for a 3/10. They're only good for a pump and dump if he's bored of masturbating

3/10 is still in the top 80% so according to that chart Chad sleeps with a ton of them. But that STILL doesn't answer my question. Why settle for a 3/10 at all when he could have a 10/10 at any given time.

Now be nice, you are hurting his incel beliefs with logic.

>Is hypergamy real?
Yes and it has absolutely nothing to do with incels and trp apart from the fact they talk about it a lot.

Incels use the word hypergamy without even knowing what it means.

You need to cure the source of the problem: the self hatred. Everything else will be like treating cancer with painkillers.
You need to sit down one night and ask yourself why you hate yourself, what led to the hate, and what can you do to love yourself again. Use a notebook in case you wabt to write down or draw your feelings, you could also record yourself if you dont like writing.
Its not going to comfortable, fast or easy. Probability is that youre going to cry like a baby on most nights and that you just feel angrier on some, but you NEED to persevere through this to come out a changed person.
Another thing you can do is exercise, but couple it with listening to self-improvement podcasts or while thinking about the "talks" you had with yourself last night. Exercise is a healthy outlet of anger and it also makes your body healthier.
Do this for roundabout a year and youll notice a drastic reduction of the self hatred. But again, i can assure you its not going to be comfortable or easy, but its still better than slowly dipping into insanity.

OP, you already have the tools you need to get better. Two tools so far:
-recognition of problem and self awareness
-wanting to improve yourself

So youve already taken 2 great steps towards your goal. Wanting to better yourself is what is going to save you. A lot of people dont realize this is the most important tool of all.
If you want to get better, then you will. If your friends see that, theyll support you too.

You're imagining Chad aren't you.

I doubt a whore would care what it means despite them living it everyday

She hates herself because she knows her cunt is her only value and she threw it away and now no one wants her

What is that supposed to mean? What do whores have to do with this?

But this is only for young women. Old women are treated the same as men so it is all fine.

Whores/females don't know what hypergamy means despite them only fucking chads

And you know what hypergamy means?

Hypergamy is the tendency of women to only date men that are above her in any given set of values she considers important. Could be money, social status, power etc.

Make more women friends, and ask them to explain things from their perspective.
The more you empathize with women and relate to/with them the easier it'll be to realize that
A. the world sucks for everyone
B. women are not your enemy
C. You, too, can have happiness in a relationship

And what does this have to do with prostitutes?

This comes from the biological programing of female primates to mate with the alpha males, which would generate better offspring. These females are confortable sharing one alpha with others. Society got more sophisticated and with it the definition of alpha. Women won't engage in poligamy very often but will be attracted to promiscuous men, even marring one therefore sharing the alpha with many other females. Women want the best possible mate, and won't settle for anything less. Man just don't give a shit and want a chill gf that is not a psycho landwale.

Females are all whores who try to trade their asset for cash. Are you pretending to be dumb or are you just a female?

If all females are whores how can incels exist?

Hypergamy you used up slut

You're not making any sense. Why does hypergamy result in a few angry entitled manchildren to blame everyone but themselves for their own failures?

Because every slut of no value like you thinks you are entitled to chad

You're completely off your rocker here kid. Your word salads don't even make any sense. It's like you don't even have a point and only repeat your pre-programmed npc lines.

I'm dumbing it down to very simple words you nasty whore. Are you in menopause?

Went to the mall today and saw a smoking hot girl. Guess who her bf was? A muscle-bound Tyrone.
You don't know whether to laugh or cry

I saw an indian with a girlfriend who looked 20 years younger than him
who gives a shit

I feel like I need another word to describe myself since Incel refers to a more specific type of Virgin rather than just virgins by circumstance in general

Cry now and tomorrow you can read how he chopped her up and burned the remains and laugh. It's healthy to experience all the emotions

>who gives a shit
Me obviously
Anymore dumb questions?

You saw a really hot girl and are suprised she's was with a really hot guy?
Really nigger?

I will rape you.

That's not it you government school retard

I wasn't surprised. Racetraitor bitches like her are ten a penny these days

Bro i chose to preserve myself until marriage. And even if i didnt, youre being ridiculous

I'm not your bro, slut,

>the mall
You just outed yourself as underaged.

Gay? No. What we require is another sexual revolution, but this time one to shatter hyper-promiscuity and to restrain female hypergamy.

>hyper-promiscuity
Young generations are less promiscuous than older generations. Partner counts are going down. Virginities are lost later.
>hypergamy
Bet you don't even know what that means.

You need to remove yourself from the echo chamber.
I’m a woman and even I know that a lot of women are shitty. A lot of men are shitty too. If you only look at the worst 5% of men or women, that’s tens of thousands of examples of shitty behavior to serve as confirmation bias, but it doesn’t mean that it’s representative of the other 95%.

I assume you hate feminists because they are pretty much your exact opposite, right? But not exactly. They do the exact same thing, just flipped genders. They look at the 5% of men who are absolutely depraved and pathetic, and make generalizations about all men that are clearly deluded.

I know it’s not “the same” because feminist opinions are socially acceptable while incel ones are not- but i’d argue that neither should be ok.

There will always be shitty women out there. You just have to draw a harsh line between trashy women and the women that you associate with. I personally refuse to associate with men that I think are vain, shallow, petty, etc.

Don’t rely too much on statistics. I know it’s tempting but again, it’s the same bs that the feminists do. “All men are rapists... 1 in 4 women gets sexually assaulted at some point in her life!! Most rapes go unreported!!”
It’s just using number to reinforce a misperception without exploring other explanations for those phenomena.