Jow Forums, where do you socialize?

>not be an asshole that freaks women out so you never get invited to anything.
I found the man hater.

On a side note, where is a good place to pick up women looking for someone to give them attention for showing off their feet

You all are my frens

ima dude with many friends including women. it's amazing what you find out by having conversations with them. how's that crushing loneliness working for ya, pal?

become a trans chink woman and go work at a nail parlor

Probably not a bad idea. Things like that are easier when you're still in school because otherwise it winds up being the workplace, and it's usually not the best idea to mix business and pleasure.

I moved to a big city after high school. I din't go to college. I made a feel friends and a girlfriend. After the relationship ended my social life diminished a lot. The others friends faded out. I refused a lot of degenerate invitations.

Now I work from home alone. I don't have family in the city. I don't like to make random friends just not to be alone. I'm introverted. I prefer to focus on good relationship. I'm just having a hard time finding the good people, since I don't have a lot of places to meet them.

I haven't had any friends in 9 years.

What lame ass life

I have no friends. I don't even talk to the guys I work with that are around my age. You guys are all I have. I'm an alienated white male.

The fraternal order

Everything else you said is cool but
>I have a more fulfilling time home alone in my room talking with God.
makes you seem a bit like pictured. Which is cool

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Is being social in the internet not a social life? Is being here talking to each other not good enough to be considered socializing? This is where I socialize. It's the only place I can be honest

good for you, fren. but try to make good friends that are going to help you, it's important.

It's not the same as IRL interactions. And I hope you find some IRL friends you can be honest with. It turns out most people want someone they can be honest with as well.

No, this is a substitution. It's as equivalent as porn is equivalent to sex.

>I'm introverted
ya, you have to force yourself out of the house. life is beautiful. it exists all around you. you just have to get out of the house and open your eyes. do you drink, because if you do, it's time to stop as alcohol is a depressent.

Not lame at all if he's happy.

i drink only monster energy drinks

I socialize at college, I intend to socialize at work.

I'm an introvert, I can get away with minimal socialisation.

This is exactly what I say: I need very little socialization. And I used this superpower to live alone, working from home. Alone for weeks... But it got too extreme, took me too long to realize what was wrong, and it's hard to fix it now, without acting desperate.

I want to stay a real boy though

I don't have a problem socializing but it is pretty boring honestly. When I need something from someone I socialize like any normal person but most of the time I keep to myself. Either way, I am a psychopath, so you know, I am not the best example.

Socialize? I’m trying to get out of parties and shit. I just like to grab a few friends and hit the lake.

I like to grab a few friends and hit the showers.

My life used to be like that, before moving to the big city.

innanets

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Who's that?
He looks like Terry Davis

don't lie to yourself

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Jow Forums has no friends. That’s why they’re racist and evil.

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quit cell phones 2 years ago, quit faceberg 8 years ago. i go and see frens face to face a few times a week. most of them know what i do in my free time, and are fine with it, some even support and ask for updates on our shenanigans. when i meet political, or sjw types they tone down the rhetoric when im there or they learn way more than they wanted to and ask me to please stop. had a nice christmas with drinks with frens and grilling, had an even better birthday. there is no need to isolate yourselves, or hide who you are. just learn your shit if you want to discuss things openly, or you will alienate people. stopped going to bars a few years ago too, short of a death in the circle of frens anyway. we always drink to our dead.
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try to find sense in life, bud
pic related

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This is bullshit advice. You can't just force yourself to learn how to socialize. Ts something you learn a certain point in your life. A younge. If you missed it than you're fucked. The internet is valid form of socializing. A better form really. I can articulate my thoughts so much easier through text

Only clowns socialize in clown world.
HONK!

>inb4 just go outside bro

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I don't.

I work, and help my family with whatever they need, and go to church with my mother.

Most of my free time is staring into the bottom of a vodka bottle.

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So how do you guys respond to the questions like "you dont go out?" or "why arent you seeing anybody?"

