I feel like dating in my age range is impossible because women typically have all this crazy and nearly unforgivable baggage. I hate being able to tell just be looking at a woman if she has baggage or not. I shouldn't be able to tell that shit by looking.
Prime example, I am a 29 year old male and I have no baggage. I have no children and no exes. I live alone, have my own job and car etc. I think I am doing pretty okay in comparison to others. I can often tell just by looking at a woman if she has a kid or not and by what race she is. A combination of those factors.
If I see a puerto rican woman who is 25+ years old and she looks average to above average, I can guess with about 95 percent accuracy that she has a kid. I will go on facebook, look and BOOM, kid. I just hate that women my age always seem to have kids. Its fucked up. I highly doubt I would ever meet a woman of my race and age who does not have a kid by now. Its actually really fucked the more I think about it.
Am I just being retarded or.. the older you get, the higher the chance of women having a kid? A woman having a kid already is a prime deal breaker for me. I just don't like the thought of raising some other dudes kid. It sounds dumb I guess but I just don't like it.
Some women even have other baggage too. Like ex drama and what not. Am I a fucking anomaly to not have any baggage?
I don't like women beyond 5 years younger than me or 5 years older than me. It feels weird to me. Like I would never date a woman who is 20 or 21. I think thats actually a pretty trash can age range for women. Or rather.. just a age range of woman I wouldn't want to date. I never would date a 18 or 19 year old either. I don't like being the older person in a relationship. I would rather be as close to the same age as possible.
Baggage means hang ups too. Your post is proof you have baggage. You need to get over yourself to let it go. Realize that life gets more complex with time. Also date younger, you might change your mind or you'll be happy.
William Thomas
Because it's and dating anyone who is over 5 years younger than you is the same thing as pedophilia. (Some days I even think Americans are right to lynch everyone who does it.)
Bentley Moore
>baggage >having former relationships
Do you really expect a 30 year old woman to still be a virgin for a grown ass man that vrowses Jow Forums? And what should happen if you fuck that one pure virgin of your dreams after you've ditched her for certain reasons? Shall she die?
You're just searching for shit excuses to not get into dating same as I do bcuz of muh shit hairline snd teeth at 22. You most likely suffer from cognitive triads same as incels do.
Also don't you think women have this toughts too you fuck? Stop calling others "undateable" because we'vd missed out on teenage love.
What baggage do I have though? If I do have baggage its not ANYWHERE on the same tier of baggage that women have and expect people to look past. If a woman has 5 kids by the time she is 25 and is a single mother... I can't look past that. Thats some fucked up shit. To let someone NUT in you 5 times and pop out 5 babies and still be single is some fucking crazy tier shit man.
A friend was telling me that women are inundated by men so logically, its very common for women to have kids the older they get because that would mean more chances men have had to be with her. To clarify, I have no problems with a woman having exes and shit. I just don't like her children. Only time I have a issue with exes is if their exes are still somehow in the womans life which they might be if she has kids by that person.
I also don't understand how women even pop out babies like this. in 2019 with all this contraception and shit.. how is it people are still having kids on accident?
Anthony Cook
I think you are jumping the gun on assumptions about me. I don't mind a woman not being a virgin, I don't mind her having exes. I just don't like her having kids because kids are relatively permanent. You can't really separate a mother from her kid if the kid lives with her which means INEVITABLY you will have to see and be in the same room as her kid which would drive me nuts.
Also, what is a cognitive triad? I haven't heard of that but it sounds interesting.
In the end, I just want to meet a woman with no critical baggage. I understand people have made mistakes and what not but some of these women have made some critical life change mistakes where I have made none. I would say I haven't made a critical life changing mistake in a very loooong time. if not ever. For example, having a baby or buying a house is a critical life changing event. but there is CHOICE involved. You can choose to not have a baby or take precautions etc.
wow its almost like when women have sex they get pregnant
maybe you should stop creating a demand for premarital sex???
Nathaniel Murphy
I am 26 and a virgin. Among my female friends there are: A 27 year old who had sex with two men/boyfriends, then got married to the third. No kids yet. Two years married. Just bought a house. Good for u. A 31 year old who just moved in with her boyfriend. Was a NEET with her parents for a long time though. Think she was a virgin until like 29 but fooled around-ish/no sex tho with a guy in high school if I remember right. Two partners in total. No kids. A 22 year old with one prior bf. Virgin at time of dating second BF. No kids. Still with him. A 27 year old. In a weird ?trans?lesbian?relationship. Virgin until then. Possibly still. No kids. A 29 year old with a gazillion sexual partners and one drunk-rape. No kids, but is a stripper. Probably awful baggage. A 24 year old with no kids. Still a virgin in the sense of penis. In a weird relationship with a transman. Expresses no real desire for him though. Just seems like a girl she's really good friends with but calls a boy and says sure you can be my boyfriend. No kids. A 25 year old ftm that has a weird life I don't understand. They seem lonely but also social. No idea what sex stuff they've done. Very private. Possibly too shy to have done anything. Idk. Obviously no kids.
All my friends were the weird artsy teenage girls. Here we are today. All childless. Most with pets.
Samuel Miller
user maybe you're really afraid of kids, or taking the responsability of them because you are really afraid that the relationship doesn't work in the long run. Perhaps what you really want is to be alone and you try to justify your loneliness in someone else.
