What happens when you try all the usual self-improvement techniques, have friends, a social life and sociable hobbies...

How many girls have you asked on date this year?
>inb4 zero
Dancing lessons and xanax. Alcohol also works wonders, go to places where its sold like nightclubs.

I don't get your question, honestly. If you've done all of that, why would you care about getting dates from girls? They're much less important than what you've accomplished. Frankly, I and most other accomplished men of my acquaintance don't have time for that foolishness.

Girls are a very low priority, you have more important things to deal with. If people say otherwise, then they're obviously stupid or giving bad advice. The more you have built the more prone it is to chaotic influence from ignorance or maliciousness. The more accomplished you are, the lower the opposite sex becomes as a priority -- this is partially the reason why.

Is the social circle you've developed something you'd like to trade for a girl? How about the hobby, self-discipline, body of work you've developed etc? If you want societal appreciation, you've already gotten it. If you want sexual gratification, just masturbate. Much less trouble, really.

The first thing you should consider about women individually is: "Will she likely ruin something of mine?" If so, don't get involved with her.

Then fucking kill yourself.

It's not about being scared necessarily, it's about being totally useless with girls and not knowing what I'm doing.

Never asked a girl on a date. Alcohol never worked for getting rid of my nerves with girls.

I'm exactly the fucking same, wish I could help.
I'm not scared I just don't know what the fuck to do/where the fuck to start.

Xanax it is then. Some autists and similiar type of losers use it to be able to go to school or work. You can use it to finally ask some girl on date :3

It sounds like you just want validation from a girl. Its okay, just keep in going! Women really notice it! I did the same thing and now people in my life really respect me and i have a gf. If you really want a date, just start asking girls and learn how to pick up. Its an independant skill from self improvement, more like running numbers. Im not into that, but my friend is. I like the process of self improvement and it manages my OCD, otherwise i engage in very self destructive behaviours.

Be happy. You can't expect to get with someone to make you happy. You have to be really happy, and I mean doing things to improve yourself to rebuild your undoubtedly shattered tiny ego for an organic not drug related happy

>can't get a date
>can't
What prevents you?

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH!!

>make more money (get a better job, get a side job, learn to invest)
>excel at your hobbies or get more actually cool/interesting hobbies

Maybe you are boring and not fun.

You’re not trying hard enough obviously, you can list a million things you improved and none of it matters until you actually put the best of your mind into getting a woman.

If all you want is a “girl” to bang
Go use porn or a hooker and don’t waste anyone’s time. Most of you lonely guys don’t see opportunity because you’re too ignorant to understand the depths of what it takes to get a girlfriend.
If you’re a talentless nobody then chances are your pool of choices of attractive women is so slim it’s laughable.
Doesn’t mean less attractive chick will treat you any different, you can’t get anywhere with women if you give off a needy vibe. Wanting sex so bad you cry online about it is a strong indicator you don’t show confidence.
Stop being weak, get what you want the right way or stop getting upset.

Because you're seeing a relationship as the "final boss" of the self-improvement ladder. You are not truly enjoying life yet, you're just doing the hobbies/etc with the expectation that you'll get a date. Are you happy? Or are you going through the motions?

Woman isn't an insult, incel

Women are degenerates and a drain on society.

Probably talk to a therapist or a close friend. You're probably doing something unconsciously.
Like maybe you're so hard on yourself you actually make people uncomfortable with it.

Only your mother

>Woman isn't an insult
It is for men

All women

Too much of a good man.

Be broken and flawed like the rest.

U kys or become a 52 year old wizard like me

I don't know. No girls seem interested in me. I wish I knew why.

>You are not truly enjoying life yet, you're just doing the hobbies/etc with the expectation that you'll get a date
No I'm not. I have hobbies because I'm genuinely interested in them and find fun in them.

I'm just saying that, despite the fact that I tick all the boxes for being a "normal socially well adjusted guy" I still can't get a first date from anyone. There are guys who don't even bother to do something so simple as wear deodorant, or who spend their free time doing nothing but smoking weed and playing video games, and yet they can get dates and I can't. What gives?

Those guys who from your observation don't have as much to offer but still find success are better at presenting themselves. They don't have the subconcious hang ups you do. When they do something it isn't to get a girl, its because they want to do it.

I would advise you to stop giving a fuck and do whatever you want. Be an asshole. Go to a club and start dancing with a girl. Go to a bar and buy a girl a drink.

>No girls seem interested in me
kek it’s this user again
you’re all better off not wasting your time with him

keep throwing shit at a wall until it sticks, statistically, you WILL eventually run into a woman who is attracted to you, even if it take thousands of rejections.

better looking people will obviously not have to look very hard but hey life ain't fair.