ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Mate im fucking hairless but like if a guy is hairier than a gorilla should they shave their chest or back

Insecurity is a massive turnoff. Like the other user said, don't talk about it, and if you do, own that shit

>girl is willing to drive 2 hours to see me
>but doesn't really text me
What's the verdict bros? Am I just a personal dildo?

Depends entirely on the girl. I’d go thick but fat every time, twink-looking men weird me out

32 yr old boomer here.
Is it weird to add a bar hostess on instagram and dm her?
There have only been hello and welcome between us.
Lots of guys try to chat her up but i feel she doesnt like it. Either because shes at work or not i dont know.
Im totally inexperienced in this.

Some girls are really bad at text conversations and only like interacting in person. Id assume she likes you if she’s driving two hours to see you, unless your dick game is god-tier

How do I get into dating in college (I start this fall) as a disabled girl? I use a wheelchair so I can't do most things normal girls can and I don't get attention from guys. Would guys even want to date a girl with no legs?

Didn't really want to make a new thread.

I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years. We get on really well and were she single, I'd probably chase her, but I have strict rules when it comes to adultery so I've just not given it any thought at all and I'm good with that. Shes brought up having a threesome with me and her boyfriend to me. I don't know whether to go for it or not. For a start, I'm relatively inexperienced (only ever been with 4 girls, I'm 27). Secondly, I really like having her as a friend (we hang out a lot, have a good laugh etc, just a generally good friend) and I don't know if going through with it will change things.

Thoughts?

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It's a social system in which men hold most of the power and predominate over women.

I'm about 5'7" (5'6.5" truthfully), with a smaller frame/gracile bone structure. To give some perspective I'm about 140 when I have some muscle mass and low body fat. Does this kill my chances with most woman? Will I always have to look for someone who tolerates my size/build rather then like it?

I'm 5'7 in Scotland and pretty much every woman is either the same height or smaller than I am. It has never been an issue in my experience. You get the odd taller guy that tries to take the piss but its only a problem if you let it be one. Really just comes down to your confidence, don't be the faggot wearing lifts and trying to act hard cause you're insecure about being small and no one will care.

Thanks. What is an average girl's wrist girth? Could you please measure yours? You can do it with a thread and a ruler.

objectively less teethy blowjobs is never a turn off, use it to your advantage :^)

i'm a fit handsome guy. why do i like chubby girls? what kind of brainwashing have i been subjected to?

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did she cut her ear off

how are you 140 with "some muscle" I'm 160 at the same height. I look like an Auschwitz survivor at 140

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Idk if any of you will remember me based on a thread I made about it a week back, but I made a thread about this girl I was talking to and trying to get to know. I didn't know if she like liked me or not, so I kept trying to push the envelope a bit by getting her to do things with me.

First, I talked her into a trip. She agreed and said she'd love to take one with me but when I started plan it she told me "there's no hurry :)"

Second, I asked if she wanted to FaceTime since we did it years ago before and haven't in a long time. She dodged the question completely.

Finally, I asked her if she wanted to play two truths and a lie. Just that question though so she couldn't Dodge it. Now she's telling me "oh idk user, we now very very little about each other. It's going to be hard :D" (yes she did include a happy face)

That's the final straw for me. I want to tell her I like her and want to get to know her, but I also have an opportunity to push the envelope a little bit more and Dodge my chance to confess this.

What should I do? Should I confess my feelings for her? Should I just push her into a corner force her to choose between playing the game or moving onto another topic? We've been talking for a couple months now so I feel like we know quite a bit about each other, her answer to my request to play the game is an obvious dodge or maybe she just wants to wait till we know each other better. Maybe she actually likes me but just wants to take it slow. Maybe she's just baiting me and using me as someone to talk to. She's always so nice and responsive. Always asking questions.

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What do I do when I like 2 girls

3some

Lads, I'm a submissive girl, but I don't want my future bf to think I am a dead fish in bed. What do I do to avoid this? Idk how to act in bed when he doesn't tell me what to do.

Communication. There's nothing wrong with saying "I enjoy being submissive in bed. Tell me what to do."

do what he tells you to. and when youre in a passive position dont just lay there. kiss his neck, grab his ass etc.

Ok I will try this when I get a qt dom bf

fuck her man

I only want to sleep with someone I'd seriously consider marrying. But I also want to be good at sex for that someone. What do?

You communicate with them to satisfy your mutual needs and get better with each run. Why are you operating under the assumption that you have to already be good? Nothing else in your entire life has ever worked that way. It's called learning.

Send me your fb ! And say "Thank you master"!!. Jokes aside, try to making him dominant somehow and slowly reveal that side of you. Be honest and go slowly.

