Redpill me on Marriage

Inb4"this isn't political". There is no institution that affects our political climate more than marriage.

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It's a scam if you're not Chad. Don't let tradcucks tell you otherwise.

They dont serve the family they protect it because they love it .

Marry a white, college educated, Christian woman.

All three of these demographics have a very low divorce rate so if you combine them all you’re golden

Marriage is cool if you are loyal, otherwise just date and spare yourself the divorce.

Why don't you tell us what you think about it first dumbass.

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two words: arranged marriage

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It always depends. All I can say with 100% certainty is that the normalization of having children out of wedlock hasn’t benefited society at all. I think if you and your spouse understand the commitment and sacrifices that marriage entails you’ll be suited to it. Lastly, never marry from a place of infatuation because it always wears off and you’ll be left second guessing the union so be very sensible in who choose to spend the rest of your life with.

Well I think it's a raw deal. As a man, I see that it's a gigantic risk. If you're already living together I don't see why you would. I don't see much benefit. It's not like women hold out until marriage anymore and are loyal to their spouse. My mom divorced my dad and took nearly 60% of his assets. I just don't see why you'd seal the deal if you can drink the milk for free. Love? psh give me a break

If you’re a woman it’s the best investment you’ll ever make. Doesn’t matter if you end up getting divorced or stay together. You win no matter what.

If you’re a man it’s a huge scam unless
A) your wife has the same income AND net worth as you or higher
Or
B) You live in a country where prenups cover assets acquired before the marriage AND during the marriage.
Courts don’t care if you’re a chad.

>There is no institution that affects our political climate more than marriage.
that's why they are trying to destroy it and have been for 50 years

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1.4% of US population, 0.0025% of world population

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>I see that it's a gigantic risk

I don't see it that way. I mean I'm not worried where a lot of guys I think probably are. If she cheats on me, oh well. Other dude can have the bitch. Good riddance. If she does something to me that is SERIOUS like attempted murder or some shit, fuck divorce I'll kill the bitch so still not worried.

>If you're already living together I don't see why you would

Well, I got married because it makes my girl happy COMBINED with the fact that I really don't give a shit. I wouldn't have done it if I didn't want to or had a serious problem with it. Not harming me so I'm fine with it.

>I don't see much benefit

I don't see much benefit either. Like I said though, if it helps her then it's benefiting you. If something bothers her then it will most likely affect you.

>It's not like women hold out until marriage anymore and are loyal to their spouse

Obviously they don't hold out until marriage and I don't blame them. I do think if you think you love somebody and you're a young adult you do want to have sex and share the love. Doesn't bother me. I used to be jealous of partners sexual history but I grew up since then.

Whether love is real or made up is debatable but not worth talking about for me. By the time you know you love somebody it's so late in your life and you've been together so long that marriage couldn't strengthen your bond any more than it already is.

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>that's why they are trying to destroy it and have been for 50 years
This. Marriage and the family have been the targets of the most and the worst attacks of the last number of decades. They know that wholesomeness and decency begin in the family.

Both MGTOW and Degeneracy are paths to destruction.
You are meant to be with a woman, one is worthy of you at that.

Some somebody literally told you they'd kill you if you try to get married and start a family?.

L itterally lost a marriage to NOT THIS. Then she realized what she lost. LADIES: DONT FALL FOR THE COMMUNIST CONSPIRACY CALLED "FEMINISM".

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That didn't even provoke a small chuckle. You need to do better.

How long have you been married?

If she cheats on you, "o well"? Are you degenerate? I'd kill my wife if she cheated on me but I'd tell her that before I married her though.

> if it helps her then it's benefiting you
no not necessarily...

Marriage is great in theory. In practice divorce laws & courts almost always favor the woman by a huge margin. This made sense 100 years ago when most women didn’t have a job to fall back on, but today it’s a huge scam.
Inb4 I won’t get divorced. That’s what literally everyone thinks when they get married, but look at the statistics.

I'm committed to marry someone from the 3rd world. Not some woman infected w whoredom & the feminvirus

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>How long have you been married?

Bout ten years now.

>Are you degenerate?

Probably. This is Jow Forums isn't it. You decide. I don't care if she cheats on me. If you want to go apeshit and kill your fucking family and kids because your wife left you for another man have fun dude. I'm not doing that shit. I'm not ruining my life over her.

I don't see how it's not benefiting me to block her from her dream of marriage.

Anyways.

