Make BF accept bodycount

Wow I’d kill to have a gf with only six. He’s being pretty insecure. Just tell him he has the biggest dick and you like sex with him the most and for god’s sake never talk about past relationships with him again.

>23
>at least 6 partners

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>Well I was his first girlfriend so there's kind of a difference in that.
That's just circumstantial. He had no problem fucking someone he wasn't married to, and as soon as you break up (which is likely), he's going to repeat his mistake with another girl. His behavior is no different from yours, and so you two belong together. He has no right to be disgusted with you.

Wow straight opposite of my advice .

So I suppose I will try to articulate my viewpoint a little more:

Since you are (reasonably and rationally) very biased in this situation, and also don't understand the plight of men because you're a woman.. I don't think you can offer him and help that will work. He probably needs a logical solution and emotionally something that is only compatible with just him.

In which case, only he can reach this solution. Even with the best of intentions, I believe your words would feel like wind to him as he tried to create a house of cards. He just needs to finish the house of cards, just to see what it looks like. He is trying to imagine his future with you and decide if it's all worth it. Even if you say something nice to him, even the gentlest of breeze will knock over his house of cards and he'll need to start over again.

Again this just because the solution he needs is something permanent, serious, and only applies to himself in a way you can't naturally comprehend.

So that's why I suggest giving him space. I think it's your best shot.

He's probably feeling a mixture of jealousy, insecurity, and worry. The only thing you can do is be honest and try to comfort him. Unfortunately, you can't do much more than that. Answer his questions thoroughly and hopefully he'll get over it. Happened with me, with my first gf as well.

Also give him space if he needs it. If he's being distant, don't press too hard. It will probably take time for him to process things completely. Don't let it deter your affection, though.

>6 different sexual partners for a 23 year old woman is normal

Are only Americans on this board?

I can imagine your bf not feeling comfortabel. First there is the ego issue with the fact that he probably has had less partners (mainly because it is incredibly easy for women to have sex; that is why the "just having some fun" argument is void).

Then the fact that it is scientifically proven that there is a strong positive correlation between adultery and the amount of sexual partners. The same goes for divorce and the amount of sexual partners.

Then there is the fact that sex is intimate. Showing that you give it away relatively easy is maybe not a person he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

>Inb4 Angry american woman

You are not the standard in the world.

Hopefully he runs and never looks back.

>He asked about past boyfriends/affairs and I didn't want to lie.

Could you expand upon this? It might help to give you advice. When you say affairs what do you mean, did you cheat on a past partner? Aside from boyfriends and affairs, were there any one night stands or fwb? Have you cheated on him?

Did he say anything more than he feels uneasy? How did he look, what was his body language like?

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t. assblasted roastie.

He doesn't want to marry you knowing it will end in a divorcr where he'll lose half of his worldly possesions.

The US might be degenerate, but Western and Northern Europe are even worse than us.

>disagreeing with me means you're a brainlet
brainlet detected

>Make BF accept bodycount
>bodycount

0/10. Its like you guys aren't even trying anymore. Shouts out to the rest of you sad autist faggots that took the bait, as usual.

>Make BF accept bodycount
>Well I was his first girlfriend so there's kind of a difference in that.
I can relate strongly to his feelings and let me tell you now - if you're the only girl he's been with while you've fucked other men he's never going to get past it. At best he'll suppress it but it will always bother him a bit. The only way around this that I can think of is him sleeping with other women - are you willing to let him fuck other woman before settling with you?

>The only way around this that I can think of is him sleeping with other women

This. He's obviously jealous of your sexual prowess, either massage his fragile ego or find a man that can handle a woman as liberated and confident as you.

>He's obviously jealous of your sexual prowess
Have you hedonists ever considered the possibility that some just find your behavior inherently disgusting?

Have you considered the possibility that nobody gives a shit what you find disgusting and your propensity for obsessing over the personal choices for others only makes you come off as autist and a weirdo?

I was making fun of OP and the poster I responded to. I wasn't being serious bro lmao, thought that would be obvious...

>making fun of OP
how?

Leave him and become the Stacy you are.

Poe's law strikes again. It seems that some people really are as insane as your post's position, though, if the other reply I got is any indication.

