I recently have started having sex for the first time in my life. I'm 25-30 age range. The girl is really great. But I have a problem cumming. I can and do fuck her for hours, and she cums countless times but I can't finish while we have sex.
It's not a problem for me but she keeps telling me I can't finish because of her. It's not true, I get satisfaction from watching her finish. I can jerk off later or with her and finish myself. But I can tell she's starting to get bothered by it.
Is there any way I can fix this? I realize it's probably because I got used to jerking off a certain way. I still jerk off twice a day, but it's hard to stop.
Tell her to suck your fick and balls while fingering your prostate
Levi Barnes
stop masturbating and stop watching porn. youll see how things will turn around
Jackson Stewart
I mean...we tried. My ass was sore for days after, and i didnt cum I dont watch porn and havent for years
Levi Long
Then stop jerking off
Connor Myers
Stop jerking off.
Julian Smith
Had that problem, and a friend had it to, both late bloomers. It's performance stress related, some people manifest it as trouble cumming. Eventually it will pass
Jose Johnson
Take off the condom
Ian Hall
How? I get incredibly hard thinking about her cumming and i cant help myself - i need to get the poison out to move on with my day. Im not worried about performing, she lovea cumming like everybidy and i dont care if I do with her. Im more interested in watching her shake from her orgasms
Brody Harris
Jews I have the same issue, going raw and doggy style worked
Gabriel Williams
So i had this problem with my first last girlfriend she would get off 6+ times till she had to stop because she was getting sore and i wouldnt cum. You just have to work at it. Clear your head when you have sex and keep reinstating its not her. You will work threw this shes gotta give you time because this is a problem with you
Josiah Wright
No comdoms, shes fixed and we're both clean and do tests periodically. Both share paperwork, to be sure. An agreement we have. Been going raw for a couple weeks, still make her cum a ton but nothing close for me Alright man I will
Going raw is fun, especially when you both know you're clean
Alexander James
This is clearly yet another case of death grip syndrome, stop masturbating for aweek first even if you get rock hard resist it, after that limit yourself to only once or twice a week ONLY when the dick gets hard by itself and ONLY with plenty of lube and a fleshlight (or two hand with a condom if you can't afford that) and DO NOT rush it, take your time with your jerk off session, keep this up long enough and you'll soon see a massive difference.
Jackson Foster
My problem is stopping. I think about seeing her hips quiver as she cums and i just get so goddamn hard i could cockslap a diamond into pieces. I see her cum so much and i enjoy that, if i end uo being able to cum I wont be able to hear her moan and bite my neck as much as she does.
Justin Garcia
Willpower, you want to be able to nut in her so learn to keep your hand off your dick for just ONE week
Justin Peterson
I havent been able to do that in my life, i started jizzing at 15
Parker Garcia
double check any meds you are on.
I had some bad docs who were pushing pills and not cross-checking themselves. Lost my ability to keep hard and get to orgasm for months, half a year later new doc says "oh yeah this could have been permanent". It wasn't and everything is working again.
