Usually i never go on movie dates but I've already been on dates with this chick. Back when we went on dates (over a year) it didn't seem to work out so i said hit me up if you wanna try again.
So we started chatting after seeing each other dancing and she hit me up later, so i set up a date.
We go get a drink and have a good time, there was a second where i felt i could have gone for it but wasn't sure so i just figured i'd let it happen in the theater.
Well that didn't seem to translate.
I put my arm around her shoulder and she eventually pulled away. Then she started to rub her leg into my hand so i started to carees her thighs a bit. She doesn't stop me and we have some eye contact so i keep teasing her.
At some point she pulls away, then has closed off body language the rest of the movie so i let it go.
After the movie we were gonna get some grub after wards but she says she's full from the popcorn . She gives me the cheek when i go for the goodbye kiss.
Did i miss something here? Should i just give up here?
Yeah propably. Only she would know though, maybe figure it out by checking with her?
Lucas Evans
And say what?
"Hey it looked like i made your skin crawl at the end of the night and I'd be willing to do it again soon!"
Chase Cook
>Then she started to rub her leg into my hand Maybe that was occasional? That's interesting case tho
Dylan King
Just invite her to another date. If she says yes you still have a chance. If its a no then you don't need to think any deeper about this.
If it comes to that date ( don't fucking do a movie date again) just kinda bring it up that she didn't seem to enjoy it so much and just...talk like you are supposed to anyway.
Nathan Ross
She's a pretty structured inexperienced Christian woman. And I'm agnostic with a bit more experience . That's an option
Why it's women that decides if it's over. Why do men have to do all the shit and then women tells you if it was okay doing nothing herself? How are we all so beta faggots, holy shit?!
Aaron Taylor
Well, don't you pick your favorite product when you go shopping? It's the same for people that have other persons ready for relationships, they are waiting to see who's the best for them. Women (usually) get it easier to get dates so they are more picky.
Andrew Ramirez
I would not send it with that last sentence. Sounds kinda petty and weird. Otherwise sounds fine. Puts the ball in her court. If she’s actually interested she’ll let you know. I’ve seen it too often where women act cold on a date and then are shocked that the dude drops them
Isaac Nelson
Yikes.
She sounds like a dicktease rather than a proper date.
She sounds like she's playing hard to get more than being uncomfortable. I'm not sure why this thread is supporting you sending her that kind of message. It just makes you sound meek.
Think about it this way: pretend you're a woman who just dated a man that blew through your physical boundaries. Do you really risk going on another date with him just because he said sorry? Do you even put any credibility behind that apology after he's already exercised such poor judgment and consideration for your personal space?
Mind you, again, I don't think she's viewing it that way. But even if she were, this message you're looking to send is STILL a bad idea.
Elijah Stewart
You did nothing really wrong here man. She just wasn't into you. I don't think you have to apologise about shit. Nor should you.
Mason Stewart
It's not like she was giving messages to stop that I ignored. But what's my way to another date then? So do what then? Do i even reach out ?
Jordan Bell
DO NOT TEXT HER APOLAGISING YOU FUCKING IDIOT
why the fuck are you supposed to be sorry for? showing her attention and making her feel sexy? Fuck that.
YOU HAVE TO SHOW SCARCITY MENTAILITY. do not text her for next 3 days.
after 3 days text her like nothing happened.
if you send that sorry please forgive me message she will ghost you and her pussy will get dried out
women do not know what they want.
trust me
Camden Price
>So do what then? Do i even reach out ? Nothing probably. Just think to yourself "Oh, shit date, move on."
Best case scenario is she texts you and initiates. Jerk off before responding if she does text you.
I wish I had this kind of advice instead of being raised by a literal boomer woman. Had no male role models so I learned to be one by fucking up as a kid. I fucked up early so you don't have to.
I love these times >exploring that with whatever >otherwise take care not even saying it's a bad idea, likely this is how it works, but it's just so...."oh no I under no circumstance want to look like I give a figment of a fuck about this haha no I'm so cool and uncaring haha it's cool like you know like idc like whatever yo like wassup"
I'd probably just tell her that we've already been on a few dates and I like her and I want something a bit more serious there, and I'm getting mixed signals; what does she want/how does she see this?
but then again she'll likely give an equally bullshit answer like "oh I dunno like we jus havin fun right like it's cool like whatever like y'know it's chill don't get so serious like sheesh whatever y'know"
If she’s Christian then she is pretending she is not a whore. She’ll play mind games like this indefinitely. Good luck
Brayden Perez
i was in a similiar position to OP she was sending mixed signals, she even rejected kiss on first and then again on second date, by laughing nervously when i tried kissing but then in the momment I went for her neck and literary did a vampire style slow kiss and she responded with chills in her spine :)
after that we ran into each other and she practically asked me to ask her out again and I non verbally hinted that I will contact her ,letting her wait a bit
Colton Price
You're too "nice". You shouldn't have apologized for the theater date, and what does "your feelings are always ok with me" even mean? It sounds like you're kissing her ass for existing.