Blowjob Tips: How do I give great head?

Never given one before but I want to. What do you love when someone sucks you? Or, what have you found guys really like?

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Don't use teeth too much. Wrap your lips around your teeth for the most part.

Make eye contact every once in a while

Use lots of spit

SPIT SPIT SPIT. Spit is your best friend. Use your hand as well as your mouth. Use your tongue too

Makes sense! Do you straight up curl both your lips over your teeth the whole time? Or are there other techniques you find help? I'm gonna need some serious chapstick.

Hydration! Got it. Do they like it more if you use your hand as like an extension of your mouth or more like independently?

>Do they like it more if you use your hand as like an extension of your mouth
I do, personally. Keep in mind that it's basically the rim of the head of the penis that has all the nerve endings (especially if he's circumcised) so all that licking the shaft they do in porn is just for show. It's a good tease, but it doesn't really feel like anything.

>Makes sense! Do you straight up curl both your lips over your teeth the whole time? Or are there other techniques you find help? I'm gonna need some serious chapstick

Pretty much. You can test it by sucking on your finger. If you feel too much teeth, you aren't doing it correctly. The penis is very sensitive so unless the dude is a maschocist, he won't appreciate the scraping.

>Hydration! Got it. Do they like it more if you use your hand as like an extension of your mouth or more like independently?

Yes for the former. A good thing is to use your mouth to focus on the head, and your index+thumb to work the shaft (or your whole hand if your hand is small enough and his dick is large enough). Most importantly, just listen to the dude and observe his reactions. If he tells you to do something specific, then continue doing that.

Idk about a male perspective, but I know I gave good when my lips are swollen and sore afterward

Gotcha. So like lips wrapped around head, play around with the tongue, and use hand like extra mouth/lips haha Any difference for you between using like thumb and forefinger vs whole hand??

I'll give it a try with my fingers, and all that sounds good. Thanks!

haha soon as we're done I'm gonna straight up "lemme take a selfie"

I like it when it's a female on the other side

What's cum taste like? I wanna take it in my mouth but I'm nervous I'll gag or something

Bitter salty boogers and coins and milk

you're just going to have to feel it out from there. A few suggestions, don't start off too eager. Foreplay is good, running your fingers up the side, tell him he's got a nice cock, kissing around it, etc. Your jaw is going to hurt a lot more than you think it will. It's ok to take a moment, use your hands, wipe your face off and ask him some sexy "how's that?" or "you like that?" to get some feedback. Suck on the balls if they're not too gross and hairy, while stroking him with your hand — but be gentle with that and maybe ask permission first.
This a male perspective, FYI.

it depends on dude's diet.
I never tasted it, but it doesn't taste really good, just swallow it as fast as you can

Wow, uh... how do people even swallow that?

yes, but if you are fast enough you'll not have the time to feel its taste

So do you just shove it back in your throat and swallow or like how do you actually do that?

I think I'm going to gag every time but I never do. It's not so much the taste as the texture that gets me. Just swallow really quick.

Literally as much saliva as possible. Same for handjobs. Like literally drool all over it.

Besides swallowing, which I wanna do, is there another sexy way to finish? Like should I stroke him and let him cum on my face? I've heard guys are into that, and it sounds better than salty booger coin milk hahaha

have you ever eaten an oyster?

Nope, not yet

Do *not* let it get in your eyes, that shit fucking hurts.
Let him cum on your tits, it's hotter and less gross for you.

well it's a fairly similar experience. Your body will know what to do, but seriously for you first time don't expect him to come from the blowjob anyway. No amount of experienced BJ skills can get a man off if he's even slightly nervous and you're not going to be very good right away anyway. IF it does happen let him come on your boobs and save the other places for later. Don't let a man come on your face the first time you have sex together. But if it doesn't happen it's likely equal parts you and him and I wouldn't worry about it, nothing is perfect the first time.

Really? I wouldn't expect it to hurt so much, but I'll definitely avoid it. Tits is even easier to clean up haha

Hmm, gotcha. If he doesn't finish I'll try not to feel bad about it haha Any specific reason not to let him cum on my face the first time? It's not what I'd prefer, but for you saying that - Is it more a respect thing?

