>found one, feels like he is a male version of me >cute as fuck. pls be mine >get his number >even worse at talking than me >too shy to message him anymore. initiating every single time makes me anxious and one word responses are very hard to work with
What do? I know cutting my losses is an option but this one is too good and I'm kind of stressed out about it. Not sure what he wants, but I'm perfectly fine with helping him get out of his shell.
if you really want him bad enough, keep chiseling away and own your anxiousness when you talk to him. In a way, you'll be beating 3 stones with one bird
Gavin Gray
Seconding what the first user said. It might be awkward at first but if you want the guy keep trying. You might have interests in common that you can explore. Try to go out with him on a date.
Kevin Sanchez
Just keep pushing it. Ask him to hang out as soon as possible. As you get closer youll find more interests and be less awkward and things will go smoothly from there.
Matthew Lopez
You want to have a loving relationship with a class of people notoriously avoidant and anxious, did you think it would be easy?
Evan Thomas
>you'll be beating 3 stones with one bird love this
Any ideas on what to do? I would think if he's nervous to even talk to me over text, how would in person be? I wanted to get him comfortable by texting before asking to meet up but it isn't going how I thought it would. It's literally just me asking questions.
I'm apart of this group and would like to be with someone similar. I didn't think it would be easy, and it isn't, so I want to know how to do it right because I don't want to mess up. I've haven't been in a relationship before and never really wanted one until now.
Blake Turner
1. how old are you? 2. find out what things you have in common and ask him to go out and do those things together.
Robert Hughes
18. And is it really okay to ask question after question? It just feels weird. I'd rather talk about something specific for awhile and not just questions because I suck at small talk
Ethan Diaz
Just act like your normal self, don't push your limits and do something stupid or try to be something your not, eventually it will come. Id imagine its easier when your both social tards.
Asher Williams
I feel like this too.
Ayden Miller
Is he really good at something? Ask his help on that, it's a good way to break the ice and then you can compliment his skills and make him feel good. Even you are good at said thing or even better than him pretend to be a total dumbass. Men love helping out women. Don't over do it tho.
Levi Lopez
Like what? Wanting to talk but not knowing how? It's weird because I can talk to anyone else just fine.
Thomas Brown
>>even worse at talking than me Do girls always expect the guy to be literally better at everything than the bitch? Why do you cunts ask for equal rights then?
Thomas Rivera
not what i'm saying but go off i guess lmao
My problem is neither of us know how to talk to each other. I'd like to say everything but I can't seem to say anything.
Alexander Walker
Literally older than I fucking am and I’ve figured this shit out. You’ve been dating for a year. Guys don’t have that long of attention spans. Been in the same place (sort of, and as a guy). Your boyfriend loves his friends and more than likely loves you more. Just talk to the poor dude, from the heart.
We aren't dating. I'm shit at this because I was never interested in dating before. Thus, no experience and it's nerve-wracking
Dominic Morales
>I want someone shy and awkward >Why is he so shy and awkward? Gee, I don't know. Our kind usually means a lot of work from your side, especially at the beginning.
t. shy and awkward nerd
Grayson Parker
I'm not questioning why he is. I'm shy and awkward too.
My problem is I don't know how or if I should even continue. I'd really like to, because I do like him, but anxiety holds me back. I'm looking for advice from others who maybe had a similar situation and how they overcame it.
I've been bold. However, my confidence only dwindles because he doesn't initiate or ask questions, making me doubt if he even feels the same or not.
Ryder Edwards
>I expect girls to fall into my lap not because I'm a lazy and coward piece of shit, you see, but because I'm shy and awkward I hope every woman in your life will see this and dump your pathetic, cringey ass
Colton Parker
Did that guy said he expects a woman to fall in his lap? I must have missed that part
Juan Jones
the best way to get anything in life is to ask. People are more alike than you'd think, if you'd want someone to be straight up with you and tell or ask you something, and you'd be ok with that then chances are someone else might feel that way too, but people are too afraid to talk honestly or ask. Just say fuck it, and say whatever you need to him, otherwise you'd both be playing games with each other and it never goes down well. Be honest and communicate
Kayden Martinez
>chad with glasses busy chasing skirts to reply or show interest >dumb girl already made up her mind what he is like yes this will end very well
go with guys who show interest in you, theres atleast a slight chance they want something other than your holes
Angel Wilson
I never implied this. On the same not, you're also not entitled to easy access to someone just because you romanticise introversion. Stop projecting.
