Hi, earlier my girlfriend took the pregnancy test and she tested for positive. I always pulled out and she took pills, albeit for only a week because she didn't want the side effects.
Now she's pregnant, what can I do about it?
I am 18 years old and she is 19. Classes hasn't started yet but we did enroll in the same school. I haven't finished my senior yet so basically, I am fucked.
I want some advice on what can I do about this. She doesn't want to abort the baby and wants to keep it. I'm fine with supporting her but what can I do? I don't want my offspring to be fatherless so I want to support and love them with every way I can. I can't tell my parents about this or I'm basically fucked.
How can I keep this as a secret to everyone else while supporting her? I'm planning to sell my computer so I'll have money to support her. What next? I have no job experience and stuff.
I know, it's my mistake, I shouldn't have had sex unless I could take responsibility, but humans are humans, so here we are. I want to focus no the present and not the past. Any help is appreciated. Thank you very much.
Convince her to keep it then ghost her find a new slut and repeat
Sebastian Martin
Okay, nevermind. Girlfriend played me like a damn fiddle. Turns out she was negative and just sent me a positive picture from Google. Jesus Christ.
Gavin Diaz
Well, first off, it is good that you aren’t throwing yourself a pity party for yourself about what is already done. However, keeping this shit a secret is just not going to happen. You would constantly be living a lie and it would make shit endlessly complicated. Why can’t you tell your parents?
Jeremiah Gray
Did you learn something, kiddo? You should really be using condoms since you are still a kid and can't support a baby. Pulling out is very well known not to prevent pregnancy.
Luke Phillips
Hell yeah.
Josiah Sanchez
It has worked well for me. Just keep an emergency pill at home if things get dicey.
Haven't had a problem yet, gone through 10 of those pills, and I've been doing it for some 10 years now.
>Haven't had a problem yet It only takes once and you are screwed for life.
Bringing a child into the world is something very serious. You live with your parent's, you don't even know what it's like to take care of yourself, you don't even pay bills. Can you imagine taking care of another human being. Your biggest concern right now is being yelled at by your mom.
Jacob Torres
Its not yours, pull out does not get anyone pregnant except lying cheating hoes.
Samuel Long
Don't be a fucking dumbass and use a condom next time or at least make sure she's on that pill for fucks sake.
Asher Reyes
> albeit for only a week because she didn't want the side effects Dont know what you mean by this or why you thought it was okay, it's still the same chance if shes not taking it every day
You have to tell your parents and be responsible and honest about it and take whatever reaction comes calmly Support your child and decide whether or not you want to involve yourself Everyone is lonely nowadays and it's hard to find nice people Maybe it wouldn't be so bad. Just be okay with fucking up and know lots of people fuck up in the same way but make the best of the situation for everyone the best you can and hope they do the same. Good luck man
Parker Clark
just for the future: if it does actually happen, don't sell your PC you'll need it and the very little money it might give you is not worth it
Robert Murphy
How is this your fault? She lied to you about birth control, and now she has 100% choice over whether abortion happens or not.
You don't get to choose whether there'll be an abortion, but you get to choose whether or not you want to be a father.
Tell her that you will pay the minimum amount ordered by the court and will not be part of her, or the baby's life. You will never see her again, and will never see the kid. You do not want a kid, and if she goes through with this then it will be in violation of your own wishes, and that you will not be treated as a hostage. She chooses whether the kid is born, you choose whether you want to be a father.
The last thing we need is another kid with unready parents. You don't know anything you're not even 25 yet, no way you'll bring him up right. Can't wait to get stabbed by him in 16 years because his parents can't afford the playstation six. Do whatever it takes.
Cameron Jackson
You're only option is to tell your parents. If you're going to raise the kid get married and get the civil discounts.
Also this.
Camden Adams
You are living my worst nightmare and i'm 21 and i already graduated.
Told me what are you gonna do?
Elijah Barnes
I wish i could give u a hug . You are a good boy. Please aak for help and try to get your parents involved.
Ryan Bell
>took pills, albeit for only a week because she didn't want the side effects. good job >I am 18 years old and she is 19 abort it NOW and basically just a pill that forces her period. no big deal. if she really wants to have it, try to give it to her parents
At 6 weeks pregnant, it's still in embryonic state and smaller than a grain of rice.
Joseph Rivera
>she took pills, albeit for only a week because she didn't want the side effects.
She's an idiot, they take a couple of weeks to start taking effect if you're talking about birth control pills, so a week of them wouldn't have done anything
Dominic Sullivan
Start looking for employment. By the time the baby is born you should have a job and a good amount saved up. Then when it's one year old, you'll should have a promotion at your job. On the side, you should work on credentials and certifications since you won't have enough for college and those certs can help you get paid more.
Landon Brooks
keep the computer. you need one for work these days. find a job outside school hours and try to set your schedule together for longer working shifts.
you can find resources for new parents as well. if you get married and say you were married and planned the baby to churches they'll help you out. if in the future you two dont work out you can still coparent in different relationships.
tough for you but that's how the cookie crumbles
Oliver Cooper
wait for real? not trolling? yoof. I posted too soon if this is true
Lincoln Myers
Told me she wanted to "test" me on what I would actually do if it happened (she was pretty nervous about it since it has been 29 days since she got her last period, withdrawal bleeding actually), she actually got her period right after testing.
Anyway, she broke up with me this same day anyway because I talked to her about her going to her ex's birthday.
So I guess that doesn't matter now lol
Jacob Morgan
You will be paying $500 a month in child support for the next 18 years.
Get a lawyer and push her to either have an abortion or to release you from financial responsibility.
You have over $100,000 at steak.
Noah Cook
Just bounce the lines aren't close together like the picture so its inconclusive imo
Aiden Sullivan
Literally the third post in the thread you knuckledraggers
Easton Baker
I can agree on that
Gavin Morgan
Im not living your life nigga im here to give advice not read/take it. But now you know what to do in the future.
Parker Rivera
first things first- get a paternity test on the sly after she delivers. if she was only on the pill for a week, it definitely could have failed. there is still a good chance that the kid is yours. the on the sly bit is very important- if she finds out, you will enter a world of suffering next, forget about selling your stuff. you wont even make a dent in the amount of money you are going to need and you will need your pc for your sporadic downtime to unwind with. get a job and bust ass, and/or start hustling. i cant recommend selling hard drugs, but cultivating cannabis is enjoyable and lucrative, and can be done without sacrificing too much of your time (which is now in astronomically high demand). outdoor cultivation can have little to no overhead, i suggest you start there as far as your folks go, dont worry too much about it. you are an adult, they cant really do much to you. and old people love grandkids, they will come around eventually this is going to be a challenge, user. if you maintain focus and drive, you can do this. good luck
Mason Williams
Holy shit OP props for not turning this into a domestic violence situation. I think people would still be on your side even if you smacked her after that.
At the very least you should tell her circle of friends, potential partners or parents or whatever about what she's capable of. Without being petty or vindictive: just tell them. She has to face some consequences. This isn't playing a fiddle this is evil manipulative scummery.