Have you ever considered that a decent chunk if not majority of those people are just upset because their partners are more successful at attracting sexual partners than they are?

>OP doesn't respond to anything
lazy trolling

I was the first guy to reply to the thread, and yes, that's what I assumed before ripping into OP's bf. It's normal to be degenerate, though not good.

is he the best partner that youve had in terms of sex? If he isn't he might be feeling as if he comes short when compared to your past exes.

Go back in time and tell yourself not to be a fucking whore

6? lol

Yes, actually. Our sex life is quite great and he's the only one that consistently made me cum.

We weren't discussing this in person as we're currently apart. We were calling and his voice didn't sound happy yet he kept asking so he "doesn't have to do it again". The call ended on a note that I said I felt uncomfortable and if I could stop talking about this. He asked how I felt, and I replied with "gross" to which he replied "guess how I feel" and not talking to me since. Real mental breakdown hours on my side since then kinda..

I never cheated but some of them have been short and one time things, but except one case that was really not by my choice. I always wanted to make things work out but that's sometimes not possible.

Your boyfriend is infinitely more based than you are, hopefully you can hold onto him and trade up.

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worthless whore, rides the coq carousel and expects to get away with it.

>having sex with the person you plan to marry is the same as a one night stand.

I advise you to swallow a bullet

shut the fuck up nigger cat 0w0

>guy is younger
>guy is relationship virging
>you got 5 big black dicks in you before him
and you wonder why he doesn't like it?

very very good reply i basically came here to say this. give him time, he'll chew on it but he'll get over it

> I love him truly and want to be with him forever, how can I make him stay with me?

Tell him that and see what happens.

Well, 6 isn't a huge number for a 23 yr old. Not compared to some people your age. Basically if you love this dude tell him you'll do what it takes to prove your devotion to him and your guys relationship. If it puts him at ease maybe try some kinky shit with him so he doesn't feel jealous or something.

Why the fuck would someone accept a HOE as a girlfriend. Your choices have consequences and those consequences are the slut label. The only route to take now is lying to your next boyfriend in hopes to achieve something more permanent

Your boyfriend has a good reason to be worried. Divorce dramatically increases the risk of early death in men. And your ability to pair bond is almost non-existent. You probably lack the ability to love him anywhere nearly as deeply as he loves you.

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Op's a gross roastie and doesn't deserve a direct reply.
>6
>23
In some world, "our" world, this is acceptable. I really and genuinely want off this ride.

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Don't "make" him stay even if you have a way to do so. It would be a recipe for disaster.

You have to be kind and understanding, and hope that he will act the same way when it matters.
Six doesn't make me bat an eye, but some people place an importance on that. Whether that's fine or not is another question but as long as it's just between you and him it's important to show respect to one another's views. Because that is the basis of how relationships work and I believe that it is by showing that one is respectful, caring and honest that you can convince someone you're the right person.

I hope it works out for you user.

>23
>having 5 ex bfs
5 is a lot for your age (if they were serious relationships) and would be a red flag for a lot of guys especially one younger than you. I'm sure he probably has 3 ex's at best. Its not about being "pure" or "chaste" but when your partner has a number of ex's it makes you question things.

Bodycount really doesn't matter as much as the relationships were somewhat serious, respectful and you weren't just throwing yourself at whatever junky came into your way. For me, it's a case of quality over quantity.

I feel like the main issue here is your boyfriend's insecurities.

One thing to learn in a relationship is indifference desu.

Nah man. Some people start youngish. My gf's sister has had about 4 bfs and she's only 21. She just started dating at 16, and had a boyfriend a year almost every year.

Don't listen to these guys OP and never ever again be this open with any guy. It is possible to keep him (I wouldn't knowing what I now know about how guys ego works) so if you still do........

Penut Butter is right, you give him space but it must be more than that. You stop contacting him and do not reply to any message from him and you make sure there is no way for him to know where you are for hours at a time, especially over night, because he is still trying to monitor your every move.

Let his own imagination believe you may have another man already, that he is not important, easily replaced between your legs. Again all you have to do is disappear even if you are shopping with your mom or at the pool or away for the weekend.

He'll come crawling back but be ready for the horrible accusations as you protest your innocence. Let him call you all the names he feels justified during his rant. Then calmly give a recounting of where you were every minute and how miserable you've been contemplating a life without him and you never want another to touch or look at you and then excuse yourself and dismiss him.