This thread is really hot

>Any specific reason not to let him cum on my face the first time
respect yes — respect yourself enough to not "give it all away" the first night — but also you want some more stuff to pull out later into the relationship if it gets that far. Mostly a matter of pacing yourself and not trying to blow his mind in every conceivable way the first night, like sprinting at the start of a marathon.

your jaw will hurt no matter the size if done longer than a few minutes.
don't practice on anything without a base or you could choke to death.
exaggeration can be your friend. don't forget people vary and one's easy button might do nothing for someone else. hair might get caught in your teeth. Jizz is somewhere between bleach and glue taste wise generally. ladies can taste sweet or salty, or like blood, anything else needs a medical evaluation or shower. you can use hands on any part (even the same) of the body durring. Great time to introduce toys. if using citrus fruit for flavor stings a man, there's a cut or wound.
no spicy foods for the blower just before. mouth cleaning should be at least 20 minutes before to allow mouth to heal any small cuts. test lube on arms first. no food in vagina, maybe washed veggies, nothing juicy and no juice. use different parts different ways get creative.

This is just what my dick likes, I don’t exactly know the trick my wife does.

Variety of suction: lots of suction feels good, but sometimes light suction with tongue action and lightly caressing the scrotum makes me bust quick.
Constant stimulation: if your mouth gets tired or you need to take a breath, use your hands and jerk him off for a little while.
Licking the balls: kinda self explanatory, although be careful with sucking the balls, sometimes that shit hurts.
Auditory stimulations: when I hear my wife moaning while sucking my dick, shit makes me diamonds and confident and comfortable as fuck.
Visual stimulation: eye contact, ass shaking touching yourself, anything that shows that you’re into getting throat fucked.
Deep throat: honestly I only like this when it’s combined with constant movement, just having my dick in the back of my wife’s throat doesn’t really do anything for me unless she’s humming.
Hummers: learn the technique.
Teeth placement: sometimes teeth is nice, sometimes it’s not.
Use your entire mouth: rubbing the dick around your cheeks simulates the feeling of the smoothness of a vagina and feels great if done right.
Ask questions: jerk him off and ask him if he likes what your doing, ask him what he wants more of.
Give direction: simply let him know if it’s ok to bust in your mouth or if he needs to warn you.
Wandering hands: touch his chest, inner thighs, nipples, etc., oral sex doesn’t have to strictly stay in the pelvic region.

Again, these are just the things I’ve enjoyed being done to my dick, so I’m no expert.

I've literally never involved food of any kind in the bedroom and I'm curious why you thought it's important enough to bring up here

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That makes a lot of sense, thanks for the tip. I definitely don't want it to be like, "welp, that's all I got"

That's a lot of info and omg thank you for the part about spicy foods and citrus, I wouldn't have thought of that and I fucking love spicy food.

Thanks for the list! Sounds like your wife has some skills haha I'm takin notes.

I think I want to hint to this guy that I want him in my mouth, but I feel like he should also know I've never done it before. How to find the right balance of please give it to me and this might suck? haha

Do you think flavored lube would be good?

>How to find the right balance of please give it to me and this might suck?
sounds like you don't have a problem giving him the signals that you want to get down, but once you're there just say it, and you can even spin it in a kind of bashful sexy way. He's not going to say no and every guy wants to be a girl's first.

Don't just succ like you are stealing gas.
Give it some variety.
Care for the balls, lick the entire length, kiss the hips as a tease, grab the hips while sucking.

please god, smite these sodomites

saliva>>>

>just say it, and you can even spin it in a kind of bashful sexy way
That sounds fun and probably the best way to go. Could probably sneak in this is probably gonna suck wants I'm holding it in my hands haha

> kiss the hips as a tease, grab the hips while sucking
I really like the sound of that, thanks for the idea

Gotcha, so hydrate like a mofo and bring the drool, I'll be all over it

Doesn’t even taste that bad, it’s just distinct, it’s best to swallow it quick, or spit it if you’re a pussy

It hurts like hell

You should take over Nike, change the slogan to "Just Swallow It" or something

Mouth, tits, or swim goggles - it's a plan

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THIS THREAD HAS ME ROCK HARD

How about right as he's about to cum, or while he's cumming, like is it too much to keep going if I can? Is it better to slow down, go faster, or does it just change how it feels but doesn't really affect the orgasm? I'd just hate for him to be right on the verge then I fuck it up.

