I noticed a lot of guys are on here asking how to get a girlfriend so I thought I would lay it on you. You don’t “get” a girlfriend. Meet people, men and women alike, just as you would anyone else. If you find a girl you genuinely like talking to, maybe get to know her more. Women love when you listen to them. You have to show genuine interest in what she is saying. I understand guys are more physically attracted when women are more psychological, but a relationship is a two way street. I can tell you the biggest turn off is a guy who is only there because he wants to get his dick wet. Just listening to what she has to say and having a nice conversation will take you a long way. Before I got with my boyfriend, we would stay up late just to talk to each other. And trust me, if my boyfriend who never had a girlfriend before (mind you he was 20) could get a girlfriend, so can you. Just don’t feel like you’re owed a girls affection or anything.
I noticed a lot of guys are on here asking how to get a girlfriend so I thought I would lay it on you...
>taking advice from white people
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Lmao it was just a random stock image I found
>listening to what she has to say
women never have anything worthwhile to say. when the only interesting thing about you is the gash between your legs, don't be surprised that's all men want from you
And this is why you’ll remain single lmao
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Did you first meet through mutual friends or at some activity you both did?
I don't mind. Interacting with your kind over the internet has well and truly convinced me that I'm not missing out at all. Every conversation with a female is exactly the same, you are all soulless cookie cutter copies of the same basic thing.
I met him on a video game so it is long distance but we have met in person multiple times and we have been dating for well over a year now
>Just listening to what she has to say and having a nice conversation will take you a long way.
If you're looking to become one of those typical cuck boyfriends, sure.
Landing a chick by being supportive, nice, caring etc. to a girl will make you the beta boyfriend. It doesn't arouse a woman, it just makes her feel attached to you emotionally while she lusts sexually after more alpha guys.
You need to learn BOTH. You need to learn how to be a caring and supportive guy, AND you need to learn how to arouse women sexually.
>this coffee is too bitter for my taste
Well obviously sex is an important factor to a relationship, but I know that I would never cheat on my boyfriend. Both he and I get along very well and he has treated me very kindly. He’s actually the one who took my virginity. I wanted to save it for someone who truly cared about me and not just about getting their dick wet.
>there's something wrong with over a billion of our species of which I have ever once interacted with
>there's something wrong with me and I can't admit that
lol find religion or something sadboi
I wouldn’t take what he says too personally. He’s most likely bitter over past rejection and refuses to admit there’s something wrong with him.
>THOSE GRAPES ARE PROBABLY SOUR ANYWAY!
Maybe they’re all saying the same thing because they all see that you’re unable to see something wrong within yourself.
no no I was just drinking some coffee and needed to add some sugar to sweeten it up ;) caramel macchiato is the way to go
Lmao I should get some coffee. I’m gonna need it.
>Both he and I get along very well and he has treated me very kindly
I'm sure he does and that's great and all. But like i said, a relationship needs both relationship compatibility and sexual arousal. If your relationship lacks either one, it's doomed.
That's why i say as a man, you need to learn both aspects of romance. Relationship compatibility in and of itself doesn't trigger sexual desire. Sexual desire in and of itself doesn't trigger relationship compatibility.
That's why your original post is flawed. You only mention relationship compatibility and tell us that thinking sexually isn't a great way to find a girlfriend. Truth is, it kind of is. Most guys just execute it terribly wrong which makes them come across as needy and desperate horndogs.
Alright I understand your point. I was more focused on the issue guys have on getting a girl interested in you in the first place.
>I noticed a lot of guys are on here asking how to get a girlfriend so I thought I would lay it on you. You don’t “get” a girlfriend.
all you needed to read, blablabla, women don't owe you affection, written by a woman.
What she actually means: STAY AWAY FROM US. If you can't get a girlfriend because you're ugly and autistic they want you to disappear or drop dead.
I walked past one of these creatures today and she gave me the most asshurt look when I looked up and accidentally made eye contact with her, you could tell she was genuinely aggravated that a man who didn't look like Brad Pitt and who was just eight inches taller than her 4'11 ass felt he had the right to look at such a precious hot little package. They fucking despise you and you have to be completely retarded not to see it, they are not mentally the same as you, they are wired to HATE you whenever you stop being invisible to them. They want you to be back in your place where they can't sea you or DEAD.
>Most guys just execute it terribly wrong which makes them come across as needy and desperate horndogs.
gigaterracope
a male model can come across as a fucking braindead retard with his dribbling 10 inch dick hanging between his legs and do fine, you're just not attractive enough. women rationalise romance, the only thing they can't feel into existence is Chad and his bones.
I have zero hate for women or anything, but the concept you can just hang around and talk to someone goes out the window once you have a real job outside of college. I mean, for the most part. But people don't have time anymore to just hit up some parties or see each other in the same classroom anymore for a semester.
Once you're living an adult's life, you need to pretty much show immediate attraction and get a number, or you'll never see that person again.
Sure, there's the odd instance where someone comes around in another group of friends and you bump into them a few times, but it's pretty damn rare.