He now will apologize and grovel and beg but do not make it easy and if you do want him back a condition is he never mentions your past again.

Have a happy life OP

Make suicide attempt then force him to marry you. That's the only way to make him accept you, user.

Take notes lads. This is actually the level of contempt women have for you. Any concerns you have are invalid to them.
Avoid having an emotional response to She gave you insight into women that takes a massive amount of heartache to learn by yourself.

>how can I make him stay with me?
You can't. If he wants to be with you, he will.

If women learned to keep their mouth shut instead of falling into a fragile ego trap and confessing their most intimate encounters most bf's and husbands would live in bliss. Thats not pain but avoiding pain.

You also fail to acknowledge the pain OP is and will have purposefully handed to her by a man that says he loves her. To me that is meanness. But she loves the guy so she can prove her trustworthiness in a few days by doing absoulty nothing for days and prove her bf's IMAGINATION is the greater enemy of their happiness.

Idk but I think her bf likes the idea of cuckolding, so OP, try teasing him whether he's like that because he gets turned on imagining you getting fucked by other men in front of him.

>her bf's IMAGINATION is the greater enemy of their happiness.
Further notes to take gentlemen. You are the problem. It's all your fault. You should ignore the alarming rates of infidelity and divorce from women who have had reckless sex with multiple partners. We shouldn't ask ourselves why a particular woman finds it so easy to replace someone who she supposedly "loved".
And get used to it, because you will be responsible for everything else that goes wrong in a relationship with such a woman.
>confessing their most intimate encounters most bf's and husbands would live in bliss.
It is women who initiate divorce 2/3rds of the time. The primary reason given is dissatisfaction. Ask yourselves gents. Who do you think is easier to keep happy? A woman who married you after acquiring a history of quitting relationships when things get tough? Or a women who stuck it out with a man she loves

kys

>How do I avoid my actions having consequences after all?
YOU DON'T.

LMAO

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As a guy myself I feel like I know where he's coming from. I know it sounds gay but we have a very defined idea of what love is to us, if he isn't your first love he might as well be one in the pile. You gotta convince him he is definitely the only one you ever truly loved I guess

Kiss your sister? But I don't have any sibling.

The irony here is that any man who actually falls for these mind-games immediately drops down to a status beneath contempt in your eyes - and your leaving him later because you just don't respect him anymore ("You've changed") becomes a question of when, not if.

>Western and Northern Europe are even worse than us.
Not really, slut culture began in the US and thats where its strongest. Not gonna deny we have a fair share of whores here though

If he had sex with you outside of marriage he is equally wrong

It actually is exactly the same. It’s sex outside of a commited relationship. No, being “boyfriend/girlfriend” is not a commitment to anything

This won't work if his values/morals and intelligence are strong though. If he is, he'll realize that she doesn't appeal to his core beliefs and it'll be relatively easy for him to forget her just like the rest that don't meet them.

You can't "make" him. He just has to stop being a little insecure bitch.

And 6 is not too much for today's clown world average friendo, if you think you want off this ride imagine having 3 younger sisters

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>slut culture begane in the US
>ignoring french aristocracy and their degeneracy
>ignoring Eastern Asian harems
>ignoring ancient roman homo sluts

A women who makes it impossible for a man to impress her makes it impossible to love that man. They will dwell on every insufficiency and weakness he has, and never spare a thought for his positive attributes.
The more men she has to compare you with, the more difficult it is to please her. Because you aren't competing against any one man. Rather; you are played against an amalgamation of the best attributes of her former lovers. By some cruel trick of nature, she won't acknowledge anything good about you until three years after she dumped you in the most humiliating fashion. That's when the late night texts come up, telling you that you made her more happy than anyone else.
But you will not yield to the temptation of trying to patch things up my friend. Because you know that you aren't special, you aren't going to beat the odds. And even if you actually did make her happy, she'll forget all about it after the honeymoon period.

The US back at culture stealing

>No, being “boyfriend/girlfriend” is not a commitment to anything
This is autistic technicality and intentional obtuseness.