As long as you dont abruptly stop. Please don't do that. Also don't worry about swallowing for the first time since we don't know what his diet consists of and if you're not prepared for the (bitter) taste, you may puke, which will ruin both of your moods. Let him nut on your face or chest instead

Ask your husband what he likes.
Not married? Then don't have sex.

sperm is a little acidic to survive in the vagina. You can practice by squiring lemon juice in your eye :^)

It absolutely affects the orgasm, for me it's the most important part. Keep going / go faster but DO NOT STOP.
It probably varies from person to person tho, so keep going unless he asks for sth specific & ask him for next time afterwards

My girlfriend has overactive salivary glands.

Some people are just genetically superior.

>start with setting the mood, whether that means you want to play a sex nympho ripping his pants off to get it in your mouth as he comes in from work, or a full body massage with oil
>enthusiasm: eager, playful eye contact when first moving over to his zipper, or a stare down, or demurely looking away or whatever works for you; porn noise is insane but an occasional stifled noise is going to feel great for him; make the visual hot, do it in your underwear or let your hair down and throw it dramatically back out of your face, let him enjoy having his moment (obv not every time can be like that but still)
>if you have trouble avoiding teeth, imagine you're trying not to let your teeth scrape an ice cube you hold between your lips
>if he's uncut, gently rolling down the foreskin makes him moth sensitive, if he's cut watch the level of wetness, even just thinking of your mouth watering ups your saliva production, try it
>the frenulum, the tissue fold right underneath the head, is one of the golden spots, other (possible) winners are the corona (ridge around the head), actual peehole, the very base where the shaft meets the balls, the "seam" of the ballsack and/or the taint, inching towards doing something can be a silent way to ask for permission or encouragement before taking it further, don't feel bad if you don't want to try something (yet)
>if he's open to it, the anus can be fantastic to lick/finger during or in between
>some men are going to prefer the classic bobbing up and down motion and some will be more particular about e.g. holding down or massing the balls during, or will want you to focus on the most sensitive head, or fuck your throat rather than leaning back, or will get most out of deepthroating - try to never feel bad about what makes you uncomfortable/horny
>dirty talk during or teasing moments where you come up to whisper in his ear, kiss his neck etc

Genuinely grateful OP for this thread (and to everyone who wrote a helpful response). I've considered practicing with carrots but I always feared getting busted by mom, or getting caught trying to get rid of the evidence.

>for a "Cosmo tip" that's actually fun, try warming your mouth with tea or taking a small and cool enough sip and then taking him in your mouth
>one trick I enjoy, I'll try to explain it the best I can, is when his dick is angled like most are and e.g. has an upwards curve, and he is really fully had, it apparently feels great to come down on it (gently! no teeth! and slower is better) from a very straight upwards angle with your mouth, so his dick kind of wants to making a "popping" motion upwards in your mouth but gets no leeway
>if you have issues finding a position that doesn't give you neck pain, try 69
>have fun! the better it is for you the easier it will be to make it hot for him, so let him play with your pussy or breasts if you feel like it, or play with yourself during
>if you miss it, encourage him to make noise, no one likes working like a farm horse for fifteen minutes for someone who sits there like a mannequin not acknowledging in any way that something's going on (well, almost no one I guess)

Good luck!

Do it in a locked bathroom then wrap the carrot in a bunch of cloth/toilet paper, put it in an empty shampoo container, and throw it away in a different neighborhood.

I wish I was being snarky back when I lived at home this would have been my strategy hands down. Glad the tips were helpful.

>actual peehole
It's not more sensitive than the rest of the head, at least for me, everything else was 10/10 tho.

He's coming over to study! I'm going to try leading like and see where it goes. I'll post how it goes later if the thread is still alive

Bench press 350

good luck!

warm, gooey and salty; some guys have bad diets which makes their cum taste bitter. My bf ate pineapple for a week and his cum tasted kinda sweet, so there's that. My advice is to learn to deepthroat so when he cums you can swallow it down without tasting anything and you won't have to clean up the mess afterwards.

