How does a girl attract cool guys?

Funny how most of the guys on this board are told this advice and they flip out.

Stop being fat and annoying

>be female
>dont be fat
FIFY

Why should you even bother having vacant, sterile relationships? You like just being a hole? No way those "cool guys" are going to stay with you forever and marry you. Don't even start - your friend is not going to have a good life in 15 years. That is, if you still are a virgin. Have a heart - save yourself until marriage. It worked for thousands of years... but everyone else does it! You say... everyone else is on SSRI's and deeply unhappy. Don't be emotionally celibate - be celibate while you still can.

yes, if you're a psychopath trying to function in society

you don't need to have any hobbies. just stay in your •feminine frame and dress a little nicer. you literally don't have to be outgoing or smart. guys don't give a shit about that.

it's true we mostly care about looks but don't over do it. I can't tell you how many times I see an average looking girl and they wear really light make up and they start to look a little more attractive. also throw a smile or 2 at the guy to show him you're interested with your eyes looking sideways at him. it's a choosing signal we boys pick up on.

don't worry about being the life of the party. most guys love shy little shits who get nervous and play with their hair when talking to a guy they like, it's a feminine feature. looks ARE the defining puzzle piece that attracts a guy so don't get too fat. also remember to go light on the clothes and make up. no need to look like bar trash..

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Then there's Jow Forums, a board full of guys trying to look better for women

This is a nice thread. I am a guy who missed on a few "obvious" flirting done towards me, and i can see how some shy girls can feel clueless on what to do as well.

OP, i think you need to live a bit more if you feel insecure about yourself. Not sexual experience, just general stuff so you have something to contribute to a converstaion and such. Try to do one thing you never did every week, that would help

What is a "cool" guy? When you know what you want - figuring out how to get it is fairly simple.

Personality advice is fairly useless unless you're specific about the sort of person you want to attract and what their personality is, you're also unlikely to be able to change your personality so I'm not sure why you would ask.

>for women
That's where you're wrong.

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epic bait

lmao, this post

>you don't need to have any hobbies. just stay in your •feminine frame and dress a little nicer. you literally don't have to be outgoing or smart. guys don't give a shit about that.

Have you ever actually had a girlfriend? No matter how pretty she is if she has the personality of a brick wall it's going to get boring fast

just spread your legs

have sex

Thank you all for your replies and your advice, it helps me a lot.

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You probably already rejected him

Shy girls are cute!
If you want similar interests, then obviously you'll have to go to events centered around said interest. At minimum, you can simply show what your interests are to signal people (for example, if you are reading a book about archery, then someone who is interested might make a comment), but that won't work with everyone, especially not the more introverted ones.

Literally the opposite. Promiscuity is the domain of garbage unwilling and often unable to commit. Pic related is how to find a good guy. A lot of girls make the mistake of thinking that guys will commit if thy give out sex, or even worse, of conflating sex with love and genuine attraction to a person (rather than to their body). By waiting, the only thing keeping people together is who they are as people.

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>wait for marriage
>figure out that you're sexually incompatible
>now you have a failed marriage
Great idea, bud.

>genuine attraction to a person (rather than to their body)
Your body is, quite literally, who you are.

>wait for marriage
>figure out that you're sexually incompatible
You'd have to be a literal mongoloid to just 'stumble' into this. A man who is physically incapable of keeping it in his pants for more than a day by definition can't wait until marriage, for example, so right off the bat you can exclude a large portion of potential problems because it's not feasible for them to occur. "Sexual compatibility" is almost entirely a meme encouraged by hedonists and porn addicts.

Furthermore, you can easily talk about expectations before committing to marriage and therefore sex--and you should. The idea that sex is somehow a necessary prelude to marriage is unsubstantiated hogwash. It is damaging to the marriage's prospects in and of itself, while the notion that it's needed is purely a self-serving delusion. If you want a failed marriage, you will encourage female promiscuity--because that's how you get it. Those who wait until marriage--yes, even controlling for religion, which is by no means necessary to wait--have the best relationship outcomes, both in terms of stability and happiness.

>Your body is, quite literally, who you are.
If you want to play semantics, then I'll do the same and remind you that there is a difference between love and lust. Pretending the two are interchangeable (like when you say "sex is a necessary part of dating") is exactly the problem, as it creates a false sense of personal compatibility. Waiting until marriage lets you confirm you have a personal affinity first, and then you commit and strengthen it with a sexual one.
Even though it's obvious, you don't have to take my word for it:
jstor.org/stable/20182926
>" The results of these investigations suggest that romantic love and sexual desire are governed by functionally independent social-behavioral systems that evolved for different reasons and that involve different neurochemical substrates.

Be cute and funny.

>sexually incompatible
fuck does this mean?

Marriage isn't about sex, anyway. It's about family building. Outside a typical redditor's fantasies you will find that sexual fetish fulfillment ranks pretty low on most adults' priority list. Countless generations of people have had far more pressing things to worry about than slight disagreements over what fucked up things should be done in bed.

I completely agree, and you guys are very intelligent.

Sarcastic remarks without an argument to back them up make it look like you don't have one.

Sorry, wasn't trying to be sarcastic, I was being sincere.

It'll happen. Just think of the rest of the anons' inputs.

From a 20 year old guy who was also homeschooled:
B urself and the companion will come.
Desperation will only get you misery as a partner.

What are your interests?

Don't bother with any bitch unless you know for sure she is legitimate because they're desperate for anything they can get from any man nowadays.

