>Slept with a underage girl at a party >I was 18 and she was 15, AOC is 16 where I live >She lied to everyone at the party about her age >Fast forward a year later, haven’t even been to court yet >Job hunting is soul crushing, no one wants to hire me because they think I’m some sort of monster (I literally had one grocery store ban me from applying again because they said I’m a risk due to them having 15 year old female cashiers). >Pretty much homeless now, parents kicked me out and think that I’m just a lazy POS who won’t get a job even though I’ve applied to 50+ places this month.
Should I just end it? I have no body. No friends, no family, nothing. Meanwhile I see her on Snapchat at more parties getting fucked up and sleeping with other dudes.
I was supposed to be in college, got told no for student loans because I was a risk of not being able to pay if I ended up in jail. Lawyer says im most likely fine, that he isn’t worried since he talked to the DA along with the investigator and they’ve bumped my charges down to misdemeanors, but I’m literally living in my car and no one will hire me.
Blake Jenkins
where do you live right now ?
Jacob Sanchez
I would try to make amends with my parents. Tell them how you're applying for jobs, show them proof. They're your parents, they'll have some fucking sympathy. Then again you're probably American, and American parents are cunts so I wouldn't be optimistic. I can't fathom how can somebody kick his own children away from home.
Lucas Baker
Based child molester
But seriously, at this point you may as well pack up and move anywhere far enough that no one knows you
Landon Wright
I tried, even showed them emails denying me due to “troubling reports on your back ground check”. Still got told to fuck off
Brandon Robinson
Is fucking a 15 year old that big of a deal at 18?
Christian Bailey
Its just the label that comes with any sexual predatory charges. The second an employer sees felony sex offender on someones record the application instantly in the trash. No mater the specifics or the evidence to it being a miss charge.
Gavin Smith
no, americans are just dumb
You're pretty unlucky then. Nothing is worse that your parents being unsupportive scum. do this How old are you btw ?
Jose Peterson
So, did someone report you?
Caleb Russell
She told her friend about it, who told her drug addict mom, who told her cop uncle 19 now But I’m not a predator or rapist. I was lied to about her age by her at a party and got fucked over
Samuel Bailey
have you tried searching for a job a depot or something ? No girls or people there so you might have a shot
Noah Moore
>no, americans are just dumb This. There are almost daily "I'm 25, can I date an 18 year old" threads on Jow Forums. Americans need to fucking relax.
James Collins
should of spotted the degenerate whore
now youre fucked, if you have that in your record also gonna have to register as a sex offender
Easton Lopez
OP just switched his life to ultra-nightmare difficulty by doing it, so I guess it kind of is.
Lincoln Parker
Im seeing a 19 year old and im 24 myself, meet her when she was 18 ,were not exclusive yet but am pretty sure its gonna happen soon now
Blake Walker
Yes. Look at OP. Even if he was cleared of charges, this shit will haunt him for the rest of his life looking for a job.
Brayden Jenkins
Kek In germany you can even fuck 14 year olds as an 80 year old if you arent the teacher or patchwork parent or pay for her
Aiden Long
We'll in the US there isn't a minimum age for marriage, as long as the sub 18 person has parent approval of the marriage. So that still applies in the untied states, and is a common strategy for sexual predators to live out their fantasies.
Joshua Thompson
So why do you guys complain when black guys and arabs literally move there just to do that??? Morons!
Josiah Perez
>implying any parent would allow this
Bentley Gutierrez
implying German user isn't ahmed "profiting" off of said loophole
Christopher Carter
In what fucking garbage town do you live in that every habitant knows who you sleep with jesus christ.
Brody Moore
>lives under a rock Literally happened with r Kelly and now he's going to jail
Justin Fisher
You'd be surprised , drug addicted parents would do anything for money for drugs even as far selling their own kids for sick and fucked up people. I've seen some shit and this honestly is more common than you'd think. Money fucks up people man
David Butler
Honestly I feel for you dude, I bet there was alcohol involved too and that would make it even harder to place the age than it already is with all the makeup younger women tend to wear. You just caught the short straw here. Idk man. An AOC is always gonna be somewhat arbitrary. There's no magic number you can pick that's gonna be ok because someone can always ask "what's really the difference between a 14 year old and a 13 year old?" And really, I think it's less about the actual act of fucking a 15 year old and more about the transgression of one of the few big "thou shalt not" style commands that still exist. It's a dangerous thing when a society says "absolutely do not do this" and someone says "but what if I do?" Things can spread fast anywhere with social media.
John Scott
even if kid comes from a family of drugs hell be either addicted to drugs or have mental problems
so its a lost cause if you look at it both ways
Nathaniel Lewis
>based german fucking 14 year olds
Noah King
Drugs , financial problems, health problems all require money. And parents willing to do anything for money you better believe would do some shit like this in a heart beat. And desu to a sexual predator , the more mentally fucked the better as they tend to me more emotionally malleable.
Jayden Hall
Because they're black and Arabic.
Dylan Moore
AOC laws are there to protect more impressionable younger kids from being victimized from manipulative older people . In OP's case you can see the level of immaturity and ignorance perpetrated by the girl in question . They are kids and do not fully understand the direct effect of their actions.
