ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

>Is it too late to start dating?
no

>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2

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Girls, describe the best sex you've had thus far?

I think it was just really passionate sex with my boyfriend.
We had some food on the couch, we laughed a lot, it was a really nice evening. We went back to our bed, made out for quite a while, and then we just had... good sex. I don't know. I ended up riding him till we came together. I came a thousand times.

We're both pretty kinky and have tried most things we wanted to try, but it was really pure, loving and sweet and I just enjoyed it so much.

chest hair yeah/nah?

I hate women

Keep that attitude amon, it's going to get you places

You seem stable and capable of rational thought user.

When my boyfriend makes a comment that the sex was really good, does he mean it? Do you think that means its not good the other times?

other times it was just the usual. If he says it was really good then it was really good.

Honestly as a guy I prefer missionary because nothing beats thay closeness you can get.

I love missionary too, but I love feeling in charge of my bf's pleasure too so often I'll ride him till we both come. It's pretty hot.

If after sex he says it was good/great and thanks you for anything you did that he askdd then yes it was good and he is greatful. You should also make sure to tell him if it was good for you without him having to ask and make sure to also thank him for anything he did for you.

I could understand that. Main problem is im a very dominant person so I like to be the boss. Not hating you and your man do what makes you BOTH happy.

Nah I get it, different strokes whatevs.
My boyfriend and I like switching it up, it works really well for us. I love feeling his but also being in control of his pleasure, it's very intimate in a way.

I guess it's what I love about kinky sex too, just the trust you need to let go completely to someone. I find it very intimate.

Both I guess
Sometimes I feel like if you do something special for someone it feels great. But if you do it all the time it like loses the special or can be taken for granted. Like paying for dinner or writing a note how much you appreciate them,nor even saying I love you can lose meaning and just become automatic.
I guess I wonder,
>What do you do if your partner starts to take you for granted?
>How do you make sure you aren't taking them for granted?

I get why people can be kinky but for myself I would say most kinky I have been is choking the girl which raises the question...girls in the thread what di you think when your boyfriend gives you a choke during sex? What is too much?

I would say talking about both of your feelings when they come up is important instesd of waiting until they boil over.

any girl ever done pegging/ chastity on a guy? What was it like?

I tried to not take the things my ex did by thanking them/verbal affirmations.
My ex liked cooking and I'd tell him when I had a dish that he made (at a restaurant or elsewhere) and that his dish tasted better (wasn't lying). So I think just telling your SO that you appreciate what they do and that they do it better than others is good.
Not really sure if I can answer your question all the way. The only thing I was good at was giving head. I kept it special by staying in top of technique (watched pron for ideas) and trying new things, asking for feedback, etc.

I talk to my boyfriend a lot about how I feel.
As someone a little anxious, I often make things worse by getting a lot in my head and making a huge deal out of simple shit. So I'll ask him "why did you say this?" or "I feel like this right now, is this accurate in your opinion?" and just have a conversation with him.
I'll bring up any issue I feel like we have and I feel like we can work out most things.

I also think it's important to compliment a lot and keep appreciating every little gesture. I love cooking for my boyfriend because he always makes a ridiculously huge deal out of it. It's cute.

I don't know. Take care of each other, and their feelings. Make sure you make them feel like they're the end of the world. Smile at them and kiss them a bunch, and touch them when you walk past them. I think that's most of it.

Some guys are so terrible about hygiene idk if I could ever do pegging.

well assuming he was clean.

I'd like to do it but my boyfriend isn't down for anal stuff.

There's a new girl at work. I don't talk to her much but I get along with her fine. Today I took a chair and she said "hey you stole my chair!" laughing. I replied "yah well if you want your chair come and get it!" in an obviously playful "evil" tone. Instantly the guys around went WHOA!!!!! and then started calling me a mysoginist and violent and rude, and they sounded serious like they meant it. The girl laughed though but that doesn't mean she was okay with it.
Were the guys just virtue signalling or did I really mess up?

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Don't worry about it they'd probably just finished drinking their onions lattes

Yeah, I have an hairy asshole, so some poop pieces may get stuck in there. But if I have time, I usually take a shower and pick the poop pieces off with my hand then later use shampoo on my asshole, and wash it off. Only a few times I've had cases where the poop stuck in my ass hair was the size of a small eraser/coin.