Do you have a happy marriage? Or is it just like the sex and children that's good? Is she easy going

We don't have children. I don't want kids honestly. Fuck this planet. I'd feel really bad about putting someone on this shit planet.

yeah, we have a happy marriage. It's gotten a lot better. We'd clash a lot more at the beginning. We're like best friends. We really don't have sex anymore. past that.

I want kids but I do think it's cruel, in a way
> We really don't have sex anymore
Wtf why not? I don't see any benefit of having a woman if 1. you're not having sex or 2. raising children. Your wife shouldn't be denying you intimacy. Are you both fat? Honestly, not trying to be insulting but I would appreciate feedback

Nah. We're not fat. Sex with her has gotten boring honestly. I'd rather jerk off in my free time.

Based. But honestly I started a new job at CBRE like 2 months ago and a lot of these demographic numbers are BS and terribly sourced even at local levels. obviously Jews are only somewhere between 1-3% and blacks are a constant 12-14% without illegals, but other than that I just don’t know. Actual whites could honestly be 40-50% already.

Get the fuck outta here. What does she do? Would she rather masturbate like you? What do you jack off to lol

What you posted has nothing to do with the topic of conversation

And if sex is infrequent, when do you two decide to have it? Just whenever? You're sitting in bed and ask if she's in the mood? What's it like

I don't know what she does. Maybe she masturbates. I don't know. I jack off to a bunch of shit on my pc.

How do you not know? Idk my sex drive is skyhigh so I can't comprehend your situation. What do you jack off to? I really want to know. I think you're larping

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That's what I did. Now I have a way out of this pozland when things hit full fag

KYS, you’re obviously extremely unhappy u can’t get a girl worth a damn. Honestly imagine even wasting the time to start this shit tier thread, you want to talk about Jews maybe running the media or possibly being behind mass immigration next. Fucking work out and get a good salary, if u can’t get a woman to truly follow u even then, you’re just hopeless.

I jack off to everything. Lot of jav stuff, real porn sites like brazzers. Hentai. Lot of random shit. So yeah, I guess I'm a pretty serious degenerate. What can I do though. My sex drive with her used to be really high but just got boring.

I firmly think that a lot more guys are degenerates than guys let everyone believe. If I wasn't jacking off then I probably would have cheated on her so I don't really see much of a problem with porn. There's a lot of guys that shame porn but then doing other shit that isn't right either.

Unless your having kids?

WHAT THE FUCK IS THE POINT OF MARRIAGE IN THE WEST IN 2019?

I can think of about 100 reasons against
0 for.

ANY good arguments for welcome.

Ahh what's your situation muchacho? I'm at a crossroads rn. I don't want to get married or have a relationship w some ho

Well porn is degenerate but cheating is much more so. Especially if it's within marriage. You must be fucking joking. Hentai? Really? I don't believe you for a second. Your story is ridiculous.

True one of my brother's getting married and I have no idea why. Talked to him about it and it seems he doesn't know either. But he's still going along with it

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You've got to be a bot, I can't imagine anyone being that incoherent.

Man. There's a lot of fucked up people on the planet and a lot of them use marriage as a front. People like you look at marriage and think "this guy is normal, he's the shit. He has it all. He's got his shit together. He's normal". And a lot of people know it has this appeal, meanwhile in that same household they molest kids, or beat the wife, or shout at each other or have serious financial issues.

Excuse me?
ehhh wtf... Beating your wife is rather "normal" but leave it there wtf

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No I get it, but u need to fucking try. I was a virgin til 23, then I changed my lifestyle, started going out with a coworkers cousin I met at a 4th of July party and I married her a year later. Been happily married for 4 years, have 2 kids we’re gonna try for a third in a few months and it’s simply fulfilling. My wife cooks great meals, we have real conservations regularly, and after a boring day my 3 year old son makes me laugh my ass especially when he interacts with the dog( he literally just chased him around for like 5 minutes screaming nonstop). Just consider changing ur mindset at least dude, what have u got to lose? No one is forcing u to make a bad decision. If you’re young, garbage girls won’t even want to get married and start a family.

You get married you get fucked. It's pretty simple.

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>you get fucked
I fail to see the concern

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I don’t see why men marry women.

A won't happen because hypergamy. B can't be trusted because marriage is the only "contract" that can be revised retroactively. Even if it's safe now will it remain so for 60+ years and do you want 60+ years when you get 10 years max of fertility?
Just imagine you can be subsidized for life just by existing and spreading your legs even decades after you've lost all value and that still isn't good enough for you. The absolute state of thots.

>We really don't have sex anymore
Unless you're 80, sex is happening, you're just not involved. Keep paying those bills though.

Employers pay you money.
A husband beats you and is a sign of patriarchy.

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