Are there any benefits to dating a single mom...

Are there any benefits to dating a single mom? I always read about how single moms are demanding and take lots of effort from the guy, but are there any benefits to dating then over non single women? Seems to me like its a pretty raw deal for guys

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>Seems to me like its a pretty raw deal for guys
Sounds like you're just not interested and that's ok. Don't force yourself to settle with anyone. Some guys are ok with it because they like the woman a lot and the kid is cool.

If you can’t see the benefits, it’s obviously not for you.

Single moms are generally more serious about a relationship, less likely to cheat. If she is a good mom, she will only let you meet her kid if she feels you are serious bf material.

you can exploit them since few others want to take on the burden of having a child not of their own

Easy sex. She will do whatever you want in bed.

There aren't any, shut up roastie

You'll learn what it's like to be a parent, which will either inspire you to have kids, or inspire you not to.

Dude.
If you date a single parent and it doesn't work out, you're not going to break one heart. You're going to break the heart of a child too.
You're also going to be in the way of any sort of reconciliation between the mother and father.
Plus, if the parent has a history of failed relationships, what's to say that your relationship won't end badly too?

There's a reason people don't touch single parents.
That's why they're so crazy in bed, they need to appeal somehow because they've failed in every other category.

This.

I did a lot of youth volunteering stuff in college just to hook up with single moms. Would never date them seriously but it was easy pussy once their kids were enjoying themselves with the sport or whatever.

Wow. This is some of the most ignorant shit I’ve ever read. Other than the first part about breaking hearts. Single parents are not always crazy in bed, nor do all single parents have a history of failed relationships. Sometimes, and I know, it’s SHOCKING & UNHEARD OF... but sometimes people have sex with someone casually and get pregnant.

Yeah yeah lady now shut your dsl's.

Yeah, and someone who casually has sex and casually gets pregnant with someone who leaves her afterwards... perhaps isn't a good relationship material

They are desperate, but yeah its a bad idea. You are a betta bitch and she will fuck an alpha as soon as she finds one. I bet you’re half the man her baby daddy is, and besides she would still be with him if she wasn't crazy.

There is absolutely no benefit in dating a single mother. You literally are dating a woman who had already birthed a child that is not yours. There is nothing more pathetic to a man than going after a woman who had been already used by another male. That is the primary goal of our biology- it is to procreate and you are thinking about going after someone who already had gone through with it.

The nice person in me would argue, sure, they deserve love like everyone else. But it would take a man of tremendous heart and dedication to go with a single mother. Not only would he have to take care of the woman, but also the child that is not his own.

Cringe.

Umm... that’s not how it works sweety. Men are 100% responsible for unwanted & unplanned pregnancies. Having sex and getting knocked up doesn’t affect one’s ability to have a romantic relationship. Are you stupid?

Cringe.

Zero benefits. Single parents are only cool when you're single parent yourself. If you're just into older women or something, you can easily find women like that without any children.

Someone who has sex casually and gets knocked up is definitely not good relationship material, at best they're completely immature and at worst they were trying to trap the guy.

Single moms are like unattractive men.
You go for it because you think you can't do better.
On dating sites, it is easier to match a single mom than a fat chick.

Good answers desu. Dating a single mum confirms the seriousness and level headness.

The only real benefit I see is that if you don't want to deal with the initial birth or potty training. You won't really lose any sleep because the kid can sleep through the night. Woman is most likely to not play stupid head games with you because she's thinking more about her kid.
In the best scenario, she'll wait until the kid is 18 to date again, but at the same time, there's a double standard because men will hookup or remarry quickly after a divorce and no one cares when he forces kid around stepmom

>dsl's
We 2006 now

Not really. It's true cuckoldry. The only way to salvage your dignity is if you have more kids with her than she had with the other man. Otherwise, you pump and dump them. Desperate and therefore easy, you can fuck them quickly if she thinks you'll be a good provider.

No, none whatsoever.
>Single moms are generally more serious about a relationship
Yeah, that's why they shacked up with some degenerate goober in the first place.

>less likely to cheat

Lol the single moms in my neighborhood hood have multiple kids by diffrent baby daddies and generate more drama than

Childlesss woman .

You honestly expect a woman to vet the guys she fucks *before* fucking them? What are you? A misogynist?

Cringe.

Dilate

There are two types of single moms and dated both.
1. Widows are fine if enough time has lapsed since they lost their husband and you are fine with her weeping over a dead man in your arms. They are lonely, generally more settled and and appreciate the relationship more but won't love you.

2. Dad is still alive and it doesn't matter if he's involved or not in the childrens lives its absolute hell. If he hit it an ran, she is still trying to contact him constantly using the kids as bait and he will return on occasion and she'll open her legs and he'll run off again. Sometimes you find out about this but most times you don't

If he's involved with the children you have no say whatsoever and every decision or plan you make will be theirs not yours. If she's angry with him she takes it out on you. If you say anything you are the one with the problem and if you remain stoic you're being an asshole for making her feel bad. I won't even start on the shitshow relationship with the kids.

Fuck them all you want but do not become emotionally attached to a single mom.

Cringe