Bf puts his friends before me. I get stood up bc he is still hanging out with them when weve made plans...

Lol nice try.

Your welcome

I'm speculating. I didnt call him gay to his face. But thanks for your help.

He's having fun, no one likes to be rushed when they are having fun.
Did you make plans together or are you just expecting him home?
How long have you been dating?
Do you have friends of your own? Do you like his friends? Anything else we should know?

"i mean i know i should dump but im 30 and i hate dating. Im sad."

we got the female fucking hemingway over here people. what a fucking literary giant. you're definitely not a low IQ fat bitch

If you don't feel happy in the relationship then dump him, if you still want a relationship, talk to him about it.

Also, if you hate dating then just don't do it, being single is fine and if you want kids there's adoption, surrogate mothers, and artificial insemination.

Pretty useless speculating. Does he actually have fun with you? Do you nag him? Annoy him?

Recommend adoption, but that's like dating til you adopt then that's marriage. Having any kind of baby is more of a shotgun wedding.

>Just freeze ur eggs

LMAO no one wants them from 18-30 why do they want them at 35 and in $100,000 denbt for egg harvesting

I never realized I was THAT unimportant to you.

retarded cunt

Fucking bitch. Let him hang out with his buddies.

We had plans to go to a party at his friends. He always stands me up for these other two guys though who I dont care for because they are a bad influence. Weve been dating 10 months. Honestly he treats me like shit because he knows I put up with it. I think im going to dump tomorrow. Also im not fat and ugly even though thats what Jow Forums likes to assume about every girl on here.

Lol i do. He hung out with them all yesterday. I am just annoyed that he makes plans with me and then doesnt follow through.

It doesn't matter if you are fat or ugly you threw away your value by letting men pollute you. Sorry not sorry because you knew

What do you mean by pollute me?

I'm going to level with you OP, being 30 doesn't mean shit... It just doesn't. I'm 28 and I have no issues finding someone to day; use OK Cupid don't fuck with tinder, unless it's not strong enough of an app in your area. What you have is a significant other who has a chronic issue with being a child. It's not that it's a bad thing, he's clinging to his nostalgic childhood and not a forward-looking individual. If you can bring yourself to be with someone who has a stagnant growth pattern then that's your prerogative. If not, just end that shit it's not worth it. He will go on being a man baby and not prioritizing his relationship...

There is A HUGE "however," in all of this. You could always try to just go and hangout with your friends until he catches wind of it and then just throw caution to the wind. Make new friends that he isn't included in to show that dude what it feels like. He will either get a clue and step up or he'll call it. The fact is that people are allowed to hangout with their friends, but the thing is that all the times I've seen "this" type of thing it just never works out, not even after 5 years of dragging it on. Frankly, the relationship sounds material. If he has you as a girlfriend and skips on plans with you, he's basically just using you for sex and intimacy probably. A good outro would be, "Don't worry hun, you hang out with your friends all the time, you can just fuck them from now on too. kthxbye"

You aren't virgin you are tainted, damaged,polluted, ruined, useless, used up, over or as feminazis say cancelled

Lol I'm sorry I asked.

You should be sorry you ruined your value and your life

>socializing with your friends is man baby behavior
kek. fucking mentally ill feminazis in here man.

I know I can get dates easily, it's just I want kids and everyone always says once you get into your 30's, your time is up. I wasted my 20's hating myself and being antisocial and turning guys away. But now that I have this timeline put on me, I'm freaking out. You basically described my bf, though. He is very immature and most likely uses me for sex. And yeah, with the friends thing, I need to do my own thing and stop waiting around for him. I just hate playing those games where now i have to ignore him. I just want a normal relationship. Thank you for your help.

LMAO you are probably infertile from age and diseases. Just adopt some pet minorities or cats LMAO

Don't do the kids thing and just live your life instead.

Do you hate women this much? Lol you need to relax

if you don't hate women then you simply haven't spent much time around one.

You aren't women you are a sewer

Yes Shlomo but don't worry Shlomo she threw away her opportunity for kids and happiness. She needs to accept it like the man she tries to be

Have fun with your hand, loser.

Have fun with a barren womb emcel

Touche

Bros before hoes. Fembots will never understand

For real though, he’s probably not the guy for you. Sounds immature

While I think it's probably likely you're not giving us the full story here, and assuming your boyfriend owes you first right of refusal to his time, it is definitely shitty if you made plans and he bails a lot.

But just like I'd tell any guy to get some of his own friends if he was mad his girlfriend was out with hers, maybe that'd be a good thing for you. They have been in his life longer than you, and will likely be around when you're gone though.

>Bf puts his friends before me. I get stood up bc he is still hanging out with them when weve made plans
He may be your boyfriend, but you're clearly not his gf. You're just the slampig he calls up when he's horny and/or bored.
GJ, GE.

She threw away her value