>co-worker gave me her number but I'm too much of a sexually confused virgin to hit her up.
wut do

They wanted pussy and thought you were gonna get it before them

Girls. I'm 30 years old and have never had a long term relationship. It doesn't bother me. I've slept with many girls but never really made an attempt to continue anything more than sex. I've recently started actually dating a couple of different girls and it concerns me when they ask about my past relationships; when i have had none. i really click with them and don't want to mess it up with inexperience. What do i tell them if they ask? I know i sound like a loser when i have never had a girlfriend more than a couple of weeks.

I'm normal. I run my own business. Jow Forums, called pretty, handsome, charismatic, etc...

as a guy with a hairy butt you just have a shit diet man. I wipe and 90% of the time there's no mark at all on the toilet paper. Get a bit more fibre in your diet.

It's gay.

Fuck you. It doesn't happen every time I take a shit, just sometimes. I even have "ghost-poops" where the paper is clean after I wipe and I'll eat what I want, thank you very much.

Good fucking a man in the ass is gay. Also im against doing any butt sex.

I've never had them, I don't know what the fuck you're doing that you get literal shit clumps stuck to your hair.

I don't think you understand the level as prep work I put in to make my ass anal-ready. Long shower, alot of soap, shaving if I expect rimming, and anal douching. Douching is the first step and must be don't repeatedly until the water runs clear. I would expect that as a bare minimum every time for any guy who wanted to be pegged. I'd be down for it but I don't expect most guys to put that level of consideration into it. Plus it can fuck your system up if you go to ham. It's not meant for every day.

Oh, I'm not into anal myself, that's kinda gay, but I just shared my poop story.

Most guys I know in this situation say they focused on their careers too much. But it's a definite red flag. There are interpersonal issues that creep up in long term relationships (how to deal with conflict, come to agreements, how to negotiate/compromise) and you haven't had to do that with a person you're intimate with yet. I'd be weary. Maybe spend time reading up on that stuff or mention reading something that lets the women know you are capable of thinking dialectically, making compromises/negotiate idk.

How often do women think about wanting dick?

Why do girls treat guys like it's a job application?
>oh, you don't have past relationship experience? sorry, your access to this cunt is denied

Whenever they're horny

if you were any good at negotiating you would have only one partner lmao

Ladies, do you get jealous when you see a guy with long hair that is better than yours?

because dating a woman is basically like a job interview, she wants to see if she thinks you are worth spreading her legs for.

seems like a horribly unemotional way to go about it.

I agree (not that user) but I also think it's like this. Thought I'd go a bit further and say that deep down all relationships of any kind are based on what you get from the other person, even if what you get is "the joy of helping the person".
I imagined that the possibility of getting pregnant despite contraceptives must feel like a big deal. But at the same time that doesn't explain why women love to sleep with "bad boys".

at their primal core they're about mutually helping each other out to successfully produce a child sure, but you hope their's a layer of actual emotional bonding over the top otherwise why bother. If I ever got the impression a woman was consciously "interviewing" me I wouldn't bother taking it further.

How do I get my Ex Girlfriend back?

Going through 10+ years without a seriously relationship is a red flag for women. It shows us that we're only going to be temporary and you'll most likely ditch us because you have a long track record of non-commitment. It's a risk to try and date someone when you have no way of knowing if they will be in your life longer than a few weeks. It's an even bigger risk when you're at an age when others are already planning their future or have a family.

Essentially women don't want to waste their time trying to emotionally invest in someone when that person is very likely to leave them. That's time they could spend pursuing someone who's already shown they're capable of holding a long term relationship.

>I imagined that the possibility of getting pregnant despite contraceptives must feel like a big deal.
Not an issue if you're not whoring around before marriage

But they think if guys can sleep around why can't we? As far as I understand women only get pregnant certain days a month so it would mean there's no "equality" between being allowed to sleep around as a man or as a woman, which leads to women being more picky and then turning the playing field into their favor.

Degenerates of all ages point to their counterparts as an excuse for their own abhorrent behavior. It's a circus, especially now.

Did he make you feel appreciated for doing it?
Also
Pls b in Minneapolis

How can you tell someones in love with you?

Many ways. When you can fart in front of each other(non brap posting), when you can talk about poop amd throw up problems and also when you are sick and look like shit but your lover will take care of you. Also when both of you are alone and can just hold each other without a care in the world without even being sexual. Love is patient, love is kind, love is understanding.

You dont.

What if ta 30 year old man has never had any relationships, short or long? Would you give him a shot if he had never tried dating?

probably even worse.

Why not just lie about it?

Ahhhhhhhh

Is it weird to have surrogate sibling relationship with your close friends of opposite gender? Like If a guy try to flirt with any of my female friends, I'd go into super appraisal mode. It's not jealousy, the feeling is more some punk asking your sister out.

