What do you even do in a relationship. Like I got into my first one soon and all we do when we are out is call each other cute names and walk around.
Like what's the point? What else do you do? Thought getting into one might fix my depression and help me but I just lost my ability to use "no gf" as a scapegoat now.
What do you even do in a relationship...
Getting a girlfriend can't fix your depression. Nothing aside from getting help will fix it.
As for a relationship, you're supposed to be friends as well as lovers. You're supposed to do stuff together, have conversations, introduce each other to your hobbies and friends, share the workload, and find exciting and new things to try. Intimacy and sex, too, but you can't rely on that alone.
The point is to get married and then spend your time raising the future generation. This should be common sense really, people have been doing it for thousands of years.
Fuck your question, didn’t even read it. But if you enjoyed that anime, you may also like Welcome to the NHK. That’s my advice
Well when and how do you transition from dates where you just meet up and walk to those stuff?
I've seen both and NHK actually introduced me to Tatami. Both great, prefer Tatami.
If you liked both you should read Kurosawa by Fukumoto
You ask her to marry you when you think it's a good idea. Then you move in together.
Relationships are literally what you make of them. If you just walk around and call each other cute, that might work for some people. Others might need something more interesting to keep them involved, like a dynamic sex life, a healthy social life outside their partner, or hell, have some kind of dedicated roleplay that you create inside your little bubble. Whatever makes it work, works. Explore with your partner what makes them happy and what they'd also like to do with you.
Describe yourself and your GF
Well, what do you each like? What's an activity you can do on a date on but also do something in?
if you're both physical or outdoorsy, perhaps hiking or rock climbing or going to a beach. If you like animals, maybe volunteer at a shelter or see if there's anything like horseback riding in your area. If you like media, watch a movie and then talk about it after. If you like cooking, try a new recipe together.
If one of you likes something and the other hasn't tried it, try teaching the other, or explaining the process and what you find so interesting about it.
Both 19, both virgins, both never been in a relationship before.
I'm skinny, short, emo anime hair, play guitar, kinda gloomy, overly critical and realistic.
She's normal height for a girl which is about 1 inch shorter than me, normal everything, bubbly, joyful, shy, no social life outside of me and maybe 2 friends who she doesn't even like, shy but really fucking perverted and I'm not. She would literally touch my dick through pants every single time we're out like at random times and talk about wanting to touch it but doesn't actually want sex.
I’m not OP but thx man.
Well what the fuck do I do, she seems to enjoy this, would she get bored of it soon?
I like anime games and music, she likes music. We can't go to concerts or other big events a lot because she has phobia of people from bad experiences as a child and getting lost. We don't go to cinema because she's insecure about everything and paranoid and sometimes thinks that everyone is staring at her and just goes into panic mode randomly.
She is getting better at it though.
BUmp
You get into a relationship for yourself. First off you dont NEED one, you can be happy for by yourself and masturbating is at times pretty fun so yeah if your not feeling it that is completely fine. To answer your question, you do things YOU like to do in a relationship and then she does things SHE likes to do and you both do them together. Now its common to have hobbies, such as guitar, that you keep to yourself that is fine BUT you do need to do things you generally enjoy with your partner. Yes this does include sex. Never get in a relationship to fix yourself because thats just not what they are there for. They are there because you wanna grow alongside another individual.
This is wrong for a lot of reasons. We live in a age where we have the option to die without children and others can carry the task, also too raising kids when you don't want them creates little shits who no good, start abusing substances and have a shinji complex growing up. Marriage is fucking terrifying and is used to create a legal means to ensure both parties are fucked raw during a divorce.
Get a pre-nup and you can be genetically dead and that is completely fine in 2001+18
>others can carry the task
Okay Jamal.
>Race baiting
If your goal is too have kids to carry on your morals and genes that is completely fine. But you can't expect others to want to do this, there are far more unwanted children in this world then wanted ones.
You didn't explain how I was wrong. You just said how not everyone needs to make kids, which I never claimed.
What a surprise, the "Christian" isn't even interested in be fruitful and multiply. Another atheist LARPing as is common on this site.
>almost the entire human population is wiped out
>God: Uhh Noah, I need you and your family to make some babies!
>2019: Durrrrr God said we need to multiply!
I'm not even jewish, so why should I care?
I dont understand you user please elaborate.
What did my thread turn into