French aristocracy and ancient roman homo sluts didnt invent and spread porn, they also didnt make "entertainment" glorifying sluts and spread it across the globe, i mean, you'd know all this if you weren't a colossal tool

>But you will not yield to the temptation of trying to patch things up my friend.
You're preaching to the choir, brother.
>Because you know that you aren't special, you aren't going to beat the odds. And even if you actually did make her happy, she'll forget all about it after the honeymoon period.
Frankly, I don't even think you've taken this far enough at all. By the time a whore has come to her senses, it doesn't even matter anymore whether you think you can "beat the odds" and make her happy again. *She* can't make *you* happy anymore, if you're honest with yourself instead of trying to jump through hoops. You'll never look at her the same way again, never really trust her the way that you used to. The way to the place you used to share is cut off, forever - that place never even existed in the first place, because you were wrong about who you thought she was all along.

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No you retard. The vast majority of relationships end in a breakup and only a tiny fraction become a marriage. That’s not a commitment to anything. Most people who get into a relationship don’t even plan on ever marrying their partner, they just want regular sex.

Stop infighting. We all know where it really came from.

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>Most people who get into a relationship don’t even plan on ever marrying their partner, they just want regular sex.
It's true that most couples these days don't make the goal/destination explicit so much as just take it day by day and see where their bonding takes them, and it's also true that it would be better if people were more clear in their minds about marriage/family being the long-term goal. But that doesn't make this a fair or honest characterization.

There's still a whole slew of mutual promises and expectations that come along with a boyfriend/girlfriend arrangement. That's why I'm calling you obtuse - you'd be right if every relationship dispute was some calm conversation of, "Well, it's not like you ever promised me anything or really committed to not fucking twelve other dudes, so I guess that's okay" but that's not how people treat it at all.

>She* can't make *you* happy anymore
I'm actually extremely easy to please. This is both a strength and a weakness. I'm just alot wiser now that I've had the shit kicked out of me a few times.
>You'll never look at her the same way again, never really trust her the way that you used to. The way to the place you used to share is cut off, forever - that place never even existed in the first place, because you were wrong about who you thought she was all along.
In her defense, and in the defense of women. I doubt they know who they really are. Humans often sow the seeds of their own destruction. But men do it by passively letting everything fall apart around them. Women on the otherhand, seem to gleefully take an active role in destruction. Both don't grasp their awful situation until it is far too late. That being said, you can minimize your risk by avoiding women who have become too adept at ruining relationships. There's also the horrifying question of whether women are affected on the neurologic level by having excessive sex partners. But I imagine that it is difficult to acquire funding for that research

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Leave him alone and move on. Spare him the shame of being stuck with a whore.

Why would you expect that of him? You're a modernized degenerate whore.

6 really isnt that high even. Id agree with him if the number was around 20

See

Dump him sis that one’s broken from years of Jow Forums

Where else to find men that aren't infected by nihilism or onions though.

>Where else to find men that aren't infected by nihilism
Those are a dying species.

Dude, she's 14.

I've got two younger sisters, but both are under 5. I already see roastie tendencies in the one, though, and it makes me sad

How many were hook ups?

I'm the youngest, and my big sister was too sick in her youth to be rendered into a slut. She now has a good husband.
I can only imagine how devastating it would be to watch your baby sister turn into a common whore.

2 were boyfriends even though one of them was an a bit unhealthy relationship. 1 was a hookup (intended), 1 was a hookup that just ghosted me after it, and I had a hard time moving on cause I felt we had a true connection that could lead to a stable relationship. The last one was a relationship that lasted only around a month till I broke things off. I know it sounds like a bit of a mess but, well it's not always that easy.

gosh, why are you people so conservative? conservatism/puritanism are retarded, and cancer

I meant to say "only 6"...

are you fucking crazy? this is very manipulative, and a disaster. no one should do this, ever.

this

>porn
>"entertainment"
nice excuses, retard. their whole entertainment was fucking one each other

so you had 4 hook ups. why does it surprise you that this bothers him?

>gosh, why are you people so conservative?
it's a biological instinct to avoid thots in relationships. Sorry for biology.

>biological
so you do not enjoy sex?

I'm not looking forward to it, but I will try to do what I can. I watch them occasionally and they seem to like me but I can't fight the entire social conditioning that is public schooling

I want to fuck anything that moves and avoid marrying a thot.

That's biology.