How about don't be such a stupid fucking whore

>Don't use teeth too much.

*at all

Maybe a few playful bites on the side of the shaft but NEVER on the head

why not just eat the carrot afterwards? It was just in your mouth...

You sound really excited so good for you. But I'm a guy, I've gotten tons of head, deepthroat, everything, and never came from a blowjob. It lacks the pressure that a hand, vagina, or ass completely encapsulate the dick in. And there's no good way to recreate it with your mouth. So if he doesn't cum, don't feel bad. It's completely impossible for a lot of guys to cum from head. Other than that have fun.

based

My gf can't fit my whole dick in her mouth. I've asked to try taking it all the way a couple times but she can't manage (also it puts a lot of pressure on my knob which feels uncomfortable).
I'm average size (I think?), is it normal for girls to not be able to do this?

Use the tip of your tongue over the edge of the head. The top of the frenulum and underside of the edge is particularly nice. Use your lips and wide touge when going over the rest.

Only stimulating the frenulum gives a very special kind of orgasm.

If his dick is mutilated he's not gonna feel shit anyway, just bob your head up and down

>shaved balls
>male
Pick one and only one, you cringey effemi ate sissy

>respect thing
Bitch, you're literally asking about how to suck cock on the internet. You've left your last semblance of respect at the door long ago lol

get a friend to help

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THANK YOU, it went so much better than I expected! haha I can post deets if ya want?

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please do

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I posted the ahegao for you and your people, friend.

OK, I'll write it up as a greentext; but, can you tell me why he thought we were actually going to study when he came over? haha

wait is that actually you?

It is, I actually really appreciated the advice and wanted to let everyone know how it went.

He's probably failing and legitimately needs the help. But seriously, as a guy, it's always better to go into a situation like that assuming it's a real study date. Worst case scenario if you don't is you get called a gross creep, make everyone feel uncomfortable, ruin a friendship and get talked about behind your back. It's better just to act oblivious and if it turns out to just be a study date, it ends up just being a study date. It's hard being a man who doesn't want to come off as a creep.

>tfw too ugly to get bj but interested in this thread anyway

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how did it taste?

Hadn't thought of that. The pace in the second semester of summer can be hard to cope with. I thought the winking emoji was enough of a hint but maybe not? We did actually end up studying a bit because I thought he wasn't interested, but I he picked up on it after a bit.

I tried to keep it back and swallow quick like people said, which was harder than I thought but also kept me from really tasting most of it. It was kind of a neutral slightly salty bitter with a lingering aftertaste.

>I thought the winking emoji was enough of a hint
it should have been, he was probably just nervous.
I'm a little shocked you made him cum your first time giving head, 2bh. Give me that greentext.

Other stuff you can do is take your mouth off and work the shaft lightly and twist with your wrist. Like, rotate your grip around the dick as you go up and down. Maybe look him in the eyes and say something flirty.

You can also apply a little pressure to the spongy part right under the ball sack. This can make him cum harder and faster.

OK, I had breakfast, and here’s greentext as promised. If you want details I left out I’ll share when I can, maybe during or after class, just let me know haha

>text cute guy hey we should study tonight ;)
>cute guy comes over
>literally brought his books and notes
>I thought he wasn't interested, so we studied
>say we should take a break on the couch
>my brain will not shut up
>please brain chill out
>him with a laugh: yeah, my brain is already fried
>I get a water and offer him a beer
>literally almost shaking when I hand it to him
>we sit and talk, I relax but look like a freak chugging water
>he jokes about me being thirsty
>me: yeah like you don’t even know
>we laugh
>he doesn’t make a move
>goodguygreg.jpg
>either my hints suck or he’s clueless
>he finishes his beer, leaning back relaxing on couch
>I put my hand on his thigh and say hey
>he looks confused and says yeah, user?
>look him in the eyes and say I want to try something
>him: y-yeah?
>I do the whole bite my lip thing and nod
>him: what do you want to do?
>me: close your eyes
>he does
>I kneel on the couch
>lightly drag my fingernails over his cheeks
>lean in and kiss him
>he jumps but immediately kisses back
>we make out
>I straddle him, lightly scratching at the back of his head and neck
>pulling away, I kissed my way down to his neck
>can feel he’s hard but he thinks I still just want to make out
>undo his belt
>look him in the eye and start to work at getting his pants down
>I help him take them off and slide down to my knees on the floor
>he’s bigger than I thought
>try not to panic
>I tilt my head and smile and almost quote the thread
>tell him I can’t wait to taste him, but I might not be very good
>he chuckles and runs a hand through my hair

