How do I stop women from looking at me like I should be dead? I'm kind of pudgy (bmi a bit over 25, working on getting lean) but not obese. My face is only slightly below average. I am short though. Every time a woman sees me I can tell she fucking hates me, whenever I accidentally make eye contact with her she looks at me like I deserve death for having the audacity to make eye contact with somebody so much more important and gorgeous than myself. Very short girls, dumpy looking white girls, and even fat girls are not lighter but rather some of the worst offenders. How do I stop an entire of people from hating me? It's exhausting to go out and have these people despise me for no real fault of my own except my genetics, when I'm done I just want to collapse on my bed as soon as I get home.
How do I stop women from hating me?
Post a pic of yourself lol
>looking at me like I should be dead
Can you post a pic of what that looks like? Sounds like you're making assumptions
>Can you post a pic of what that looks like? Sounds like you're making assumptions
It's hard to describe it, I don't think there's one word in the English language to describe it. Are you familiar with the facial expression somebody gives when they are forced to interact with something that is disgusting or that they think they are better than? Sort of a mix of disgust, frustration at the thing blighting their line of sight and indignation. The best way of describing it would maybe be "indignant" or maybe just "ugh".
I'm sure somebody here will be able to describe it better.
Women do not care if it's "not your fault" that you have crap genetics, they will detest you for simply existing and having to be in your proximity.
Humans are just animals, and civilization is the only thing that really makes us act humane to each other. Women's disgust at men with below average genetics is not going away.
Really, you're either a guy they'd bang, or you're non-existent. If it makes you feel any better, women see 80% of the male population as below average.
Do you shower on a regular basis?
yes
how do I avoid taking their involuntary behaviour personally? should I avoid women?
How short are you? I'm 5'5" at 27. I don't get the same effect as you, but I try to keep reasonably fit, practice nofap. In general, I don't give much attention to women. What do you want from them other than sex?
Honestly, understand that women are pretty simple and shallow creatures. They feel first and think second. Don't expect a fair judgement.
You can change yourself to some extent to not make it so bad: lose weight, put on muscle, adopt a don't give a shit attitude.
If you happen to become wealthy, powerful or famous, your looks won't matter at all
Three inches taller than you
>What do you want from them other than sex?
Not hating me for existing would be a nice start, but clearly that will always be the case. Men don't. I really don't know what else I'd like from them, maybe loyal affection and companionship from one, but I don't really see what else women are good for. A friendship with a woman will never have cameraderie like it will with a man, and enjoying an activity with a woman will always have a social element for the woman that prevents her from enjoying the activity for its own sake. Many can't even provide affection thanks to birth control destroying their brains and the culture as of late encouraging women to be confrontational and aggressive (because it's very profitable to tell women they can be strong and independent while emotionally flying off the handle at all the sub-8 men who have wronged them by existing for so long)
>You can change yourself to some extent to not make it so bad: lose weight, put on muscle, Adopt a don't give a shit attitude.
I'm on track with these fortunately. 1 is a matter of time, 2 is a matter of effort and I think my attitude is pretty alright, although I am a bit socially incompetent and I'm sure it shows when I don't know what to say sometimes.
Also, why would nofap help in the failo effect department?
awwww. manlet wants to pound some pussy. how cute. fuck off, we're full
Sounds like you are paranoid and see what you want to see.
He's prime pussy slaying height, lanklet virgin.
yes he is, as seen in his post. seethe some more, you neurotic manlet
As someone who's been married for 6 years to a woman he absolutely adored early on, I have learned the hard way that companionship from a woman is nowhere close to what you get with a guy friend. Most don't have hobbies, passions, interests, or have anything insightful to say about anything. They like to be liked and part of the crowd, they don't usually care about what it is they're a part of. They are born followers, and that's just the way nature has carved out the female part of our species.
Depending on what you believe about abstaining from porn/fapping/retaining semen, it's said to increase testosterone over time and androgen receptor sensitivity, leading to an increase in high testosterone markers, which women pick up on and react positively to.
I've found a lot of benefits from it, but trust your own experiences.
Also, I am literally 5'5" and started balding at the age of 20, before I ever even had a girlfriend, but I don't get the "get out of my way" reactions from women that some guys do.
Could just be whatever combo of facial genetics I have going on or something, who knows.
>As someone who's been married for 6 years to a woman he absolutely adored early on, I have learned the hard way that companionship from a woman is nowhere close to what you get with a guy friend. Most don't have hobbies, passions, interests, or have anything insightful to say about anything. They like to be liked and part of the crowd, they don't usually care about what it is they're a part of. They are born followers, and that's just the way nature has carved out the female part of our species.
You're the 5'5 user right? How do you stop her from cucking and divorce raping you? Is she a massive cunt to you because she has to put up with your genetics? I hope this doesn't happen to you, I'm just wondering if it does and if it doesn't if you've stopped it somehow.
>Could just be whatever combo of facial genetics I have going on or something
It could be. Can you describe your face as objectively as possible?
She's adored me since day one. Despite my crap genetics, I'm actually the one who's pretty much had the leverage the whole relationship, so if divorce does happen, it'll most likely be from my end. We make about the same amount of money, and I honestly think she'd go with whatever I want to keep the relationship going.
But after being married this long, I've realized marriage is really mostly for women and children (and I guess broader society), and I'd be lying if I said I don't think about divorcing her to be single and screw girls younger and prettier.
She's actually 2 inches taller than me too. Depends how attractive she is. Uglier girls are like guys, they have to work for it.
I have a sort of dirty blonde Caesar cut with a receding hairline at the front. Green eyes, that look more like the "predator" eyes than the "prey" deer eyes. I actually have a big, unattractive nose. In my Air Force bootcamp picture, I was surprised they actually photoshopped my nose to make it smaller.
Kind of large-ish ears, reddish, that stick out a bit, a decent shaved short beard, chin that sticks out. My face actually got more 'muscular' after I had been working out for a while.
I look very Northwestern European, I guess. The nose and ears look weird, but if I had surgery to change it and got a transplant or something, I might look 'good'.
I'm shorter than him and have had sex with more girls than you ever will, lanklet virgin.
mogs me
do you think it's harder to younger men because of tinder?
Tinder makes things easier, not harder.
if they hate me no matter what what do?
you're projecting your own insecurities onto them. stop that.
how?