I'm guilty of falling into this trap sometimes. You see all kinds of dudes with girls and think "why not me?"
It's true that some men have an unfair advantage due to their genetics, social background etc. However, the human race would have died out a long time ago if only chads got laid. At the end of the day, you can be the kindest, coolest, greatest guy in the world but if you don't make an effort, how are you ever gonna find a girlfriend? Do anons expect one to magically fall into their lap?
What do I mean by "make an effort" = self-improvement, socializing, inclusive hobbies, not just furiously swiping right on tinder until you get a match. It's the most shallow platform for finding a girl and a source of much frustration.
Is it laziness or a fear of rejection that stops anons like me from trying?
Why do guys want a girlfriend without trying?
>human race would have died out if only chads got laid
not if there are betas to raise chads children while he's out fucking some more sluts
how many girlfriends have you had
if the answer is 0
then you're just frustrated the game isn't rewarding you
>"make an effort" = self-improvement, socializing, inclusive hobbies,
Not even. You only need to actively socialize with women and ask them out. Even if you have no hobbies and you just sit at home watching netflix all day you can get a girlfriend because lots of girls do that as well. Super niche hobby sounds cool and all but if they are not interested in it then it wins you no points so doing basic hobbies means you will connect with more people.
>not if there are betas to raise chads children
Pretty sure OPs was talking genetic diversity. Through lack of male genes being injected into the gene pool people would become pretty closely related over a relatively short period.
Careful user. If you try to pretend that is true then you won't be able to blame your genetics anymore.
But there aren't so your point is moot.
It's the same reason ppl go to casinos and play the lottery. They want to get lucky in life or think they are they are so special they can just get it lol. I gusse most guys see and hear about avgrage guys going out with 10's in social media. Also this question could be said about women wanting bf's as well
And btw, I'm not saying it's easy to find a girlfriend. It's competitive as hell, and a woman's market for sure. However, there seems to be a lot of guys on Jow Forums who cry about not having a gf despite not doing anything about it.
Having great genes isnt always as rewarding as you might think I consider myself rather lucky but the only females i attract are mostly very shallow i end up having no connection with them what so ever and the girls that I do like never speak to me because they think im a fuck boy in the end i'm as alone as I was before all this :/
How many girls have you asked on date this year?
Because relationships are advertised as having an intimate bond with someone where you're accepted for "who you are". The whole "just b urself" bullshit ties in great with this.
Everyone is unique and beautiful on their own way blah blah. It completely ignores the FACT that some features are seen as generally more attractive than others.
Independence, assertiveness, confidence, humor, intelligence. Those are all things most people would say make someone more desirable.
But because we're constantly told that we're good the way we are and that "someone will come along eventually" (indeed like they're just supposed to fall into your lap) most people don't attempt to change for the better.
Binge watching Netflix is easier than improving yourself.
Also rejection is scary.
Same reason girls want a boyfriend without trying
I want a brown gf like the girl in the OP but I don't know how I would go about doing so without being weird about it.
Me? None. At the moment I'm working on myself. My insecurities usually lead to serious codependency. I'm not actively looking for a gf, but if I chance upon a great girl I might make a move. Until then, I'm fine being single.
thanks
Because sex isn't worth the effort that's required to obtain it anymore. You have pussy on a pedestal, so you're probably okay with humiliating yourself and chasing after 5/10s who shit test you to death while comparing you to her other 50 orbiters.
Take your gay psyops to
Gays are just as bad, the std rates in the lgbt community are absurd. Seriously, fuck sex, its not worth lifting a pinky for.
you say that like I havent had two girls ask me to take their virginity
I refused though
volcel is the actual way
is that what your wife told you when your child suddenly had blond hair?
I have blond hair you mentally handicapped incel. The cuck fantasies you play in your head are not reality.
sure thing buddy
men have been cucked for ages and the wives always kept silent about it
it happens way more often than you want to admit retard
Are you gay by any chance? You keep on trying to argue against having sex with women.
collewYou see, I've been a social outcast since childhood. All of my parents (including step parents) are normies (relatively and actually) except maybe my dad but he had me at 18 so he's at least more normie than me.
Anyhow, no one taught me to be normal. Fine, whatever. Until high-school I never noticed or cared about sex although I did masturbate. When I went to college the first time I adjusted very poorly and went running back home. I then got a job. A year or so into that job I asked a girl out; the first girl I ever asked. She said yes and the date was awful. I felt sick to my stomach before, during, and after. I then played beta orbiter for a week or two and then I realized what I was doing and was disgusted with myself.
At that point I realized 1) I didn't want a relationship and 2) I just wanted sex.
That was a few years ago and I have largely the same feelings and am still a virgin. I went back to college and seeing hot young girls all day has finally taken a toll on me. Between my quitting and college I was inside the house a lot and managed my sexual frustration well enough. Did no fap for months at a time and such. Now I'm extremely sexually frustrated and need release. I've decided I will go to Thailand or Ukraine to lose my virginity.
Beyond that I want kids. This is the only reason I'd want a relationship but I can get a surrogate if necessary. Or just go childless. There's a reason women don't like me and it's because my genes aren't good enough to pass on. It would be best for me to die alone but I feel like it'd be a big middle finger to everyone if I actually had some.
But a relationship actually did fall into my dad's lap. He was at a bowling alley and some drunk roast sat on his lap. Now he's married to it and has several kids. It does happen, although like I said he's more normie than me so it probably won't happen to me and I don't expect it to
Dont know what happened up top. I'm phoneposting on vacation.
Was meant for op
>laziness
I feel the whole check your privilege philosophy applies here.
Incel communist
Civil rights activists were called communists.
And?
That's wrong