Because inexperience signals you're a low worth mate and turns women off especially as you get older.

People who are compatible with the mindset of "I'm only sleeping with someone I'd seriously consider marrying" are not measuring worth on that scale. This is now the second very odd assumption.

Everyone is constantly measuring others' relative sexual value even if they don't realize it. It's not about mindset at all.

I put a story up on social media and my ex, who split with me a month ago and we haven't spoke since, instantly messaged me.
I thought I was doing pretty well and now I can't stop thinking about why she messaged me.
We were really close before we got together and we split because of distance so it could be anything really.
It's just fully fucked with my head.

Everyone is also breathing. It has no relevance to the specific context of the question. Strike three, goodbye.

A long time ago I decided I was done chasing people. I learned that I was far happier single and celibate. I'm 30 now and every once in a while people give me a hard time about it. The most common thing I here is that one day I'll regret it. Its been 7 years and I'm pretty sure I got this. Is this really that unhealthy?

Being submissive isn't about being a dead fish, it's about being a people pleaser. What you prefer is a slave role.
The answer is no, or roleplay.
Yeah it's weird

Will bump my question if the user is still here.

>Yeah it's weird
Hkw so?

I've heard of past posts of regrets for being retarded and too aspie to take chances and not persuing mental help. 9/10 you need therapy to understand something and you're being stubborn.

I'm in the same boat bro.

guy or girl? I'm a guy in pretty much the same situation, I figure it's easier to learn to deal with being single but others seem to disagree.

Therapy sounds like a really good way to throw a bunch of cash down the drain

My bf is german and obliterated his accent when speaking english because he hates the way it sounds.
I just heard a guy talking with a heavy accent (from the same area of germany as bf) and i realized that i find the accent mindbogglingly attractive
How do i make my bf get his hot german accent back anons. he sounds alabamian now

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If I as a woman ask men out myself, does it lower my value in their eyes? I get the impression guys don't take me seriously or find me asking them out to be in bad taste. I ask regardless but it feels stupid

>does it lower my value in their eyes?
Yes as soon as a woman asks me out on a date she becomes worthless to me. I look her in the eyes, say "no", and walk away like a fukkin alpha male.

Why is this girl apologizing for literally no reason? She just says "im sorry" all the time for no reason. We are not dating or anything

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I'd kill for a bf with pecs like that

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get a gf because it's clear you want some titties

she loves you. tell her you will always be there for her no matter what and then marry her

But really. How do guys feel about this

same guy: I would like it but more masculine guys might not. It varies but I think women greatly overexaggerate how important it is to men. At least I doubt any guy that liked you would turn you down because of it.

I would be suspicious of their intentions because of how rare it is for a woman to initiate (At least to me--if the guy you're thinking of asking is popular and/or outgoing, odds are you wouldn't be the first to approach), but it wouldn't factor into my opinion of them in itself. So no, it doesn't lower their value. It just temporarily raises my guard to look for something that does.

>you have no meaning in life. it's awful I know. surround yourself with some people who will appreciate you. go volunteer or do some charity work. your life probably doesn't suck as much as you think it does.
nah, my problem is that I kinda fear women. I'm socially retarded, need time to go from thinking to acting, hate compromise, and I have some unresolved child traumas (that I know well, but still can't resolve)

>Because if you kill yourself you've got 100% chance of never improving, and if you don't you've got better odds.
I mean, suicide is the ultimate solution to everything. so your argument is invalid.

Because you're male so its still not too late for you
true. guess I still could do something about it.
I mean, I get looks from 16 yo girls to old women. I just lack confidence and a personality.

>get like 10 likes in a week of tinder use and a whole 1 on bumble about a year ago
>still managed to meet my 10/10 redpilled GF on there
Can someone explain this? I don't think I'm desperately unattractive, and my GF says I'm a 10/10, so what gives? Given the sheer volume of people swiping I would've assumed I'd get more than just a few likes.

I've been turned down a few times. But that could just be me, rather than the act itself. It just seems if a man didn't chase you and you came to him, he wouldn't consider you to be worth much at all. Maybe this is my brain on estrogen.

Being suspicious sounds bizarre. Do you think assassins and social security thieves hide amongst ugly women? It's possible I guess.

