Should I use a prostitute? I'm a 35 y o almost virgin. I only slept with one girl like a decade ago. I've been in love with her, but she really has no interest in me and I've been feeling a bit emotionally fucked up about it lately.
I know I should really just fix my shitty social awkwardness and anxiety issues and just start dating girls normally, but easier said than done. I've tried this as hard as I can my whole life, and in recent years I've become quite chronically ill and I'm losing hope in being able to improve things much with regards to this.
I feel like using a prostitute every now and then might just dull the pain a little.
Has anyone done it here? Done it regular? Is it worthwhile? I hear a lot of mixed opinions on it.
I'm also worried about using someone who turned out to be a victim of human trafficking. If I did do that I think I'd just kill myself out of shame. But there seems to be a lot of girls who do this shit happily out of their own free will. Not sure how to know if I've found one of these girls or not.
Even those massage parlours where the do handjobs sounds kinda appealing. But also not sure how to find one of these that's not super sketchy..
>How to find massage parlor Look for one that is open late. The ones I've seen are usually open till 11pm. Go sometime in the morning or noon. At night they've had several dozen cocks. Don't feel bad about human trafficking bs. Those girls are driving around in BMWs & Benz. Besides human trafficking is the states fault for not legalising prostitution in the first place
Jose Kelly
>Those girls are driving around in BMWs & Benz. I'm in Ireland. And there's been a few documentaries about human traffickers here and how the operate. It's the most horrifically depressing shit ever, and it seems really hard to tell who's offering services because they want to and who's being forced to by some group of thugs. They make most of their girls look like they are independant, when really they are part of a big sex ring. This shit bothers me 100x more than any benefit i would get from some stranger sucking my dick.
Generally agree that prostitution should be legal to avoid a lot of this shit, but my point stands. Wouldn't be completely opposed to traveling to a country where it was legal so long as i could feel i was less likely to be involved in something super shady.
Lincoln Cook
Do you mind the fact that she almost certainly will find you repulsive and only does it for money? This may wreck your confidence even more.
Also there is no way to know if a woman is trafficked or not, it's not very easily detectable. However if she doesn't speak your language well you can be sure she's not here out of her own free will.
I personally wouldn't do it if I were you. The people that can go see prostitutes and feel good about it are usually men who are/can be in relationships easily but want sexual acts their partner refuse (usually degrading ones). They are pleasure seekers with little empathy.
Dylan Jenkins
>Massage parlor aka rub and tug Avoid these
>Micro brothel This is what you want
Thomas Peterson
Actually legalization increases trafficking because it increases the demand so much willing prostitutes aren't enough.
Landon Watson
>Do you mind the fact that she almost certainly will find you repulsive and only does it for money? I wouldn't mind.
As for the rest, i generally agree with you. If I can't assure myself I've found a girl who wasn't traffic (which I'm pretty confident exist), then I couldn't go through with it.
Austin Collins
why avoid?
Cameron Morales
I see. Cali here and my gf works at a hair salon downstairs from a massage parlor. She hears the fucking from the break room and sees the girls roll up in their fancy cars.
Easton Lopez
Legalising and tough regulations would work. Just look at the Bunny ranches in Nevada
Lucas Ross
From the stuff I've watched here, the traffic girls are often driven around from spot to spot in super fancy cars owned by the human traffickers.
Maybe those girls own the cars, but I wouldn't assume it.
Jose Martinez
OP just fuck a 35+ uggo, cheaper than a prostitute and you'd bring joy into the world
John Gonzalez
Ugly girl? If they were ugly enough to want to settle for me, it's probably not the appealing.
Gavin Rogers
Hop on Ryanair and take a flight to Germany. Enjoy the legal affordable prostitutes.
Jaxson Bennett
Ur not in the right mindset to get out of ur issues. A woman that actually wants ur dick is 100x hotter than a whore
Matthew Myers
I think the only kind of lady that would settle for me would be someone fat and smelly and dysfunctional. I'm just too awkward and anxious for anyone normal to want to do something like that with me. Regardless, i wouldn't be comfortable. I think I'd feel okay if I was paying for a formal service though. I know she's not going to be attracted to me.
Lucas Edwards
I regularly visit prostitutes. Like, once or twice a week for over 10 years now. I'm obviously going to say it's well worth the money, but I also get the special "generous regular" treatment. The quality of service in "reputable" places goes up with the tip and how you act towards the girls. Customer stories can travel fast.
Tyler Diaz
Not necessarily. There are probably a sizable number of people who would like to suck dick for money now but don't because it's illegal, you'd get those people coming into the system. When a formerly illicit activity becomes legalized, it also tends to have a downward effect on price. This is because the market factors in the legal risks of these activities. For example, here in Canada I used to pay $15-20 a gram for weed just 10-15 years ago. Now you can get it for around $10 a gram legally and less than that on the street. This reduction the price of sex post legalisation would make human trafficking much less profitable.
Juan Mitchell
Are you fat and smelly and dysfunctional?
Christopher Price
fat and smelly no. Dysfunctional yes.
Anthony Adams
Who is taking to u about settling? Ur really clueless about women
Christian Torres
No shit. That's literally the only reason I'm considering what I'm considering.