I think you can't force yourself to socialize, but you can improve your socialization. And that's why I made the question where is the best place. Because socialization for introverts has to come with natural interaction.

i mean, the one place that for sure won't have any good-cooking women will be cooking classes

How do I develop a blessed and based redpilled social life? literally don't have a clue

>fly landed on my hand
>tickles a little
>first time I've touched a living being in 3 years
>smirk a little

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it's actually great.
You should try it someday.
Everything you need is within, you shouldn't depend on weed, alcohol, or sex for enjoyment.
I've experimented with DMT, shrooms, LSD very frequently in the past. Was a frequent drinker and weed smoker/dabber.
Since I got sober and became more religious, I get better experiences out of being sober.
Those same experiences are there, you just need to know how to tap into them using prayer and meditation. and it's infinite without the side effects of drugs.
You can have epiphanies, bliss, etc without drugs. You just need to learn how to expand your consciousness
Also if you use drugs, those experiences stop coming when your tolerance goes up, and are non-existent when you're sober.

>Do you have a social life?
Nope
>Do you have good friends?
Nope
>Where do you socialize?
Discord or tinychat
>What's the ideal environment to find good, redpilled friends and possible mates, Jow Forums?
I dont know, pro-white meetups?

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sports

>ima dude with many friends including women.
You're a man-hating feminist. Fuck you.

for those of you not sure how to get started, there are lots of activities that are inherently white and trad. learn to fish, start running, get a dog and take good care of it, offer to mow your old ass neighbors lawn for free, play some golf (its more fun than it looks), even the library can be a start. if those kinds of things arent for you, then set the bar lower and try some disc golf or some gay shit like that. in short, get a fucking hobby man.

>I haven't had any friends in 9 years.
I don't have any friends, either. I started to discard friendships because they were with people who were too asleep with NFL, CNN and pro-Israel. Mainly Evangelical Christian types. I'd rather be alone than to interact with blue pillers who do not want to be woken up.

Of course, I see my family constantly and friends when I can (my wife and I are having kids so family comes 1st these days). I'm not a flaming trumpfag though so socializing is easy for me, since I am not preoccupied with worshiping at the feet of another man like a cuck.

I go to a few massage parlors and lounge around with other degenerates.

>I have no friends. I don't even talk to the guys I work with that are around my age. You guys are all I have. I'm an alienated white male.
A lot of men are alone. Men tend to like being alone, but it also scares a lot of men to finally come to the realization that they will always be alone. Stoic philosophy can help, I think.

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That's too bad. In one of my favorite redemption arcs, I was meeting up with an old friend for purposes, and after recalling the good old days for a while, he put out feelers that he thinks 9/11 was bullshit and I was like you're damn right it's bullshit. And then it was an evening of redpill carpet bombing.

I'm known as "young blood" wherever I go
It's amazing to see how old the clientele really is around these places. I'm talking like, on the brink of death and these old guys are still looking for a tug job lol.

Be a good looking chad. Its the only way.

>Do you have a social life?
No.

>Do you have good friends?
No.

>Where do you socialize?
I don't.

>What's the ideal environment to find good, redpilled friends and possible mates, Jow Forums?
Hilariously, one of the best places to meet attractive, virginal, fair-skinned blue-eyed women is building charity homes in the hood for niggers.

>just do boomer golf
nah

thats always a good hole to break through on, let them crack it open first. in the old days before /b/ got trapped the locals used to come by my house specifically to drill me on that kind of shit. i'd make sure they left in a state of shock and awe. one of those dudes from 10 years ago now makes some of the best pedo hunting vids on yt. its nice to plant seeds, and watch them bear fruit.

I have a small social life, but it does exist. Occasionally I go out. I socialize at the gym and at work a lot, but I don't really have any friends left. I can't help you with advice because I'm not compatible with 99% of people, so I don't know how to find good friends.

The mosque and the home for refugees.

>vodka
If alcohol isn't working out for you then try pot.
I used to have a friend, he was an alcoholic, and he just could not make good choices because he loved to drink so much. Walking down to 711 for a $10 pack of smokes and a $4 red bull and some of their rotating hot food EVERY DAY seemed like a good idea to him. And using payday loans. And driving his car like shit so he has to buy a new used car every 6 months.

The guy was making 50k+ at least 5 years while I was making under 30k every year, and I always had more money and assets.

If you really suck at almost all aspects of life, switch your drug

>That's too bad. In one of my favorite redemption arcs, I was meeting up with an old friend for purposes, and after recalling the good old days for a while, he put out feelers that he thinks 9/11 was bullshit and I was like you're damn right it's bullshit. And then it was an evening of redpill carpet bombing.
Well, I'm a teacher, so I have to be in front of people a few times a week, and the rest of the time is spent alone in my apartment, or I interact briefly with people at Starbucks or when I'm shopping for something. I might get more active with interacting with people once I start going into the city and drinking again. I might start going to the pub in October after taking a break for a year.