Connor Gonzalez
99% of women are whores just date traps you get the same autism with no baby crazy problems
Jayden Allen
no its really fucked up that women have weird child-pets that are probably ill trained by this stage
if i want to have a kid with someone i want to fucking do it right. not deal with some weird kid that missed out on vital shit during developmental years.
it is perfectly sane to want your own kid to give a good life to. not some kid youre going to watch suffer its whole fucking life like a weird cat your girlfriend has.
traps arent like real women at all unless they got duped by their parents at like age 8 and put on hormone blockers and heavily socialized like/as a girl as a preteen and teenager. if they were a male as a teenager theyre end up completely different. theyre actually really fucking gross at that point and the weird girl caricature is not real feminine mannerisms at all.
Austin King
Then keep fucking pumpkins user idk
Grayson Roberts
im not the op i just sort of agree with that it is weird to date someone who has a kid staring at you molesting their mom and youre like "hey am i just another weird guy doing shit to this poor kids mom oops sorry buddy"
i dont have this risk though cus men seldom are single fathers
Jose White
Do most men that have never experienced a relationship think that single mothers have their children conjoined at the genitals and that cribs have never existed?
Eli Reyes
im. a. girl. hi. not a incel man even though you really wanna drive that narrative cus youre boring.
its just weird to like kiss the kids mom in front of them. the knowing that if theyre old enough they know "hey this dude IS fucking my mom" and if youre like weird-guy-fucking-mom-and-sleeping-over-number-12 youre probably really fucking that kid up. especially boys. it makes them so weird. the girls just end up susceptible to predatory males but the boys end up like, shattered in some way. its not good.
Bentley Williams
That's certainly a special way to say "kids are only victims of their parents relationships and certainly don't take away their own lessons." but ok, Nancy.
Ryder Robinson
>kids are only victims of their parents relationships and certainly don't take away their own lessons
I don't know what you're trying to say there. Maybe you aren't understanding. I am saying it feels bad to know youre the one whos filling that bad guy role in the kid's life. Youre creating harm. It feels bad. OP doesnt wanna feel bad.
Xavier Foster
>no dating experience at 29 >no baggage Pick one and only one.
Your first partner has the absolute pleasure of putting you on a multi-decade crash course on dating you should have gotten pre-18. That's a heavy responsibility to take as a burden.
Jacob Evans
Based and redpilled
You need to date younger. I banged a 18 and 19 year old and I'm 31. Honestly I think 21-22 is a little better because most 18-19 yo have no experience doing lots of basic life stuff.
Dylan Turner
I'm saying that you're a pessimist, in case that has completely evaded you. Dating single parents isn't explicitly harming children, ya autist.
Jonathan King
OP< I know what you mean. I am WHITE, self-employed in the top 7% of world wide wealth liquidity, ZERO baggage, No exes, NO debt, excellent genes and health, with personal freedom very few in this world have. I will NOT date a girl that has a kid or has fucked a nigger. If she has a kid that tells me immediately she has NO self control and is adept at making poor decisions. I I do NOT need that sort of person in my life that I have to deal with someone elses' problems. NOT A FUCKING CHANCE.
What all these cunts do not realize is that once they shit out a kid, they are immediately off the list of anyone quality such as myself.
Believe me you silly cunts out there in lalaland. I am NOT an incel. I am what you dream of having but never will. I can't stand immature, unintelligent cunts with an axe to grind....with a kid in tow. Take your 3rd and 4th wave feminist bullshit elsewhere because this catch you will NOT have.
i said more than just that and said that is a single scenario. i listed others. you ignored everything else i said and hyper focused that one then called me an autist. ok then.
Jack Mitchell
its 1st/2nd wave feminism and the breakdown of family structure that preceded it, not just 3rd/4th wave feminism.
Dominic Kelly
I am fully cognizant of that, I was merely cutting to the chase without wasting keystrokes. The 3rd and 4th wave bullshit is making cunts militant and hateful and that was the focus of that part of my rant.
Isaac Murphy
>I even think Americans are right to lynch everyone who does it. I wish. I think the huebros are better at dealing with pedos, but who knows for sure?
Easton Moore
Your baggage is that you have no experience with women and relationship. So maybe calm down.
Aiden Thompson
Okay, but my baggage is not on the same tier of baggage that some women have. I think it all goes back to the fact that women are basically tossed more opportunities to make critical life choices and a result of that could be critical life mistakes. I also think it might be related to race. It seems like non-white women make critical life errors waaaay more.
Parker Smith
You sound like an insufferable cunt. No wonder girls don't like you.
The trick is to find women that have awesome kids that you want to help. If they dont have awesome kids, split.
And yes, it sucks. Apparently women didn't get the same memo the rest of us got about hard work and grades, ect.
It was all "lawl let's have a baby with the first guy that can make me cum"
Oliver Ortiz
I can’t believe Jow Forums is trying to shame you into being a single father. HAHAHAHAHA. These faggots wouldn’t father to their own kids but want you to father someone else’s. Oh man I needed a good laugh.
OP, just fuck these young money chasing “Influencer” whores until you find someone your age who has some goddamn sense. Or enjoy the bachelor life. Either or is fine
Don't lose all hope. A trashy neighbour down the road used to have 4 kids, she let child services take them all and now has only 1 with her current (and apparently really permanent for once) boyfriend. Perhaps you'll meet someone too who would be happy to trade their kids for financial support?
Jacob Jenkins
The christcucks have recently taken over and they want to make everyone believe that children are the best thing ever and the only thing worth living for.
Parker Hall
>Am I just being retarded or.. the older you get, the higher the chance of women having a kid?
