ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Like I said, I haven’t allowed it to happen yet. It’s just really really tempting and I feel conflicted. She’s hot and she is always flirting heavy. But like I also said, I think casual sex is bad and right now I’ve only had 1 previous partner and she was a gf. I don’t want to have casual sex because I want a future gf who has the same standards.

ladies

there is a girl I like online. ive talked to her twice, the space between the first and second time was almost 2 weeks. she messaged me out of the blue the second time and we had a long flirty video chat. i asked her if she wanted to play a video game tomorrow at the end of that second chat to which she said yes, and i told to her to message when she was free. she never messaged me, so i figured she was either busy or not interested (hopefully in the game, not me)

its been 2 days since. should I just wait for her to message me or should I ask again? I dont want to be pushy and push her away but I also dont want to wait 2 weeks to hear from her again or perhaps never

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Chad

hear my advice my good friend, you have been ghosted. save yourself the pain while you still don't have feelings for her yet and just block/delete her.

if she truly is the "one" then you have zero reason to stress about it and she will understand. think of your PTSD as the pleb filter when it comes to relationships.

Ah, to be young and stupid again.

Why do people get upset that I don't want to be bothered by girls? I keep getting looked at like I'm commiting a crime when I don't return some girl's advance. Do I have some kind of responsibility to the world to let these chicks be with me? What would be in it for me anyway?

I would be upset. Especially because he did it in public. It seems like a pitiful attempt to feel "alpha". It makes me think he is either insecure or stupid.

I haven’t been stupid tho. I haven’t let her suck my dick

people are retards, don't worry about it.

Do you think my new bf thinks its weird I always am down for sex? Every single time he initiates Im game. I just love sex and am always horny for him. Ive even initiated and he rejected me. Do you think it comes off bad/desperate?

really depends on him, we cant know, he probably thinks its great
>Do you think it comes off bad/desperate?
again, it depends on you. i dont know what vibes youre giving off irl, i can only see your text in this thread

Ladies, do you have a problem tasting your own juices/pussy?

Like off the guy's cock, mouth or fingers?

Don't. Sounds like you already know.
Maybe get a new roommate. If she's this willing imagine where else she's been. STDs can be transmitted orally too

I know you’re right and I won’t give in. It’s just really frustrating

My gf does this but I think it’s disgusting

i think sex is digusting
what's wrong with me

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Betrayed and upset for sure. He sounds like an obnoxious moron
Hopefully not. I'm always ready to have sex with my guy whenever we're alone, I think he appreciates it. Either way, way better than being a boring frigid girl who never wants to have sex or when she does she clearly doesn't enjoy it.
I've sucked off my bf after raw period sex so no, my own pussy juice does not faze me at all
Have you had sex? What was your upbringing like?

>Have you had sex? What was your upbringing like?
no i'm a virgin
my mother abandoned me when i was 9 and i moved in with my dad who had nothing to do with me

girls?

>Have you had sex? What was your upbringing like?
Catholic church, wanted to be a priest. Had sex, dick had a strong smell and ass hurt, couldn't sit right for few days. Disgusting.

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Guys,
have you ever tasted your own cum?

Every guy has, but no one is willing to admit irl.

She doesn't wanna play vidya. Ask for something else.
I'm a guy btw.

yeah it's not good. If you're too easy,then he'll unconsciously wonder what else he could get if he actually tries.
You can solve this by playing games every time he makes a move on you. Obviously you want sex and it will happen. You just need to put up some sort of barrier or price on sex. He needs (read: needs, not wants) to feel like he earned you every time.

Yes. Seems like a great idea when you're horny but quickly becomes disgusting after you ejaculate.

Cut dick and send it to her. You will fulfill her fantasy and satisfy your dick without casual sex.

yes. Pretty good. But there's always this awkward moment, you know, AFTER you just come and you're not horny anymore and you're just standing there like
>wtf am i about to do

Girls:
I made plans to go out with someone at the end of the week. We just met the other day and I didn't even have her phone number before then. Is it weird to not say anything for a whole week? Since we don't usually talk and we just met each other it feels weird. Should I be saying anything?

If not, how do I break the silence Saturday when we go out?

So, my girlfriend and I got into an argument yesterday. She said she needed space. I told her I would give her the space she wanted.

