I've reached a point where I want to have a sex life. The problem is I'm a wretched left over unopened(virgin) late bloomer ready to be unwrapped and start exploring in a time frame when the majority of my peers have long gotten their sex craze out of their system, meanwhile I never explored it due to not caring in the past DESPITE the opportunities I did have(Which I heavily regret)
I have a job that pays well, I'm fairly fit, but the problems are, I'm autistic(Which means awkward to most people), I'm terribly shy, and I still live at home.
I'm capable of getting me a simple apartment for sure, but the question is am I wrong for only deciding to get myself my own place PURELY just so I can get started on a sex life instead simply obeying societies expectations for men to be independent just to be independent?
I live with my mom and am tossing around the idea of renting a hotel room so I can pay an escort to take my virginity. That or I'll go to her place. That creeps me out a little more though. But yeah, living with my mom has made me realize no girl my age (22) would willing spend time with me. But I'm not going to pass up free housing just so I can check off a single item on girls' list of requirements.
Christian Walker
I certainty wouldn't want to waste money paying some random escort or hooker to take my virginity either.
I can't imagine it feeling so good to know you only had sex because you had to literally bribe a girl into it.
Colton Nguyen
this is exactly what I thought when I was moving out
I'm into month 1 of having moved out if you didnt get laid before you wont get laid now
Adam James
having your own place at the ready is paramount to pussy. you take the where off the table. after I got mine groups of girls would come over to hang out, then some would come back alone and we fuck. I didn't lock my door and more than once a girl would drop by, a little drunk late night and one crawled in bed naked and woke me
Henry Mitchell
After only one month and that's how quick you're giving up? That's pretty sad. At least go a year trying before saying that.
Ryder Ward
I get laid regularly and i still live with my parents at 21 y/o (almost 22). If the girl you're dealing with has her own place, hook up at her place. If the both of you still live with your parents then it becomes a bit more complicated. But still, you can fuck in a hotel, in the car or whatever. If you parents are cool you can just bring her over too.
I've never had a single girl reject me because i still live with my parents. Don't buy into this red pill shit of ''women think you're a beta loser if you still live with your parents.'' because it's just not true. If a girl likes you, she doesn't care.
Evan Jenkins
Yeah, well, I just want sex. I don't attach any importance to it other than wanting to experience it. I'm an undesirable male so my options are remain virgin forever or pay to lose it. It's not ideal. And it's degenerate. I don't want it to be this way but no one's doing it for free
Levi Phillips
Apparently the whole living with your parents thing as a man starts being used against you the minute you turn 25.
Jackson Watson
Op here, I just want sex too, but at the very least I want the person who has sex with me that first time be with someone who ACTUALLY wants to have sex with me.
If you really feel like you're beyond sex with someone who is willing to do it with you without being "bribed" then I won't judge your personal choice.
Lucas Torres
You care so much what wilk people think about your decision and you also think you will be the next dan bilzdrian? Kek
Luke Butler
Bruh you're still in your early twenties, you haven't graduated high school that long ago OF COURSE women will be a bit more tolerant of you still living with your parents at that age.
Adam Russell
Obviously when i said ''girls don't care that you live with your parents'', i'm saying it in the context where it's still reasonable you live with your parents. Somewhere around 25 is the age where you should definitely be living on your own.
Gabriel Murphy
no, it's just the immediate realization that it wouldn't make a difference
now I just have to live paycheck to paycheck
John Stewart
OP said he's 22.
That's a reasonable age to still be living with your parents.
Isaac Ramirez
That's a YOU problem. Instead of just live paycheck to paycheck you can just take advantage of pursue what you want further. You're the one who decided its impossible just because a mere 31 days have past.
Nolan Richardson
Thanks for your understanding. I wish you luck
Jackson Hughes
I didn't say it was unreasonable just that no girl my age will give me the time of day because I live with my mom, among other things.
Robert Foster
no its a YOU problem because youre coping with an excuse as to why you're not getting laid
I realized the day I signed the lease that I wont have one iota more sex than I had before, which was zero, because if you were going to get laid it would have in someones car in highschool or literally wherever
Leo Nelson
So you THINK the only time you could have gotten laid was while you were still in high school forgetting that there are plenty of people out there who started getting laid AFTER high school?
Yeah once again sounds like YOU are the one making excuses for why YOU are not getting laid because it's easier for YOU to just give up.
Tyler Garcia
if you want to fuck, just get a motel room
Zachary Bailey
Not many women are so open to casually fuck in a motel room especially if it's just a one night stand with someone you barely know.
Christian Martin
so then go to their place
John Torres
Thats only if they ACCEPT that idea as an option. There are women who refuse that option because they don't want their home compromised and open to potentially being stalked,
Andrew Harris
this is you continuing to cope you didn't get laid in highschool from what it seems in this thread you didn't get laid in your early 20's paying rent will not help you
everyone fucked around in their basement with their parents home and you weren't invited sorry
Parker Myers
I used to live with my mom and grandma and brought girls back to my place all the time. They were fine with it.
Sometimes it would be kinda awk for the girl cause my grandma would stop and ask them how they are and blah blah blah if she was up.
Camden Walker
You don't have to move out to have a sex life. The longest relationship I ever had was when I was living at home, and I would have sex most nights my gf came over. You just can't be loud about it, really. You're still a virgin so you might not really get it, but sex can be very quiet.
That said, no, it's not wrong to want to move out to have a good sex life. It's definitely a lot easier to have sex when you have your own place, and people (not just women) are more interested in opening up to you if you look like you have your shit together. And having your own place shows you have your shit together, even if that is not always true.
A woman will fuck a man in his wife's house but not his mother's. i used to laugh at this but I didn't realise how true it is in today's world. Why do people care so much where you live?
>moved out at 18, rented different places with people for 3 years >got my own flat from 21-26 >wanted to save up to buy a house, moved back to my parents >they've retired to another country, visit the house maybe 2/3 times a year for 2 weeks >live alone all the time
It's a huge place and I'm always alone, but as soon as I mention that its my parents place I can see all the interest leave a woman's eyes. Why do you care so much if a guy lives with his parents?
Why should I waste money on renting just to get pussy?
Aaron Carter
Sorry homie, just because you've given up doesn't mean everyone else has to give up with you no matter how much you think you're right for it.
Brayden Martin
>28 year old autistic virgin housesharing with a friend; have a tiny 3x4m bedroom that fits only a wardrobe/computer desk/single bed I'm never going to get laid am I?