I'm nearing 21 and no girlfriend in sight. Talking to women will not make them attracted to you. You must know how to flirt and all that jazz. Women shall use you. They used me too. Just a hint. If you talk with her for like 1-2 months and nothing happens beyond the friend stage then drop it. You're there to be her boyfriend not friend.
>boyFRIEND
>not friend
Yeah, go hit the easy thots if you can't wait to establish a connection, despite it being only 1 or 2 months.
Not saying a boyfriend cannot become her best friend at the same time while being her lover. But many guys just hang around a girl hoping something more will develop. Time is precious and you don't want to waste your time. The emotional connection occurs if she likes you. It's not about time necessarily. Attraction is usually in the first couple of weeks. After that chances fade.
>lol just meet ppl
this is hilarious advice coming from a female that's used to get approached
i already do this, sweetie. it doesn't work
but that's cus my life experience and tastes are way too different from the norm
>Time is precious and you don't want to waste your time.
How young and desperate to fall in love and live the proverbial "young love" are you? Time is precious, that's true, but if you spend it around a worthwhile person, it's a good investment at the end.
>The emotional connection occurs if she likes you.
Here you talk about liking someone, I assume the friendly, platonic sort of liking. Too wide of a net, most people like the ones in whose company they find themselves in. Naturally, a connection developes by spending time with some9ne and getting to know them.
>Attraction is usually in the first couple of weeks.
Lust, infatuation. Not a solid base for a relationship. 6 months is when the 'honeymoon' period ends after all.
>After that chances fade.
Citation needed, mr. Doomer.
This has not been my experience. There is probably more going on here than you consciously understand.
You probably saw him and thought he was cute. You made yourself available for conversation. You might have even actively tried to be around him. You probably did this without conscious thought.
He talked to you like a normal person. Because you thought he was cute, you laughed at shit that wasnt funny. You might have said flirty things and brushed against him. Maybe sat closely. He eventually figured out that you liked him and reciprocated the light flirting. One day yall did the face eye lips triangle look thing and kissed.
No, it's not as simple as talking to a girl like a person. That never got the panties off. That's what I would do in high school and my first year of college. It just makes for friends.
I got one good female friend out of years of treating women like people. Let me tell you about her husband. He is a selfish childish dick. Just this weekend, him being white, called her, his daughter and mother in law a racial slur at the dinner table. And not like some sort of cute flirty misunderstanding like thing. Like clear "I'm half German, half English. But you wouldn't understand because you're just a "
Why does he get away with this? Probably because he has a six pack. Doesnt have money. Isnt charismatic. Selfish. Childish. Says racist shit about his own daughter. But hey, he's hot.
I wish you were right. But treating women right is such a small part of it. And it doesnt even matter when compared to looks, money, etc.
We are born to feel pain... Why can't that guy be me with a girlfriend? Why not me?
Rigged from the start
>Lust, infatuation. Not a solid base for a relationship. 6 months is when the 'honeymoon' period ends after all.
What you're talking about is emotional bonding. This gradually strengthens over the course of many months and years.
Don't disregard the honeymoon phase though. Primal lust and raw sexual attraction is very important as well. If it's not there, you might as well be life-long roommates with a good friend instead of getting married.
>geralts bf
Who the fuck is that, who are you and why do you have a trip
Nobody gives a fuck about you you're just annoying
This.
>Many guys just hang around a girl hoping something more will develop. Time is precious and you don't want to waste your time.
Especially this.
You're describing the age old orbiter strategy. Every guy has fallen into this trap atleast once in his life. You need to learn how to cut out the orbiter mentality before you hit your early twenties otherwise you'll be stuck orbiting around cute girls for the rest of your life without actually ever getting into a relationship with one.
Jesus Christ....
Could your responses be any more predictable? It's like interacting with a video game merchant.
three (well now four) people reply to you, you assume its all one person, you call the responses generic to your copy pasted incel rant, you are sitting around waiting for responses. imagine how dull life must be, for this to occupy your time
trolling used to be an art but they make no effort anymore.
this is true to some extent. however be wary of the females who will use you as an exhaust pipe. i.e. they will only talk to you when they have troubles and they dump them on you and leave you for weeks only to come back to dump their problems on you again. I know a girl like that and it is quite tiresome being in such a one sided relationship.
Yes, it's quite funny how women try to state their contempt and disgust in some sort of moral vein. I am disgusted by fat ugly women (and men), I don't hide this fact. I don't want to be around them because it makes me feel bad. Why can't you be honest about this too?
To a woman, a low status male is physically repulsive. This is OK. You don't have to sleep with him or go out with him. But you don't have to go out of your way to ruin their day for merely existing either. And you definitely don't have to preach about how it's due to lack of moral fibre that someone ended up with shitty genetics.
>you assume its all one person,
Did your mother drop you on your head as a child?
>Blue Pill garbage
please interact with people in real life
>I noticed a lot of guys are on here asking how to get a girlfriend
its all b8 and Jow Forums fags, youd be better off just hiding or filtering that shit
This has to be a joke.
Women love when you listen to them.
Women don't even talk to me, so evidently they don't love it.
Incel cultist detected.
thanks for your 15 year old zoomer opinion OP
This. They love *who* is listening, not the state of being listened to.