>I kiss at his hips and work my way towards him
>get one of his hairs in my mouth already
>laugh and pull it out
>don’t put my mouth on it straight away
>gently run my fingernails up his balls to his shaft
>he shivers
>so I hold it loosely and try the hot and cool breath thing on his balls
>look at his cock
>felt nervous as fuck, there’s like no way that thing will fit in my mouth
>well, I warned him it might suck and we’re already here haha
>lick up the seam of his balls and lightly all the way up to the frenulum
>lightly circle the head with my tongue like Jow Forums taught me
>he’s making little mm sounds that turn me on
>so glad he’s not a dead fish
>make a circle with my thumb and forefinger wrapped just below the head
>take the head into my mouth then lick side to side by the frenulum
>his breathing alone is turning me on
>start to stroke up and down with occasional suck & lick breaks
>go like this for a while
>can I get him to ice my jaw while I do this? jesus
>take a break to stroke him
>literally ask him if he has any requests
>try to be sexy but I die inside as soon as I say it
>he leans over and kisses me
>starts to take off my top
>we pull it off and I take off my bra
>he plays with them and kisses me for second
>he says whatever you were doing with your tongue around the head felt great, user
>I smile, say ok
>he leans back, I pray for my face, and get back to it
>I cup his balls with my left hand
>do like tiny strokes with thumb and forefinger with my right
>sucking and doing like tongue swirling around the head
>extra attention to frenulum like Jow Forums said
>he groans and says fuck, just like that
>he grabs my head, fingers in my hair
>I freak a little at first but he doesn’t push me down

>after a little more and him getting closer, it starts twitching
>he says can I cum like this baby?
>my heart jumps into my throat
>but I look him in the eye and tell him I want to taste him
>cringe a little on the inside but so turned on I don’t really care
>noragrets.png
>get back to it and quicken the pace doing the same thing
>oh fuck, oh fuck he says
>it feels like his dick swells up even more
>can feel it coming
>push his dick a little further into my mouth
>he lets out a loud groan and there’s like a rush in my mouth
>keep my tongue and hand moving and just start swallowing
>barely notice the taste at first so much is happening but almost gag
>kind of neutral actually but a little bitter and salty
>texture is almost like watery snot
>he cums for what feels like forever, hard to ignore my jaw now
>I’ve seen the memes, so I keep sucking
>he can’t take it, gets me to stop
>my face hurts and mouth still tastes weird
>he’s leaning back with his hands over his face mostly just breathing hard
>super turned on now

And that's all I have time to write for now, I gotta go to class. Thanks Jow Forums for your help! It went way better than I expected.

Pretty hot. Thanks for sharing, glad it went well.

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Hope you guys end up in a relationship and don't stay at casual bjs.

Jesus, that's hot. If you have more details, post them.

gj user, wish more grills had your enthusiasm

Bad bait

Fake and gay

Fat whore

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here, take a couple (you)'s

I hope so too. We had lunch today and he asked me to a movie Thurs night, so I countered with an invite to the skate park haha We haven’t talked about what we “are” but I think he knows I want to be with him as more than just his fb or something

did you end up having sex or was it just a blowjob?

You niggas literally fell for this shit without so much as a timestamp. Fucking summer fags I swear.

Kill yourselves normalfags

Those were all the sexy details, so unless there’s something specific you want to know? We kissed a little after that then he left.

Just making out and a blowjob. I don’t want to sleep with him if we’re not together, you know what I mean? Not that I didn’t want to but that’s not me.

who gives a crap about it
my dick was hard reading the whole thread even if it is fake (probably is)

I mean, I got what I wanted: solid tips, my first experience, and with any luck I might have a bf. All good stuff! My shift is about to start though.