She's upset because I said that her LGBT identity is insignificant to me...

pedantic cunt

That’s not how bisexuality works. Even of she’s not unfaithful, she’s still bisexual. I’m not the one to stand hard on identity, it’s really not that important as people want it to be. But you’re either dumb or lying to yourself of you think she can’t be bisexual because she’s with you. You are still straight of you cheat on your gf with another gir. Sexuality doesn’t conform to whatever relationship you’re in, lol. But that would be a fun world.

I agree with you and I do acknowledge her bisexuality. What I don't understand is what it means to "support" it, because any active expression of her bisexual nature would be unfaithful to some degree. I have no problem with her feeling bisexual attraction, but those feelings should not be seriously entertained or acted on when it's in relation to another person. Maybe it's just a terminological issue...

all girls are bi

jesus youre dense

Are you completely uninterested in potential threesomes, then?

Her sexuality means much more to her than just who she wants to fuck. It colors all her interpersonal relationships (even just friends). To her it's a Big Deal. Part of her identity. It was probably pretty difficult for her to come to terms with these feelings and figure out exactly what her sexuality looks like. She has to worry about being discriminated against because of her sexuality.

And then you tell her that it doesn't matter what her sexuality is, and that you don't support her. Basically what you're saying is that you don't care about her at all beyond what she brings to your own relationship. You need to ask her what her sexuality means to her, and actually listen. It has nothing to do with cheating on you.

Where the fuck are you pulling this shit out from? Whether or not someone's sexuality should be so closely tied to who they are aside, at what point did OP tell his gf that it doesn't matter and that he doesn't support her? At what point did OP say that he doesn't care about her besides what she brings to the relationship? You're literally talking out of your ass

Jesus fucking Christ, type "if". It's "if".

>her LGBT identity is insignificant to me
>I accept that she has bisexual feelings and that's fine, but why should I "support" those feelings

Literally in the OP you fucking mongoloid

Nop.

>And then you tell her that it doesn't matter what her sexuality is, and that you don't support her
In what way should he support her exactly?

"I support you"

It's not hard. Just let her know that he's fine with it and if she has a problem she can come to him for comfort. Same way you support your partner in everything else they do.

Just don't make her feel like you're in opposition to it and don't want to hear her talk about it.

> It colors all her interpersonal relationships (even just friends).

>It was probably pretty difficult for her to come to terms with these feelings and figure out exactly what her sexuality looks like
It was. But she has come to terms with it, and she is currently in a heterosexual relationship. How is her bisexuality relevant now?
How so?

>She has to worry about being discriminated against because of her sexuality
She would if she were in a same-sex relationship, but she isn't.

>And then you tell her that it doesn't matter what her sexuality is
Why does it matter that she's bisexual if she's not being sexually active with anyone but myself? The only kind of sexuality I support is the sexuality between her and I.

What if I were attracted to polyamory, but we agreed to not be polyamorous? How would she "support" that desire?

>Basically what you're saying is that you don't care about her at all beyond what she brings to your own relationship
That's not true. There are plenty of things that go beyond our relationship that I care about. Like her education, career, friendships, hobbies, etc. But any actual expression of her bisexuality would be in direct conflict with our relationship, so I don't support her bisexuality. Not when she's in a relationship with me.

Lol "she came to terms with it". Like it's something she got over like a sickness. She probs would like to watch a movie with you and be like that girls kinda hot or when you talk about the past and shit feel equally comfortable talking about chicks. She will always feel for LGBT people in a certain way bc she is one of them even if with a man forever and always. This is literally a part of her OP. It's part of who she is. Even if she doesn't activity express it she has feel discrimination or at least felt that deep feeling of being different sexually. It formed her. Shaped her world view. It's part of her pyche. She may be with you forever who knows. But she will also always be bisexual and trying to ignore that facet of her will make her resent you.

It's a part of her identity. It matters to her. Therefore it's worth supporting. Tips on that here The fact that you see this as a threat is silly and reveals your own insecurity. It's possible to be attracted to people outside your relationship and not have sex with them. There are billions of men that she could potentially have sex with besides you, and she's not doing that. Being bisexual just adds billions of women to the list, that she will also not have sex with.

To be clear: supporting her bisexuality is not the same as supporting her cheating on you. There is only an extremely tenuous connection between the two, and your focus on this is a facade that hides either insecurity, a lack of trust, or a misunderstanding of human sexuality.

Saying it's insignifcant was a poor choice of words, as it's like saying a part of her identity is insignificant. It's significant to her so it shouldn't be written off

And as for how to "support" her, well there's no clear answer. Did you ask what your support would even look like? Support for a person's identity would look different depending on the person and their needs.

>supporting her bisexuality is not the same as supporting her cheating on you.
How do you support something without supporting actively engaging in it.
Pretty sure OPs gf just wants to fuck other women while he's with her.

OP you faggot, kek. You don't want a nice threesome, do you?

>be bi girl
>bf says he believes and supports me
>we point out/discuss hot women together
>we have banter where he calls me gay
>he listens to me when I want to talk about topics relating to being bi

It's not very hard OP. She just wants to feel safe and comfortable with herself when she's with you. If you have a stick up your ass, she'll never feel secure, and she'll find better dick to ride or puss to smash.

Say you're too lazy to actively support it but you accept who she is or wants to be like

that's an obvious lie