How do I break up with my girlfriend without upsetting her?
She’s got anxiety-induced psychosomatic nausea - she wasn’t able to eat properly for two months after moving on her own because of the stress - and any sudden shock would probably have her throwing up blood.
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Break up with her in the most heartless manner possible, step back and watch the projectile puke of the century.
That’s the opposite of the goal here.
It’d be better to arrange her to meet some other guy first but she’s got social anxiety too and she hates meeting new people.
You are not being useful nor funny. This is serious.
Why do you want to break up with her?
All women are broken user trust me
I’m planning to kill myself and don’t want to upset her.
Maybe you should be trying to fix your issues first
The inherent nature of existence isn’t fixable. It’s not possible to exist without suffering.
Give her some good dick then go out for a pack of cigarettes
Won’t work, she’ll worry herself sick.
>The inherent nature of existence isn’t fixable. It’s not possible to exist without suffering.
Pass her off to me then. I like 'em ugly.
I don’t know what you’re trying to say with that picture, but it truly is not possible to live without strife and struggle. There is no such thing as an easy life.
To live without suffering is enlightenment, at least in Buddhism. Life on easy mode is to be a woman.
At least one of those is accessible to you.
Life being meaningless doesn't logically commit you to giving up. Why don't you instead work on your human capital and live the best life you are capable of? It's just as justified as killing yourself and never trying, except it's actually beneficial.
What point is there to meaningless suffering? All your options are to choose what way you want to struggle and suffer. I want to choose none.
There is a way to not suffer, but I don't think you're interested in pursuing that particular path.
Suffering is not necessarily meaningless. When you suffer physical exercise - you improve muscle. When you suffer emotionally - you produce change in your environment so as to improve your lot in life.
How about this : continue to suffer, but don't tie your identity to the suffering. Do not create the identity of a cripple for yourself. Do not identify with the suffering bestowed upon you.
I’m curious about what the way not to suffer supposedly is.
I don’t ”identify with” suffering any more than someone in a wheelchair would identify with a wheelchair, I just can’t really be rid of it.
What is suffering? It is not pain itself, because we call it pain. Suffering is pain coupled with the fear of pain, the dislike of it, the aversion to it.
What is pain caused by? Desire. You desire what you don't have and cause pain for not having it.
Multiple options here : remove the aversion to pain, or remove the desire. Both require an intense amount of labor.
When I told you not to identify with the suffering - it is the prelude to removing aversion to pain.
You cant, the way I did my break up was i stopped calling and I told her i was extremely depressed and need to go to a hospital. Say shit that makes it sound like you have a problem.
I don’t want to work. I want death.
Fucking pussy who hasn't lived a single day in your life
It's OK to kill yourself, just don't be an asshole about it.
This.
I wasn't really serious about my last girlfriend, so I told my last girlfriend about my Schizoid Personality Disorder whenever she was upset with me.
Trust me: you can get even the most interested person to leave you alone very quickly if you claim to have a cluster A personality disorder
Dude, most guys would kill themselves if nobody cared. The reason I never tried is probably because I don't want to imagine my parents at my funeral.
Get some therapy and talk to the therapist. We know next to nothing about you and that situation is too complex.
She knows I’m depressed.
please don't kill yourself, try to talk to someone about what you're going through, the pain is only for a season.
