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My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex from 8 years ago. How do I get over it and forgive him and what can he do to make it up to me? He says hes willing to do anything

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dump him
once a cheater, always a cheater

Definitely dump him and break off all contact. Not worth your emotional investment.

Make him go through hoops and loops and then dump his sorry ass.

Just end it. Don’t be petty

He promised to never do it again and explained to me why he did it in the first place. We've been dating for almost 4.5 years. I just want to know if it's the right choice to throw it all away

>How do I get over it and forgive him
I will never understand this mindset.
He already threw it away, dumbass.

Yes, it is.
He promised to not do it once and clearly he's not the best and keeping his word.

I've been in your shoes. I tried to make it work. I ended up being disgusted by him even 3 year after. I wasted my time and his.

Hey op I was in the same situation 2 years ago I ended up forgiving my gf. I regret it all the way.

It ended up taking a huge toll on my mental health she started to be abusive after a year or so. So I ended up dumping her and to build myself back up. Not a good experience. Wouldn't recommend

I understand a wronged partner making a sacrifice if children are involved but if you are single and a partner cheats on you there is nothing that can make that right. NOTHING

The relationship ended. So, if you are starting a new relationship why would you choose someone you know will cheat, ON YOU?

If he is willing to do anything, then he should be willing to let you cut his penis off. Only real solution desu

Also started talking to him again as soon as we broke off.

so for married couple, children or not what is your suggestion?

this is a common chinese practice, make sure your law allows it.

We have no kids and aren't married yet but we had been planning on taking that step. We currently live together

This is a very important life lesson so repeat after me:

"ONCE A CHEATER, *ALWAYS* A CHEATER. Always. Always always always."

He won't be sorry he did it, he'll be sorry he got caught. Dump him and never look back. He will do it again and again and again and he'll just get sneakier and sneakier about it. DUMP. HIM.

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not asking you OP.

Break up.

Jow Forums is great in that no matter how outsiders like to vilify us for being misogynistic or something phobic, we are actually amongst the fairest if not the fairest when it comes to cheating and advice given.

Dump him.

Okay now this is epic. If he doesn't then he really wouldn't do anything. Which means he's a liar as well as a cheater. Time to dump if he says no

We're you married? No then it's not cheating. Why do you whores think that your casual sex ties a man down?

You don't think before you speak, do you?

Dude, your idea of social experience is saying 'hi' to a cashier, why you in here actin like you know a single damn thing.

Sluts get treated like sluts. Op is a slut what did she expect she gave away her only asset and now she's worthless Pu!p n dump whores 24/7/365

If you think sex is a womans only asset I feel bad for any female in your presence

Purity and fertility are the females only asset and op is a massive stupid slut who decided to throw it away. Now she is being treated like the useless whore she is. You mad? it's only going to get worse everyday until she dies.such is the life of a roastie

Bro, wtf is wrong with you

You sound like you cant grow with the times. It's like your ideals are stuck in the 50s

Have sex with him

>But men can have extra marital sex and it's a-ok

Everyone knew in the 50s that non virgins are used up sluts, they still know that today you are worthless by your own choice, you want to be a man well learn to accept the consequences of your behavior slut

You didn't answer my question
Your experiences are painfully limited at the very best. Why are you acting like an authority on... any matter, really?

Because I have had a full range of life experience including holding my own grandchildren and tall are incels and used up whores incapable of breeding

Alright I'm just gonna believe that, you've held grandchildren and are the kind of guy who waxes hypermisogyny on Jow Forums. You're so worked up your sentences don't make any sense anymore and you're just waxing extremes.

Here's your last (You). Don't spend it all at once.

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Did they teach you in a government school that everyone is equal?

how long have you been dating?
did he tell you pro-actively or only after you discovered his cheating?

>t. Autistic underage turbovirgin

4.5 years and he only came clean when I found out myself

How is it cheating when you aren't a virgin or married? You are used goods and unable to pairbond with him

I think you need to shut the fuck up already. You're helping no one with your antics. She said earlier that they promised to get married they just aren't yet

Have to agree with this. I thought I could get over this but I was wrong. Messed up my self-esteem.

So do you guys think theres any hope in me trying to stay? Cause in general it sounds like theres not much hope

ask him if he'll let you fuck another guy.

Put all his belongings in his car. Drive said car to an isolated area. Douse the interior with gasoline. Stand far back and throw a burning piece of cloth through an open window. This is considered a power move in relationships. You'll impress him with such a fiery display of passion.

I wouldn't of I were you but maybe it could work out for you. I guess the main thing is that the relationship dynamic might never be same after this.

Why should he marry a used up slut? You know she has fucked at least 75 guys. Have so e dignity and self respect

Your self esteem should be zero. Who wants you now that you are polluted? No one. Maybe find some incel lol like the whore you are