>I'm not compatible with 99% of people
I think that a lot of people are Lone Wolf types. They can turn it on when they have to interact with people, but mostly prefer to be left alone usually.

we basically get wasted for 3 hours and tell nigger jokes and try to hit balls as hard as we fucking can. we all suck at it, but there are no niggers on the golf course. the boomers get annoyed that we're there, but fuckem.

Interwebs socializing has been shown to trick the brain into thinking it's socializing but it turns out it doesn't elicit the same biochemical response. That's one of the reasons why Facebook is so toxic, it leaves you feeling hollow inside.

I used to be into drugs and alcohol. I quit everything but now I have no friends anymore and dont know what to do. No one ever offers any real advice.
They just say things like "bro you gotta leave the house!" like WTF am I supposed to do, go walk around alone and talk to random strangers and try to befriend them? That won't work.

All I do is work and then go home and be lonely and sad. But at least I'm sober now and getting fit, but sometimes the crushing loneliness really gets me down.

I feel like this is a data mining thread disguised as a
>tell us something about yourself so we can talk about it
quasi-/soc/ thread. The trick here is that people love to talk about themselves.

Using the term “red pilled” outside of the internet is a huge red flag you’re socially inept and have zero friends Kek.

I'm not a bar person, but a day or two later I was with the same guy getting some drinks at a bar for reasons. The next guy down at the bar couldn't stop staring at us because we're both kind of uh, "eccentric" and what we were talking about was more interesting than listing to the live band.

Eventually the bartender lady started giving us free drinks and telling us about bartender tricks until she was sloshed and wanted to get laid. Sometimes things have a way of just happening for no particular reason if you're available.

hobbies

In the forest.

Mental health ward.

I had a blast in there. Then did some insane shit with them when we left there.

>Most of my free time is staring into the bottom of a vodka bottle.
You should try to find something to do, like reading more, or some kind of interest. Hard alcohol every day is dangerous.

Try to find a hobby; a sport or something physical, get involved. Or a course like drawing, painting or cooking.

My question is what are the best places to find the good people.

What? You couldn’t be more wrong, I’ve personally been through this in my late twenties. It took a lot of effort and going out of my comfort zone but I ended up becoming the person I always wanted to be. People like you are just too chicken shit to change behavioral patterns. The “advice” you just gave is completely baseless and the exact opposite of what is actually true.

I'm a frat student lol
Only friends I have at this stage in life apart from two girls at uni

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Talk with your cousins , go out with them, branch out to new people.

That's why tribes were good back in the day and pre modern era when we was outside in communities all day.

That's good fren, it is also interesting to find a new ground for networking. Been struggling with that part since I quit vidya and media (for the most part).

It's more than being a lone wolf. My mind is so far away different that I am unable to relate with anyone. I can't understand why people do what they do most of the time because people don't make sense at all.

I'm an artist, and I used to be extremely inspired. I dropped everything to work at home to have more time to read and do my own thing. But then nothing worked... I lost everything and became demotivated. Now I realized that was my lack of interaction with people, I'm not actually living life. The last years have been just a blank. I worry when people ask me what've been doing, what are the latests news. I have nothing to say.

>They just say things like "bro you gotta leave the house!" like WTF am I supposed to do, go walk around alone and talk to random strangers and try to befriend them? That won't work.
NPCs giving rpg tier advice is pure pottery

Congrats. You're also a professional weirdo who is too autistic to act normal if he tried. Use that to your advantage, considering most people are boring.

When I lived on my hometown I had a close relationship with my family and friends from highschool. Now I live in a big city, and all my friends moved from my home town to different places.

I used to think that was wonderful. Now I see that I lost something really valuable.

>My mind is so far away different that I am unable to relate with anyone. I can't understand why people do what they do most of the time because people don't make sense at all.
Me, too, but I think you have a more serious case of what I have. In the end, I have come to realize that I am a better person, happier person maybe, whne I am alone. But I get some social interaction through work, although it is very little. But I think that it's enough.

I wish I could socialize more, at uni currently and family is liberal as hell

I keep my mouth shut so they keep paying my college, but it's not easy as soon as I get my degree I'm going to buy guns and cut contact if they can't love me for who I am then they aren't family

shut up degenerate hedonist nigger

you sound like a boring christcuck

I don't socialize. I've been isolated by choice since 2009. I have no friends, not a single phone contact. I'm a lone wolf 100%, a real man thrives alone