Dominic Parker
You're proving my point.There aren't many women who want to suck dick if prices go down with legalization. There is an endless supply of poor women you can force to take many clients until they are profitable.
Dominic Martin
There are websites where girls can offer their services. There are 18+ students and other girls who like fucking men and do so for for a little extra cash here and there. Had great experiences with these girls
Dominic Anderson
>There aren't many women who want to suck dick if prices go down with legalization Doubtful. Especially poor for women.
>There is an endless supply of poor women you can force to take many clients until they are profitable. Much harder to force them to do legal work than illegal. If the work is legal, it's much easier to go to the police about it. If the work is illegal, you can get in trouble for reporting it too.
Brody Johnson
tell me more about these websites.
Adrian Edwards
>BMWs & Benz yeah I see hookers driving much nicer cars than me, fuck feeling sorry for those whores
Colton Martin
Yeah but with the reduced price, risk is also reduced while trafficking would still be illegal. So whereas a 19-year old college student could suck a dick for a quick 20-30 dollars with virtually no legal risk or overhead, the traffickers would have all this overhead and risk. Legalizing anything, weed, alcohol and gambling are the best examples that come to mind, have never had a net positive effect of the black market and prostitution is no different.
Jack Jones
I hired a delivery massage girl for 90 mins a couple times for $300 each time to see what it was like
It was a waste of money and I can't believe men are willing to pay for this shit regularly at these prices.
Nathaniel Taylor
>it was a waste of money >yet he did it a couple of times
Evan Anderson
I was nervous for the first time, so I thought that might have been the reason but it wasn't.
Jace Johnson
Sure. I do it regularly, and I'm married. Think of it as getting a haircut.
Carter Carter
Advise me. How do you find girls you can trust to be good? Are you bothered by human trafficking?
Connor Perez
>How do you find girls you can trust to be good? For my specific thing, I've got a long-term relationship with a lady who specializes in it. Been using her services for many years now, so I know she's good, and I found her by googling some relevant. Generally, it all comes down to what you want, and how much you're looking to pay for it. Of course, this is all assuming you're looking for something legal, who knows how many dicks a street corner hooker has had, and thus how good she is, but I wouldn't exactly trust their claims about anything.
Now, assuming you're looking for some good, clean, regular fun, then your best bet is to look up recommendations for you local brothels. As long as you find a place that's legit, all the girls working there should definitely know enough to get you off and leave you satisfied, if it's vanilla stuff you're looking for. They get paid for it, so obviously they're being hired to do it well.
>Are you bothered by human trafficking? Sure, along with most other cases of people having their free will taken away from them and being forced into doing fucked up shit. That's why I only recommend you go to legit businesses and stay away from pimps.
Hudson Evans
What country are you in? All that shit is illegal here atm.
Justin Hall
Dutchfag here.
Dominic Lee
Lucky bastard.
Do you worry about getting caught doing this shit? I doubt your wife would care much for that kind of craic.
Jeremiah Fisher
She knows. And she's fine with it, since it's something that she doesn't want to do.
Alexander Smith
Weird. I'd sure as fuck feel weird doing something like that. Wouldn't be okay with my wife doing something similar either.
Dylan Morgan
Well, you know, to each his own. We still have regular sex and love each other, plus I don't actually fuck the lady I'm seeing, it's a different kind of service. Like I said, it's basically like getting a haircut, if your wife wasn't into cutting hair.
Levi Martin
That's fair enough. Whatever works for both of you.
Sebastian Richardson
My wife doesn't care if I see hookers either but I'd rather dump her and have a real relationship if things got to that stage
Even cheating with normal girls would be more satisfying than prostitutes.
Brayden Howard
>if things got to that stage bro they already are
Xavier Wilson
There are different ones in every country so use google. It's a mix of prostitutes from brothels and private girls in these sites.
Adam Wilson
do it. ive been travelling all around world for two years (was fuckin amazing) and was thinking about hitting hookers. never made it. now i regret it. i have no STD tho but... i regret now not fuckin bitches from different countries. what do u have to lose? fuck them, get some confidence, maybe u even fall in love with one of them, be her white prince.. yolo it dude
Andrew Rodriguez
Irish people are truly angelic.
Christopher Baker
Not op but human trafficking is a meme made up by lawmakers cause they can't tax whores.
Lincoln Rogers
Massage parlors are often honeypots for scams and time wasters. I prefer micro brothels because unlike MPs who can advertise for clients, MBs operate strictly off word of mouth reputation and the mama san's who manage them don't take shit from anyone, especially the girls.
Connor Ward
>Where do you find girls your can trust to be good Jewgle escort review and find a board in your area. Lots of pooners out there sharing their experiences with girls with enough info to contact them yourself if u choose to do so
Liam Morris
Work for who? I've seen 100+ whores in my lifetime and would never visit the bunny ranch. The value for money is terrible at these places. Most pooners agree based on reviews from review boards.
Hunter Martin
I think we’re pretty meh looking on average desu. Though the best of us look pretty good. But we’re no Sweden. Better looking people in the west coast imo.