But that's two answers for "no" from guys so maybe I'm just paranoid.

depends on what type of body insecurity it is. if its something solvable like acne or weight then just use skincare products and get Jow Forums. If it isnt then i dont really know but as far as other people go, most people arent really going to notice your looks either way. if its for dating being a likeable person with a personality goes a long way

>Do you think assassins and social security thieves hide
kek, no. I mean I would doubt that I'm actually being asked out, and I would be purposefully obtuse to make sure I don't end up making a fool of myself (anything from a simple misunderstanding to a mean-spirited prank). If the guy you have in mind is an introvert, and especially if he doesn't know you well, then if he acts weird at first you shouldn't be totally discouraged--it could be a defense mechanism like mine.

As I said, though, if you're going after an extrovert with experience, he won't think anything of it. The only problem I think you'll have by making the first move is if you chase after one of the boneheads who enjoys "the chase". But that kind of relationship wouldn't go anywhere regardless of what you do.

>It just seems if a man didn't chase you and you came to him, he wouldn't consider you to be worth much at all.
>Maybe this is my brain on estrogen.
Yeah, it's just estrogen. Don't try to empathize with males to predict their reactions, it'll lead you to do some really stupid or outright irritating stuff because we don't process things the same way.

The only thing to be aware of is that if a man ALREADY doesn't value you, even before the approach, you are risking being used by showing interest first.

Same boat, 28. quit at 25

Well that's a bit of perspective on introverts I suppose. I don't think I could ever ask an extrovert though. Those guys seem like they punch holes in walls and then nest in them. Or something like that.

Thanks though. Makes me feel a bit less like I'm making a fool of myself.

Yeah, maybe you're right about the empathy thing. Applying my own logic to work out their own never seems to work.

how does it work?

Just be a fucking decent human being. There is no invisible "value". If you like each other, spend time together.

I am thinking of gifts for this girl. She really likes a specific symbol and i am planning to commission a drawing of it.

Its not the only gift i am going to give her, more like a preamble but i wonder if its too plain?

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My gf of 3 years has gone from hyper nympho to once a month at best. She's not salty, and actually super cuddly all the time, it just never results in sex anymore.
Granted we're in turbulent times with a new living situation and such. Still it bothers me.
She gives me hand jobs if I ask, but that's more humiliating than anything.
Is it my fault? Or just natural progression? Should I try to spice it up or wait it out?

How would you guys react if a guy suddenly cried during physical contact

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I would assume you were trying to trick me like that one girl did to me back when was in high school. I'd probably be stupefied as run away from you and then listen to "creep" by radio head on blast in my car.

Have you talked to her before? It'd be a shame to waste that money only for her to turn out incompatible with you.

Of course. We are in an early relationship.

You can find men who are interesred in you, just be wary of nugget fetishists.

To be specific, its a ldr, we are meeting irl in a couple of months and i want to make it special. She always does stuff for me

We have known each other for a while, but it got serious on August and it has just been getting better each day.

Ask her out first, don't waste your money on someone who isn't even your GF.

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Why do girls put in their dating app profiles that they aren’t looking for hook up’s, but if a really high status handsome guy messages them they would drop that attitude and hook up with him instantly

I'm 5'4 and want a tall gf how hard is this to achieve

Filter out the beta males

Makes sense now thanks, are you male or female?

Male

too lazy to make my own thread but this question can be answered by anyone
two of my best friends have been dating for the last 3 years and it seems as though they are going to break up soon, but it seems like they are doing it in a relatively good way and being friends to each other despite that
why do I feel sad? its not my relationship

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are you male or female

Male user here. Does a scenario exist in which it's permissible to begin saying "I love you" a month after first starting to see one another and two weeks into officially bf/gf? Guys feel free to respond too.

You literally don't have legs? Well, if you have a nice personality that's really all you need, and guys will feel like they're good people for dating you.

I said it to my husband. Worked out fine, I guess.

Does it matter if a guy has sucker lastname? Something like Dorkbell?

I do it too, because I'm anxious as shit.

Why are women like this?

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Its not women, its just some people being shitty narcs

I mean, unless her bf was like being abusive and he was completely unaware of it, I cannot imagine why else she woulda refused that request

I have crushingly low self confidence and always assume if something is wrong that I had something to do with it.
Like the idea that someone is angry about something at work, and not at me for not doing my makeup that day, is really hard to accept and understand sometimes
femanon for the record

That's just one person. I'm super affectionate and if my boyfriend asked me for more love I'd be all over him.

Yes.
Literally did not take my husbands name because it made my name sound ugly
We're divorced now

Guess I'm one like that because I don't see the problem in her saying no lel

are we getting married? I want to keep my last name for legal reasons but as far as first perception I might laugh about it in my head but at the end of the day it's just a name.

If your last name is the worst thing about you, I'm fine with you.

What do women think about a man that wants to kill all of her male friends? I´m not really doin it, but in some situations i just would.

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