Found out my ex (who I had hopes of getting back with) has a new guy in her life. Life is pretty much over now
Ex-gf has a new boyfriend. What is suicide?
Why would you want to get back with someone who already left you? Get a new gf.
If you are thinking about killing yourself I really urge you to get some help. People will listen to you and be able to help you. This chick isn't worth killing yourself over, and you know that.
Jack off, start exercising like crazy (running is cheap and easy), etc.
It was living situation that was behind our break up. We couldn't get to see each other as much as we wanted. I was hoping to fix that in the future but she said she needs a proper bf, and it's best we remain friends.
>Get a new gf.
Funny guy
She was my first gf in years, and I was punching above my weight. I won't find another
Long distance relationships never work, that's why you gotta get the living conditions right before you start dating. It probably would have ended sooner or later anyway, there's no point in beating yourself up about it. Just because you get one bad apple doesn't mean you should swear off of apples forever. Read a book, go to the gym, get a hobby, and before you know it you'll meet another person.
>Read a book, go to the gym, get a hobby, and before you know it you'll meet another person.
I have no motivation to do anything of those things. I'm not the kind of guy who just meets new women. This was my one chance... and it's over.
>not the kind of guy who just meets new women
Why not? What if there's someone out there who's even better?
>Why not? What if there's someone out there who's even better?
She probably wouldn't look twice at me.
Probably implies possibility
Okay then, there's no chance.
How do you know?
Previous experience. I was insanely lucky to end up with my ex.
Ah but if you're not the type of person to go out and meet new women because you believe that any good woman will turn you down because you don't believe in yourself, then you're creating a situation where you have to be insanely lucky to find any women at all. If you were simply willing to give yourself and other women a chance, you wouldn't need to be as lucky.
>(who I had hopes of getting back with)
This was your first mistake user, if you can't break ties then you deserve all the suffering that follows.
Been there OP. Time helps a lot. Experience even more. Go out socializing and experiencing things. And don't let your happiness be dependent on anyone especially young women who are volatile themselves in this day and age.
You act as if I had a choice
You do. Find yourself a virgin instead of a skank
Not him but my gf was a virgin and that didn't stop her from leaving me and probably going after others guys afterwards
The joke is on her she ruined her life and is now damaged goods. Find another virgin
lol. Thinking virgins aren't just potential skanks
They might be but non virgins are definitely skanks. Just read the stories here of how these sluts behave and it's clear that non virgins have no value
How the hell is a dude in his mid-30s supposed to find a virgin without ending up on the SOR?