Can you have anything close to a serious relationship without complete trust?
The girl I'm currently seeing started out as one of my best friends, but then while she had a bf we ended up getting together, she cheated on him for a few months before finally breaking it off with him to be with me. In this time of cheating she'd always tell me she didn't wanna cheat and that she never had before but eventually it moved past fucking and we both settled into it.
I know that to this point she hasn't cheated or talked to other guys, but I still can't fully trust her because of how we started, but now its starting to get more serious. She's mentioned children a few times and is moving in with me in November. Does all this seem like a good idea or not?
Can you have anything close to a serious relationship without complete trust?
once a cheater always a cheater
If she has cheated with you, she is definitely capable of cheating ON you. May never happen, but don't be surprised.
do not ever fully trust her
the kids/marriage talk is all bullshit
DO NOT FALL FOR IT
my ex who cheated on me AND left me for someone else CONSTANTLY talked about marriage
Do you think trying to slow everything down is a good idea? I really have no desire to end things with her, outside of this aspect (which shes uninformed of), we do have a great relationship.
This might push her to cheat earlier.
My advice in this situation? Enjoy it while it lasts, allow it to be a bright burning flame of intensity, but also accept that the fire may extinguish at a moment's notice. Have fun with her, enjoy her company, enjoy the sex, but let go when you have to.
this just be cool, she'll leave you one day so just live in the moment br000
Thanks, good advice that I overthink too much to come up with myself.
If you don’t trust her you shouldn’t have started dating her, That’s on you. Just because a woman left a man to be with you doesn’t mean she’ll do the same to you. Unless you’re lying about who you really are to her. Women leave/“cheat” when their soon to be ex isn’t supportive or loyal. They won’t break things off with a guy until it’s either too toxic to stick around or she’s found a better partner.
It’s like quitting a job with another one lined up.
The question you should ask yourself is, should she trust you if you’re willing to be a snake in the grass snatching other mans girl from him? See how being labeled feels?
>it's his fault for getting a girl to leave her boyfriend
lol i bet you'll blame the woman once your bf cheats on you
I’ve been in a similar situation before - and yes she is likely to cheat on you.
In her mind she could be thinking that getting into a relationship with you was already a wrongdoing, so getting out via the same method would also be acceptable.
>at least in my case it was a Japanese exchange student and that sweet tight nippon pussy
You’re so bad at reading context you don’t even know what gender you’re talking to.
>never had a girlfriend
My black metal song to sjw trash that try to lie and saint'ify cunts.
Disclaimer:This is not an advocation of violence or a threat of violence. Just my opinion.
Manipulative bitch dies.
Everybody cries.
Thirdwavers lie.
Girl is a cunt...
...but She's saint'ified.
The man is so evil.
He kills all their people.
That's what they claim...
...after dishing out pain.
The message is clear...
...to all of you queers.
Act like a slitch...
...you get your throat slit.
This was so tragic.
Drug addicted whore.
Lost her life.
Yet we lose more.
Vampire girl.
Such a drain.
She gets the glory.
We get the pain.
Lesson be learned.
Whore and her men.
Stables of cocks...
...are never just friends.
oh well the point still stands
blaming the one being cheated on is delusional
Not worth it. You'll never trust someone who cheated in the past, and no, you will never be happy in the relationship without trust. You'll always be paranoid.
Kek
I don't think she's talking about kids and moving in with you unless she's really into you. She's with you and not the other guy because she prefers you. Enjoy your victory. But be on guard. Your feelings and hers can change over time, for the better or worse. For example, once you move in either of you may find the other annoying to live with, or you may get bored or maybe she turns into a nag. Or you may find her to be the best companion and lover and live happily ever after.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Enjoy her pussy and be sure to let it go after a while. This means you better be looking for fresh pastures right now.
Are there any women who aren't cheaters? All women I hav ever come across Always had a boyfriend, so how are you going to have a women without here cheating first?