Is life easy living as a ridiculously handsome man?
Handsome men who are so handsome they attract men too
Handsome men have same lives as ugly men. The difference is they are more confident because they look better.
I'm pretty handsome, 6'1 and blonde hair green eyes and no, life is not easier for me. Attention from girls is nice, but it doesn't make my life any better.
I feel awkward as fuck when I'm thinking receptionist likes my looks even if it's not true
Maybe it's my personality or maybe even my imagination, but I've noticed women are willing to give me more slack or go the extra mile for me, older women especially.
no
Yeah man, life is relatively easier for me. Think of it this way.
1. I can get away with stuff that average looking people cant
2. I get offered shit by doing nothing
3. People are nicer to me in general
4. I get compliments frequently by both sex
Note that it doesnt apply 100% of the time, but this happens A LOT more than an average person.Anyone who tell you otherwise is lying
replace handsome with confident
Well that's a load of shit.
2nd
People are automatically more interested in you and opportunities come in turn. Feels good,
>1. I can get away with stuff that average looking people cant
Like what?
>2. I get offered shit by doing nothing
Like?
Not doubt, just curious. Can you give us an insight into what you look like, or even post pic if you want. Are you tall too?
Not an argument
manlet. Try being 6'4 like me before saying you're handsome
daddy
if they are not particularly smart, yeah, by a second or so before someone sucks it out of them, I mean literally their beauty.
Maybe it's being attractive, but confidence — how you carry yourself, how you make value judgements, how you act in difficult moments — is taught to you by your father/male role models and generally coincides with a lineage of beauty and masculinity.
I cannot tell you how many girlfriends I've had who have passed up incredible opportunities by not even trying because in their head they've already failed. How many years of their life they've wasted by taking lesser jobs and opportunities because they feel the need to "ramp up" to the imaginary standard they invented to deny themselves the position in the first place. I'm sure you've seen those feminist quotes "live your life with the unearned confidence of a heterosexual white man" — that's it.
Live your life with the confidence that you can and will do anything and the life you want will follow. This confidence must be taught and is broken by being ugly or undesirable.
>Maybe it's being attractive, but confidence — how you carry yourself, how you make value judgements, how you act in difficult moments — is taught to you by your father/male role models and generally coincides with a lineage of beauty and masculinity.
I have thought for a while a lot of the problems plaguing young men now stem from being a generation without good father figures. I have pitiful sexual success in spite of not being hideous. I don't even approach cause that shit terrified.
>I cannot tell you how many girlfriends I've had who have passed up incredible opportunities by not even trying because in their head they've already failed. How many years of their life they've wasted by taking lesser jobs and opportunities because they feel the need to "ramp up" to the imaginary standard they invented to deny themselves the position in the first place
Not sure what this means to be honest. Can you clarify, give examples, etc. I'm even confused by why you wrote down 'girlfriends'. Makes no sense in the context to me.
so this is why whites are going extinct? well they deseve it. blacks are usually the alpha males so it makes sense
>passed up incredible opportunities by not even trying because in their head they've already failed. How many years of their life they've wasted by taking lesser jobs and opportunities because they feel the need to "ramp up" to the imaginary standard they invented to deny themselves the position in the first place.
tell me about it. I'm relatively tall and handsome, but really insecure. and I've missed MANY opportunities in life because of my insecurities...
>I have thought for a while a lot of the problems plaguing young men now stem from being a generation without good father figures. I have pitiful sexual success in spite of not being hideous. I don't even approach cause that shit terrified.
I'm the son of a single mom. she destroyed my self-confidence, my personality, many attempts to take opportunities, etc. random people I met in my life helped me A LOT more than her. sure, she fed me, gave me a sort-of shelter, and so on. but she also destroyed me. and I'm not sure I should forgive her.
I attract gays but not women.
>I'm the son of a single mom. she destroyed my self-confidence, my personality, many attempts to take opportunities, etc. random people I met in my life helped me A LOT more than her. sure, she fed me, gave me a sort-of shelter, and so on. but she also destroyed me.
I feel you man. Single mothers are toxic and often try to tear down their male children.
You don't have to be handsome to attract other men you know.
>tell me about it. I'm relatively tall and handsome, but really insecure. and I've missed MANY opportunities in life because of my insecurities...
Like? I'm only average height but I have evidence I am good looking and I am for a fact insecure. What stuff have you missed out on, how can I avoid this, etc.?
I've had random women yell out their cars at me and call me sexy and shit. Girls working behind registers pretty frequently smile and try to talk to me for no reason. Other than that I'm poor and have no self confidence. Maybe I just have an approachable demeanor? Idk
Describe appearance, height, etc.
Tall tan white guy with muscles
It's better than being a beautiful young woman.
Like they are more forgiving if I fucked up. Not everyone but most. And I can fuck up more times before they eventually lose their shit. Hope this makes sense?
I could have been with many good looking women, had I kept the personality and the ideas I had when I was a kid. instead, she ruined me, by teaching me exactly the contrary of how things worked. she would also make fun of girls I liked, and would tell everyone the things I told her, so I couldn't even confide her anything. I had no one else to ask.
I got demotivated in uni because she didn't want to have anything with it, she didn't even go to introductory parent meetings organized by my university. she thought her care for me ended after I left my house at 17. meanwhile, most of my classmates had engineers as parents that went to great lengths to care for them.
people I barely knew (teachers, people from summer jobs, etc.) motivated me to go beyond school teachings in some topics, or to work hard, or whatever. some even were gifting me stuff to help me. she made me asocial, which means I never got closer to some of those people. she also made me an ungrateful fuck, which meant I didn't even greet them for their kindness.
she is a dumb, kinda autistic religious bitch that has no idea how to live her life without the "advice" of some ultra-conservative "god-sent" maybe-paedophile priests.
this is so true...
>be attractive
>a bunch of egoists who feel entitled to love shit on you because obviously all your accomplishments are not yours, but just a product of shit you didn't develop or have any control of
Everyone deals with shit
It takes an especially shitty person to deny that
I'm an 8/10 21 year old, get hit on a lot by both guys and girls. No.
My life has been an utter hell filled with insanity and solitude. I mean genuine insanity, I became psychotic, depressed, and sociopathic. There was substance abuse, catatonia, I committed arson and tried killing myself... a lot happened. I wasn't always so attractive either , and I'm actually still a virgin despite the fact that people have thrown themselves at me due to me having severe emotional short comings. No matter the kinds of looks I get, the amount of women who try to set me up with their friends, or the amount of times women have openly said they want to fuck me , nothing really changes.
I'm a distant and cold as I was when I was a child.
Studies show that handsome men do have it easier. People are more willing to doing favors to them, agree with them and see as more competent in a work environment.
They get bitches, they get money.
Same goes for women.
Being handsome only gets you the attention, you need the YOU to keep that attention
Yes, its very true. Its like we are given more chances by default, in a sense. The chances that average people usually get when they build a rapport/trust with someone else, but good looking people get it by default.
also people get comfortable with you really fast. theres a science behind this but whatever. Any anons whod like to ask more questions, feel free to do so. Ill be as honest as possible
No it’s not. Have people from time to time say I look like Tom cruise, or hey there Maverick, don’t even know these fucking random mind thinkers.