Aaron Williams
Right, I'm not disagreeing with their existence or arguing that they don't serve a purpose. I'm just saying that framing it as "is it really so bad to fuck a 15 year old?" is a poor way to frame it because there's no way to come up with a non-arbitrary age.
Colton Hill
because its got more to do with politics then actaul muslims wanting to go there
also just yestarday some muslim i germany pushed a women with kid on train tracks ,kid died and im sure he will be a good guy ,that he dindu nuthing wrong
Michael Torres
Excuse me , user, you misspelled (((Tanned German))). Commandant Merkel has dictated to refer to them as such. Conform or you will be re educated.
Henry Clark
she probably has daddy issues, any girl that goes to a party trying to whore herself to as many guys as she can specially at that age isnt worth anything and is dammaged goods from the get go
Luis Edwards
>no way to come up with a non-arbitrary age Their is just increase all aoc to 17 or lower them then allow a 1 year fall if the person is within 5-7 years of the persons age
Josiah Parker
Why 17 and not 16? Why 1 year and not 2 years?
Jeremiah Adams
17 is peak sexual maturity 18 really 1 year simply because high school romances i was simply giving room with 5-7
Gavin Perez
>17 is peak sexual maturity 18 really Do you have serious peer-reviewed studies that demonstrate this? And if so, what assures you that the criteria chosen for "sexual maturity" are indeed the right ones? And doesn't the very fact that you can't even pick between 17 and 18 show that your distinction between the two is at least somewhat arbitrary?
Grayson Lewis
Join the French legion, they give you a new identity for 5 years of your life, plus a French citizenship, its a escape route.
Tyler Walker
A sexual predator is never going to ask for a higher aoc user
Nicholas Parker
You literally can go to juveline jail for that. Called statutory rape.
UPS will take ya buddy, call and ask when they have hiring tours and you could be making $13 an hour with over 40 hours a week the next 3 months.. centers all over the place. If you're serious about building something, they're a good company as you work hard and they reward the dedication thru educational benefits as well as an environment easy to advance in if you aren't an idiot
Michael Campbell
Pretend to be gay.
100% serious here. I have gotten out of all the retard shit involving women by claiming fag.
I didn’t want to come here and read your post OP. It’s one of my favorite fears. I’d honestly kill the woman then finish myself. I’ve seen that situation too many times.
Hunter Diaz
Gays are generally non threatning to women. I can see this working
Ian Allen
No but people are always looking for an excuse to lynch somebody. Moral indignation is one of the most addictive feelings there is.
Oliver Sanchez
Age of consent in my country is 16 but there's a "romeo and juliet" law which states if one party is under age the other is allowed to be up to three years older, meaning a 15yo can legally have sex with a 18 yo for example because it's basically fucking retarded to jail some guy because he was two years older than the girl
Carson Lewis
My friend got accused of rape but the problem was me and him we’re bar hopping during the supposed “rape” Anyway like the next fucking day we had a cop show up at our apartment and i heard “my name is user anonerson of the user police dept” “ i need to ask you some questions” long story short the words “anonette accused you of rape” so I immediately pulled out my 2 biggest dildos and walked into the living room and was like “I’m gonna was these sweetie their all dirty still” one faggy chuckle later he got what i was doing and the cop quickly got the idea and left
Luke Ross
Fucking Christ this hit close. How do people know if you haven't been to court? I don't get how you got into this predicament.
Small town. I literally had one job for a week at a mechanic shop and when my background check came back, I got asked to come into his office, he said they don’t hire people like me and told me to not come back. As I’m walking out he grabs my co-mechanic and tells him everything I’m being charged for because it came up on my background.
Lincoln Bell
The police are somewhat on my side on this. I got to know the investigator pretty well and he pretty much told me that this isn’t the first time they’ve had to deal with her or her family. In my discovery from court, she switched up her story so much that she went from “I blacked out” to “I remember pouring myself a lot of drinks”. She tried to claim it was non-consensual but 7 of my friends who were there came to the police station to make statements and said that she was pretty much trying to undo my pants the moment she got there and was all over me before she had anything to drink
Sebastian Cook
M I L I T A R Y
Joshua Martin
Well, atleast you're not a virgin. And thats what really matters in life.
David Davis
Off yourself, manwhore Your kind will not be missed
Owen Hill
What are the charges? but seriously just go gay for a while at least publicly it might fuck you up for a while but it might work at landing you a job
Juan Cox
What country do you live in?
Bentley Anderson
Statutory rape- Misdemeanor Sodomy times two because she gave me oral twice Alcohol possession as a minor
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U.S It was surreal when I was told by a judge that i should have asked for ID/ known the difference between a 16 year old and a 15 year old. But somehow, being 2 months out of highschool and being 18 for a month means I’m supposed to know everything and fuck leniency
Caleb Wood
where do you live that sodomy is illegal
Asher Parker
It’s another charge that her uncle wanted to throw on top of everything else. No one has been convicted of it since the 80’s
Brody White
What you did wasn't illegal because she was physically and mentally sexually mature.