I mean, it actually made me felt really uncomfortable during guy-talks with my bros about who'll we'd bang. Feels a bit like dissing your friends behind their backs.

no

every other day

yeah

dw I'm a guy posting that.

gf of 2 years keeps trying to pry about my past sex life and more specifically seems to be very curious about my virginity story.

she does it in a playful curious way but it's kind of annoying

I have had past gf ask in the past but once I give same old playful avoidance answers they drop it but current gf keeps teasing me that I was probably a virgin until her which kind of is getting under my skin.

Why is she so curious and what should I do, should I just tell her? if it matters I lost it to my best friend who I've known since I was born who my gf gets a long really well with

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My ex gf ket asking me about my sexual history. When i told her she got very upset. But fuck her, if you can’t handle the truth then don’t ask questions

Yup, that’s not cool. You’re suppose to be encouraging. Not an asshole.

No. Jealousy is a a bad trait. It’s nice to see others having long beautiful hair.

I think that depends on the womans age. A woman 30+ is less likely to risk dating someone who doesn't have any experience handling a relationship. Relationships have certain hurdles and experiences you have to learn to navigate, and a woman who's already done her fair share of dealing with immaturity probably doesn't want to play a teacher roll. You'll probably have better luck with younger, immature girls because they'll be more willing to tolerate the learning portion since they're going through it themselves.

Other people your age have already grown and matured emotionally when it comes to relationships, so they want someone who's done some growing up when it comes to dating too.

Hooo she deserves to know you’re best friends with a girl you used to fuck. That’s not fair to her in the long run. What if friend decides to one day tell her? Grills talk. You should choose.

You sound like an asshole. Just tell her if she's that curious. Exchanging first times is silly fun and people do it more often than you think. Get over yourself.

Pretty much my best female friend came out to me and some others as gay today. Idk if I should just be like “okay” and treat her exactly the same or try to be more supportive. Tbh I always kinda suspected. She’s still outwardly closeted. Idk how much I should be like there for her I guess. She’s always kinda been like one of the boys I guess. Idk. Lot of things make more sense all of a sudden. I realize this is probably a difficult time for her right now.

Is it weird to Facebook friend request a girl I've only known for a few weeks? This girl is someone I met at a hospital I've been volunteering at (she's also a volunteer) for the past few weeks, and we've gotten along pretty well. She already has a boyfriend, but I've no romantic intentions toward her regardless. I just feel it would be weird to friend request her when I consider her more an acquaintance than an actual friend and when I hardly ever even use Facebook.

how do I get laid

I’ve added people 2 min after I’ve met them and i never got any complaints. Mostly because it’s social media and it dosent matter.

girls, what is your opinion on hollow cheeks?
My jaw is my most prominent feature after my blue deep set eyes, it essentially creates a crease running down my face, from below the eye socket, through the cheek, directly to the mandible. Best comparison I can make is pic related.
Is this weird or sexy?

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Are you me in high school? Fuck, had to be reminded of that, huh?

I'm not female but you should expand, what's your relationship with this woman? Also just don't text her boring stuff like - what's up, and you should be fine

Yeah
Don't overthink it. He meant it. Also, does he seem to enjoy sex most of the time? I doubt he'd imply that other times are bad
Personally nearly all the time. Now that I'm actually getting regular sex I feel even more horny
Not jealous, but long hair on men is such a turn on for me so I'll just probably think he's hot and that his hair is beautiful
No one cares, trust me even if you never met but have mutual friends is enough for people to add each other

What is your messiest break-up?

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I love it desu. Only looks weird on women since I see it as a masculine trait.

I had a guy I dated for a couple months who just straight up ghosted me.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years and it was just a lot of crying but he was fairly kind to me overall.

Four month scream fest that he made sure all my friends were privvy to and he attacked me repeatedly emotionally and verbally with things he specifically designed to be as damaging as possible. This was his way of trying to convince me that we should get back together.

She is your ex for a reason. You dont want that.

lmao fucking whore you deserved it

>does he mean it?
You have trust issues; work on your honesty toward to each other. Cut out the 'little white lies', 'polite lies' and other bullcrap like that... it feels nice in the moment, but really it just slowly erodes your trust in each other until you can even be sure if he likes having sex with you.

Surely you see how pathetic this is?