Today she's been texting me and I have ignored her all day long. I've sent maybe one text back and that was a good morning text. All the texts she sent me weren't really questions, so there's no point in responding. She did apologize for yesterday.

She probably thinks I'm still mad, but she hasn't asked me anything to confirm it.
Should I keep ignoring her and do my own thing or respond to whatever she's saying?

The bitch asked for space so I was giving it to her.

You should text her a few times before the date at least. Idk what because I'm really bad at texting

If you cannot contact her just greet her with "hi long time no speak" or something. Then discuss the place you're at "I wasn't expecting this place to be so crowded" or "I really like this painting" or something. Then ask her about her week. Easy way to break the ice is to discuss what you're both currently experiencing together in that moment.

thanks but i'm not talking about breaking the ice or whatever after we meet, I just feel like a dog who caught a rabbit and doesn't know what to do next. Specifically I don't know if I should not text her at all for 6 more days.

I'm a different user who got ghosted by a girl I met online, but I caught feelings after talking to her for one week. The first time she ghosted me, I got her back again, but then she did it again the second time. :/
She was actually great to talk to, I really don't understand why she would push me away like that. Really hurts, I wanna do something terrible now. :/

Guys I've really fallen hard for my current boyfriend and I'm afraid I like him way more than he likes me, and I'm in such fear he's going to leave me for someone better. How do I stop myself from freaking the fuck out.

My advice is to honestly just keep him happy.

Yeah it's kind of gross but when you get all worked up it's hot in the moment.

For example:

>Banging this QT I met online.
>I say: "So what else do you like?"
>"Well..do you eat ass?"
>Eww, fucking nasty...
>"Yep, I sure do."
>Proceed to eat her ass.

I felt so dirty afterwards.

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You made the right call, senpai.

BUT...

Text her tomorrow and ask her if she still wants 'space'. From personal experience, if you give her too much space then they start mentally checking out.

Tell her if she feels like she wants space then she needs to consider if she even wants to be with you at all.

This nipped it in the bud for my grillfriend.

As her friend should I have done or said anything?

I thought about saying something but felt a scene might have embarrassed her mote.

>How do I stop myself from freaking the fuck out.
Have sex with him

She does want to be with me. She's been texting me all day how much she loves me and wants to be with me forever and al that jazz.

I just haven't responded to anything.

I hate how they do this shit.

I live uptown where there's practically nothing going on, I moved my dad in with me because he was all alone and getting too old to take care of himself and I have two other roommates atm and none of us know how to drive except for my elderly dad.
All I do is go to work, shop for food and hang out with my roommates and old buddies online since I have no way of getting myself around that isn't time consuming or expensive.
Should I just get on Tinder if I want to find a girlfriend? I honestly can't see another way.

There was this new girl at my work who I had a crush on, About a month after she started we started chatting pretty frequently on snapchat. I asked her out but turns out she had a longterm BF. Disappointing but oh well.

We kept chatting on snapchat regardless and became good friends. People at work joke about our relationship but we laugh it off.

Fast forward like 8 months and we are quite close (yellow snapchat hearts). People still joke but its pretty much just accepted at work that we are good friends. We both end up travelling to another city over the holidays and meet up there. I meet her BF, we get drunk and spend the night clubbing. A fun night. The next night we are up until like 4am chatting and seem closer than ever. She opens up to me about very personal things. I value her friendship a lot.

We get back to work and things suddenly start to cool off. A bit of ghosting here and there, a few messages left unread for extended periods of time. I ask whats up and if she is angry at me for something. She asks why I would think that and calls me a weirdo, but we had gone from snapping 10+ times a day to being left unread for 2 days. It stands out. She said she didnt use snap for a while and it got lost at the bottom of her feed. I thought the answer was a bit BS but I accepted it and went on like nothing had happened.

Over the next 2 months things are cooling off even more. Ghosted even more frequently, gold heart gone, sometimes even best friends emoji gone as well. Little rituals at work like getting lunch/coffee on certain days/weeks becomes less frequent then pretty much stop all together unless I walk up to her and ask outright if she would like to go, and even then it's not always a yes.

I have tried to ask if she is ok, she has opened up to me a bit about issues at work and her not wanting to be there, but I really don't understand why she is shutting me out.

Girls, do you have any insight? Should I bother trying to save this friendship?

