Is this true?
How do I prevent myself from falling into this trap?
Is this true?
Don’t pay for their food obviously.
Split the bill
I think it's funny and it's probably not really true.
Only date grown women with a job who can afford their own dinners.
Or simply live your life on Jow Forums and get all that you deserve
by being interesting enough that girls want to be around you for reasons other than free food?
whats with the fucking victim complex god damn youre a pussy
It's not a trap, it's part of the deal.
She get a free meal, I get a nice conversation with a beautiful woman.
All women, without exception, are whores. They're whores for pleasure foremost. Money descends from that desire.
So my advice to you is to change your perspective. If you prefer to live in a fairy tail world where women will love you 'for who you are', then just split the checks every time. See how that works out;)
I can confirm there are a lot of women who like to take advantage in this way. My boyfriend liked two other girls before dating me, and they both had him wrapped around their finger. The one would receive jewelry from him as birthday gifts and was super vague about reciprocating his feelings. But eventually, she got a boyfriend and told him that he was her "bestie" and thought of him as a brother. The other received food all the time from him and had some assignments done. She kissed him on the cheek in return for doing her homework, and intentionally kept shit vague until she revealed she had a mtf bf the entire time. Fucked off to Canada and ghosted him without paying him back money she "borrowed" for a trip.
Find out if she has a decent job and don't go anywhere expensive. You'll almost always be expected to pay for the first meal.
>cucked by a tranni
how did he not rope after that?
PB you already admitted you're a closet homo, stop talking about women like you want them fag.
Advice from an open homo:
Guys split the bill
This
I've gone on dates with men, the first date has always split the bill, and pretty much everyone I know does the same. In my committed relationship, it kind of rotates based on what's in our banks at the time. Usually we pay separate, sometimes he covers me, sometimes I cover him. I never encountered problems with this shit before.
I can afford food. Why don't they want to spend time with me?
He honestly wanted to. He became a madlad at uni when he found out about the news. Stood on chairs in the labs when the professor's were out, so he can physically talk down to people. Kek
How can you seriously date someone like that? Damn, you must be desperate
Nah, I found him to be attractive, funny, and sweet. I dont blame him for feeling that way because from what he told me, the girls he liked did show signs/were touchy, but in the end, pretended to be that way for freebies. I'm more of the caretaker type, so I like a good project. He's a lot happier now.
*trans
>I can only get shitty women, so all women are shitty.
So they get dinner and entertainment instead of just dinner, how thoughtful of you. Hopefully, the next guy will be just as considerate.
I swear to god I would do anything, i would pour my blood out onto the street if I could have one good woman in my life.
i am. I think it helps me see them for what they are.
I would like it, I mean it saves me money, but if a woman is literally paying me to fuck her, then she is too ugly to be dating me. If she offers to pay, it feels she's flat out saying "I'm too ugly to be with you."
I mean the whole point of dating, from a man's perspective, is to really desire a woman. I really want to strongly desire her. If we enter a relationship I will depend on her vanity to help motivate me to work hard and make more money and stuff. She needs to have some feminine confidence over me. It's normal
You're not totally fucked in the brain but damn the friction from the misguided hangups you do have make me look like I'm gliding on teflon.
Thats the price you pay when you take women out.
Unless you can read minds or agree to split the bill.
that's just a risk you have to take