I'll give you the opposite, I am very brash and blunt. I always tell my gf what's on my mind, no matter how badly it might hurt her. At first, this caused some tension, but eventually it gave her a huge sense of security. That if there's anything she ever wants to know about me, she can know it very easily, and also if there is something negative in my heart, that it comes out and funny enough -- little problems are never the end of the world, and she has confidence that things are OK even if I say something negative in the moment.
yesyesyesyesyesyesyesyeysey
Just like you can't have happiness without sadness, pleausure without pain, light without dark, and so on....
you just need to create a deficit somehow. Make her pay for 1 in every 10 dates or something. That little occasional kick will remind her what it feels like to serve you. She'll also be happy to do it, too, because she'll feel like she's giving you a break from serving her so much.

>I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years and it was just a lot of crying but he was fairly kind to me overall.

explain why you broke with him

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Girl I was dating for a year or two suddenly ghosted me. Turns out she was with a different dude but it wasn't cheating because she broke up with me but didn't tell me.
Me, being the lonely shut-in NEET I am, completely broke down and tried to manipulate her into getting back together with me (thank god it didn't work).

All in all that whole relationship was a mess.

Most women I meet are initially attracted to me but I fuck everything up. What to do??

Welp I lost a friend today.

So tonight after work I got a text from my close femal friend/coworker. After avoiding me for nearly a full week and only sporatically answering me on snapchat she finally filled me in over text. She started having arguments with her BF about me and the time she was spending talking to me. She apologised for avoiding me and not knowing how to broach the topic but said that we should not talk as much outside of work because he doesn't like us talking. I am understandably disappointed but thanked her for being honest and for having the courage to tell me and apologised for any damage I caused in her relationship, because that was never my intent. I continued and said that while I was sad and disappointed that we could no longer be friends that I would respect her decision and that I don't blame her at all for putting her relationship above a friendship. I closed and said that if anything ever changes that means we could start being friends again to let me know because I really did value her friendship. No hard feelings and that I would see her Monday as friendly coworkers.

She replied and said thanks for understanding.

Now Monday will be an interesting day. We need to work together, as in we will talk face to face 20+ times a day. I don't want things to be more awkward than they are already. What should I do?

We had a ritual where I would send her an inspirational quote each morning to her work email. I will probably stop doing that. Monday was iced tea day. I will probably stop asking her for a while. Should I ignore the fact that we had this conversation or should I reinforce in person what we talked about?

This has the potential to be very messy so any advice is appreciated. Girls how should I play this to reduce awkwardness?

Just cut her out entirely.

Fellas, at what age did you start trying to fine “the one”, instead of being more of a bachelor

mid 20s. no luck though.

So my new girlfriend is worried that j am talking to other girls and only want her for sex because of a conversation she had with one of our co-workers. He misconstrued what I was telling him and didn't realize I was talking about her when I was talking about wanting to take her out on a date. Apparently the way I phrased it to him made it sound like I am talking about multiple women.

I told her she's the only one and even showed her my Twitter where I posted a few of the texts she's sent me and where I said I don't know how I managed to get someone as amazing as her, but I don't know if that fully removed the doubt from her head that she's the one for me. What can I do to prove it to her?

Since my whole life.

I don't think guys change. Really I've never seen it. Guy who appear to change doesn't really, they just get old and feel compelled into choices they don't want to make. You see it with for example; old guys who drink one dumb little beer at dinner. It's not even enough for a buzz, but they do it because it takes them back to their college years or whatever when they actually did what they actually want.

But guys like me, on the other hand, always wanted kids and 'the one'. If you asked me when I was a freshman in high school, "how many kids do you want?" I would say 15.

If you ask me the same question now, I would say 15.

Also I've been burned by women, of course, and I'm feeling like a late bloomer and stuff. What I'm trying to say is, I have loads of excuses to just give up and fuck around. But I never will because I really just want one woman.

What I'm trying to teach you is that guys don't change. They never do.

Late 20s no luck though

Kind of hard. Have to work with her every day.

Girls

I am going on a tropical vacation with my girlfriend tomorrow, but I don’t think I will be able to have sex or at least much of it during the trip. I am so stressed out, exhausted, malnourished, and sleep reprieved because of work over the past month that sex is not appealing. My body feels terrible and I don’t have energy. My girlfriend and I were talking about our trip and she said some sexual things, I said to her that I hope I will have the energy for it and she got upset.

What am I suppose to do?

I stopped at 26, to settle with someone good enough.
In my opinion the "one" is a myth

"The one" was a sweet Jet Li movie featuring Jason Stathem and music by Papa roach. The bullet time fx don't hold up well to time tho, but if you can't admit that's real, ur a cynic

Spend the whole time flat on your back with her sitting on your face. Tell her this is all about treating her right this vacation.