>eating some random thots ass
You’re a fucking disgusting degenerate

Friends come and go. Just let it go. Your ego is bruised because you think you deserve something in return for all your attention, but that's on you for giving so much to her in the first place. Once you push off there's a chance she'll miss the friendship and come back anyway.
BUT considering you obviously wanted to be more than friends you have to decide if you're going to push the issue or be "fine" with friendship.

My close friend that I have a tremendous crush on broke off with her boyfriend last night.
How long should I be waiting to swooce right in? Is it just dependent on the girl?

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if i start ignoring my gf will her interest in me increase or decrease? 3 years relationship btw

Oh I am 100% fine with friendship, no quotes needed. And up until the past month or so our interactions have been very equal, she would initiate just as much as I would, so there hasn't been much disparity until she, seemingly randomly, started shutting me out.

>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
>Fuck off

Don't have a question/advice, but whoever thought up that line is a genius.

The same day of the breakup, when she's emotional and vulnerable

Why do people try to act like casual sex isn’t risky?

I don't believe you at all but okay

Females, what are your take on British females?
Are they all cunts?

I lived in the UK for a year.
A lot of them are kinda trashy: drink a lot, dress like shit, eat like shit, horrible make up. Really dirty houses, like holy shit.
Some others worry a lot about manners and they never came off as very insincere.
But obviously, these are generalisation based off my social interactions in England, not absolute reality and I'm sure there are really nice british females.

All sex is "risky".
If abstinence is 0 and having sex with cheap prostitutes without a condom is 10, casual sex with appropriate protections and trusted partners is a 6 and in your standard serial monogamous relationship it is a 4.

Whoring yourself out is garbage advice.
It won't make a manwhore commit.

I've had a crush on my aunt since I was a kid. She's always been a beautiful woman and used to be a fitness model. We're not blood related because she was the daughter of my grandmother's second husband.

She's in a terribly unhappy marriage now and it's just suffering for her but both her and her husband want to stay together for the kids. She hasn't slept with him for 2.5 years and they don't even sleep in the same bed. She's absolutely miserable with her relationship and seems stressed all the time.

Whenever I see her she compliments me on how good I look and how muscular I am and likes to feel me. I'm wondering if I should make a move and try to start aomething between us.

Tell him

With people who do anal, do you have the person pull out, or do you let them finish inside you?

Is NSA/fuckbuddy sex really as empty and painful as people say it is?
Is it true that people grow attached to people they have sex with or is that just a meme?
>Nb4 kneejerk frustration, doesn't answer my question and makes assumption

Standard procedure, wait until her gusband isnt around and then ask her on date. Just like that. She will tell you she is flattened but then say some random excuse why it cannot happen and you will finally stop fantasizing about your aunt.

For the same reason alcohol and tobacco users pretend the substances arent destroying their organs. It feels too good to stop.

Talk with your gf, not us.

36 hours

Men and women cant be friends. She caught love feelings towards you and feels guilty about it because she already has bf. So her only option left is to distance herself away from you. And no she cant tell you that, it would make it even worse.

You could also get yourself means of transportation. Drive licence and car you know.

Think less and have sex more.

You should learn that women never ever take seriously what they say. You are overdoing it. Focus less on what women say and more on what they actually do aka in your case: desperatelly begging for your attention / dick.

You should go and get her number. Logistics are pain in the ass without confirmation messages.

Sure. It wasnt pleasant at all.

Low testosterone. Or mental issues in head. Like religion for example.

Men dont think when they have amsteady access to sex. They have sex. You cant think and have sex at the same time. If you tried that, you would lose boner.

Society is functioning only because young people pair off, make babies and raise them in families. By refusing taking part in this system you are dooming us all into anarchy / degeneracy / doomsday. Have babies and pay taxes!

Ask her on date.

Lol. Have sex.

Test it out by pointing out how manly he is. Flirt with him or just invite him for netflox and chill.

You arent first nor last person stucked in assymetrical relationship. Sucks to be you i guess.

>called his wife a mutt
Wow what a beta bitch. Settling? With Superior Genes™? I'd laugh in his face.
Not if you eat your own product too.
A good 70% seem to have a lot of inbred unattractive qualities, 3/10. American women trend towards a median 5/10.
You can establish actual friendship with people you fuck instead of just bang and zoom.

