Ok guys this one is a serious post. My girlfriend(22) not only revealed her horrible past to me n>20 but she also asked me to open up our relationship. The catch is she is a hot bombshell and I’m a loser beta that got lucky as fuck. I get a girlfriend every 3 years or something. Abandoning her isn’t an option since I cannot find any other girl especially hot. So she wants us to be open and explore things with other people while being in a commitment. She already told me that last year she was seeing 2 men at the same time. Also I have fallen in love with her madly and jealousy hurts me very much. She admitted to me that she wants to have sex with another guy and she probably will. What are my options? What do I do?
Girlfriend revealed horror past(serious post)
Beat the shit out of her. If this wont help drive her into forest and from there you know what to do.
You 3 options:
1. Say no to open relationship, and get cheated on
2. Say yes to open relationship and be a literal cuck
3. Dump the slut
This.
Pick one and live with it, OP. This is what you get, sticking your dick in crazy.
Dude, this. Specially the third option. If you weren't madly in love you would ditch her in an instant.
>Abandoning her isn’t an option since I cannot find any other girl especially hot
That's the problem, dumping her is always an option
Where I’m supposed to find another vagina if I dump her?
>thinking vagina is so important that you’re considering being a cuck
>letting organ dicatate your life
Pathetic
This
Wow OP, you fucking retard
Have some self respect man, for god sake.
It isn't an open relationship if you're not consenting. If you aren't fucking other women and she's fucking other men, that's just plain cuckoldry. Express your feelings. If she doesn't value them, dump the whore. Otherwise, you're in for a very painful ride.
What horror past? Can you specify? Has it anything to do with opening the relationship?
>extremely attractive
>has a secret "horrible past"
>wants to fuck other dudes on the regular
Sorry friend, but it sounds like you dipped your wick in a woman with BPD.
well, technically, the brain is an organ...
I agree tho
She wants your money and Tyrone's big black cock at the same time.
Save yourself the emotional torture and let her go. Keep moving on with your life and you will find a mutual partner that isn't a selfish sexual deviant.
Easy Brazil bro
didn't you see the
>n>20
? What do you think that means?
> If she doesn't value them, dump the whore.
this, op may love her, but if she doesn't care about his feelings then it's pointless being in the relationship. Besides, if OP was able to pull one hot girl, he can get another
Keep fucking her while looking for new girls
She's a slut.
If you let her fuck other guys, she will.
If you don't let her, she will.
If you dump her, she will.
My advice, keep being with her but immediately start to look for someone else. As soon as you have opportunity dump her for someone else and make your new relationship visible. Maybe will make the bitch suffer a bit. And don't go back to her, ever.
So what will you do OP?
Or look for someone else while you're with her and dump her.when you're pretty sure you got a catch
It's also highly probable that she's not interested in him anymore and just chose a shit way to make him dump her (what a man will agree for his girl fucking with others?).
Again a good solution for the problem is to catch someone else while being still with her, dump her out of the blue, move to next partner and make her suffer.
There’s literally nothing wrong with allowing your partner to see other men sexually. Especially when, as you state, you have feelings of inferiority (‘loser beta’) and accept it rather than doing something about it.
Trust me you’ll be happy once you’re no longer forced into an ‘alpha’ role sexually
Go fuck yourself. My best friend is clamped down in a relationship with a poly whore. She'll go on her girls night out and come back from trap houses dressed like a hooker. She'll even take another man up to her boyfriends trailer, she even did that last year on his brithday weekend. But if my buddy stops at Burger King or my house on the way home from work, she will accuse him of cheating and rag on him like a banshee.
He only wants to sleep with her and he's fucking miserable all the time.
>He's also helping her raise an exes kid for the cherry on top
Nobody wants to be a cuck loser, OP can do better than getting emotionally dominated by some vapid two faced whore.
i heard polys say multiple times that if one of the members is mono it will never work. if you weren't poly from the start you're simply not compatible.
if you leave now and on good terms you could keep her as a friend, maybe one with benefits.
Start seeing her as nothing more than a cumdump, don't spend money on her, just fuck her brains out when you get the chance. All the while, like other anons have said, looking for a new woman. Also, just for the lolz you should cum inside her before she goes to fuck some fuck and have her insist on him eating her out first lol.
You'll find self respect and avoid getting your soul crushed by her banging another guy every week while you cry in your room
> she wants us to be open and explore things with other people while being in a commitment. Sh
I don't think either of you know what commitment means.
Dump her, or kill yourself for being a cum-guzzling cuckold.
if you're both happy in both of your situation as of now so fuck it! if your jealous is fucking you over talk to her about it and most likely just dump the slut.
>but she also asked me to open up our relationship
dump
oh and also, nice bait
How are people this spineless allowed to live? World War III cannot come soon enough.
Forget the cuck shit people here are too insecure to be okay in an open relationship, most are just lucky to even be in one. (it's not my thing either but I know ppl living happy lives in one) if you feel uncomfortable then tell her and break up with her if you think she won't respect your wishes. I understand feeling like you won't find better but is it really that great if you live your life in fear of what she might do? Move on if an open relationship isn't something you can handle. It's what she wants. Staying with her means your both getting the short end of the stick. Also bro be a little more confident in yourself. If she's hot asf that means you DO have what it takes to get another hottie.
She isn't committed to you you dumb fuck. The slut isn't yours nor is she healthy for you, get out of there.
Stop being a whipped beta. If you can bag one bitch you can bag another. Maybe this time around pay more attention to sanity and personality than looks.
Professional adviser and psychologist here OP.
Without getting too technical about the whole situation and with all the information that you have given us i can say with all my vast experience that you are F U C K E D.
I mean,
F U C K E D
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Stop harming yourself and dump that soul fucker
has she gotten the HPV vaccine?
Have you gotten the HPV vaccine?
If not, get one.
HPV can give women cervical cancer,
and HPV can give either of you anal, mouth, and/or throat cancer.
99.9% of people who get STD's deserve them and everything that happens to them
The healthy thing would be to break up. But seeing as you won’t take that as an option, then... lean into it? Ask if you cam watch or something
That is the most covnient of them all. Fuck her like a cheap whore, while looking for another girl at the same time. She isn't worth any feelings, show it to her. Emotionless sex and harsh treatment on the bed will show her when you get a better partner.
show us a pic of her. I wanna see if she’s really a 9-10
I had a fuckbuddy in may-june this year, then one day we meet at an event, she walks away from me when I try to have a convo and I later see her dancing with another guy. Haven't written or met with her since. I want to smash so much, haven't had any since then, but your honor is more important than getting your dick wet.
Also, she'll dump you some time anyway based on what you said. At least now you can be the one doing it and having the final word
Except it is cuck shit. The only reason OP isn't leaving her is because he's afraid of being alone. This tells me he's not good at getting girls, and I bet his GF knows this. She'll get to hop on the cock carousel, while OP will be lucky to get a one night stand every year or some shit.
A) Accept that you're with a fucked up whore
B) Enjoy the ride
C) Exit the ride in under 2 years
I'm an old fag. Trust me on this shit.
You know this is sadistic but in some ways it lays down the law. Not allowed in first world countries tho.