They'll fuck anything for a buck and fuck anybody over for two. Their fathers teach them young how to whore and their mothers teach them how to profit from it.

Any bitch looking for attention is even worse than the bitch who just shuts her fucking mouth because at least you can trust the latter. Don't let any little whore confuse you, especially not the religious ones.

Even the attention that comes naturally isn't always favorable, so when a bitch goes looking for it, best believe she's looking to turn the attention in a way that ultimately favors her, and only her.

smile to fellows

Wrong thread homeboy.

Op, the first thing you have to do is stop comparing yourself to your friend. It is a self fulfilling prophecy of doom if you compare yourself to your friend.

My suggestion for you is to start exploring as much as you can and be open to experience. Don’t worry about trying hard to get a guy, just live your life and do things with others your really interested in. It’s really easy to stop being awkward when you socialize and explore every day. Do internships, residency programs, work study programs, travel for credits, whatever.

A good rule of thumb is to make your relationship on the lower end of your priorities. Reason being if you are following your passion and are out there exploring a relationship will just form organically. Don’t push getting a guy, push creating a fun filled life that a guy would like to be a part of.

Lose weight if you're obese. Wear make up in a way that guys like. Wear nice dresses and junk. Smile at guys you like. I can tell from you're picture that you're cool. You'll find someone. Don't stress about it.

Sex

should be saved for marriage

Don't be fat. That's all you have to do.
Eventually, some drunk Chad will take you back to his dorm, maybe when Stacy is visitng her parents to get her a new X3 or some shit.

Have

Enjoy having sex with only one person your entire life. Live a little for fucks sake.

>Enjoy having sex with only one person your entire life
And this is a bad thing...how? There's nothing that can compare to the feeling of knowing that you saved yourself solely for your spouse, and they did the same for you.

>Live a little
Whoring yourself out is not 'living', it's a waste of a life.

>anons i want to attract cool guys what won't be assholes
protip number 1: don't be a whore as half of the girls are.
protip number 2: basically if no one approaches you, be the one to start the conversation. maybe people are just too shy and scared of fucking things up with you.

thank you so much, I'll try my best

also oh my goodness you're amazing

My penis is Philips head and her pussy is Torx, what do?

not really?

LOL

>not violent
>not an asshole
>has interests
You've already ruled out everyone, I think. :(

I have a pair of small white cotton shorts and don't wear panties. Works perfectly and it doesn't matter what I say.

:( I feel you.

>How does a girl attract cool guys?
Say hi, and be above a 1/10

What is your expectation of of what having a boyfriend is like? And also, how would you manage to make the progression to this status? You know, there a reason why the expression "stuck in the friendzone" exist, must be friend in the first place. Being friends doesn't imply necessarily having big talks and having outstanding moments, just enjoying the company of each other is well enough.

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don't expect them to read your mind, especially if you're not good at subtle hints. Guys are typically even worse at them.

hello, actually girl to girl advice here

think of the sexiest, most self-assured woman you know of and try to channel her. You don't need to change yourself, but conduct yourself in a manner that shows self assurance and confidence. HAVE GOOD POSTURE. SMELL GOOD. HAVE NICE HAIR AND PLAY WITH IT. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Be bold. Not being afraid to be assertive and honest is attractive and guys LOVE when you take the lead or take initiative.

Guys love feeling like they are the man, so do little things to make them feel like that. Laugh and smile a lot. If you talk for a bit touch his shoulder or something pretending to brush off a hair, and maybe brush his arm or something. When you make eye contact, have a sparkle in your eye and a little mischievous smile. Dress feminine and channel feminine energy.

if he's just not feeling it then move on. it will work on the next guy

Some guys like talking and some don't, but they all respond to body language. Learn to be flirty and assertive in a feminine way and you will be able to have any guy you want girl.

also if you can't think of topics to talk about

A. he doesn't mind and he is focusing more on your body language because men are driven by sex. a lot of guys will laugh at stupid shit you say and find it cute if they like you so dont sweat it so much if you say one dumb thing

B. if he is into conversation, turn it on him. Ask him about himself. Be interested in him!

C. BODY LANGUAGE IS VERY IMPORTANT IN ATTRACTING MEN I CANT STRESS IT ENOUGH.

Hmm, someone to be there for me, a best friend but also a boyfriend who will love me as much as I love him and who will respect me and treat me right as I will for him. And thank you! I'll try, this is good advice

got you

Thank you so much for your advice this helps me greatly too! :( I'll try to do that. I'm more of the submissive type socially so it's very hard for me to take initiative, but I'll try to work on it!

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>Secondly, personality wise it is really important to try to be less awkward.
Rest of her advise is solid. But awkward girls are cute as fuck. Don't worry about your awkwardness. Just talk to people and you will be liked. I'm a guy and spill my spaghetti all the time, just laugh it off and keep the conversation going.
If your over weight loose some weight. Don't even have to be skinny, a little chubby is good if not better than skinny but just be healthy is the biggest thing and you will maintain a healthy body weight. If your not over weight just have to be more active in talking to people even if you spill your spaghetti.

LOL aw thank you! I think awkwardness is a charming trait on people too. I'm actually a bit underweight and trying to gain some. Gib me the spaghetti next time. jk

highlight of the thread

SMILE
remember to always look at them and smile. this is where most fagboats fail. you might not be able to say anything to them. If you want to take baby steps and these advices given to you are too much, then make smiling a part of the baby step.

smiling is the ultimate trust tool when meeting or interacting with someone. especially if it's someone you like