The other day my boyfriend asked me if an earring he'd found while cleaning was mine. It wasn't. I saw a condom wrapper down the side of his bed, though we never use condoms together. Ever. He started replying less and doing new things in sex he used to not do before. The other day he asked if I was free on his day off then randomly said he was wrong and didn't actually have a day off. He's also been changing his sheets before I come(which he never used to do before).
Did you ask him where the condom came from? Just to see his reaction? That’s gross, even if it was before you dated... how long have you been dating?
Nolan Bailey
>Is my BF cheating on me? Probably.
Isaiah Scott
Since it seems hes doing such a poor job at hiding it, you should ask him directly Dont shout at him if he says he does, just say you want to end the relationship
Levi Ramirez
lol
Thomas Moore
Sis, check his phone. I always like definitive proof
Samuel Watson
Since early march.
Austin Campbell
Either he is cheating or he hasn’t changed his sheets/cleaned his room since March.
Both grounds for dumping.
Wyatt Morris
Yes
Jayden Jones
Cheater here okay since ive done this shit a lot of times . First step ask for his phone to look something up . If he says No out right hes hiding shit . Second are you fucking stupid ? This is so obvious that he cheated . His changed behavior ,the evidence, doing other stuff in the sheets . Honey run as fast and long as you can and never look back and please don't ever be this stupid again . You woman never learn though
David Anderson
Yes you dumbass I can’t Belive you have to ask us
Luis Evans
Sure as fuck sounds like it.
Gabriel Murphy
probably? Oh c'mon.
changing sheets? asks about earring that isn't op's? Op, don't even bother fighting about it.
Just walk away.
Unless his incontinent sister is sleeping over. He does have an incontinent sister yes? Or maybe his buddy fucked somebody in his room one night at a party you weren't invited to?
How far do you really want to go to justify this?
Logan Ward
So what if he cheats? it's normal. If you are matured you'd let him do what he wants and be accepting. Let him enjoy other women, too. Not just yourself! don't be so selfish.
What’s that, little guy? Who turned you into a pig?
Luke Morales
>I'm a pig because i except women to be matured >Thinks "cheating" is bad, simply because of society >Cant see for yourself it isn't that bad, and if he still comes back to you it's all good.
Okay.
Isaac Wright
oooohhh dam girl. It sounds like it
Elijah Miller
it's ogre
Josiah Barnes
Does he also shower immediately when he comes home? Did he recently start showering immediately upon coming home?
Has he picked up any new language or words? Like really simple words not usually part of his normal speaking? Has he picked up any new hobbies like guitar playing, dancing, drawing, etc?
If you answered yes, then chances are that he is yes. Check his credit card or bank statements if you can. It will show if he has spent money on hotels or even dinner or movies for 2 on days you didnt go out with him
If he has an iphone with "find my iphone" set up, then sign into his house and you can track where he goes on the map
Camden Powell
Autistic Psychopath alert
Cant wait till your gf cheats on you. We shall see if you say the same thing. Oh wait, youll never have a gf cuz youre an incel
Alexander Collins
Thats the spirit
Ethan Kelly
He is cheating on you, hey when you break up with him let me have a shot with you, ill buy you food and ice cream
Carson Gutierrez
There is no such thing as a cheating boyfrind, just like a man can't rape his wife. Now just shut up and have sex you Incel.
Julian Rogers
100% this. It's basically obvious, OP. Walk away before it gets worse.
Isaiah Brooks
sorry dude, but sounds like hes straight up cheating, check his phone if you can, you gotta find out, ask about the condom, leave the relationship he sounds shady af, you deserve better
Lincoln Mitchell
Well OP I was going to say sounds really fishy, but this changes a lot. You haven't known him long enough to know his patterns. Condom could have been old, earring could have been old, he definitely wouldn't ask you if it's yours if he thought the fact it wasn't would be a problem (ie he knew it may have belonged to someone else, but also knows it was before you so it's ok to make sure. He'd have probably hid it otherwise) if he's careful enough to change the sheets he's careful enough to dispose of a condom properly, and who knows. New sex shit could be comfort, you've been dating a few months. It always changes some. In the start.
And the changing sheets thing like he "never used to", well you haven't known him long enough to know what his sheet patterns are.
Is he cheating? Maybe. Hard to tell though. If you told me all of this after being with him for a few years I'd say 100%. But no, it's too early.