> friend's husband was talking about how great his ancestors were and called his wife a mut.
The guy's a degenerate for pissing it all away.

>why yes, i was molested as a child. How could you tell?

So as part of my job I spend upwards of half of the year travelling, and once per month I get a full weekend back home. How common do you think it is for a woman to be willing to work with something like that?

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and all the pieces fall neatly into place.

the stage has been set.

the actors know their lines.

all that's left is

>ACTION!

My memory is shit and driving bores the hell out of me, though. I'm afraid I'm gonna kill/seriously injure someone/myself trying. And there will be lots of trying because its just so damn boring.

All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances,
And one man in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages. At first, the infant,
Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms.
Then the whining schoolboy, with his satchel
And shining morning face, creeping like snail
Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad
Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,
Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,
Jealous in honor, sudden and quick in quarrel,
Seeking the bubble reputation
Even in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lined,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
Into the lean and slippered pantaloon,
With spectacles on nose and pouch on side;
His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide
For his shrunk shank, and his big manly voice,
Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,
That ends this strange eventful history,
Is second childishness and mere oblivion,
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.

It's hard to tell how common that might be, but as long as you're upfront about your work leaves and conditions all throughout the dating process you'll weed out the ones who can't take that.

I'm a white guy with a black GF. After several months of dating she told me she has a fetish for racism. We had made racist jokes before with each other, but they were always ironic and kind of cute. Not degrading. However, her fetish is very degrading. She wants to roleplay with me as a slavemaster who ties her up and uses her for sex while doing things like spitting/choking/insulting her/calling her a nigger. It's not a huge surprise to me she'd enjoy BDSM, she's always been extremely submissive, but this is concerning to me for multiple reasons. I'm not a liberal person but this feels kind of wrong.

TLDR black GF wants to be called a nigger/degraded, wat do?

Break up, you racemixing swine

I am to the point where I have a difficult time imagining that anyone would ever be comfortable talking to me without some reason (work, academia, business, etc), and especially not ever be comfortable letting me into their personal life. Physical intimacy I think is just an impossibility for me. I don't want to be a bother to anyone. I almost wish I could watch streamers and pretend they cared about me when they read off my name on the donation message, because that is still more than I've ever had, but I am too old to believe that fantasy. I don't know how or what to change, and I only ever get generic advice like "lift" or "travel." Ten years ago I didn't expect to still be alive in ten years time, and I don't think my life is really any better than it was back when I was still in school and had the promise that things would improve.

met a man, and we like each other. He says he likes me as a friend, not for a relationship and that's fine with me, but it's painful that almost all I can think about is talking to him and wanting to meet as often as possible. He said he wants to meet "once in a while". Feels fucking terrible to me.

>
Are you me?

>You should go and get her number. Logistics are pain in the ass without confirmation messages.
I have her number, I wanna know if I should text her before Saturday

The podcast "the read" gets questions like this alot. From whites dating blacks with self-esteem issues. Check then out for a detailed answer. You might be able to find the specific eps via Google

Don't participate in it. It comes from a bad place

I would assume you'd be fucking around on these trips. So I'd be totally unwilling to do this sort of set up

m here, this question is for anyone willing to read it.
>pic related; not me, but very similar
i have large pores on my nose and it makes me relatively self-conscious about how others perceive me. it doesn't compromise my social confidence, per se - i can start and carry a conversation just fine, don't have any problem approaching anyone either.

it's more of a bothersome afterthought about whether or not my face is off-putting because of that noticeable feature. i honestly have no idea how i got them either. my father had immaculate skin, didn't even have acne growing up. my mother had a broken nose and an occasional blemish, but she was otherwise fine too. something about the biologies didn't mix, i guess.

so, my questions are these i suppose: on average, when you enter into a conversation with someone do you even notice things like this? do you think about them? do you care?

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What is the alternative then? If it's something she fantasizes about, what will "make her better" so that she stops wanting this? I tried finding what you were talking about but couldn't unfortunately. I used to have a fetish for milfs and I grew out of that, but I'm not really sure how to "cure" someone of bad fetishes. But also, a lot of women like to be dominated in bed. I wouldn't want to jump to conclusions if she isn't really insecure.

