Pretend to be poor

It is a good idea to hide wealth from girls?

I'm looking for a long-term partner and i don't want her to be attracted to my money

So i had the idea of pretend to be a poor man when flirting with girls

Dressing in plan shirt and normal clothes and driving a normal car. Then after like a year told them the truth, it is a good idea?

Attached: 254F34DD00000578-2938347-Hot_stuff_In_tense_sexually_charged_moments_from_the_first_story-a-19_14229 (634x391, 41K)

Never gonna get a gf thus way

Ehhhh
this could massively backfire

I wouldn't wait an entire year
You'll be able to see if they are selfish or generous relatively early on

Not mentioning money is a good idea, though

If you hide it an entire year she may question her ability to trust you

This
Don't make money the center of your personality, but don't hide it for too long, focus on making sure you have an interesting personality above all, your material posessions come after

It’s never a good idea to hide that information. Wealth is a big deal when considering a partner. It’s not just for shallow cunts. Knowing you and your future family is secure means a lot to people.

>dress in plain shirt
>drive normal car
>pretend to be poor
So your idea of rich is dressing and acting like a flamming fag in any other setting?
>pretends to be poor to date girls
>doesn't date a girl of a similar socio-economical background
Nouveaux riche much?

No, it will backfire. You don't have to live like a richfag and flaunt your wealth, just B urself

Those aren't the kind of girls i want through

How much should i wait?

It is a terrible idea.
Being flashy rich is idiotic in general. Don't be that guy.
People should always consider the wealth of their partner because you're sharing your money with them. No one wants to be with Tim who is bad with money and barely makes it at the end of the month because then you're the one who has to cover his stupid ass when he gets in debt.

Don't be flashy.
Don't spend too much money on your SO. Don't buy her expensive gifts.
See if she offers to pay stuff for you when you're out together.
See if she gets mad that you aren't paying for her or covering all the expenses.

>doesn't date a girl of a similar socio-economical background
is this actually a thing? most women i meet are middle class so i have to avoid the money subject for a while everytime

Why would you ever want to marry a woman who thinks it is a good idea to get married with a poor man who can't look after himself and manage his money?

I ain't flashy or anything like that but i wear a suit everyday to work, and i had always like fashion since i was a teenager, so those suits are Zegna, Brioni and Kiton

Humble and Integrity

Few weeks to a few months
Its not like it has to be a big conversation, but you can start paying for more expensive things and she'll figure it out

Primarily you need to see what her interests are BEFORE you reveal anything, though

Most women won't even know who Zegna is.
Also you can change in normal clothes when you go out, you don't need to wear a suit to a pub.

It is a poor life decision. Tying yourself financially to a man who lives paycheck by paycheck is stupid, and women who do it aren't "humble", they're dumb.

Nobody would ever guess that state

Why would you hang with middle class folks in the first place? Just find a qt wife on the same level as you.

People with considerable finances either should be ultra conservative and consistently show no status, or allways show status and accept that they will likely be wifing empty trophies. There is no middle ground.

Eh not really, women tend to date upwards and men tend to date whatever they can get

OP, its best to hide wealth from everyone. When it comes to money there are very few you can trust.

>It is a good idea to hide wealth from girls
Yes
But only what you cant afford to lose.
Your idea however overall, is shit.
im not rich, but im not poor either. I am able to afford whatever i'd like.
I just ignore the money area entirely, let them figure out my worth to them. If i flash all this money around, then like any fucking child, she is going to assume you are going to be throwing all this cash her way. Because you wont stop talking about it/showing it off.
Just do you. Leave money out of any discussion and let her fucking break the ice on that one. This way you can at least ID her motives as they pertain to money.

Pretending to be poor and hiding wealth is different things.
Live as if you aren't making more than the average person and then save money for important things.
Let's say you are making $100k/year and you decide to live as if you are making $50k/year. Nobody will think this is weird, you limit yourself to doing the same things everyone else is doing.
Plus, when you actually reveal your money penis, you actually have a lot to show.