Gf left me for another guy

>gf left me for another guy
>a month later she apologizes and comes crying to me saying she loves me and wants me back

I loved her and planned on marrying. Do I go back to her?

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find out if they fucked and why their relationship didnt work out and take it from there

Need more info, what's the full story?
Who's the dude she ran off with?
How long were you together?
How was your relationship beforehand?

No OP have some self respect and do the right thing. She dumped you for another guy and realized she fucked up. She put his value over yours and now knows she was wrong
Show her that you're worth a damn and find someone else OP, you can do it

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She's just going to dump you again when another guy with greener pastures comes along. You're her safety net. Her plan B. Her comfort zone. The ol' fall-back.

Take her back if you want - but don't act surprised later when she does this again.

We are long distance so I only see her on weekends. She met him at school or something dunno yeah they fucked literally the day after she broke up with me and over the next month. Dont know why it didn't work she told me "I'm the only one for her"

And we had been together 4 years maybe we had been growing apart a little bit beforehand idk

Alright well in that case, forget it.

It was simply an over-exposure for her, seeing him almost every day, likely flirting and chatting. She wondered what it would be like to be with him. Kudos to her for breaking it off from you instead of outright cheating (if that's the case, she might have anyway) but she realized he's not better for her than you are.

THAT BEING SAID
Do not take her back. This will happen again with another dude if you take her back and you're still long distance. She realized what she gave up and wants you back, maybe you have a bigger cock or use it better, or the other dude was a complete asshole. Doesn't matter. She didn't appreciate you when she had you, now you have to appreciate and respect yourself and tell her she fucked up and lost her chance.

You will find someone else, and with luck, someone who doesn't take you for granted.

No, retard. She had her chance and blew it. Let her suffer--the only saving grace, like the other user mentioned, is that she at least broke up instead of cheating on you. All you "owe" her (and I use that loosely) is not to be too harsh in rejecting her.

Take her back but leave her for someone else. Do the exact same thing, except dont come back to her crying to get her back. Or just use her for sex. Blatantly show that things will never be the same and sometimes pull disgusted faces

Fuck this, it will make you feel like a piece of shit. Revenge is rarely worth it.
OP clearly has a heart if this fucked him up, and even if he's capable of doing the same thing back, it would never leave his guilty mind. Don't stoop to that level.

no

Why did she leave in the first place?

completely, totally agree. if you have any sort of moral principals, following that sort of advice will crush you inside. sure did for me, though in a different circumstance.
practically speaking though, girls talk, and if you have a reputation as an asshole, you're in shit luck. does matter if it is true or not, or if you were justified or not, for the most part. that reputation will stick with you. you'll certainly have a reputation for being massively petty either way.

>Fuck this, it will make you feel like a piece of shit.
Only if you allow. Remember that she very very likely does not feel like a piece of shit. Women are masters in deceit and fake tears.
>Revenge is rarely worth it.
Absolutely agree, but in this case, OP suffered clearly. Whenever I have taken revenge, it raised my confidence and made me feel amazing. Whether OP is a fucking pussy ready to be hurt time and time again or stand his ground is up to him.
>OP clearly has a heart if this fucked him up, and even if he's capable of doing the same thing back, it would never leave his guilty mind.
Depends what the revenge is. Doing the exact same thing back is completely fine. Just don't break laws. Its up to how much of a doormat OP is.
>Don't stoop to that level
Alas, OP's ex did. Why shouldn't he?

OP. Ask yourself if you are fine being a doormat. If not, use her and find a new gf while are at it. I would absolutely not rely on this girl. She ruined it and she should learn from it. Accepting her mistakes will make her pull it off again. Trust me.

Don’t be a dick and give her a reason to hate you, but don’t take her back. She’ll have to live with her mistake and maybe she’ll even learn something from it. You are already stronger from the ordeal and deserve someone better.

She doesnt fucking love you. This is a test. She does not fucking love you. She really really does not love you.

Lol, no. Fuck her.
Why would you marry a woman who would dump you for another guy?

My black metal song to sjw trash that try to lie and saint'ify cunts.
Disclaimer:This is not an advocation of violence or a threat of violence. Just my opinion.

Manipulative bitch dies.
Everybody cries.
Thirdwavers lie.
Girl is a cunt...
...but She's saint'ified.
The man is so evil.
He kills all their people.
That's what they claim...
...after dishing out pain.
The message is clear...
...to all of you queers.
Act like a slitch...
...you get your throat slit.
This was so tragic.
Drug addicted whore.
Lost her life.
Yet we lose more.
Vampire girl.
Such a drain.
She gets the glory.
We get the pain.
Lesson be learned.
Whore and her men.
Stables of cocks...
...are never just friends.

It’s over, don’t even talk to her you cuck.

Don’t quit your part time job home boy

Marry her right away before she cheats again

You will never be able to trust her the same way again, deep down. No matter how much you deny it.

She will never be able to respect you the same way, deep down. Especially if you really do cave and take her back. No matter how much she denies it.

The place you shared with her is not one you can go back to. The way there is closed. Permanently. It's time to move on.

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yeah i recommend this one sneer at her afterwards.

fuck no

Shut it, nigger.

Precisely, this guy gets it.

Fuck no.

Block her number and forget she ever existed.

she found someone that actually makes her pussy tingle
most likely he fucked her daily and when she begged for a relationship he said nah bitch

then she goes back to her ex saying 'yeah i broke it off with him because i didnt really like him' lmao this is a classic