I swear it's just 1 guy who retired young who makes these threads and posts every single day. Every single day, man. Even if it's not one guy, holy shit. You get the same advice every time, but you don't do anything with it because guess what? You've established *this* as your comfort zone. You have sank into a very deep chair made entirely out of your ideals, standards, and mental gymnastics. Life isn't as difficult as you think it is, but you're going to die without ever having figured that out for yourself because you're too much of a complacent coward to try something new with the intent of enjoying it, all of it. Failure and success. It's a pity.

Unless your nose is one of those wickedly bulbous, swollen, infected ones (typically seen on farmers down south who are out in the sun all day) with veins close to the surface, nobody worth talking to is going to give a flying fuck. Sure, they might notice it, but if it's like the pic you posted then you're fine, that's not even bad, don't worry about it. Met plenty of girls who have that same complexion (on their cheeks too) and hide it with foundation.

Anyway, yeah. You're fine. You're not obese, retarded (well, you're here, but here's the benefit of the doubt), missing a limb, or something. Maybe you're balding, I don't know. Sounds like you know how to talk to people so there's no sense in getting hung up over it. Life could be worse; women and men alike will notice, but if they like you then they won't care because the good outweighs the bad.

Yeah, just keep your nose clean, bro.

>really wish I didn't start talking to her again

Feels bad man. It's kinda fun to tease her but I was less stressed when she wasn't on my mind every day.

It would've been an episode from November 2017 maybe.
Idk what you can do. Maybe Google around or ask blacks for advice (I'm not black) or ask the Reddit bdsmcommunity about it. This goes beyond 4chans capabilities I think

Both genders can help:

So, I had sex with a girl today and lost my virginity, but I did like the girl. So it was special to me because I had feelings for her. But it was clearly just a dick appointment for her. We still hung out for a few hours after, but then she left the airbnb I booked after we had a bit of a talk (she was a little upset I didn't tell her I was a virgin) and after she left, I just felt like I always do. Sad that I was alone. The sex was good and I had a good time. I talked to my friend, and she said it's because I wanted an emotional connection with someone and this was clearly just a booty call and that I need to think of what I want and if I have feelings for her. What should I do to look inward and figure this out? I liked spending time with her, but maybe it was that it wasn't a date.

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Just fucking talk to her. Be friendly. These things take time.

>losing virginity to a slag
i'm so sorry this happened

We'd talked about dating since I talked about liking her and she said she doesn't want to date anyone because she's really busy right now and probably something else that I can't remember.

... for christ's sake, listen: wash your face in the morning and dab with a warm wet wash cloth. apply non-com. moisturizer. gold bond or something. go about your day. before you go to bed, wash your face again, dabbing with warm wash cloth. apply a little moisturizer for the evening, repeat routine tomorrow.

This would not give her sexual pleasure. She wants dude to like her/pay more attention to her/be obsessed with her.
Blowjobs do nothing for women but get them attention and worshippers. There are no sexual pleasure receptors in the mouth. Idiots.

Epiduo (Effezel). Once a day on a clean moisturized skin. It won't make it shrunk but definitely will clean out black/white dots.

I have been talking one of my co-workers for about a week. For about a month and a half prior to that (since I got transferred over there), she was hitting on me and making physical advances towards every shift we worked together, but I was soundly rejecting them because of me being one of her managers and because of her age (she's 17, but turns 18 in a couple of weeks; I'm 27). Last Monday I finally caved in and handed her my phone for her to put in her number. She puts herself as "wife". She's been texting almost every night saying goodnight and little things like that too. But then she says this crap about us just being friends. Today after we both got off, we came close to making out in the office (we had been hugging each other and I lightly kissed her cheek, but then another manager came in and asked me to clean something she couldn't get to), but then she sent this text after I asked about if we were boyfriend & girlfriend or I'd this was just going to be a FWB ordeal.

She's really sweet and caring and I like how her body feels, but I can't see this lasting longer than a month if we did actually date because I'm honestly not that into her, though I do want to smash. Shod I continue to push forward and let her have her fantasy that we aren't officially together or should I just stop because I know it won't work out?

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I don't know what you are on about. I changed my hair, clothes, got a new job, tried picking up a new hobby (music), remodeled my home, and it didn't change anything

If I measure at over 6ft 1in in the morning and just under it in the evening what height do I tell girls I am when I'm on Tinder?

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