Why is it that men care more about girls than vice versa? Are women actually capable of love? I get that they can say "I love you", but it doesn't seem to have the same importance in the female mind than it is in the male mind.
Why is it that men care more about girls than vice versa? Are women actually capable of love...
Read Sex and Character by Otto Weininger
You're wrong. Make some female friends and observe their love life.
My husband is my world. Everything feels better when he's here. When I look at him, or touch him, or smell him, I feel so good. I still get butterflies when he smiles at me and I feel excited when I think about spending our lives together.
i dont know what gave you that impression but i assure you it's all in your head
get outside mote
Not at all, most relationships end because of the female and most divorces are initiated by them.
>man starts taking woman for granted
>starts being a dick, doesn't compromise anymore or shows much interest
>dates every week turns into dates once a month at best
>man going nowhere in life, especially after having pussy on the regular
Yeah, nah. I'm a guy and I know I do half of this myself and so do other men. Except I realize what happened while most men lack self-awareness and dumb and will go "WHAT HAPEPNED I DUNT UNDERSTAND?!???"
I'm becoming more and more convinced that people in general can only love those who are more attractive than them. I think what you're noticing is just the fact that women are a lot more attractive to men than we are to them.
lmao what
>I'm becoming more and more convinced that people in general can only love those who are more attractive than them.
This is true. The ideal situation is where the woman is slightly more attractive than the man, but also slightly self-conscious and the man makes her feel like the sexiest woman alive.
>Are women actually capable of love?
Are you asking whether women in general are capable of love or are you asking if there is a woman out there who is capable of loving you? It really sounds as though you're asking the latter.
I'm obviously asking in general, you fucking retard. Fuck off from my thread with your projections.
mentally stable women- yeah they're capable
whores, however, tend to be desensitized against meaningful interactions with other people. Even if they try to settle down they struggle with it.
>get outside
>interact with women
>notice they seem to like to me
>notice they don't actually care about me
>they clearly only want to use me for sex and to show off
>alternatively they treat me like dirt and/or pretend to like me so they can use me for other stuff
The latter is what I pay more attention to, but when I really think about it, it's negativity bias.
"remember that one time the girl you were pursuing for a while finally approached you first for a change, but it was just because she needed someone to move furniture before going back to how she normally acts?"
Throughout history off all recorded time its been the opposite. You’re just plain wrong.
>read the book written by some incel who suicided age 23
Why do that when I can just read 29yo making mental health crisis shitposts on Jow Forums?
What? How?
Just read history dude.
All the love letters were written by men.
so what you're saying is you have no examples
Not op but, where are people like you hiding? I'm always like this in my relationships but my so never seem to feel the same way about me.
the virgin weininger vs the chad stirner
they're all already in stable, long-term relationships
>Why is it that men care more about girls than vice versa?
Slow erosion of community and the family unit has lead to the degradation genuine empathetic people. It's not just girls, people in general are selfish and self-centered. There are still good people out there, it's just hard to find them in such a fast paced world.
Make sure if you have kids ever you don't raise them in a broken family or you will be perpetuating a lack of empathy and community spirit.
hmm
Yikes. Guess I must of struck a nerve. I ask because you obviously understand that asking if women collectively are capable of love is a silly question you already know the answer to. Its obvious that you are referring to some kind of personal issue with women and being loved so it only makes sense to stop pretending like we're talking about 3.5 billion women and talk about the specific women you've had difficulty connecting with.
OP.
DIS U.
women are always trying to date upwards, which means they don't want to be tied to some ugly who said they love her when chad might be around the corner.
men outnumber women so they have more choice, a man will profess his love for a woman because its his intention to catch her because shes a rare commodity, but he isn't rare for her.
You sound like women in the 90's